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"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?" If all parties are OK with it then sure. I (a [young looking  ] 46 year old) regularly play with 18/19 year olds at parties. The conversation can be shit but they're full of vim!  | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea." I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on you | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on you" Woooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? | |||
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"I'd find that a bit freaky too!" I did find it a bit freaky if I am being honest. | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?" so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! Z | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! Z" Well the OP did ask if he was being judgemental. The answer is obviously 'yes, and you're not the only one'! | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! Z" Maybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow! | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!" So that's the same for everyone else then? I started courting a guy who was 40 when i was 19 - i was with him for 20 years! Everyone is different! Z | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!" but not all 18 year olds are like that especially nowadays. There all consenting adults | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!but not all 18 year olds are like that especially nowadays. There all consenting adults " Some of them have been at it for several years by the time they're 18 | |||
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"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?" I've done it many times, always enjoyed it and been invited back again and again lol  | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!" If you are asking about this them maybe you still dont know. I would say if you are having to ask you really already know the answer in your mind. | |||
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"personally, I wouldn't play with anyone that age but would the op or anyone else feel differently if the 18 year old was married to a middle aged person and they invited someone to play with them? just out of curiousity" Wouldn't make a difference to me ~ I've declined a few couples where the guy is say my age and the female is 19/20ish. | |||
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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness? so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow! So that's the same for everyone else then? I started courting a guy who was 40 when i was 19 - i was with him for 20 years! Everyone is different! Z" Indeed and I just think that a couple with an 18 year old is a bit too near the knuckle. Maybe its my hang up but in my _iew its a bit freaky | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that "Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs? | |||
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"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X" Yes of course you would...  | |||
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"If it concerns you about meeting someone a lot younger Am 37 but sometimes gets asked for ID "You point being? | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?"Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex. I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens. | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?"It's not about what he needs, it's about what his little head is thinking! Sometimes it is as simple as that, and yes, it all depends on the individual and what type of meet they want! Some just want the fuck and go type and some like myself, prefer a more social experience and enjoy each others company as well as the sex, it's all down to preference at the end of the day! | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?
Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.
I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens."I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots? | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?
Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.
I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.
I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?"And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?
Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.
I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.
I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?
And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? "None it would appear but if I was to do the same with an 18 year old woman is that right? Legally yes but from a correctness stand point ? | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?
Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.
I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.
I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?
And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? None it would appear but if I was to do the same with an 18 year old woman is that right? Legally yes but from a correctness stand point ?"I think you're asking the wrong person if you want agreement. It's legal. As long as its consensual (and I suspect most of the encounters on here are) then it's fine by me. | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?
Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.
I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.
I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?
And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? None it would appear but if I was to do the same with an 18 year old woman is that right? Legally yes but from a correctness stand point ?
