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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is purely a hypothetical question!!

What would you do if you fell pregnant after a meet?? (we all know it's a risk)!!

Couples would you keep the baby and raise it together because it is more likely to b ur other halves than the other mans? Would you want a DNA test done??

Men:would u want to know you had potentially fathered a child?? Or is ignorance bliss??

I am in the pil and we only play safe but if I was to fall pregnant after a meet we have said there would b no DNA test done and J would raise the baby as his no questions asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh god! What a tricky situation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*goes flaccid*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would cry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Double protection here, coil and condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant! "

Even bigger if I got someone pregnant...

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"*goes flaccid*"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would keep the baby.. inform the gent. If he wanted to play a part of the childs life bonus.. if not id still keep it

im a single parent anyway

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

god forbid but I would want to know as the child would have a right to know eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not a two way decision?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going through pregnancy again, the stretch marks have ruined my chances of wearing a bikini again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only question would be around not telling a guy that you fell pregnant after the meet, there's a slight morality thing around him deserving to know etc.

I have one other question; would it still be the same if you slept with a black guy because the off shoot is there would be no need for a DNA test as the baby would be mixed race. How would you then feel knowing it wasn't yours for sure? (Presuming you're both white?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Goes to find 2 bricks*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Highly unlikely with the coil and condoms, but I think it would be tricky trying to pass off a brown baby as hubby's! There is no way I could keep it anyway. Call me heartless but I really don't want anymore children which is why I had a coil fitted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not a two way decision? "

It is and it isn't but ultimately it's the woman's body so the final decision would generally be hers.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

With a coil and a condom it would be unlikely, but if it happened I would have to get rid of it. I am too old to go through all that again.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Double protection here, coil and condoms

"

Me too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I liked the lady.

A friend of mine (just a friend) is pregnant from a guy who now doesn't want to know, and she's devastated. I couldn't do that to anyone.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

It'd be an abortion for me...I'm heading swiftly towards the menopause and have only used condoms as my contraceptive since I hit 40, I reckon the chances are remote, however, a good friend of mine is a menopause baby, her mam was caught on the change at 48 and there's almost 30 years between her and her oldest sibling!

I don't have children, nor do I want them - it'd be a termination whether it was a pregnancy produced from a swinging meet or from a relationship

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

my oldest son was adopted without my agreement or knowledge because the couple decided to take things into their own hands .took years to find out and when i did i made sure he knew who his real dad is.but he's not got my second name which annoys me to the extent that first time i see his adopted dad im gonna knock his cunt right in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant! "

And as Luke has had the snip very highly that he could get anyone pregnant.

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

I'd play a full part in being a dad. It is the best job in the world to be honest. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not a two way decision? "

Not if they don't know. It's different if you're in a relationship then absolutely yes a 2 way decision.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Double protection here, coil and condoms

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Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one other question; would it still be the same if you slept with a black guy because the off shoot is there would be no need for a DNA test as the baby would be mixed race. How would you then feel knowing it wasn't yours for sure? (Presuming you're both white?)"

That's a tough 1 and would change things!! Only because it would b more obvious to others that J was not the dad. He would still raise the baby as his own but I suppose we would have to tell others and the child somethin (but prob not that they were conceived during a gangbang!!)

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if DP, always take the ass.....

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I did!!! After a long talk, we both agreed on a termination. However, I miscarried 3 days before it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant! "

Oh I don't know. Doctor asked me if I was breastfeeding the other day. I'm 53!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id tell the guy, in the unlikely event it happened, and probably do the same as with my current munchkin.... raise the baby without asking for a damn thing from the dad but still give him contact when he can be bloody asked to bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if DP, always take the ass....."

Indeed!

I'm probably going to catch some stick for this but I'm a little shocked so many people would or consider keeping a baby from a random sex partner.

I know there are a lot of single parents afound but surely it would be bettr to have a child in a loving relationship?

I'm suddenly very scared.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"if DP, always take the ass....."

Pragmatic as always

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"if DP, always take the ass.....

