FabSwingers.com forum: age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have noticed a lot of age related things on here..I just read a profile that had in capitals 'NO OVER 40's! ..Without looking any further I quickly realised that this was a young couple who think that anyone 40 or over is either dead, close too death, or extremley wrinkled...Little do they realise that very soon, and a lot quicker than they think that they will be 40, think they still look fab and like I did think, 'ohh thanks' to you I am dead now!!! What are your thoughts on age and sex?????

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think about age when I'm having sex

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I have noticed a lot of age related things on here..I just read a profile that had in capitals 'NO OVER 40's! ..Without looking any further I quickly realised that this was a young couple who think that anyone 40 or over is either dead, close too death, or extremley wrinkled...Little do they realise that very soon, and a lot quicker than they think that they will be 40, think they still look fab and like I did think, 'ohh thanks' to you I am dead now!!! What are your thoughts on age and sex?????"

I 100% agree - not just because I am a tgirl either...

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

In think that people could be missing out on a lot of fun by excluding over 40s.

We don't all have one foot in the grave

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

when I was 25 I imagined that my sex life woudl be over by 40, now I'm 57 I know better of course

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!! "

Yup. That's a sad fact

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!! "

you're right my body isn't how it was when I was in my twenties or thirties, however it does what it should and no one has thrown a cloth over me when I've unveiled ......yet!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love the over 40's in my fab world...in my dating world I date younger

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Their choice. If I don't fit their preferences I don't think much about it at all. Plenty more fish in the sea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is nothing more than a number but obviously we have age restrictions on here due to the volume of message but if we are at a club we never ask age.

All depends on attraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!! "

mind you I have seen some pictures from the younger people on here that don't look great either

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

Oh I personally don't have a problem with the older lady, I actually find it appealing but some people just won't...

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By *iscomanMan
over a year ago

Solihull

What do people think of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's life in us old codgers yet.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have my own preferences with respect to age as well as other things. I've no right to criticise anyone else for the same.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh I personally don't have a problem with the older lady, I actually find it appealing but some people just won't...

but you said that older bodies don't look great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!! "

My body is better now than it was in my 20's and 30's, I was like a beanpole then and had no shape so what you say isnt always the case.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!!

mind you I have seen some pictures from the younger people on here that don't look great either"

I couldn't agree more! I have seen profiles of younger on here that don't look as good as us 50 something's!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!!

mind you I have seen some pictures from the younger people on here that don't look great either"

And I've seen some very, very hot people over 40. Some well over 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when I was 25 I imagined that my sex life woudl be over by 40, now I'm 57 I know better of course

absolutely this, 40 seems so old when you're in your 20's.

body wise I was thinner then but I have way more confidence now which I think is overall sexier.

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!!

My body is better now than it was in my 20's and 30's, I was like a beanpole then and had no shape so what you say isnt always the case."
I'm similar. I was ridiculously skinny when I was late teens/early twenties. I'm a much better shape now.

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

I was speaking generally, saggy bits, not so taut etc! Just a fact of life!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I was speaking generally, saggy bits, not so taut etc! Just a fact of life! "

. I'm genuinely surprised by how good a shape I'm in actually..I'm not Madonna but for someone who has lived a middling sort of life I'm not bad for an old bird. I'm afraid you're not helping your case by referring to saggy bits

PS I'm teasing you a bit I don know what you mean

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"when I was 25 I imagined that my sex life woudl be over by 40, now I'm 57 I know better of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old codger here with a fully working todger

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Old codger here with a fully working todger

old codger! That puts us in the geriatric league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Old codger here with a fully working todger

And nice coloured undercrackers lol

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's their choice. We wouldn't have wanted to play with people 40+ when we were in our 20's either so we totally understand it.

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I was speaking generally, saggy bits, not so taut etc! Just a fact of life!

PS I'm teasing you a bit I don know what you mean"

I thought you may be!

My comments are all a bit tongue in cheek but it is a reality we will all face at soon point!

Lots of sex keeps you toned though...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazingly when YOUNG single guys post threads about people not being interested they are lambasted by "I wouldnt shag someone my sons age" nonsense....

I say nonsense in the manner that on this scene i find many people attractive to have sex with...and have friendship..I may or may not have them fully in my life...just like they wouldnt me.

