FabSwingers.com forum: Freaked out!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I have had that once or twice....

I have also recognised a couple and the female half of a couple while out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have any Distinguishing marks..Apart from the obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

If it was the dress in your avatar I can see why he remembered you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have any Distinguishing marks..Apart from the obvious

Oh those are covered during the working week lol

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

then message him back with the answer NO you must be mistaken

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've recognised people several times when we're out but we would never send such a message, apart from being creepy especially to a single woman it's indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

If it was the dress in your avatar I can see why he remembered you

Not that red dress lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

Maybe you could have chatted to him under a different profile name or through another site.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'd be freaked too

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By *WStockingtopsCouple
over a year ago

bristol

When we first came here we had a pm " Do you work for ********"

Turned out the fella used to work at the same company

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"then message him back with the answer NO you must be mistaken

This is a good idea and also block him.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Some people just don't understand the concept of discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy off here saw me in town the other day, didn't bloody come say hello though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then message him back with the answer NO you must be mistaken

This is a good idea and also block him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had some guy message us and tell us where we lived the other week.

this is the reason we dont do anything with local blokes

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

I was spotted on my road the other day. He even knew my address. Very scary till i realised i knew his mum .

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

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shit! Propa creepy stuff

these kinda people are unhinged... Get off on "the power" they try to get over others ... Total brain fucks!.... Ps ... Would freak me too

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"then message him back with the answer NO you must be mistaken

This is a good idea and also block him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been recognised a couple of times and once the male half of a couple came to where I work trying to chat to me about fab ( also telling me not to say anything to his partner about it on fab) seriously some people just don't get it do they !

Ann

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id hope that most men wouldnt do that to a single women especially , maybe he meant no harm but it would unsettle me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It would seem a lots of folk try that one. We had one message us on fab saying you live not that far away from me. Needless to say blocked. We thought he was very creepy. Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've recognised people several times when we're out but we would never send such a message, apart from being creepy especially to a single woman it's indiscreet."

Creepy in the extreme, and Bee has had it done to her.

I have recognised women from here before, but its just not on to message them to say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then message him back with the answer NO you must be mistaken

This is a good idea and also block him.

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I would not block him. That will confirm thst it was you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then message him back with the answer NO you must be mistaken

This is a good idea and also block him.

I would not block him. That will confirm thst it was you "

no would just confirm that he shouldnt send creepy messages to fems

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I used to have a guy message me telling me what i was wearing on a daily basis when i lived at a previous address...I blocked him...It was freaky. I then had my number given out to random people by a person no longer on this site...had to get police involved....Funny thing is police came out while i was setting up for a swingers party lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"We've recognised people several times when we're out but we would never send such a message, apart from being creepy especially to a single woman it's indiscreet."

^^^^^This! The idiot obviously didn't think how disconcerting that could be: honestly!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I'd be freaked too

I'd be EXTREMELY freaked out if I was in drab mode at the time.

I've been recognised in glam mode in no end of pubs and clubs when I've been out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a message saying next time I see you at school I'll say hi shall I. It seems that somebody on our friends list had left their profile open when they'd both met a single fem and the guy saw our pics!!

Wasn't best pleased as we're always so careful not to play to near home, and only friends have our pics. We put a cryptic message on hoping someone would own up, but of course nobody did, but a short time later we basically guessed who it was. (They're now not on our friends list).

Horrible feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You often have face pics up you are very distinguishable so if that's the first time you been recognised I am surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got followed round the range lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

Your face pic is on your profile though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

Your face pic is on your profile though

Only just put that on and his blocked now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

Your face pic is on your profile though

Only just put that on and his blocked now. "

Ah ok. Thought you might not have realised

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Message from a single guy

Where you walking along 'named road ' yesterday at 'named time ' wearing a red dress ?

Yikes yes !

He hasn't even seen my face pics

Your face pic is on your profile though

Only just put that on and his blocked now.

Ah ok. Thought you might not have realised

Thanks. Also didn't realise that it wasn't set to friends only. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this miles away from home ... mail saying i see you in the pub having a meal . And see you in tescos . lol all sorts .

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you have face pics on your profile people might recognise you 'in real life'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

I wonder how many friends you'll lose from here confessing to doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

And to think I had you on my FANTASY FAB FUCK list! What was I thinking????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

I wonder how many friends you'll lose from here confessing to doing this "

Probably none. His friends will know he was just taking the piss.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

I wonder how many friends you'll lose from here confessing to doing this

Probably none. His friends will know he was just taking the piss."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was probably thinking, by asking her she will say yes to an easy shag lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So if you have face pics on your profile people might recognise you 'in real life'?"

Lol....who'd have thought!

We recognised a lady walking very demurely along a most respectable and staid seafront from a picture we'd seen of her bent naked over a sofa looking back at the camera...when I say we I mean Mr N who waited until we were a discreet distance away before pointing her out, we smiled to ourselves and carried on with our lives neither of us woudl have dreamed of messaging her and saying we'd seen her though.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i would mind being recognised .. i dont think a lady messaging me would freak me out .. as i get everywhere with my job .. but i can see how creepy it would be to do the same to a lady walking near her home .. not clever or funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least the sender,if they are on here,now know it was you.

Sometimes its better to be as discrete as you wish they were.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well at least the sender,if they are on here,now know it was you.

Sometimes its better to be as discrete as you wish they were.

You're right! I hadn't thought of that

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

And to think I had you on my FANTASY FAB FUCK list! What was I thinking????

Good...one less competition

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We had a mail once saying I was in the local newsagent that day and what I bought in it.

So it seems the man had seen me on cam in the chat room the day before so recognised me.

I didn't find it creepy or lacking discretion by him mailing to say hi.

Now if he had said while I was in the shop " hello, I saw you on cam in the chat room of a swinging site yesterday" then I would have said he wasn't discreet and if he had followed me wherever I went that day I would have said it was creepy.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I do this shit a lot.

If you send out enough messages with enough scenarios to enough people (around 1000 a day) you hit a home run occasionally. That utter fear and panic from the reader is worth all the hard work.

And to think I had you on my FANTASY FAB FUCK list! What was I thinking????

Good...one less competition

Ohhh I like watching Miss_tress flirting with Funky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the way they go about it. There's a guy on here who has seen me a couple of times and was checking me out in RL, he sent a message on here just to say Hello and that I looked nice.

I didn't find it creepy though as I'd seen him looking at me a few times while out and about (he was working at the time so riskier for him) I thought it was nice to find out who the mystery man was x

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By *hameleons69Woman
over a year ago

good ship lollipop

"had some guy message us and tell us where we lived the other week.

this is the reason we don't do anything with local blokes

... And also the reason why we don't accommodate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to say, we were sat in a local pub and im sure i saw the female half of a couple from off here look in through the window, then pop into a shop across the way, and i was umming and ahhing whether or not to message them and see if they were around that evening.

thankfully i didnt lol

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We were recognised while playing on cam business one that had worked on our house and they only named us and practically gave out our address ha ha. Never been on cam since. We also saw a couple at a do with some if the kids the other week. Don't think they recognised us but we kept away. Also saw the same female working in a shop in town when passing. Would have love to pop in and just say FAB day ha ha

When some one messages you like that

Deny deny deny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A local man on here messages me the other week to say he thought he'd seen me in Morrisons. When I told him he should have said hi seeing as I was alone, he said he couldn't be 100% sure it was me as my legs were hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've only recognised one person off here in two life. Was in a bar though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people really have no idea about respect.

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