Pragmatic as always "

cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't know what I'd do...I don't think I could live with the guilt of a termination, but really not sure I'm mother material either. Also, I'd probably have a number of prospective Daddies to choose from so don't know where I'd start there. I'm confident though that the implant and condoms will mean that'll never be an issue, but if it ever is I'll prob be a hysterical wreck in a corner somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just not a believer in abortion (for myself) totally understand why women do it and don't ever judge people who do. It's just not somethin that could ever see myself doin. That being said luckily I have never found myself in a difficult situation.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would keep the baby.....and not ask for a penny...I'm self sufficient and have a great family...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if DP, always take the ass.....

Indeed!

I'm probably going to catch some stick for this but I'm a little shocked so many people would or consider keeping a baby from a random sex partner.

I know there are a lot of single parents afound but surely it would be bettr to have a child in a loving relationship?

I'm suddenly very scared. "

it's better in some ways when it's in a relationship, but that's not always the case. and though I'm pro choice, i choose not to have an abortion. it's just not for me.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

At my age I would not keep a baby from a relationship let alone a casual sex partner.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

actually, I may want custody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts a whole new slant on NSA sex

We would abort it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Depends if I liked the lady.

A friend of mine (just a friend) is pregnant from a guy who now doesn't want to know, and she's devastated. I couldn't do that to anyone. "

It happens I fell pregnant the bloke did a runner......

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

firing blanks and using condoms ... fatherhood days over for me lol

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Coil and condoms here too and my fellas had the snip this week (3-4 months before he gets tested though)so I can safely say it wouldn't be his.

As much as I have been against terminations in the past due to losing a child, I wouldn't be having anymore children now. I'd be heartbroken though..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

hyperthetically id stand by the mother.. old school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if DP, always take the ass.....

Indeed!

I'm probably going to catch some stick for this but I'm a little shocked so many people would or consider keeping a baby from a random sex partner.

I know there are a lot of single parents afound but surely it would be bettr to have a child in a loving relationship?

I'm suddenly very scared. "

and im probs never gonna get a shag again for also saying this.. but part of the process (social) is to make sure im not gonna be having sex with a complete heartless toss pot with the morals of a street rat.

Im not saying id only sleep with potential fathers.. however subconsciously i guess i do look for decent qualities in a man before anything happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't know what I'd do...I don't think I could live with the guilt of a termination, but really not sure I'm mother material either. Also, I'd probably have a number of prospective Daddies to choose from so don't know where I'd start there. I'm confident though that the implant and condoms will mean that'll never be an issue, but if it ever is I'll prob be a hysterical wreck in a corner somewhere!"

i fell pregnant on the implant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I miraculously got pregnant by my FWB I would tell him and that it would be his decision if he wants to be a part of the baby's life. I would never go for a termination again, I'm a broken person from it, it was so traumatic that I will never get rid of a baby if I become pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the question is hypothetical but I disagree with the OP, I think every child has a right to know who it's biological parents are regardless of who raises it.

Supposing there was an hereditary illness in the father's family that you knew nothing about - if later in life "your" child discovered that his/her assumed father was not in fact his/her biological father the shock could be devastating. In addition to feeling deceived by then he/she may have had a family and unknowingly passed on the disease to another generation.

My eldest grandchild was adopted at the age of eighteen months and it was a traumatic experience for everyone concerned but his birth parents were encouraged to make life history books for him which he has grown up with and which have been added to over time, so he has been raised knowing that his adoptive parents are not his "birth mummy and daddy" and over time the circumstances of his adoption have been explained to him in ways that he can understand. My understanding is that other than in exceptional cases this is the norm for adopted children these days, far better than the devastation that can be caused on discovering later in life that everything you held to be real is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Puts a whole new slant on NSA sex "

I know right?

Good thread OP, very enlightening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't know what I'd do...I don't think I could live with the guilt of a termination, but really not sure I'm mother material either. Also, I'd probably have a number of prospective Daddies to choose from so don't know where I'd start there. I'm confident though that the implant and condoms will mean that'll never be an issue, but if it ever is I'll prob be a hysterical wreck in a corner somewhere!

i fell pregnant on the implant "

oh shit!!!! I'm on it too! but I always use condoms but I'm always paranoid that it will split and boom! pregnant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't know what I'd do...I don't think I could live with the guilt of a termination, but really not sure I'm mother material either. Also, I'd probably have a number of prospective Daddies to choose from so don't know where I'd start there. I'm confident though that the implant and condoms will mean that'll never be an issue, but if it ever is I'll prob be a hysterical wreck in a corner somewhere!