To me a 20 year old is pretty young..but then, they might be more mature than some of the 50 year olds...

some 50 years olds will give anyone younger a run for their money at being sexier/acting sexier

and of course taking it up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Old codger here with a fully working todger

old codger! That puts us in the geriatric league

Your pics show you are in a league of your own

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I do love meeting guys 20-25 - it's amazing how many who ping me here on Fab for Blackpool meets

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I was speaking generally, saggy bits, not so taut etc! Just a fact of life!

PS I'm teasing you a bit I don know what you mean

I thought you may be!

My comments are all a bit tongue in cheek but it is a reality we will all face at soon point!

Lots of sex keeps you toned though...!! "

Yes it is but the reality isn't as bad as you think

Lots of sex keeps you toned up? I wouldn't know

being too old

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Old codger here with a fully working todger

old codger! That puts us in the geriatric league

Your pics show you are in a league of your own

ta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed younger women recently upping their age range into the 50s. I think the word is out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"amazingly when YOUNG single guys post threads about people not being interested they are lambasted by "I wouldnt shag someone my sons age" nonsense....

I say nonsense in the manner that on this scene i find many people attractive to have sex with...and have friendship..I may or may not have them fully in my life...just like they wouldnt me.

To me a 20 year old is pretty young..but then, they might be more mature than some of the 50 year olds...

some 50 years olds will give anyone younger a run for their money at being sexier/acting sexier

and of course taking it up the arse"

As poetic as ever lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I've noticed younger women recently upping their age range into the 50s. I think the word is out

quite a few young men say that they like older women but I am a little wary as to their motives, I think they just want us for sex

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I was speaking generally, saggy bits, not so taut etc! Just a fact of life!

PS I'm teasing you a bit I don know what you mean

I thought you may be!

My comments are all a bit tongue in cheek but it is a reality we will all face at soon point!

Lots of sex keeps you toned though...!!

Yes it is but the reality isn't as bad as you think

Lots of sex keeps you toned up? I wouldn't know

being too old

Well if you need some help with a practical experiment then send me a telegram and I'll jump on my horse and cart and meet you...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Old codger here with a fully working todger

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hello old codger my names roger and you can see my todger at the mo ... twelve years older than yours ha ha .. and still repeating ... i can understand young flighty 50 year old babes thinking twice about such an old bloke wanting them .. but luckily some do lol

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

i dont blame younger peeps wanting to meet fab people around their own age....its quite natural.

find wonen your own age... lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I haven't had a mid life crisis yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I was speaking generally, saggy bits, not so taut etc! Just a fact of life!

PS I'm teasing you a bit I don know what you mean

I thought you may be!

My comments are all a bit tongue in cheek but it is a reality we will all face at soon point!

Lots of sex keeps you toned though...!!

Yes it is but the reality isn't as bad as you think

Lots of sex keeps you toned up? I wouldn't know

being too old

Well if you need some help with a practical experiment then send me a telegram and I'll jump on my horse and cart and meet you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

booking myself into the chapel of rest as I type

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I dont think you can infer much from people's stated limitations other than that outside of those they have no interest at present. They may vary this, but we can all thank others who are really clear on things, as this can stop us wasting our time, as well as their own. Sometimes we can become very exacting about what we want, knowing just what will work for us today. Maybe we are tired of certain activities, groups of people or want to explore something new - there is lots of choice for us all. That is even if we decide to stick with more of the same. I often do spring cleaning and move on from what is stale or no longer valid for me, feeling fresher and eager to explore. But it wont be nice for someone trying to push me, I move at my own pace, clearing a path that is right for me. Sex after getting to 100 must be possible, I am just not putting my mind there just now.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Age: a side dish of experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't make yourself want to fuck someone you don't fancy! I'm fussy myself when it comes to sex and age - too far in the old OR young direction doesn't do it for me!! I don't have an age restriction on my filters though, some old folk look younger and some young folk look older!!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"I've noticed younger women recently upping their age range into the 50s. I think the word is out

Point me at them and pass the sanatogen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really any different from us (generally not everyone) thinking most young people are too young. I personally don't want to shag an 18 year old for a variety of reasons which they might well believe unfair and they might be right.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"In think that people could be missing out on a lot of fun by excluding over 40s.

We don't all have one foot in the grave

Not really.

If someone's preference whilst under 40 is to meet other under 40's then I doubt they feel they're missing out.

No doubt as they age their choices will move in line with their own age.

