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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z"
i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z"

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Agree!

Hence I am very wary about meeting anyone who refuses to show his/her picture, as I believe he/she may have something to hide!

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z

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Agree!

Hence I am very wary about meeting anyone who refuses to show his/her picture, as I believe he/she may have something to hide! "

i think its better seeing them on cam photos can be old

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z

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Agree!

Hence I am very wary about meeting anyone who refuses to show his/her picture, as I believe he/she may have something to hide! "

Well, we saw the pics - looked great - in real life however - a totally different person! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have a rubbish camera

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Maybe they have a rubbish camera "

lol - had nothing to do with the quality of the photography - the pic was of a slim lady - mind you - if cameras like that were invented (ie. lops 15 stone off you) then the would be quite popular! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to shut my eyes when I am having a bonk so no probs about what they look like...

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I tend to shut my eyes when I am having a bonk so no probs about what they look like... "

lol - like I said earlier, we aren't sizeist etc but were really shocked when we realised who they were - a few pounds or a different hairstyle etc is no problem but a totally different person? Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I tend to shut my eyes when I am having a bonk so no probs about what they look like... "

Snog would you do a double bagger lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z"

I did turn up to a meet and the guy was in a wheelchair. Somehow he had failed to tell me that. It put me in a terrible position because if you walk strait away you look bad but on the other hand its a big thing not to tell someone about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like throwing a sausage up an alley was it? Or didn't you get that far lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z

I did turn up to a meet and the guy was in a wheelchair. Somehow he had failed to tell me that. It put me in a terrible position because if you walk strait away you look bad but on the other hand its a big thing not to tell someone about."

I can imagine that was quite an uncomfortable meeting - and I agree with you, it's quite an important thing and we would certainly have liked to have known about that too beforehand! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Like throwing a sausage up an alley was it? Or didn't you get that far lol "

Well, I have changed the scenario to be discreet but there was no way anything was going to happen! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z

I did turn up to a meet and the guy was in a wheelchair. Somehow he had failed to tell me that. It put me in a terrible position because if you walk strait away you look bad but on the other hand its a big thing not to tell someone about.

I can imagine that was quite an uncomfortable meeting - and I agree with you, it's quite an important thing and we would certainly have liked to have known about that too beforehand! Z"

What made it worse was he turned out to be a really nice guy but playing wasn't possible for him. I did wonder how other meets went for him if he didn't tell.

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Crikey! Is there a trading standards section for Swingers? Have you ever turned up on a meet and the lady was twice the size she was in her profile pics? We're not sizeist but surely pics should be at least quite recent and of you? Z

I did turn up to a meet and the guy was in a wheelchair. Somehow he had failed to tell me that. It put me in a terrible position because if you walk strait away you look bad but on the other hand its a big thing not to tell someone about.

I can imagine that was quite an uncomfortable meeting - and I agree with you, it's quite an important thing and we would certainly have liked to have known about that too beforehand! Z

What made it worse was he turned out to be a really nice guy but playing wasn't possible for him. I did wonder how other meets went for him if he didn't tell."

It begs the question though as to his intentions - if he couldn't play then why arrange to meet on a swingers site? Makes you wonder doesn't it? Be like arranging to meet someone for a knitting session and they can't knit - why bother? Z

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I say take them to court and sue the barstewards

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I say take them to court and sue the barstewards "

Nah - we've got better thing to do with our time! We are just in awe as to the total and utter dishonesty of the pics! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once ran over a large woman and in court the judge said, "Didn't you have enough room to swerve round her?"

"Yes," I replied, "but not enough fookin petrol!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to shut my eyes when I am having a bonk so no probs about what they look like...

Snog would you do a double bagger lol

Steve "

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What are you trying to say?! I don't look THAT bad!!!

He has been known to shut his eyes and think of Chelsea in the past!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I tend to shut my eyes when I am having a bonk so no probs about what they look like...

Snog would you do a double bagger lol

Steve

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What are you trying to say?! I don't look THAT bad!!!

He has been known to shut his eyes and think of Chelsea in the past!!! "

Lol was not thinking of you hun i am sure your lovely.

Thinking of Chelsea would deffo put me off tho.

Steve

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I say take them to court and sue the barstewards

Nah - we've got better thing to do with our time! We are just in awe as to the total and utter dishonesty of the pics! Z"

To be fair, I think its happened to most of us at some point and its just not nice

I am a fatty so its not an issue but I literally walked straight past a man once as he looked nothing like the photo he sent me then was annoyed when I told him off for sending me a much older photo and then left him standing there

Not from here tho but it wasn't nice at all.

I get sent fotos of fella's when they still had hair and then they wonder why you get a little upset with them

Most of my pics are less than a year old and hopefully show me as I am NOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking of Chelsea would deffo put me off tho.

Steve "

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It helps him to get through his ordeals allegedly!

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Thinking of Chelsea would deffo put me off tho.

Steve

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It helps him to get through his ordeals allegedly! "

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