i fell pregnant on the implant "

I had the implant removed at the ripe old age of 42. I'd had it insitu for 8yrs dr assured me it was impossible, that it was still working! Uhu I fell pregnant 10 days later... And he's my world!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My regular FB has had the snip but he recently got oopsed by a young lady. He took great pleasure in telling her it almost certainly wasn't his.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"my oldest son was adopted without my agreement or knowledge because the couple decided to take things into their own hands .took years to find out and when i did i made sure he knew who his real dad is.but he's not got my second name which annoys me to the extent that first time i see his adopted dad im gonna knock his cunt right in "
wow, bet he's proud your his dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My regular FB has had the snip but he recently got oopsed by a young lady. He took great pleasure in telling her it almost certainly wasn't his."

is he still gonna have DNA done when she does give birth?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"My regular FB has had the snip but he recently got oopsed by a young lady. He took great pleasure in telling her it almost certainly wasn't his.

is he still gonna have DNA done when she does give birth? "

Funnily enough her period started not long after. Strange that.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

I'd be down the river, no more babies here whoevers they are Lx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"My regular FB has had the snip but he recently got oopsed by a young lady. He took great pleasure in telling her it almost certainly wasn't his."

Look at Ian Beale

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know the question is hypothetical but I disagree with the OP, I think every child has a right to know who it's biological parents are regardless of who raises it.

Supposing there was an hereditary illness in the father's family that you knew nothing about - if later in life "your" child discovered that his/her assumed father was not in fact his/her biological father the shock could be devastating. In addition to feeling deceived by then he/she may have had a family and unknowingly passed on the disease to another generation.

My eldest grandchild was adopted at the age of eighteen months and it was a traumatic experience for everyone concerned but his birth parents were encouraged to make life history books for him which he has grown up with and which have been added to over time, so he has been raised knowing that his adoptive parents are not his "birth mummy and daddy" and over time the circumstances of his adoption have been explained to him in ways that he can understand. My understanding is that other than in exceptional cases this is the norm for adopted children these days, far better than the devastation that can be caused on discovering later in life that everything you held to be real is not. "

That is a very valid point!! I suppose there are no clear cut right or wrong answers!! I just don't know how you would ever explain it to a child!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the question is hypothetical but I disagree with the OP, I think every child has a right to know who it's biological parents are regardless of who raises it.

Supposing there was an hereditary illness in the father's family that you knew nothing about - if later in life "your" child discovered that his/her assumed father was not in fact his/her biological father the shock could be devastating. In addition to feeling deceived by then he/she may have had a family and unknowingly passed on the disease to another generation.

My eldest grandchild was adopted at the age of eighteen months and it was a traumatic experience for everyone concerned but his birth parents were encouraged to make life history books for him which he has grown up with and which have been added to over time, so he has been raised knowing that his adoptive parents are not his "birth mummy and daddy" and over time the circumstances of his adoption have been explained to him in ways that he can understand. My understanding is that other than in exceptional cases this is the norm for adopted children these days, far better than the devastation that can be caused on discovering later in life that everything you held to be real is not.

That is a very valid point!! I suppose there are no clear cut right or wrong answers!! I just don't know how you would ever explain it to a child!! "

I think there are ways round that, you could be creative with regard to how you got pregnant - failing that I guess you could always ask Jeremy Kyle to tell him for you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I think there are ways round that, you could be creative with regard to how you got pregnant - failing that I guess you could always ask Jeremy Kyle to tell him for you!! "

Can u imagine what JK's _iews are on swinging!! Lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I three months gone when I met my now husband he had had the snip but he loved my baby more than his own kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I three months gone when I met my now husband he had had the snip but he loved my baby more than his own kids "

more than his own kids? really? wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a contraceptive injection every three months and use condoms but I'm with Blonde Caz on this one. I don't have children and if I fell pregnant now at the age of 49 I'd have a termination.

