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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have received verifications but not verified back as I don't really believe they have much benefit after the 2nd 3rd....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they put the verification on public display block them and then they cant display it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol"

You asked for one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was saying earlier, that some do and some don't send them.

We have a good few now so it doesn't matter, good for the start really to get you started on here.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i did not ask for one back just thought they would

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am sure this is not the OPs problem but if I've had a meet that wasn't as, erm, spectacular as I was promised, I won't verify. That's only if they're already verified though. If they're not I'll think of something nice to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i did not ask for one back just thought they would

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Yeah just ask I am sure they will give you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure this is not the OPs problem but if I've had a meet that wasn't as, erm, spectacular as I was promised, I won't verify. That's only if they're already verified though. If they're not I'll think of something nice to say."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen to us recently. Bothered us for a matter of seconds... Really not worth worrying about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol"

I usually say are we doing the veri thing as I know some people are really into it and some aren't.

I would always return the veri favour but it can take me a while to do so.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

people get so wound up about verifications, is it the same if someone don't leave them feedback on fleabay ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was just being nice and i know it should not bother me,i no what to do in the future thanks to all xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks chaps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet for veris, I meet for new experiences, to talk to like minded people and for the memories.

When a veri isn't left for us, I do worry if I said or did something to upset them or put them off but I am not pushy so don't follow it up.

Too many people describe themselves as not pushy but when they don't get a response to a message or a return on a verification they push for answers.

Not being left a veri after a meet doesn't take anything away from the fun I had although a little part of me would like to know why one wasn't left in return, I actually apply my ethics and leave alone.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't meet for veris, I meet for new experiences, to talk to like minded people and for the memories.

When a veri isn't left for us, I do worry if I said or did something to upset them or put them off but I am not pushy so don't follow it up.

Too many people describe themselves as not pushy but when they don't get a response to a message or a return on a verification they push for answers.

Not being left a veri after a meet doesn't take anything away from the fun I had although a little part of me would like to know why one wasn't left in return, I actually apply my ethics and leave alone.

crystal"
spot on with that

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol"

It happens - don't worry about it. If it bothers you that much just block them so they cannot contact you again and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol

It happens - don't worry about it. If it bothers you that much just block them so they cannot contact you again and move on."
will do thanks for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they are looked at as an online thankyou.

Some will some won't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess they are looked at as an online thankyou.

Some will some won't."
thats what i think as well now ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess they are looked at as an online thankyou.

Some will some won't.thats what i think as well now ta"
lol just having a wild guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me. If someone has a few I don't do it unless we speak about it or they write me one. If they ask for one and don't write one back I wouldn't care as I have some to prove I'm a human female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooo giving to receive how selfish lol - we're not bothered as we are verified already - have met people and neither have verified - we like a recent one to show but never show more than 2 or 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ooo giving to receive how selfish lol - we're not bothered as we are verified already - have met people and neither have verified - we like a recent one to show but never show more than 2 or 3 "
it just botherd me cos ive seen this cpl a few times thats all

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol"

Had it happen to us on a couple of occasions....just one of things.

Long as you enjoyed the meet and had fun then thats what really matters.

Wouldn't dream of asking for one in return or blocking them like a couple of people have mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when you have verified someone and they don't send one to you ,what's all that about so rude lol

Had it happen to us on a couple of occasions....just one of things.

Long as you enjoyed the meet and had fun then thats what really matters.

Wouldn't dream of asking for one in return or blocking them like a couple of people have mentioned."
ta for the feed back

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