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By *reddie and Lilo Lil OP   Couple
over a year ago

between edinburgh and glasgow

why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Lol thats cos they are fakes we would guess.

I was a member for many years but it never stopped me having folks round lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are the lucky ones who have got access to their child/children.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Perhaps they are the lucky ones who have got access to their child/children. "
good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they are the lucky ones who have got access to their child/children. "

Took the words right out my mouth.

Looks like another male bashing attempt.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

i had access to my boy from him being 2 but hey if you aint still got the wife around then you would mannage to sort something out i am sure.

Any bloke that cant accom in our eyes is married or lives with him mum in both cases avoid is the only action lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them"

Maybe the fathers for justice should swing as it seems to give magical powers to some single men here

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Maybe the fathers for justice should swing as it seems to give magical powers to some single men here "

Hell sure it gives you magical powers aint you seen me dressed as Batman

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Maybe the fathers for justice should swing as it seems to give magical powers to some single men here

Hell sure it gives you magical powers aint you seen me dressed as Batman

Steve "

Don't go there! I had a man on here who wanted to play while he was dressed up as spiderman!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Maybe the fathers for justice should swing as it seems to give magical powers to some single men here

Hell sure it gives you magical powers aint you seen me dressed as Batman

Steve

Don't go there! I had a man on here who wanted to play while he was dressed up as spiderman! "

awwwwww thats classic i bet you nearly cried laughing i know we would have

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Maybe the fathers for justice should swing as it seems to give magical powers to some single men here

Hell sure it gives you magical powers aint you seen me dressed as Batman

Steve

Don't go there! I had a man on here who wanted to play while he was dressed up as spiderman!

awwwwww thats classic i bet you nearly cried laughing i know we would have

Steve "

I laughed a lot until i realised he was serious! The cam session on msn was a classic as he dressed in his outfit. I have to say we never met though lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Maybe the fathers for justice should swing as it seems to give magical powers to some single men here

Hell sure it gives you magical powers aint you seen me dressed as Batman

Steve

Don't go there! I had a man on here who wanted to play while he was dressed up as spiderman!

awwwwww thats classic i bet you nearly cried laughing i know we would have

Steve

I laughed a lot until i realised he was serious! The cam session on msn was a classic as he dressed in his outfit. I have to say we never met though lol "

Wow cant understand why a good catch like that is still on his own.

how did you keep from laughing on cam when he came on dressed like that.

I have heared of role play but thats going just too far. Its just very very wrong somehow.

Steve

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

cos you might bump into the gf

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"cos you might bump into the gf "

That would be the girl in the spiderwoman costume then?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so spiderman is out... and batman.... how about superman... i have had experience of wearing my pants outside of my trousers!!!

I wouldn't say no to a woman dressed in the wonder woman or catwoman outfits...

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

yep love the cat women look

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Mmmmmm good point Zena floats our boat big time lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so spiderman is out... and batman.... how about superman... i have had experience of wearing my pants outside of my trousers!!!

I wouldn't say no to a woman dressed in the wonder woman or catwoman outfits... "

The idea of a cock poking out of a super hero outfit doesn't get me horny in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so spiderman is out... and batman.... how about superman... i have had experience of wearing my pants outside of my trousers!!!

I wouldn't say no to a woman dressed in the wonder woman or catwoman outfits...

The idea of a cock poking out of a super hero outfit doesn't get me horny in the slightest "

Better send my outfit back then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got a batman and robin costume for sale from last halloween...

iv asked a few single guys why they cant accomadate and the answers vary from " dont want some psycho appearing at odd hrs"

"i live at home"

"i live in a bedsit"

my dog doesnt like strangers was another...

" i can if wife at her work"

"my kids here at wk ends"

all fair enough excuses! xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


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Any bloke that cant accom in our eyes is married or lives with him mum in both cases avoid is the only action lol

Steve "

That's me outed as a fake then....

I don't argue with the general accuracy of what you say, Steve, but it's not a universal truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The intercom doesn't work

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"

Any bloke that cant accom in our eyes is married or lives with him mum in both cases avoid is the only action lol

Steve

That's me outed as a fake then....

I don't argue with the general accuracy of what you say, Steve, but it's not a universal truth."

Hey never said it was but we would use it as a rule of thumb so to speak.

Steve

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them"

Fathers For Justice, The Courts and £34,000 in Solicitor's fees don't make a blind bit of difference anyway when you have an ex who still refuses to let you see your own kids even when you win the court battle!

Not all single dads should be tarred with the same brush!

When I did have the kids staying here there was no way I would ever accommodate a swing meet whether they were a single female or couple.

I so love generalisations of single blokes!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Fathers For Justice, The Courts and £34,000 in Solicitor's fees don't make a blind bit of difference anyway when you have an ex who still refuses to let you see your own kids even when you win the court battle!

Not all single dads should be tarred with the same brush!

When I did have the kids staying here there was no way I would ever accommodate a swing meet whether they were a single female or couple.

I so love generalisations of single blokes! "

Know what you mean - Speaking as a single parent, when my wife and i split up i had responsibilities to her and my son you could fill a book with, but you could have fitted my rights on the head of a pin.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them

Fathers For Justice, The Courts and £34,000 in Solicitor's fees don't make a blind bit of difference anyway when you have an ex who still refuses to let you see your own kids even when you win the court battle!

Not all single dads should be tarred with the same brush!

When I did have the kids staying here there was no way I would ever accommodate a swing meet whether they were a single female or couple.

I so love generalisations of single blokes!