I'm sure a lot of people won't agree but if I didn't have children when I was happily married, I certainly don't want one now at my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be mortified if I found out I had a child that I only knew about by chance. Flesh and blood is very important.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've the implant plus condoms, unlikely to happen, but if it did, I wouldn't keep it, I am 40 and already made a conscience decision not to have kids in my life, just never wanted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a contraceptive injection every three months and use condoms but I'm with Blonde Caz on this one. I don't have children and if I fell pregnant now at the age of 49 I'd have a termination.

I'm sure a lot of people won't agree but if I didn't have children when I was happily married, I certainly don't want one now at my age. "

It's nobody else's business what choice you would make, your body - your choice.

The chances of becoming pregnant if you are using contraception AND condoms is very remote tho obviously not impossible.

It would strike me as odd if people are liberated and openminded enough to swing but would judge someone for deciding to terminate an unwanted & unplanned pregnancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a contraceptive injection every three months and use condoms but I'm with Blonde Caz on this one. I don't have children and if I fell pregnant now at the age of 49 I'd have a termination.

I'm sure a lot of people won't agree but if I didn't have children when I was happily married, I certainly don't want one now at my age.

It's nobody else's business what choice you would make, your body - your choice.

The chances of becoming pregnant if you are using contraception AND condoms is very remote tho obviously not impossible.

It would strike me as odd if people are liberated and openminded enough to swing but would judge someone for deciding to terminate an unwanted & unplanned pregnancy"

I am referring to a choice made regarding pregnancy as the result of a meet when I say your body - your choice!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I would sit back, compile a list of newspapers and see which would bid more for the rights to an exclusive.

Perhaps the Express? Pregnant TG may hold answers to Maddy mystery!

Possibly the Star? Pregnant Tranny has huge tits! See them on page 3, 4, 5 and 6!

The Sun? Exclusive! Pregnant crossdresser reveals all and not a tapped phone in sight!

The Mirror? Pregnant Tranny says flat caps are in!

The Morning Star? Comrade Tina, the people's Tranny, vows her baby will be another soldier in the fight against Capitalism!

The Telegraph? Pregnant Crossdresser ponders best line up for England in the first test!

The Daily Heil? Broken Britain! Pregnant Crossdresser will probably get a 12 bedroom house! Property prices set to plummet in your area!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"I would sit back, compile a list of newspapers and see which would bid more for the rights to an exclusive.

Perhaps the Express? Pregnant TG may hold answers to Maddy mystery!

Possibly the Star? Pregnant Tranny has huge tits! See them on page 3, 4, 5 and 6!

The Sun? Exclusive! Pregnant crossdresser reveals all and not a tapped phone in sight!

The Mirror? Pregnant Tranny says flat caps are in!

The Morning Star? Comrade Tina, the people's Tranny, vows her baby will be another soldier in the fight against Capitalism!

The Telegraph? Pregnant Crossdresser ponders best line up for England in the first test!

The Daily Heil? Broken Britain! Pregnant Crossdresser will probably get a 12 bedroom house! Property prices set to plummet in your area!

"

Haha! Priceless Tina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen. "

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

I'll probably get some stick for this.. But this has happened to me. Wasn't exactly a one night.. More a regular fwb.

I kept the baby and ditched him ( long story!) but she is 18 month now. I wouldn't call her a mistake, my daughters are my two biggest and best achievements! X

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I'll probably get some stick for this.. But this has happened to me. Wasn't exactly a one night.. More a regular fwb.

I kept the baby and ditched him ( long story!) but she is 18 month now. I wouldn't call her a mistake, my daughters are my two biggest and best achievements! X"

No stick from me, glad it's worked out for you

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!"

Referring to a hypothetical unsexed fetus as its is no big deal in the grand scheme of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!"

Actually I meant 'its' not 'it's'.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!"

To be fair I called my baby it...as I didn't know the sex....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!

Actually I meant 'its' not 'it's'. "

I was thinking about putting my grammar nazi hat on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don't know what I'd do...I don't think I could live with the guilt of a termination, but really not sure I'm mother material either. Also, I'd probably have a number of prospective Daddies to choose from so don't know where I'd start there. I'm confident though that the implant and condoms will mean that'll never be an issue, but if it ever is I'll prob be a hysterical wreck in a corner somewhere!

i fell pregnant on the implant "

Thanks for that...I'll make sure I put some chocolate in the corner now shall I!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!