I think you're asking the wrong person if you want agreement. It's legal. As long as its consensual (and I suspect most of the encounters on here are) then it's fine by me."Noted! | |||
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"If it concerns you about meeting someone a lot younger Am 37 but sometimes gets asked for ID You point being?"It wasn't aimed at anyone in particular, Just at females who like the idea about being with younger men | |||
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"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?" Judgemental? ....you mean on fab? ....the MOST judgemental site on the interwebz?...never!  | |||
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"I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own. I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits" You do post quite a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects which could be considered judgemental! | |||
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"I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own. I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits" How can it be laughable, but at the same time 'may be true'? | |||
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"Ha ha ha ha ha..........to the lady who sent me a very abusive message (you know who you are!! Always wanted to say that) I do allright as I am very fit 56 year old! and blocking me is a bit dad for an adult debate!" I can never understand why people get so worked up and feel the need to do that ~ it's bizarre! | |||
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"Ha ha ha ha ha..........to the lady who sent me a very abusive message (you know who you are!! Always wanted to say that) I do allright as I am very fit 56 year old! and blocking me is a bit dad for an adult debate! I can never understand why people get so worked up and feel the need to do that ~ it's bizarre!" Because she was frustrated or the subject matter was a little too...........well a little too! | |||
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" I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits How can it be laughable, but at the same time 'may be true'?" Sorry I didn't make that clear. I just find it laughable that people say it about youngsters when it is equally applicable to people of all ages. It's true fro some teenagers, it's true for some people twice or 3 times that age. It is true that some people lack the emotional maturity for swinging/NSA sex - others don't. Age is not neccesarily a factor in that | |||
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"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold? Judgemental? ....you mean on fab? ....the MOST judgemental site on the interwebz?...never! "Pmsl | |||
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"I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own. I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traitsYou do post quite a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects which could be considered judgemental!" I've never judged how someone plays or their preferences which is the point I was making | |||
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"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X" And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ??? | |||
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"At 36 I took a 19 yr old to a party at a fab friends. She'd been on site since 18, was more mature than plenty of 20somethings and had plenty of meets under her belt before we first met (for a social). I doubt if anyone gave us or in fact her a second glance age wise. Age IS sometimes no definer of attitude, maturity or personality. Other times - it is. But then there's plenty on here that are 31 that you'd suspect have got the digits the wrong way round!
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"At 36 I took a 19 yr old to a party at a fab friends. She'd been on site since 18, was more mature than plenty of 20somethings and had plenty of meets under her belt before we first met (for a social). I doubt if anyone gave us or in fact her a second glance age wise. Age IS sometimes no definer of attitude, maturity or personality. Other times - it is. But then there's plenty on here that are 31 that you'd suspect have got the digits the wrong way round!
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"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ???" i dont want to meet couplers and i dontwant to meet 18year olds | |||
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"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ??? i dont want to meet couplers and i dontwant to meet 18year olds " Your profile says FF couples and women from 18-55 | |||
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"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ??? i dont want to meet couplers and i dontwant to meet 18year olds " You might want to change your lower age limit then, as its set at 18. | |||
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"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X" Watch ya cock then in case you fuck another angry dad's 18 year old daughter lol | |||
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"Another troll profile posting in the forum and then deleting account... "He wasn't a troll, but I don't think he was particularly happy here. | |||
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"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X Watch ya cock then in case you fuck another angry dad's 18 year old daughter lol" always. . .or i could just fuck orphans  x x X | |||
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"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X" Nobody said you can't put what you want on your profile but you're threatening violence to a man who wants to have sex with an 18 year old girl yet that's what you want according to your profile as it stands just now? | |||
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"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X Watch ya cock then in case you fuck another angry dad's 18 year old daughter lol always. . .or i could just fuck orphans x x X"Whatever floats your boat cocker
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The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .
If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x | |||
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"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X Nobody said you can't put what you want on your profile but you're threatening violence to a man who wants to have sex with an 18 year old girl yet that's what you want according to your profile as it stands just now?" i could say not just any 18year old only my 18year old.and she is immature that way...but if i was in a hypothetical situation and i thought another 18year old girl was out her depth i wouldn't ignore the situation...i suppose cutting a cock off and ramming it down anothers throat is a bit extreme so probably wouldn't go that far but wouldn't rule anything out when it comes to myown family. x x X | |||
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"Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex
The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .
If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x"Foolish enough to have kids?? | |||
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"Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex
The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .
If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x"I can assure you I'm neither subjective or judgemental in my posting I am simply expressing my _iew. If you ever have a teenage daughter who wants to have an 'experience' with a 40 year old I wonder if your opinion may change...!! | |||
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"Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex
The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .
If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x
I can assure you I'm neither subjective or judgemental in my posting I am simply expressing my _iew.
If you ever have a teenage daughter who wants to have an 'experience' with a 40 year old I wonder if your opinion may change...!!". .you took the words right outa my mouth x x X | |||
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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that "I'm the same but the other way round, if a guy my age is showing numerous veris from women 20 years older I wonder why they would then want to meet me. | |||
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