FabSwingers.com forum: Random messaging

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Just for those who become disillusioned by lack of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't read profiles... they won't read forums....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't complain if u was a single man, we hardly get no offers lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just for those who become disillusioned by lack of response.

I seem to have more and more messages from people who are completely outside my preferences. If you read profiles and only message those who you suit and vice versa, then you could save yourself a lot of time and effort. And possibly end up with fewer lack of responses. "
yer we get a load of messages and cock piks from men that smoke from our home town ! The only 4 things we say we don't want

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

im getting alot of "hi's" at the moment...just hi...lol

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"If people don't read profiles... they won't read forums....

Yesterday i reset my preferences regarding unverified guys, age etc and i am still getting messages from the criteria i blocked so i'm totally confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are my messages random?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im getting alot of "hi's" at the moment...just hi...lol "

Us too..but ours really make the effort with."hey, hows you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady friend of mine had one a while ago saying how he loved her photos and profile, she never had any pics on show and her profile was hidden!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im getting alot of "hi's" at the moment...just hi...lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just for those who become disillusioned by lack of response.

I seem to have more and more messages from people who are completely outside my preferences. If you read profiles and only message those who you suit and vice versa, then you could save yourself a lot of time and effort. And possibly end up with fewer lack of responses. yer we get a load of messages and cock piks from men that smoke from our home town ! The only 4 things we say we don't want

Maybe they're trying the old reverse psychology trick.... Nah, they didn't read it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Goes right over my head now. I have my rioters set so don't get too many of them, but its so simple to just ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been having the 'what you up to' questions last few days. Well if I'm reading and answering your messages I'm on Fab....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to be disillusioned by this site. Even those who are socially awkward and inept would get more random offers offline, so it's not to be taken seriously.

If only there wasn't such pressure from "established" members for a guy to get a list of veris as long as his arm (and then he's a slut rather than a stalker).

Of course, if I cared, I'd be taking it seriously, so LOL.

It's more a matter of 19 out of 20 women being total twat baskets when I'm being friendly and considerate and sending them a message that doesn't make me look vapid or desperate, but rather gives them the opportunity to say thank you or/and no thank you, or to see where it goes. Instead, they go for the tried and tested "silence speaks louder than words!"

But more or less, if you don't play and win at the popularity game here, or join the unpopular cliques that hates the popular cliques, you're an outsider, which is fine by me.

Since I came back, I've even stayed away from the forums a lot. I just drop my say, read what others say and leave it at that.

Because there is no right or wrong answer here, just the same as anywhere else, just a matter of opinion; opinion being a misunderstood and misused word when it comes to personal experiences.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"It's hard to be disillusioned by this site. Even those who are socially awkward and inept would get more random offers offline, so it's not to be taken seriously.

If only there wasn't such pressure from "established" members for a guy to get a list of veris as long as his arm (and then he's a slut rather than a stalker).

Of course, if I cared, I'd be taking it seriously, so LOL.

But more or less, if you don't play and win at the popularity game here, or join the unpopular cliques that hates the popular cliques, you're an outsider, which is fine by me.

Since I came back, I've even stayed away from the forums a lot. I just drop my say, read what others say and leave it at that.

Because there is no right or wrong answer here, just the same as anywhere else, just a matter of opinion; opinion being a misunderstood and misused word when it comes to personal experiences."

I asked for well-verified for a couple of very good reasons which I will not go into here. Once someone reads that then unless they are well-verified it is pointless messaging me.

The 'twat baskets' you so politely refer to may well be fed up with the kind of inane, drop your knickers now, I won't bother reading your profile, types which many complain about.

As for lack of responses - that's the point! People will have fewer of those if they actually read profiles and then, once read, actually thought 'Am I likely to be what they are looking for?' before sending a message.

This thread, by the way, is about 'people' not just men, although my messages are from men simply because that is what I am looking for and couples and women cannot message me.

If I read a profile and there is something in there which tells me I am not the kind of person they are looking for, I do not chance my arm and message anyway. Why would I waste my time?

As for the idea of 'cliques' and 'established' members. I am not the cliquey type. I plough my own furrow - always have. Anyone does not like that, then that is in the realm of 'not my problem'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's happening?

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. .clancy's a truck ? x x X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im getting alot of "hi's" at the moment...just hi...lol "

Hi is relatively understandable

We are on 1 other site and get loads of messages on there that are either just 'woof' or 'grrr'

Really off putting but I guess it beats a blank message with a pic of a random cock attached ...

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

"If people don't read profiles... they won't read forums....

there's logic in them there words

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

so thats a 'Hi' message to Miss Cheeky and a 'What you up to ' message to Legs

anyone else what a random message

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