Actually I meant 'its' not 'it's'.

I was thinking about putting my grammar nazi hat on "

I blame my phone - just another Swypo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant!

And as Luke has had the snip very highly that he could get anyone pregnant. "

Mine was a wedding present to the ex...

Still wear condoms even now though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!

Referring to a hypothetical unsexed fetus as its is no big deal in the grand scheme of things"

doesn't matter if it's hypothetical or not

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I do keep having a recurring dream about getting pregnant and wondering how i would explain this to my OH also at 64 obviously cant happen even if I was having sex.

I'ts pretty stressful time in the dream tho.

I would have to know im afraid if I were playing I would need extra extra protection..

If it was likely to be someone else I think I would have terminated.

Could cause marriage breakdown I imagine. May be ok whilst you were friends but if you fall out it may become an issue.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!

Referring to a hypothetical unsexed fetus as its is no big deal in the grand scheme of things

doesn't matter if it's hypothetical or not"

Don't you mean he/she rather than it's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll probably get some stick for this.. But this has happened to me. Wasn't exactly a one night.. More a regular fwb.

I kept the baby and ditched him ( long story!) but she is 18 month now. I wouldn't call her a mistake, my daughters are my two biggest and best achievements! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would want to know. Yes I would be a father and would want to be in it's life.

Fatherhood has been one thing which had eluded me - sadly it's something which is now never likely happen.

"its"? you mean he's/she's not it!

Actually I meant 'its' not 'it's'. "

I read that as fatherhood is the subject of the sentence, therefore it is "it's" (no possession or gender).

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. .the huckle buck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suddenly sex seems less appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing "

I'm telling THX118 to put 2 condoms on in future I'm already on the implant but you can never be too careful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

I'm telling THX118 to put 2 condoms on in future I'm already on the implant but you can never be too careful!"

I guy I went to school with used cling film once strange but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

I'm telling THX118 to put 2 condoms on in future I'm already on the implant but you can never be too careful!

I guy I went to school with used cling film once strange but true "

omg! I'd laugh and run a mile at the sight of a guy wrapping his member in cling film pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing "

Really?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an alternative to View's suggestion

Sex with post menopausal women only - eradicate the risk!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have to be a medical miracle for the mrs to get pregnant so not an issue we have to worry about thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet "

oh god, you had to mention turkey baster didn't you? lol after last night's thread

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet

oh god, you had to mention turkey baster didn't you? lol after last night's thread "

Lol......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet

"

Don't panic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use condoms no matter what & I no longer have the equipment to conceive or carry lol

Post menopausal women are a plus side x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet

oh god, you had to mention turkey baster didn't you? lol after last night's thread

Lol...... "

I can never look at them in the same way again! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sterilised here. And used condoms

I would need to think hard about this as I have a medical condition too, but I would probably have to abort. It would break my heart though.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant! "

Ditto. But if that miracle occurred I wouldn't stay pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

I'm telling THX118 to put 2 condoms on in future I'm already on the implant but you can never be too careful!

I guy I went to school with used cling film once strange but true

omg! I'd laugh and run a mile at the sight of a guy wrapping his member in cling film pmsl "

I wouldn't worry i think I'm going to be super glueing up my japs eye after this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well who would you tell in a mmmmmmmmmmmf situation?

Thankfully not a risk to us anymore but could be awkward for some, and statistically probably happened already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would be no babies for us but if pregnancy is a risk and it's a case of whose the daddy that's frightening, could raise awkward questions in the future! Not only that it's a case of Omg gum clinic for testing!! Kermit only gets me bareback anyway! To many people play unsafe and that scares me more than anything!!! Ok accidents do happen but only if they were "accidental"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing "

Has the fact that sex makes babies only just dawned on you??? Lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet "

Oooh I saw a thing on BBC news website that made me think of you!! A man in Germany has super soerm and has fathered 94 babies as a live sperm donor! No turkey baster needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

Has the fact that sex makes babies only just dawned on you??? Lol"

No, the fact you would meet for someone for NSA and they would keep the baby and perhaps not even tell you.

