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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all started somewhere without one

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as if they aren't verified they will never be able to message to get a meet which means they will never get verified, will be a no win for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

You wouldn't happen to be verified by any chance, would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members "

Don't hold back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

So, the newbies wouldn't be able to get noticed or try to meet people?

It would be some sort of "inbred swinging"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

I take it you were once unverified?

This wouldn't work. The photo verification thing is not for everyone, so how would you be able to chat to someone to arrange a meet to get verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members "
I agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap idea.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members

Don't hold back lol "

it was a foot in mouth post my fingers went quicker than my brain lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

What I mean is verified by Identification not by meets.

Why don't none of you get what I am on about?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members I agree with you. "

Why thanks cowboy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

Frankly, I think it's a rather stupid idea. We were all new once upon a time, all unverified.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

What I mean is verified by Identification not by meets.

Why don't none of you get what I am on about? "

Because we are not mind readers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me next someone will be suggesting turning the site into a Freemasons lodge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

I mean profile verified. Okay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

Frankly, I think it's a rather stupid idea. We were all new once upon a time, all unverified. "
profile verified I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a daft idea

So how would memebers who aren't verified message other memebers for meets to get verified?

The way the site is run at the moment is just right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

You wouldn't happen to be verified by any chance, would you?"

Yes I am thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a daft idea

So how would memebers who aren't verified message other memebers for meets to get verified?

The way the site is run at the moment is just right. "
I said profile verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol that means 90 percent of single men should email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a daft idea

So how would memebers who aren't verified message other memebers for meets to get verified?

The way the site is run at the moment is just right. I said profile verified "

What's profile verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol that means 90 percent of single men should email."

No it means there would.not be so.much of a cock fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He means photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit idea

I'm wary of those who are unverified but have met a couple of good guys and have been pissed about by verified guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a daft idea

So how would memebers who aren't verified message other memebers for meets to get verified?

The way the site is run at the moment is just right. I said profile verified

What's profile verified? "

So the site knows your not a fake profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol that means 90 percent of single men should email.

No it means there would.not be so.much of a cock fest"
YEs thats it lool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol that means 90 percent of single men should email.

No it means there would.not be so.much of a cock fest"
YEs thats it lool.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I guess you mean photo verified? I'm not and have no intention of doing so, it means nothing except you can load a picture it doesn't mean you will actually turn up for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He means photo verified."

Are you sure he does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

If it bothers you that much just block unverified ones from contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verification doesn't mean that your "genuine"

It's really not a good idea, some memembers don't want or intend to be photo verified, doesn't mean they are not real and shouldn't mean that they have their messages restricted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a daft idea

So how would memebers who aren't verified message other memebers for meets to get verified?

The way the site is run at the moment is just right. I said profile verified

What's profile verified?

So the site knows your not a fake profile "

Its not really that clever an idea in reality you ask any long standing member and they will say there are probably as many verified fake profiles as unverified fake profiles. The proliferation of internet enabled phones circumnavigate the sites limitation on ip specific self verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He means photo verified.

Are you sure he does "

Yes that's what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

How does that work ? You are joking, of course ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

What I mean is verified by Identification not by meets.

Why don't none of you get what I am on about?

Because we are not mind readers

"

I knew you were going to say that...

OP: you need to be a little more clear in your meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No as if they aren't verified they will never be able to message to get a meet which means they will never get verified, will be a no win for them"

Exactly ? Unless they have to wait to be contacted by someone, but if they aren't verified ? Buggered somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

I think this is your personal way of reducing what you perceive as too many males on this site as in your previous thread (http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/255203) and can only presume it is frustration driven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He means photo verified."

Oh he means photo verified ! Why didn't he say ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

What I mean is verified by Identification not by meets.

Why don't none of you get what I am on about? "

Because you didn't specify which type of verification you meant until now.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

do you mean profile verified?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, considering the amount of people willing to show their face on pics but not meeting, such a ban wouldn't be the assurance of anything.

I am not photo verified, and I am not planning to be (among other reasons, I don't have a camera! ) but I dare you to check my veris and pretend I'm not genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok! Sooo who takes my pics?

