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"I disagree. " With the OP | |||
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"Most of the blocking is for shit and no valid reason , some people block ya and never everspoke to them at all , They should make you give a reason why you block the other person and tell the person why they been blocked , What you think ?" No I don't agree. People block single men because they don't want them to waste their time, some people block if they get a no thanks to stop from contacting peopel again, some just because they can. Its best to concentrate on teh ones who haven't blocked you and don't let things mess your head up | |||
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"I disagree. With the OP" Im just wondering peoples opinion thanks for sharing | |||
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"peoples reasons to block are their own. would it really do you any good to know someone has blocked you because they think your an arsehole? (not saying you are, just an example) course it wouldnt. so why bother worrying about it?" | |||
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"We block for many reasons. If we dislike a personality. If we dislike a message. Or - quite often - if there's more chance of me growing tits and lady bits than us ever being attracted to/considering meeting someone. Saves them the effort of putting together a message that will be ignored/result in a no thanks. Blocking is just a permanent filter to us! A" Fair play never thought of that | |||
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"Most of the blocking is for shit and no valid reason , some people block ya and never everspoke to them at all , They should make you give a reason why you block the other person and tell the person why they been blocked , What you think ?" Oh please! Anyone who believes they are owed a reason for not floating someone's boat would be too fragile to handle the brutal truth. Believe it or not we won't appeal to everyone: shocker I know! | |||
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"We are all "adultz" and shouldnt need to use block lol" fpr once i agree with you, not the spelling lol, just the sentiment. unfortunately some cant act as adults, so blocking is a cyber version of a permanent naughty step lol | |||
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"We are all "adultz" and shouldnt need to use block lol fpr once i agree with you, not the spelling lol, just the sentiment. unfortunately some cant act as adults, so blocking is a cyber version of a permanent naughty step lol" lol yes I did that typo on purpose lol and ur right there, the naughty step . | |||
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"giving reasons is likely to offend and more threads......" Likely? Can you imagine the indignation | |||
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"giving reasons is likely to offend and more threads...... Likely? Can you imagine the indignation " it would be fucking fantastic.... second thoughts, OP I'm in.... | |||
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"giving reasons is likely to offend and more threads......" Better know I think then to not , Honest comments always offend someone lad just a way of nature I suppose | |||
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"Most of the blocking is for shit and no valid reason , some people block ya and never everspoke to them at all , They should make you give a reason why you block the other person and tell the person why they been blocked , What you think ?" My profile states the reason I block (though I'm mellowing in my dotage and mostly now just delete the messages where it's clear my profile's not been read) If Fab give me a personal button that says "I'm blocking you cos you didn't read my profile. Happy swinging xxx" (That's 3 kisses, not 2 or 4...3 if you don't mind Admin) then I'll start to use it in future - be buggered if I'm back fitting that to the coupla hundred on my block list | |||
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"Most of the blocking is for shit and no valid reason , some people block ya and never everspoke to them at all , They should make you give a reason why you block the other person and tell the person why they been blocked , What you think ?" I give no one a reason and feel no reason to do so. | |||
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"I can just see my typing this message: Hi, sorry to bother you but you've posted yet another rude whiney status on your profile and it come up on my update page. That's the fourth one in four days and you've now got on my tits so I'm blocking you. luv and kisees legs! x" Might nick that idea! | |||
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"I tend to use the block to manage my contacts. I get a message from a guy or couple etc, look at profile and decide they are not for me, so I send a polite thanks but no thanks then block. The reason is simple if I don't block I find my inbox fills up with the same guys sending me the same thing every couple of weeks, it is worse if I change my avatar, it saves both of us wasting our time " | |||
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"Ive never blocked anyone... I just ignore! I never delete messages either - I'm rubbish at keeping my inbox tidy haha! X " just use immac. | |||
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"Most of the blocking is for shit and no valid reason , some people block ya and never everspoke to them at all , They should make you give a reason why you block the other person and tell the person why they been blocked , What you think ?" How would knowing why someone wants to block yo help you? Are you going to change just for them, just for a fuck? | |||
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"giving reasons is likely to offend and more threads...... Likely? Can you imagine the indignation it would be fucking fantastic.... second thoughts, OP I'm in...." | |||