This blasé attitude to having a child is a little worrying. Think I might stick to wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

Has the fact that sex makes babies only just dawned on you??? Lol

No, the fact you would meet for someone for NSA and they would keep the baby and perhaps not even tell you.

This blasé attitude to having a child is a little worrying. Think I might stick to wanking. "

Sorry, this was meant to say 'you could' not 'you would'. The comment wasn't aimed at anyone in particular.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

Has the fact that sex makes babies only just dawned on you??? Lol

No, the fact you would meet for someone for NSA and they would keep the baby and perhaps not even tell you.

This blasé attitude to having a child is a little worrying. Think I might stick to wanking. "

Some might say aborting a baby just because its conception wasn't all roses and flowers might be a blasé attitude as well.

If it happened to me I would tell all parties (partner, potential father and any partner they may have) but ultimately I would keep the child. Fertility is not a given and you never know if that was your one and only shot!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

i would tell the bloke and if he wanted to stick around then that's his choice as evie said its not a given and it maybe your only shot at being a parent..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I want kids and I'm getting on......I might put a meet up asking for a turkey baster meet

Oooh I saw a thing on BBC news website that made me think of you!! A man in Germany has super soerm and has fathered 94 babies as a live sperm donor! No turkey baster needed "

evie fancy a trip to Germany lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Panic!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!"

there is a great thing that was invented....its called a condom

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!"

Why?

My sister conceived in what she thought was a loving relationship but half way through the pregnancy the 'father' decided he didn't want to be a grown up and hasn't been seen since.

Being in a relationship means jack! Providing a loving home to a child you helped create is all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!

there is a great thing that was invented....its called a condom "

I'm not talking about bareback but we all know that nothing is 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be physically impossible for me to get pregnant now but before I had a coil and used condoms and never got a scare once but that being said if I had would I have kept the baby not a chance but then I am a single maybe different for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And answer I'm going to get slated for but an honest answer, I'd have an abortion.

There are already too many unwanted children out there. Luckily it would be a miracle if I fell pregnant.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!"

So you would force a woman to abort a baby if you made her pregnant through a swinging meet?

Yes the father should be informed and given the opportunity to be involved but if the woman felt that she was able to bring the child up then what's the issue?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!

there is a great thing that was invented....its called a condom

I'm not talking about bareback but we all know that nothing is 100%."

don't have sex then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!

Why?

My sister conceived in what she thought was a loving relationship but half way through the pregnancy the 'father' decided he didn't want to be a grown up and hasn't been seen since.

Being in a relationship means jack! Providing a loving home to a child you helped create is all that matters."

I don't mean this in a rude way but maybe she wasn't really the best judge of character then.

I dunno, I must be old school; my parents are still together and I guess I believe in raising a child in a loving relationship.

Think I'd better leave this thread before I get too unpopular or worry myself sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you would force a woman to abort a baby if you made her pregnant through a swinging meet?"

Woah woah woah. No one said anything about forcing a woman to have an abortion so put your claws away.

I was kind of the opinion (naively it seems) that NSA would mean just that is all and I assumed women looking for such would be of the same opinion.


"don't have sex then.... "

Errr, OK.

Honestly? May have to rethink this site. Most the women I meet in real life are of the same opinion as me. On here it just speaks volumes.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

well times and relationships change...we are no longer in the era our parents were when our parents got together...relationships are different now than they were 30 odd years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok just a thought....everyon is thinking about makers of said hypothetical child BUT one day said child will grow up, maybe health matters will occur, said child finds out dad ain't real dad and wants to know where he/she came from...how do you tell them you are/were swingers and conceived in those circumstances without fucking that poor kid or by then possible adult up....can open, worms everywhere!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem to be in the majority too.

Mind well and truly blown!

Why?

My sister conceived in what she thought was a loving relationship but half way through the pregnancy the 'father' decided he didn't want to be a grown up and hasn't been seen since.

Being in a relationship means jack! Providing a loving home to a child you helped create is all that matters.

I don't mean this in a rude way but maybe she wasn't really the best judge of character then.

I dunno, I must be old school; my parents are still together and I guess I believe in raising a child in a loving relationship.