Her

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

goodnight Jonboy x X X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot "

as was the text of this message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

as was the text of this message "
lol you x.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

as was the text of this message lol you x."

Oi ! Sex Machines don't lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot "

I....AM.....A....DALEK....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think?

If it bothers you that much just block unverified ones from contacting you"

see that was too much of a logical simple answer.... the rant wouldn't work if you told people to actual be radical and start using the filters the site provides.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members "

*Quickly unverifies self

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

[Removed by poster at 22/03/14 16:27:55]

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members "

Errr missy you ve not met me yet, I ll be the exception that proves the rule,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

I....AM.....A....DALEK...."
YEs or that robot in confused comercial, hi I am brian, poundssssssssss lol.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Hows this for size then?

Only couples should be aload on a swingers site.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So clever clogs how is one supposed to get verified in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows this for size then?

Only couples should be aload on a swingers site."

Guess you not looked up the latest definition of swinging then.

Or read yesterday's press coverage about fake couples accounts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows this for size then?

Only couples should be aload on a swingers site."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows this for size then?

Only couples should be aload on a swingers site.

Guess you not looked up the latest definition of swinging then.

Or read yesterday's press coverage about fake couples accounts"
Yes or couples who are a male and there is no female lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

I....AM.....A....DALEK....YEs or that robot in confused comercial, hi I am brian, poundssssssssss lol."

OI cheeky, I've got legs. Brian runs on wheels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows this for size then?

Only couples should be aload on a swingers site."

Then how would couples meet single males and females for 3sums?

If only couples were allowed on site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

I....AM.....A....DALEK....YEs or that robot in confused comercial, hi I am brian, poundssssssssss lol.

OI cheeky, I've got legs. Brian runs on wheels "
lol ur right there ur a leggy one mmmmm and yes brian is more meals on wheels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A photo verified profile is good like mine, cos then you know the ones who dont got it was created by a robot

I....AM.....A....DALEK....YEs or that robot in confused comercial, hi I am brian, poundssssssssss lol.

OI cheeky, I've got legs. Brian runs on wheels lol ur right there ur a leggy one mmmmm and yes brian is more meals on wheels "

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

"

first ten I saw 2 wanted only couples,1 wants couples,men and women,the rest want couples and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

"

I and all the couples I've met are in the wrong: thanks for enlighting us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This appears to have descended to the level of the playground, so I'm saying nowt

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's amazing how many people think they know how the site should be run. Why aren't these people out there setting up their own much more successful sites, one wonders.

OP, you've been here 4 weeks and you are not representative of the wide range of people who use this site. What makes you think you know how the site should be run, when it's been thriving and successful for years?

I'm not photo verified. I have no intention of becoming photo verified, (for reasons I have given on other, similar threads). If the site were to insist on photo verification in order to be able to join or use it, I'd leave.

If you can explain how having members who actually do meet, some of which are site supporters, would benefit anyone, I'd love to hear it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

"

There are a lot of single people on here, many of whom are quite successful, so the stats would suggest there's a place for singles here.

Too many people want to make this their exclusive little playground, banning anyone who they are not interested in.

The site serves the different interests of a lot of people, which is why partly why it's successful.

How much revenue does the site make from single site supporters do you suppose? And how much revenue is made from advertisers and affiliate sites (who have been attracted here by the large membership).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

"

I thought most clubs welcomed single ladies on a Saturday night too, no?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

I thought most clubs welcomed single ladies on a Saturday night too, no?"

It's usually only single men that are evil and leprous

I'm thinking of starting a shelter for hot evil and leprous single men. Applications to my mailbox

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many people think they know how the site should be run. Why aren't these people out there setting up their own much more successful sites, one wonders.

OP, you've been here 4 weeks and you are not representative of the wide range of people who use this site. What makes you think you know how the site should be run, when it's been thriving and successful for years?

I'm not photo verified. I have no intention of becoming photo verified, (for reasons I have given on other, similar threads). If the site were to insist on photo verification in order to be able to join or use it, I'd leave.