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"We block for many reasons. If we dislike a personality. If we dislike a message. Or - quite often - if there's more chance of me growing tits and lady bits than us ever being attracted to/considering meeting someone. I likee this Saves them the effort of putting together a message that will be ignored/result in a no thanks. Blocking is just a permanent filter to us! A" | |||
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"It just strikes me that it might be useful to site admin to have a small checklist for a blocking that will not be puclicly available, ie person doesn't appeal. Will not take no for an answer, offensive, doesnr meet criteria, or other. Might help out persistent offenders. Maybe have a week's ban from that ip address. But on another thought, forum rules prevent anyone trying to contact someone who has banned them. So how does it work regarding people who ban all single guys?" How will it help the site developers to know that I have blocked someone because their cock is too small or I think they are ugly etc? How many blocks gets you a ban? What's stopping me from creating multiple acvoiunts and going on a crusade to get someone banned because they pissed me off?? | |||
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"You shouldn't have to explain your reasons. It's the blocker's business not the blockee's. (I made that word up) What ever reason they blocked you, there is no future there with them, no point in asking for an unblock. Just forgedaboudit! All is good!" How do you ask for a un-block ??? | |||
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"You shouldn't have to explain your reasons. It's the blocker's business not the blockee's. (I made that word up) What ever reason they blocked you, there is no future there with them, no point in asking for an unblock. Just forgedaboudit! All is good! How do you ask for a un-block ??? " You can't. | |||
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"Ive never blocked anyone... I just ignore! I never delete messages either - I'm rubbish at keeping my inbox tidy haha! X " Lol so cruel Ignored is far worse than a block | |||
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"I tend to use the block to manage my contacts. I get a message from a guy or couple etc, look at profile and decide they are not for me, so I send a polite thanks but no thanks then block. The reason is simple if I don't block I find my inbox fills up with the same guys sending me the same thing every couple of weeks, it is worse if I change my avatar, it saves both of us wasting our time " | |||
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"You shouldn't have to explain your reasons. It's the blocker's business not the blockee's. (I made that word up) What ever reason they blocked you, there is no future there with them, no point in asking for an unblock. Just forgedaboudit! All is good! How do you ask for a un-block ??? " One might make a thread about being blocked and ask to be un-blocked. I may have seen one or two (hundred) in the past. | |||
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"Most of the blocking is for shit and no valid reason , some people block ya and never everspoke to them at all , They should make you give a reason why you block the other person and tell the person why they been blocked , What you think ?" I have no interest why others block me and feel no need to tell others why I chose to block them. If you think you are being blocked ny a disproportionately high number of profiles maybe consider why that might be? | |||
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"Ive never blocked anyone... I just ignore! I never delete messages either - I'm rubbish at keeping my inbox tidy haha! X " lol we are rear here I feel . As most its like a sport blocking. I don't have the time too block it would be just one more thing for me to do here and I would find it boring . As like reading forums and chatting to my friends . | |||
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"It just strikes me that it might be useful to site admin to have a small checklist for a blocking that will not be puclicly available, ie person doesn't appeal. Will not take no for an answer, offensive, doesnr meet criteria, or other. Might help out persistent offenders. Maybe have a week's ban from that ip address. But on another thought, forum rules prevent anyone trying to contact someone who has banned them. So how does it work regarding people who ban all single guys? How will it help the site developers to know that I have blocked someone because their cock is too small or I think they are ugly etc? How many blocks gets you a ban? What's stopping me from creating multiple acvoiunts and going on a crusade to get someone banned because they pissed me off??" Wouldn't help much if they are ugly/small et , but that's not what I'm. Thinking. People who get large amounts of blocks should at least be looked at to see if they are causing a nuisance. How many blocks? Not for me to say. That would be up to admin to decide. Multiple accounts can often be spotted by coming from the same I P address. If mischief is suspected, it could backfire on the perps. Yes, its not perfect. But that alone isn't reason not to do it. Show me something that is. | |||
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"It just strikes me that it might be useful to site admin to have a small checklist for a blocking that will not be puclicly available, ie person doesn't appeal. Will not take no for an answer, offensive, doesnr meet criteria, or other. Might help out persistent offenders. Maybe have a week's ban from that ip address. But on another thought, forum rules prevent anyone trying to contact someone who has banned them. So how does it work regarding people who ban all single guys? How will it help the site developers to know that I have blocked someone because their cock is too small or I think they are ugly etc? How many blocks gets you a ban? What's stopping me from creating multiple acvoiunts and going on a crusade to get someone banned because they pissed me off?? Wouldn't help much if they are ugly/small et , but that's not what I'm. Thinking. People who get large amounts of blocks should at least be looked at to see if they are causing a nuisance. How many blocks? Not for me to say. That would be up to admin to decide. Multiple accounts can often be spotted by coming from the same I P address. If mischief is suspected, it could backfire on the perps. Yes, its not perfect. But that alone isn't reason not to do it. Show me something that is. " We don't usually block because people have done anything wrong though, we block as a filter because the profile does not suit us. I think the admin/mods would rather we report problem site users for investigation | |||
