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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best reason ever to hide veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nahhh..i think they feel the couldnt live up to our fantastic..mind blowing meet personally

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "

That would more likely to be 'round the detached house'? A ridiculous and possibly untrue reason for not meeting him.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

In a strange old world this swinging one.

You will have pissed them or some of their chums off at some point in history.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Use this site as you want and don't worry about others....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "
why did they think you'd been round the block?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dunno...cos weve met more than 2 people..unlike them..yeah i believe its just an excuse..hes cool tho, didnt challenge them.. Just not a nice thing to say bout us..as we are lovely genuine people xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? why did they think you'd been round the block?

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Maybe they were new kids on the block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

Theyve been on here over a year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swing site....mmmm maybe they should rethink!!!!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Lots of verifications just means that you are doing well on here and it's a good reason to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What block was that? Maybe we could meet you half way around?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blockheads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What block was that? Maybe we could meet you half way around?!? "

Love it xx hee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "

People make friends people make enemies and yes swingers are judgmental I dare say at least as much as Joe public reading some reactions to topics.

So a couple wouldn't meet someone because they had met you, I dare say you most likely know this couple as there are many people on here with far more verified meets that don't have this issue.

The reality though is information is scarce so a lot of guesswork has been put in above and I am guessing to some extent myself but it does look like the other couple are punishing this guy for meeting you, it wouldn't be the first time this has happened and the reality is people can choose who and who not to meet. It could be seen as petty it could be seen as other things the best thing to do is put it behind you and meet the guy in question again yourself and make has day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a strange old world this swinging one.

You will have pissed them or some of their chums off at some point in history."

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"In a strange old world this swinging one.

You will have pissed them or some of their chums off at some point in history.

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seems the most logical reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't think so

Ah well there loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a strange old world this swinging one.

You will have pissed them or some of their chums off at some point in history."

Politics? In swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they are jealous of you and think why would someone want to meet you because they are so much better than you. its like if i meet a good looking young chap, i dont leave him a verification because his younger better looking friends would say what are you doing meeting someone so old and hairy.

women can be very petty sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's have a block party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This kind of thing happens all the time .

Some people ( especially couples ) like to think they are special and see the more active amongst us as being beneath their ' high standards '.

We just ignore them and their moralistic bullshit .

As soon as we see the ' quality over quantity' statement , we just pass them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this " saints r us" then

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "

He didn't need to tell you that: assuming it's true. He could have his own agenda. Either way I wouldn't meet him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "
people say things like that when jealous , lol I would not worry I am sure you will all get over it and keep having fun . xx we had it said to us too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf???

He didn't need to tell you that: assuming it's true. He could have his own agenda. Either way I wouldn't meet him again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf???

He didn't need to tell you that: assuming it's true. He could have his own agenda. Either way I wouldn't meet him again. "

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"This kind of thing happens all the time .

Some people ( especially couples ) like to think they are special and see the more active amongst us as being beneath their ' high standards '.

We just ignore them and their moralistic bullshit .

As soon as we see the ' quality over quantity' statement , we just pass them by "
We have that in our profile, does that make us bad people? or just bad swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I come round the block with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This kind of thing happens all the time .

Some people ( especially couples ) like to think they are special and see the more active amongst us as being beneath their ' high standards '.

We just ignore them and their moralistic bullshit .

As soon as we see the ' quality over quantity' statement , we just pass them by We have that in our profile, does that make us bad people? or just bad swingers? "

I'd just see it as 'not compatible'. Don't see why it's bad in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "

Round the block? That's a quaint expression.Who was he meeting?Norris and Mary off Coronation Street?Dont let it get to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I come round the block with you? "
not on fab but we had this woman saying this about us ... as meet her friends at the time was not nice as telling lots of people how we found out. But its just jealousy really.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf??? "

To be honest I don't know why he felt the need to tell you. It was hardly going to make you feel good about yourselves. It was only going to cause trouble and bad feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's strange he would tell you that.

I'd be questioning why he told you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy. The nemesis of Swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This kind of thing happens all the time .

Some people ( especially couples ) like to think they are special and see the more active amongst us as being beneath their ' high standards '.

We just ignore them and their moralistic bullshit .

As soon as we see the ' quality over quantity' statement , we just pass them by We have that in our profile, does that make us bad people? or just bad swingers? "

Neither , just not our type

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"So, love judgemental folk..

A guy we met last week had a meet lined up with a couple tonight, then they messaged him to say they wouldnt be meeting him..because..he had met us and it seems we have been round the block..haa haa wtf???

To be honest I don't know why he felt the need to tell you. It was hardly going to make you feel good about yourselves. It was only going to cause trouble and bad feeling.

"
Yes sometimes things are best left unsaid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all..yes weve moved on already..anyways we love going round the block..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!... "

Crikey, I thought it was my location that was the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!...

Crikey, I thought it was my location that was the problem "

Not at all. The current 'problem' (not that it is a problem) is that Ruby and I are currently monogamous and only meet people socially.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Yeikes we have even more than you! That must make us complete sluts!

Sod the block we are hoping to be around the entire country lol

Xxx

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Lets face it - going to a club and having a social non play night can generate 5 veris xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!...

Crikey, I thought it was my location that was the problem

Not at all. The current 'problem' (not that it is a problem) is that Ruby and I are currently monogamous and only meet people socially.

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lol I was being sarcastic about myself. Sorry, things don't always translate from Welsh in my mind to written English every time. It wasn't a hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...What i'd do to be going round the block with you hehe x

Who gives a monkey's cock about what the other couple think. That's their problem and they'd have to deal with it.

On a side note. Your bloody gorgeous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!...

Crikey, I thought it was my location that was the problem

Not at all. The current 'problem' (not that it is a problem) is that Ruby and I are currently monogamous and only meet people socially.

lol I was being sarcastic about myself. Sorry, things don't always translate from Welsh in my mind to written English every time. It wasn't a hint "

You can't take it back now! As soon as we're ready to start meeting again you've been moved to the top of the list!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...What i'd do to be going round the block with you hehe x

Who gives a monkey's cock about what the other couple think. That's their problem and they'd have to deal with it.

On a side note. Your bloody gorgeous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!...

Crikey, I thought it was my location that was the problem

Not at all. The current 'problem' (not that it is a problem) is that Ruby and I are currently monogamous and only meet people socially.

lol I was being sarcastic about myself. Sorry, things don't always translate from Welsh in my mind to written English every time. It wasn't a hint

You can't take it back now! As soon as we're ready to start meeting again you've been moved to the top of the list!... "

lol only of you can say Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyndrobwyllllantysiliogogogoch without hesitation

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

just take it step by step ohhh baby...

sorry this thread reminds me of new kids on the block

I tend not to leave verifications as i like to remain a mystery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And to make us feel even better the meet we spend hrs arranging today went cold on us when we asked for his address..more timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone with less than 3 veris!...

Crikey, I thought it was my location that was the problem

Not at all. The current 'problem' (not that it is a problem) is that Ruby and I are currently monogamous and only meet people socially.

lol I was being sarcastic about myself. Sorry, things don't always translate from Welsh in my mind to written English every time. It wasn't a hint

You can't take it back now! As soon as we're ready to start meeting again you've been moved to the top of the list!...

lol only of you can say Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyndrobwyllllantysiliogogogoch without hesitation "

I'll just make a throat clearing noise followed by ogogogogoch, that should sound close enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

And that bothers you why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show the bad veris

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