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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What do you do to avoid negativity? Or feeling a bit low or blue or in the doldrums or thinking 'what if?'

Please don't say: 'sing "always look on the bright side of life" as I mean things like paint or read or go for a walk or do something active or make lists or bake or build stuff or drive....Something that drives the 'feeling sorry for yourself' feeling away.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I was hoping this was a list of Marvel Heroes who didn't make the final cut.

I'm immune to bad vibes, but then I'm constantly looking for chances to get a bit of mirth into the world. The may be a link. Or perhaps I'm that annoying arse who is always cracking a joke when you really just want them to fuck off, because they are depressing you....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Shagging helps. If I don't have a man to hand though, I cook.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i do have a cd i play to put me in a good mood for the day ... music can affect my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to roll with it to be honest, yes you can do things to distract yourself but I just let it wash over me and it goes naturally....we all feel that way at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will draw but the best thing i do is put headphones on and go skateboarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sit it out and tell myself it will go away. It's usually because I haven't taken my medication properly so I take one and wait it out. Sunshine and walks don't make a difference to me as it's a chemical problem

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i do have a cd i play to put me in a good mood for the day ... music can affect my mood"

Music is good. What sort of music?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Stay out of the forum for a couple of days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think of Man United supporters, guaranteed to make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do have a cd i play to put me in a good mood for the day ... music can affect my mood

Music is good. What sort of music? "

The Smiths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay out of the forum for a couple of days lol"

nooo...this place does make me laugh even when I'm feeling crap. I just avoid the depressing real life threads

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i do have a cd i play to put me in a good mood for the day ... music can affect my mood

Music is good. What sort of music?

The Smiths "

Go and wash your hands.

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Stay out of the forum for a couple of days lol

nooo...this place does make me laugh even when I'm feeling crap. I just avoid the depressing real life threads "

I didn't mean this to be a depressing thread, quite the opposite in a way. I'm actually a very cheerful and positive person most of the time. Another thread got me thinking about negativity and the way I visualize it is as a sneaky insidious character called Captain Bad Vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ( Paul) play wars of the worlds to make my day brighter, or when I'm doing a chore I really hate , if that counts

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I ( Paul) play wars of the worlds to make my day brighter, or when I'm doing a chore I really hate , if that counts "

Funny you should say that as (if you check da messages) I've been encouraging A to give you more and more and more household chores to do.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i have a cd by mateus and jorge .. a duo from brazil .. i challenge anyone to get out my car not smiling after i have submitted them to a few tunes from it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I take the dog for a long long walk, that usually refreshes my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to see the positive in everything, no matter how bad it is. My own positivity does my head in sometimes. It's all good though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get my arse to the the local, surround myself with good mates, and neck and few. . Only a few tho. . Laughter is the best cure I find. .

D (f )

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

A good shag with a good friend. Failing that strum the geetar, eat something, go for a run, listen music, watch a couple of good films back to back. Options are many and varied.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I look at a picture of myself nude, that makes me laugh and everythings good,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll often go for a long drive , soothes me somehow with my music going.

Or go out on my road bike, head down & by the time I'm back , I've usually blown the bad vibes away !

Maybe we should have Captain Underpants as our superhero!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"i do have a cd i play to put me in a good mood for the day ... music can affect my mood

Music is good. What sort of music?

The Smiths "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"What do you do to avoid negativity? Or feeling a bit low or blue or in the doldrums or thinking 'what if?'

Please don't say: 'sing "always look on the bright side of life" as I mean things like paint or read or go for a walk or do something active or make lists or bake or build stuff or drive....Something that drives the 'feeling sorry for yourself' feeling away. "

Go for a good gallop across the downs! Or Dance like a dervish for hours - physicality does usually get some endorphins or some dopamine rolling around the veins.....

Or listen to Led Zeppelin very loud in a car with the windows rolled down in a country lane in the sunshine! That'll do it in a 'fuck 'em all' kinda way!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have learned to cut negativity out of my life as much as possible. I don't allow others to drag me down with them.

It is not perfect but I try my best.

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have learned to cut negativity out of my life as much as possible. I don't allow others to drag me down with them.

It is not perfect but I try my best.

"

That's a good attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I punch people, knowing somebody else is suffering more than me always improves my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do to avoid negativity? Or feeling a bit low or blue or in the doldrums or thinking 'what if?'

"

I blow my nose in my hand bro cos what comes out always takes my mind somewhere else ...

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

eat marijuana and plank on the bed for a few weeks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I punch people, knowing somebody else is suffering more than me always improves my mood "
her, I'm sure you do

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A long walk in Ashdown Forest, singing (sorry), music, laughter. Sometimes though you just have to allow a bit of negativity to balance the positivity.

Sadly I am unavoidably in contact with some very negative energy in my professional life and protecting oneself from that can be a difficult task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read if I want to be alone but if I want to surround myself with happy go lucky people who I enjoy spending time with I see my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being the inspiration behind this my new way to deal with it is too look at how lucky I actually am (sounds soppy I know) but it's true, we're very fortunate to have some of the luxuries we do. I hope I don't inspire another bad vibed chat lmao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can I go for a very long walk failing that music goes on which I sing badly to or I bake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baking with music on is a great way in my opinion

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I punch people, knowing somebody else is suffering more than me always improves my mood "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"After being the inspiration behind this my new way to deal with it is too look at how lucky I actually am (sounds soppy I know) but it's true, we're very fortunate to have some of the luxuries we do. I hope I don't inspire another bad vibed chat lmao x"

You're right and also being happy with what you have rather than wanting what other people have got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very true. We all want something someone else has. Maybe that's why some of us are here, too share what we have lol. Such kind people. Actually starting too love this site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to music to cheer me up.

Either dance music, drum n bass or sum indie rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music is good one or a good hard work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I punch people, knowing somebody else is suffering more than me always improves my mood her, I'm sure you do "
thought you didn't like the rolling eyes smiley?

Good mood today, chins are safe

So far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do to avoid negativity? Or feeling a bit low or blue or in the doldrums or thinking 'what if?'

Please don't say: 'sing "always look on the bright side of life" as I mean things like paint or read or go for a walk or do something active or make lists or bake or build stuff or drive....Something that drives the 'feeling sorry for yourself' feeling away. "

I sing, but not 'always look on the bright side of life' I think I'd get more depressed!

In the past when i've suffered a serious depression lasting months, I challenged myself to do things which put me outside my comfort zone. Singing was one of them. 6 years later I sing in a band and have done for the last 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay out of the forum for a couple of days lol"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I punch people, knowing somebody else is suffering more than me always improves my mood her, I'm sure you do thought you didn't like the rolling eyes smiley?

Good mood today, chins are safe

So far!"
just makes me laugh when people try and make out their all hard. Quite dad really I find

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