FabSwingers.com forum: What's one thing you wish you had figured out sooner in life?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

That I did'nt have to take shite off people who were making my life Toxic....I learnt this about 5-6 years ago and I really wish I had learnt it sooner.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

That i had trusted my intuition and gut feelings more ... Nowadays is 100% on point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That adults lie

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

That I had asked more questions when I was a child...

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im still learning!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few things. But I think actions speak louder than words is a good tip because it's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to hold back if I want to say how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am better at life that my confidence allowed me to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife was a bam !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm Gay...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That life is short & there to be lived. So grab it with both hands.

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

I couldn't agree more. It's taken me (Mrs Ruthless) a long time to realise this. Now it's my turn to have fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actions speak louder than words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to believe it when someone tells you that they "love you and want to be with you for as long as you want them" as they are probably up to something with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Block button doesn't work by mind control you have to click it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the best things in life are free, and the things that taste the best are the worst for you!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

that all I needed was confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That the best things in life are free, and the things that taste the best are the worst for you! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that I would have been a great younger father..now..in my later broody years..I see the things I'm missing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Everything is awesome'

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

That I shouldn't have got married as many times as I did !!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That I followed my heart....

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By *hopgirlWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That life is short & there to be lived. So grab it with both hands. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That life is short & there to be lived. So grab it with both hands.

This

well if i dont say..I always grab it with both hands...cos it aint fuckin short OK!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I'm Gay...!!!

Beat me to it only I was going to say "that I'm bisexual ".

So wish I'd listened to myself and accepted it years ago. I'm so much happier now and my wife says it really shows.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

its no worth takin too serious. .

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That I could get away with glamming up

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

"That I did'nt have to take shite off people who were making my life Toxic....I learnt this about 5-6 years ago and I really wish I had learnt it sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it to the max

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I wish I'd learned that jobs you want dont pay enough, so settle for a job you dont want so long as it pays big!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you really do only get one mum and dad..so look after them

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"That you really do only get one mum and dad..so look after them"

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Find someone you don't like, buy them a house, a car and give them £10k a year - it's cheaper than getting married and divorced

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

That I am not without charm.

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

Those times before I realised that I was bisexual and women were flirting with me and I was too naïve to take up what could of been some very interesting offers LadyH

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

"Find someone you don't like, buy them a house, a car and give them £10k a year - it's cheaper than getting married and divorced"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I am better at life that my confidence allowed me to be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never trust a hippy

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

some women want and enjoy sex as much as i do .. and some more so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some women want and enjoy sex as much as i do .. and some more so "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think someone is an asshole, your mates tell you they are an asshole then they really are an asshole.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

That loving someone doesn't mean they HAVE to love you back.

That always keep the toast over the plate when buttering.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

That there is nothing wrong with being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you really do only get one mum and dad..so look after them"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Never trust a hippy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my ex was a cheating lying bitch ha!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"That my ex was a cheating lying bitch ha!"

×2 but hey im not bitter.......much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That my ex was a cheating lying bitch ha!

×2 but hey im not bitter.......much

I'm not bitter just better

Her loss! I just would of liked to know sooner so certain things would have been easier when we split.

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By *exyman1965Man
over a year ago

Lucan

Marriage wish I thought a bit more about it at the time, never do it again wish had no ties with the other but love the kids...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that some people seen me as a real person other than thinking i was just a cock..

wait..er..em...dunno if ive phrased that right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not to believe it when someone tells you that they "love you and want to be with you for as long as you want them" as they are probably up to something with someone else.

Course they are, isn't that what adult relationships are about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm a hot, desirable piece of ass. Well to some and myself anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that my parents aren't worth bothering with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm fairly fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the word Cunt is acceptable, because that is what people are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people don't understand you and that they are the fools not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never pee on a wasps nest..very painfull I can tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum was my best friend and should have spent more time with her before she passed away

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

I can still get success without university, the Uni' system is all a lie and I don't need an MBA to understand business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That the word Cunt is acceptable, because that is what people are

I was always told Cunts are useful.

Stop expecting your actions to get you noticed, as there are far more people slagging you off behind your back.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

That working kept me sane, even if it felt like it was driving me mad.

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

to stick to the things i know about busibess wise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That blood is not always thicker than water and you really can't choose your family.