Know what you mean - Speaking as a single parent, when my wife and i split up i had responsibilities to her and my son you could fill a book with, but you could have fitted my rights on the head of a pin.

"
i know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people have home commitments so sometimes they genuinely cant accomodate but i think what the op means with the amount of single men that cant accom raises suspicion sometimes xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"people have home commitments so sometimes they genuinely cant accomodate but i think what the op means with the amount of single men that cant accom raises suspicion sometimes xx"

Yep thats how i took it too.

Hell guys lighten up i got screwed over too when i divorced but i choose not to dwell on it and moved on with my life so take the post as it was written as a bit of fun.

Steve

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm sure a quick survey re guys who can't accom would find an unusually large corelation between profiles which have no pics, meaningful text or verifications and "can't accom" on the same profile.

Further research would, i'm sure, show an incredible percentage of the famed single guy "fancy a fuck" mails are sent by guys who match the above criteria.

Or am i just being cynical...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nahh here is cynicism , for every msg i get this wk where they cant accom, im gonna ask why then at end of the wk i shall publish my results with excuses and how many are non verified with no pics etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife moved to Abu Dhabi and took my kids, i spent a fortune on solicitors and got some things sorted out but really i had no say on them going, was told if it went to court i would have lost so all i could do was get some things set in stone. I go over as much as i can which is never enough and they come over in summer and at christmas when im home, i work month on month off so only get every second christmas at home. I talk to them everyday be it msn or phone so its not ideal, them being with me would be ideal because i was never just a weekend dad but could be a lot worse, i know some horror storys from some mates who dont get to see their kids. Only father for justice im interested in is myself and i agree with the note above, if i had the kids in the house there would be no swinging going on, thats something i couldnt do, well my sons 14 and spends a lot of time in the bathroom, he would want to watch and take pics so no way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww that is such a sad story but at least you making the attempt to see them which is more than many do xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

well.... erm... I'm guessing the Opening Posters are probably now feeling just a tad guilty for starting a flippant thread now....

good on the guys trying to see there kids....

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"people have home commitments so sometimes they genuinely cant accomodate but i think what the op means with the amount of single men that cant accom raises suspicion sometimes xx

Yep thats how i took it too.

Hell guys lighten up i got screwed over too when i divorced but i choose not to dwell on it and moved on with my life so take the post as it was written as a bit of fun.

Steve "

Lightened up here many years ago when the divorce came through and never dwelled on it either

Just a thought, but it is easy to say that any post on here is written as a bit of fun when the replies don't match up with any OP's views.

Was just giving a different point of view why some single dads don't accommodate - whereas I can both accommodate and travel when I need to!

Brian

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

incidently

many ladies with children dont accomodate

but they are not deemed as dishonest

funny that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still bemused by those that can't accommodate AND can't travel...I'm not sure what the other options are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still bemused by those that can't accommodate AND can't travel...I'm not sure what the other options are?

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out the back door?? field? bus stop lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still bemused by those that can't accommodate AND can't travel...I'm not sure what the other options are?

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I agree as I have wondered and asked this question before - I was told that they would meet in a hotel. The problem is that there is then an expectation that you will play - which feels a bit like pressure if you have not met before?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"why do we need a fathers for justice campaigne when most of the guys that contact us cant accommodate because they have there kids living with them"
Did the OP do any research before posting such a sweeping generalisation? I actually know more Single females that cant acc than single men.

Why jump on the Fathers for Justice group in such a negative, flippant way?

Sorry guys these days cant do ANYTHING right can they?

Fathers for Justice wouldnt exist if it wasnt for Feminazi women with holding access to children who they wouldnt have in the 1st place if it wasnt for them, or do people still have kids by immaculate conception nowadays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine was the immaculate conception!! halloween she was concieved......should have took the toffee apple would have lasted longer..... xx

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By *ariner192Man
over a year ago

Near Newport

As a father of two, it did seem a generalisation, but I can see that this has gone two ways, the bit of fun that the original post was intended, but also taken up by those that feel very strong on the subject.

I unfortunately can accom, as I rarely get to see my kids, and no amount of spiderman, batman, or superman (my fav as can wear my pants on the outside) can help on that.

However, it is a serious subject for some people after spending considerable amounts of money getting access, only for the ex partner to say when you turn up, oh he is away this weekend - did I forget to tell you (after 350 mile drive), no I am no bitter lol.

Oh Did I say I can Accom for anyone interested LMAO.

Whilst posted slightly flippantly, it is very interesting the way peoples minds read it depending on life experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is another really interesting thread with many great responses, some funny some reflective as the topic can be quite difficult for some guys who have been at the receiving end of bad luck, in want of a better description.

Nice to see the diversity of balanced genuine posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree I have 3 lovely kids and I don't get to see em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree I have 3 lovely kids and I don't get to see em. "

That is what I mean - for many fathers there simply does not appear to be any justice; sometimes kids get used as bargaining items in a split. Separation is often inevitable but nonetheless inevitably sad for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.

I have to pay which I know the kids don't get.

Don't get me wrong they can have my money but it dosent go were it should.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I agree I have 3 lovely kids and I don't get to see em. "

didnt think they could stop you now ??

thought the judges granted access to fathers ...thats a pisser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree.

I have to pay which I know the kids don't get.

Don't get me wrong they can have my money but it dosent go were it should.

"

That must be difficult for you - you want to do something for them, you dont mind paying either but you have no control over whether YOUR kids benefit from you.

I do feel for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou. Xxx

Right gona go into another chat coz its getting to depressing.

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