Think I'd better leave this thread before I get too unpopular or worry myself sick. "

That was my _iew too but unfortunately life doesn't always turn out the way you think it will. Relationships change & in certain cases having children is the cause.

and it's not a problem to have a different _iew that's what the forum is about!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Ok just a thought....everyon is thinking about makers of said hypothetical child BUT one day said child will grow up, maybe health matters will occur, said child finds out dad ain't real dad and wants to know where he/she came from...how do you tell them you are/were swingers and conceived in those circumstances without fucking that poor kid or by then possible adult up....can open, worms everywhere!!!"

Apparently 1 in 25 are not the child of the person they call father anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok just a thought....everyon is thinking about makers of said hypothetical child BUT one day said child will grow up, maybe health matters will occur, said child finds out dad ain't real dad and wants to know where he/she came from...how do you tell them you are/were swingers and conceived in those circumstances without fucking that poor kid or by then possible adult up....can open, worms everywhere!!!

Apparently 1 in 25 are not the child of the person they call father anyway. "

Maybe so but at least about 90% of parents have a slight background knowledge of paternal side, just a thought lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So you would force a woman to abort a baby if you made her pregnant through a swinging meet?

Woah woah woah. No one said anything about forcing a woman to have an abortion so put your claws away.

I was kind of the opinion (naively it seems) that NSA would mean just that is all and I assumed women looking for such would be of the same opinion."

And for the most part that is what this site is about but for the 0.000001% of a chance that for some reason a child is conceived (remember nothing is 100% effective as a birth control except abstinence) then decisions have to be made.

All this thread is doing is asking what if, no one on here has said they are outwardly going to get pregnant by a meet, its all hypothetical.

As long as the risk of pregnancy and STI's etc still exist (and they always will) nothing can be truly NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There would be no babies for us but if pregnancy is a risk and it's a case of whose the daddy that's frightening, could raise awkward questions in the future! Not only that it's a case of Omg gum clinic for testing!! Kermit only gets me bareback anyway! To many people play unsafe and that scares me more than anything!!! Ok accidents do happen but only if they were "accidental""

Not entirely sure why not knowing who the father is would instantly link to bareback sex, as is being implied. I probably have sex with 5/6 different men in a month with condoms. If I got pregnant there is a potential for it to be any of those men as I wouldn't necessarily know on which occasion the condom and my implant had failed...if there was an obvious breakage then that would be a clue, but still not a guarantee that he was Daddio. I am as careful as I can be, but if I were to fall pregnant I'd prob have to get in touch with Jezza for the free DNA testing...once I'd stopped crying in the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well times and relationships change...we are no longer in the era our parents were when our parents got together...relationships are different now than they were 30 odd years ago. "

This is too true...I can probably count on one hand how many of my friends parents are still together. My Dad isn't my Father, but he's my Dad nonetheless. It is a shame, but seems to be the case that having Mum & Dad stay together is unusual these days

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"It would be a bloody miracle if I fell pregnant!

Oh I don't know. Doctor asked me if I was breastfeeding the other day. I'm 53!!! "

He was probably confused by the middle aged man in the nappy sucking on your right breast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't keep it

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The statistic I quoted refers to 1 in 25 people who are confident they know their biological father are incorrect. Some have suggested it should be as high as 1 in 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suddenly sex seems less appealing

Has the fact that sex makes babies only just dawned on you??? Lol"

No my teenager telling me I had sex gave the game away

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

my daughter was conceived after i had the snip .. the first time ... so i got snipped again double ouchy .. i wanted to call her morag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would sit back, compile a list of newspapers and see which would bid more for the rights to an exclusive.

Perhaps the Express? Pregnant TG may hold answers to Maddy mystery!

Possibly the Star? Pregnant Tranny has huge tits! See them on page 3, 4, 5 and 6!

The Sun? Exclusive! Pregnant crossdresser reveals all and not a tapped phone in sight!

The Mirror? Pregnant Tranny says flat caps are in!

The Morning Star? Comrade Tina, the people's Tranny, vows her baby will be another soldier in the fight against Capitalism!

The Telegraph? Pregnant Crossdresser ponders best line up for England in the first test!

The Daily Heil? Broken Britain! Pregnant Crossdresser will probably get a 12 bedroom house! Property prices set to plummet in your area!

"

All those headlines and not a single Diana reference? I am disappointed in you tabloid Tina

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