FabSwingers.com forum: cheating!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont normally post in the forums but feel like having a rant, why do people feel the need to lie about being single, luckily I caught them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing the game..playing the game, plenty of real single fellas on here.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True, but very annoying im glad I found out sooner rather than later though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhh little secret, play it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will say what ever to get a leg over here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not too difficult to work out the cheaters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some will say what ever to get a leg over here . "

Whatever

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people lie in everyday life, why would this place be any different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No it didnt take long to figure it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont normally post in the forums but feel like having a rant, why do people feel the need to lie about being single, luckily I caught them out

Does it matter if he single or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont normally post in the forums but feel like having a rant, why do people feel the need to lie about being single, luckily I caught them out

They cheat because they can, and think they can get away with it......but just stick to your instinct......That is always spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it didnt take long to figure it out"
it won't, look at it as NEXT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some will say what ever to get a leg over here .

Whatever

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whatever , lol but its true ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes to me it does, I don't agree with cheating and wouldn't want it done to me so I choose not to meet these people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes to me it does, I don't agree with cheating and wouldn't want it done to me so I choose not to meet these people"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont normally post in the forums but feel like having a rant, why do people feel the need to lie about being single, luckily I caught them out

Does it matter if he single or not? "

course it does.

even though we all engage in some form of sexual contact with others, some of us have enough morality to not want to be involved in someone breaking the heart of their partner.

if it doesnt matter to you, then all power to you, i just hope one day you never feel the harsh pain that comes with finding out the truth about someone you worship the ground of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some will say what ever to get a leg over here .

Whatever

whatever , lol but its true ,

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I'm Watching the game now lol

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes to me it does, I don't agree with cheating and wouldn't want it done to me so I choose not to meet these people"

Ditto.

Some people seem to think swinging and morals don't mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes to me it does, I don't agree with cheating and wouldn't want it done to me so I choose not to meet these people

Ditto.

Some people seem to think swinging and morals don't mix. "
watch the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here without my wife's knowledge - it's not on my profile that I'm married but I'm always up front about it when I message someone.

And anyway why are some people so judgmental on here? This is not the place for stereotypes; because if we were to do that across the board and judge married a guy that has sex with someone other than his wife is a cheat (with or without there knowledge is in material - couples take note) then a women having sex with more than one guy may well be judged as a slag.

Now I don't hold with either of these _iews but if you choose to judge others then be prepared to be judged yourself.

And just for the record the vows of marriage do not allow for multiple partners regardless so not only am I breaking them but you are too; welcome to the club.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I'm on here without my wife's knowledge - it's not on my profile that I'm married but I'm always up front about it when I message someone.

Now I don't hold with either of these _iews but if you choose to judge others then be prepared to be judged yourself.

And just for the record the vows of marriage do not allow for multiple partners regardless so not only am I breaking them but you are too; welcome to the club."

what utter tripe....

and I have no problem with married people being on here if they declare to the person they are to meet to allow an informed choice to be made....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes but you are upfront from the start this person clearly lied and even denied it when I asked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but you are upfront from the start this person clearly lied and even denied it when I asked him"
so how did you find out ? Was there clues not getting out a lot on evening or no calls after 5 ,

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By *erterjonesMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Personally myself and what most people would say my partner sleep in different rooms and do not have a sexual relationship.

she knows I use this site but we are effectively split-up.

we share a house and that's it

I won't bring anyone back here out of respect for that woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We actually got chatting on kik, where he used his real name, me being a bit wary just happened to check on Facebook where his profile picture was him and his gf and it clearly stated he was in a relationship, I then again asked him if he was in a relationship and he has yet to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but you are upfront from the start this person clearly lied and even denied it when I asked him"

So had he been up front with you, would you have met him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but you are upfront from the start this person clearly lied and even denied it when I asked him

So had he been up front with you, would you have met him?"

She's stated what she thinks about cheats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We actually got chatting on kik, where he used his real name, me being a bit wary just happened to check on Facebook where his profile picture was him and his gf and it clearly stated he was in a relationship, I then again asked him if he was in a relationship and he has yet to reply

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you proberly wo.t get a reply,only half truths, serious, 194,000 do you need him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on here without my wife's knowledge - it's not on my profile that I'm married but I'm always up front about it when I message someone.