If you can explain how having members who actually do meet, some of which are site supporters, would benefit anyone, I'd love to hear it."

That's what you only know but I was on this site when it first started up way before you knew about it so don't jump to conclusions please!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's amazing how many people think they know how the site should be run. Why aren't these people out there setting up their own much more successful sites, one wonders.

OP, you've been here 4 weeks and you are not representative of the wide range of people who use this site. What makes you think you know how the site should be run, when it's been thriving and successful for years?

I'm not photo verified. I have no intention of becoming photo verified, (for reasons I have given on other, similar threads). If the site were to insist on photo verification in order to be able to join or use it, I'd leave.

If you can explain how having members who actually do meet, some of which are site supporters, would benefit anyone, I'd love to hear it.

That's what you only know but I was on this site when it first started up way before you knew about it so don't jump to conclusions please!"

In which case you know exactly why your proposal would not benefit the site and may well harm it.

As already mentioned, your issue is that there is too much competition here for your liking.

It's moot anyway because the mods have stated admin have no intention of making photo verification mandatory.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

By the way OP, the tone of many of your other posts doesn't suggest you've a history on this site or a particularly good understanding of how it works or how to get the best from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am not photo verified and i can't see the significance in it really, never been an issue x

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Hows this for size then?

Only couples should be aload on a swingers site."

That's as ridiculous as the op's post

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one does not like the way this site is run then do us a favour and tell the mods rather than bug the rest of us users with attention seeking threads.

And if you don't like how mods run things then you do have the option to leave.

Who is to say that someone should be photo verified other than the owner of their individual profiles? We all have free will and have the right run our profiles as we see fit in our own interest, simple as.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By the way OP, the tone of many of your other posts doesn't suggest you've a history on this site or a particularly good understanding of how it works or how to get the best from it."

I don't think you do as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If one does not like the way this site is run then do us a favour and tell the mods rather than bug the rest of us users with attention seeking threads.

And if you don't like how mods run things then you do have the option to leave.

Who is to say that someone should be photo verified other than the owner of their individual profiles? We all have free will and have the right run our profiles as we see fit in our own interest, simple as."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"By the way OP, the tone of many of your other posts doesn't suggest you've a history on this site or a particularly good understanding of how it works or how to get the best from it.

I don't think you do as well "

'S funny, because it's not me constantly posting about how the site needs to be changed or how I dislike the people on the site or how little success I'm having.

Still, if it helps you to believe I'm not having a good time here then you go for it.

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

As I've taken to saying quite often lately to people and in particular new people ' if you don't like it,mind the door doesn't hit your arse on the way out' what about people who don't personally own a digital camera or camera phone. I'm real, I'm verified I've just not got around to photo verifying myself yet. I might do it, them again I might not. If someone chooses not to meet me because of that I won't lose any sleep over it. You have 2 choices open to you, live with it or leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does this work then ?

You - non verified - making up site rules that don't even apply to you.

I must stop feeding the tro...........

I must stop feeding the fucking tro........

I must stop.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a filter for that, just use it if you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a shit idea....my greatest meets have been from unverified members "

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

Ladies yes,

I thought most clubs welcomed single ladies on a Saturday night too, no?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Swinger Police are out in full force today I see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That's what you only know but I was on this site when it first started up way before you knew about it so don't jump to conclusions please!"

What, way back when you were about 12??

Besides, if you've been here that long I'd assume you would at least have figured out how to spot and filter out the idiots without moaning that the site doesn't do it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NUUURSE!! I think the patient next door is eating the yellow Crayons again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

"

Because if they didn't let singles in 6 out of 7 nights they'd go bankrupt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think only verified members should be able to message others what do you think? "

And without sending a message you get to meet how? You get your first verification how?

This idea seems a total non starter.... How did you get your first meet/verification without sending a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straw pole.

Look at 10 profiles and take an average on how many profiles say "no singles"

Stats speak for themselves!

Why are 99% of clubs on a saturday fir couples only?

"
.

and I think you might find they also allow single fems a lot of couples look for single fems and males

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