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"I block people who do bare back whom I come across in forums As well as people who write utter Shyte on the forums Plus block ugly people Stupid profiles Vile photos Don't have to explain because once they blocked they are gone Whoop" I'm now wondering how many lurkers/posters have been clicking on everyone that's posted's profiles to see if they've been blocked! A | |||
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"I block people who do bare back whom I come across in forums As well as people who write utter Shyte on the forums Plus block ugly people Stupid profiles Vile photos Don't have to explain because once they blocked they are gone Whoop I'm now wondering how many lurkers/posters have been clicking on everyone that's posted's profiles to see if they've been blocked! A" Ha ha ha ha ha ha | |||
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"*blocks Obi* just cos. " | |||
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" People who get large amounts of blocks should at least be looked at to see if they are causing a nuisance. How many blocks? Not for me to say. That would be up to admin to decide. " Problem with that is that many of the more vocal/opinionated forum posters would be looked at just for voicing their oopinions! And in all seriousness surely admin have enough to do investigating reported profiles never mind blocked ones too! | |||
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" Problem with that is that many of the more vocal/opinionated forum posters would be looked at just for voicing their oopinions!" Well that would teach us for not agreeing with the general consensus! How very dare we have thoughts of our own We should allow ourselves to be properly assimilated. | |||
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"O p seems bitter has someone had the cheek to block you, how dare they " People get hurt feelings over the strangest things. | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A" No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked " But they wouldn't be able to get on your profile to inflict the punishment!! A | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked But they wouldn't be able to get on your profile to inflict the punishment!! A" They would send out their evil goblin friends Either that , or .... You have discovered a master plan !! | |||
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"It just strikes me that it might be useful to site admin to have a small checklist for a blocking that will not be puclicly available, ie person doesn't appeal. Will not take no for an answer, offensive, doesnr meet criteria, or other. Might help out persistent offenders. Maybe have a week's ban from that ip address. But on another thought, forum rules prevent anyone trying to contact someone who has banned them. So how does it work regarding people who ban all single guys?" I am not sure blocking people or being blocked is a good idea to ban people from the site as it is a tool that Admin give all of us to use as we wish. If someone is being a pest/ abusive etc it is best to report the person and it can be dealt with that way. The forum rules about blocking doesn't mean you can't answer someones posts on a forum in a discussion....(let's face it, not everyone will know they are blocked by someone unless they look at the profile) You just can't try and contact someone on the forum if they have you blocked, ie to ask them to unblock etc. | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked But they wouldn't be able to get on your profile to inflict the punishment!! A" They can still ban, they just can't see the persons profile | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked But they wouldn't be able to get on your profile to inflict the punishment!! A" You must have served enough time on the naughty step to know it's a different profile that sends the email! Well so I've been told aanyway... | |||
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"Why should anyone be forced to give a reason for not wanting contact with a person" | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked But they wouldn't be able to get on your profile to inflict the punishment!! A You must have served enough time on the naughty step to know it's a different profile that sends the email! Well so I've been told aanyway..." lol it is auto generated after the mod or Admin apply the ban. Either way his plan won't work if he block mods, we can still get him ! | |||
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" Ooh!!! Just had a really random thought!!! If - just hypothetically of course - someone had blocked a mod - would that grant them immunity from the naughty step? A No because thy can still see posts on forum when you blocked But they wouldn't be able to get on your profile to inflict the punishment!! A You must have served enough time on the naughty step to know it's a different profile that sends the email! Well so I've been told aanyway... lol it is auto generated after the mod or Admin apply the ban. Either way his plan won't work if he block mods, we can still get him ! " Block you guys?? As if!! You're on my hotlist in case of 'emergency'!! And what step? A | |||
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