That I quite like black men....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That licking the light socket hurts

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

That so many women find me attractive

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By *ibbyhunterCouple
over a year ago

keighley

that school was a place of learning, not a place to hang out with my mates and piss about all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That what people think about me counts for jack shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I did'nt have to take shite off people who were making my life Toxic....I learnt this about 5-6 years ago and I really wish I had learnt it sooner.

I wish I'd learnt to walk away from things sooner too instead of trying hard to salvage something that wasn't worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That there is nothing wrong with being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That so many women find me attractive

If you were taller and I was older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that I would have been a great younger father..now..in my later broody years..I see the things I'm missing..."

They can be a total pain in the arse but my offspring are No1. So thankfull I have them.....

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"That so many women find me attractive

If you were taller and I was older

......and I was willing

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

How get the cap of the medication bottle

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

earlier in life that 'some people who give it out, can't take it'.

that would have been handy during my schooldays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That after I have left this earth, everything I am, have said and done will be lost - like tears in the rain.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"That after I have left this earth, everything I am, have said and done will be lost - like tears in the rain. "
well put

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

That exercise is fun!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"im still learning!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The school of experience is a good one. But the fees are expensive.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"That after I have left this earth, everything I am, have said and done will be lost - like tears in the rain.

well put "

The credit belongs to Rutger Hauer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To do my laces up for 20 years I kept falling over the bastard things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that dogs are nicer than people.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

That I'm not as fat as my mother said I was, and that people really don't judge us as much as we think they do.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

realising what my todger was for!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it seems too good to be true, then it uusually isn't true....

Also learn from my mistakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my ex was a total control and violent piece of s**t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm just as turned on sticking my cock in a a fit woman's pussy or on my back legs in the air takin a big hard cock or on my knees with a cock down my trait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you can't get on with everyone you meet in life, no matter how hard you try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should of listen to my dad more he was right when he said you only need two good things in life son. 1 a good pair of shoes and 2 a good bed because if you are not in one then you're in the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never pee on a wasps nest..very painfull I can tell you"

Haha. Accidentally walking over one has the same effect I can tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wished I had taken the blue pill not the red one. Ignorance is bliss.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

the neck bones connected to your back bone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am not perfect.

I am too humble to be perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to buy spd's and cleats...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not to buy spd's and cleats..."

Ahhh grasshopper fall over on bike. Did not learn to ride like shaolin monk.

Lol

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

That my fem side was so strong and didnt have courage pursue it earlier in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not going to waste my free time anymore, including Saturdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish i had found and learnt how to be me - only really just beginning to - bad parents - bad first partner/marriage - blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wish i had found and learnt how to be me - only really just beginning to - bad parents - bad first partner/marriage - blah blah "

that i don't need a man in my life. Not for more than a couple.of.hours a week anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not thick, stupid,slow... But I am dyslexic

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

my only real contribution to the world is my fertile spunk x X X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my ex of 22 years was cheating on me and that no one would want to love me afterwards. Life over in one day lol

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

.i am thick stupid and slow and not dyslexic x X X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That 5'10" is not the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is t is not me but them with the problem.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

That its too late to do anything about your screw-ups... they have happened...

Dont forget them, just move on and dont repeat them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go back for seconds.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

That dogs and brussel sprouts don't mix!

jeeeeeseeeeee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy while you can and I will

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"That dogs and brussel sprouts don't mix!

jeeeeeseeeeee!

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. . i smell your pain

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"That after I have left this earth, everything I am, have said and done will be lost - like tears in the rain. "

Ashes to ashes, funk to funky.......

In all seriousness, my acceptance of the fact that one day I would be wormfood is the basis of my first tattoo...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"That dogs and brussel sprouts don't mix!

jeeeeeseeeeee!

. . i smell your pain

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thank you! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not to believe it when someone tells you that they "love you and want to be with you for as long as you want them" as they are probably up to something with someone else.

Amen brother

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

To trust my instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That nothing lasts forever so appreciate what you have while you have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I should have been born further south because that's where all the hot men are!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"That dogs and brussel sprouts don't mix!

jeeeeeseeeeee!

Staffordshire bull by any chance ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that school was a place of learning, not a place to hang out with my mates and piss about all day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I should have been born further south because that's where all the hot men are!"
sould live in the north the lady's are fitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am me, and just live it

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By *aonezackCouple
over a year ago

aberdare

it not how hard you fall down it's how fast you get back up ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am confident and that being watched having sex and watching others doesn't actually phase me at all.

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