The 'missing out' line usually gets quoted when someone is being excluded due to a preference. It's personal choice and something that like any other preference - sexuality, race, size - should simply be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person for me. Providing all's legal if alongside attraction the personality is one that's a pleasure to have fun with. Quite something spoiling a young lady or older lady that really does it for you sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt so good and I dunno about anyone else but this is the oldest I've ever been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Old codger here with a fully working todger

hello old codger my names roger and you can see my todger at the mo ... twelve years older than yours ha ha .. and still repeating ... i can understand young flighty 50 year old babes thinking twice about such an old bloke wanting them .. but luckily some do lol "

She did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone that replied to my post...Guess I am not as old as I think to some lol, but ancient to others still. oh well , life goes on for a little less time than those that think I am ancient lmao...

Ps, I am free, just thought I would add that in case Dickinson was after an antique !! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd you're hot, sexy, and legal, then it don't matter how old you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone that replied to my post...Guess I am not as old as I think to some lol, but ancient to others still. oh well , life goes on for a little less time than those that think I am ancient lmao...

Ps, I am free, just thought I would add that in case Dickinson was after an antique !! xx"

I'm 50 and wish my body looked like yours. Hair is great too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd prefer to meet people around my own age. I met a couple last year similar to me and their music was awesome (as was the sex lol). I don't bother contacting people outside my age range as a warning comes up. My age range is fixed. I'm flexible in many ways but when you read my profile (look at me!) you will see.

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

I dont mind older. I've met some real nice men in there 50's, prefer guys that have looked after themselves etc.

Like don't like:

big bellys

Bad B.O

Etc.

Met a guy who claims he's 40, but when I met him he looked around 55.

Rather someone was truthful about there age and bulid etc.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

I remember being in my early 20's or late teens even and thought any one over 40 were oldies probably because that was the age of my parents. Now in my 40's and the misses nearly the big 40 age does not bother either of usas long as there is an attraction. We have played with younger and we have played with older. And always have fun

With age comes great experience ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being over 40 and overweight I have to have sex with younger,fit men or nothing will happen. We cant both lay there like a sack of spuds. There are older exceptions of course,some 40+ men have given me a good workout. I do find in general that under 40s are more adventurous and active though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, it may just mean they are not interested in people over 40 because they don't fancy them or just plain aren't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their choice. If I don't fit their preferences I don't think much about it at all. Plenty more fish in the sea!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number we know some very old young people and some very young older people. As the saying goes you are only as old as the person you feel or as old as the person who feels you. As we are off to meet friends at chams I going to feel young again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 on Tuesday and not sure how I feel about that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their choice. If I don't fit their preferences I don't think much about it at all. Plenty more fish in the sea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40 on Tuesday and not sure how I feel about that x"

You should feel the same as you do today about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!!

Yup. That's a sad fact

No, its an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have age filters in place but have messaged guys over my preference who have caught my eye in the forums.

Also in a club situation you could be with people you would have filtered out age wise on here..

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

they might not make it to 40

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

and I don't meet anyone under 40 go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I don't meet anyone under 40 go figure

woohoo, two years away!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

to paraphrase joan collins ... if she dies .. she dies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not worried about others' preferences, not when I prefer my own peer group (ish).

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't think about age when I'm having sex

Haha, very good, me neither!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"It's quite simple though I'm afraid... bodies age and don't look as good for it!! "

I suppose that is a matter of opinion.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

At 53 the thought of sex with someone the same as my children is abhorrent to me. Also as a Domme, my playmates are a certain type...youngsters are not it.

I don't get my panties in a bunch if I'm excluded from people's play list: I don't expect to appeal to all. I concentrate on those seeking me not those that aren't!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Mine was over at 43 sex wise anyway.

its all down to preference,

I do find people automatically assume anything over 50 is toothless wrinkled wreck. They watch too much Jeremy Kyle.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"In think that people could be missing out on a lot of fun by excluding over 40s.

We don't all have one foot in the grave

You could say that about anything though. People need to get over themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger people not wanting to meet people old enough to be their parents is surely no different from all the parents who don't want to meet people young enough to be their children - its still just a preference.

I'm older than I've ever been, bigger than I've ever been, more confident than I've ever been and having the best sex I have ever had (with people of widely varying ages) and long may it continue!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have my own preferences with respect to age as well as other things. I've no right to criticise anyone else for the same."

Simply: this!

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