Now I don't hold with either of these _iews but if you choose to judge others then be prepared to be judged yourself.

And just for the record the vows of marriage do not allow for multiple partners regardless so not only am I breaking them but you are too; welcome to the club."

View, your tripe comment is so warranted! With or without knowledge is not immaterial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on here without my wife's knowledge - it's not on my profile that I'm married but I'm always up front about it when I message someone.

Now I don't hold with either of these _iews but if you choose to judge others then be prepared to be judged yourself.

And just for the record the vows of marriage do not allow for multiple partners regardless so not only am I breaking them but you are too; welcome to the club.

View, your tripe comment is so warranted! With or without knowledge is not immaterial."

Not only knowledge but consent in some situations.

As for you comparing so-called judgements about cheaters and women being slags... oh puhlease. Women who are not virginal have been labelled derogatively since the beginning of time whereas their male counterparts have been _iewed as studs.

I personally do not care how strangers judge me whether it is a personal assessment (ie: I am not for them for whatever reason) or an impersonal condemnation due to their own perceptions or even if it's a wounded ego cos I am the disinterested party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you work them out, what questions to ask, apart from the obvious, are you married, or in a relationship, we have a dilemma now, says on profile can accommodate, but has son staying

With him, he dont know how long for, says hw was married but split years ago, would you believe him, and take as genuine, as these things do happen,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on here without my wife's knowledge - it's not on my profile that I'm married but I'm always up front about it when I message someone.

Now I don't hold with either of these _iews but if you choose to judge others then be prepared to be judged yourself.

And just for the record the vows of marriage do not allow for multiple partners regardless so not only am I breaking them but you are too; welcome to the club."

the problem is basic and simple...trust.

how can you be trusted to be honest with a stranger when you cant even be honest with the person you profess to love most in the world?

if you can go home and lay next to her in bed, tell her you love her, probably have some form of sexual contact with her, a few hours after wiping some womans cum off your cock, then why should anyone else give you any amount of trust?

yes people are judgemental about single marrieds , and it has nothing to do with religion, in most cases it has everything to do with, as i said earlier, not wanting to help someone ruin their marriage, and conversly the life of those they are involved with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you work them out, what questions to ask, apart from the obvious, are you married, or in a relationship, we have a dilemma now, says on profile can accommodate, but has son staying

With him, he dont know how long for, says hw was married but split years ago, would you believe him, and take as genuine, as these things do happen,"

Exchange phone numbers... Phone him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you work them out, what questions to ask, apart from the obvious, are you married, or in a relationship, we have a dilemma now, says on profile can accommodate, but has son staying

With him, he dont know how long for, says hw was married but split years ago, would you believe him, and take as genuine, as these things do happen,

Exchange phone numbers... Phone him..."

the messages stop of a weekend

only able to meet at certain times

but yes, the above is the biggest thing.

exchange numbers and phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive put on my profile like I like a cheat - even though its really bad! But almost every message I get they say they are a cheat... true or not, I don't know; I think they just tell you what you want to hear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive put on my profile like I like a cheat - even though its really bad! But almost every message I get they say they are a cheat... true or not, I don't know; I think they just tell you what you want to hear...

What is it that turns you on about being with another woman's man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be about informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See : if someones relationship status is important to you, what ya should do is state in your profile you are OK with meeting attached people.

Then when they say they are attached, find another reason not to meet em.

Men and women can be crafty sods when it comes to gettin their own way.

If they think they av to go underground to get it, chances are they will.

Personally, we would sooner people just be honest and let us make the trade off between shagability and the potential for any meet coming back to haunt us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See : if someones relationship status is important to you, what ya should do is state in your profile you are OK with meeting attached people.

Then when they say they are attached, find another reason not to meet em.

Men and women can be crafty sods when it comes to gettin their own way.

If they think they av to go underground to get it, chances are they will.

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Clever!

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