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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was weird, my status says I am going to the Chester social this evening, just a statement is all. I have had a couple of mails since i posted it from blokes I have had no contact with ever saying sorry they can't make it tonight. Am I missing something? Seriously? Or are they like those people who think that soap characters are talking to them personally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they too were meaning the social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your status asks whos going so it's a question not a statement... I guess that's exactly what they are relying to

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury


"Also your status asks whos going so it's a question not a statement... I guess that's exactly what they are relying to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*replying lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

They are probably answering your question on the status.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

doesnt seem odd to me ...you asked a question and they answered it

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Or it could be they're pushing their luck. Bit like the guys you have said no thanks to a year ago but then message with 'hi long time since we spoke' as if you had some kind of connection with them.

I being too cynical?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I am missing something then? That's why I asked. Assumed a status was just that, how I'm feeling etc. thought meets were posted in the meets section. You know it has never occurred to me to answer personally any of the statuses that come up on my newsfeed because I assumed they were just broadcasting to the ether. So when someone posts "who wants to suck my fat cock." It is only courteous that I should send them a mail?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If someone had mailed you saying " I saw your question on your status...I am going to the chester social too " would that have been ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks its pretty common to get messages responding to status's on here,sometimes I reply and sometimes I don't

Some people see it as a conversation starter,its not peculiar behaviour

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


" So when someone posts "who wants to suck my fat cock." It is only courteous that I should send them a mail?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thinks its pretty common to get messages responding to status's on here,sometimes I reply and sometimes I don't

Some people see it as a conversation starter,its not peculiar behaviour"

This

Although in this case it could be guys just using it as an opportunity to message you. It maybe in the hope that it will start a conversation. Not necessarily an effective tactic in this instance but a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone had mailed you saying " I saw your question on your status...I am going to the chester social too " would that have been ok?"

Probably yes because they are expressing something they have in common with me, they are going too. It was the phrasing as if I had sent them a personal message asking if they in particular were going and that they should let me know if they weren't so that I wasn't disappointed when they didn't turn up.

Made me think in general about statuses. If they ask a question, e.g. Who wants to suck their cock then we should only reply to them if in the affirmative? No point in getting hundreds of emails saying no thanks. But presumably if someone sees status and thinks they fancy some of the then there is a good reason to mail and and say "hell, yeah".

Hmmmmm shall be more careful what I post in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to the social either as you asked but have a lovely time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not going to the social either as you asked but have a lovely time."

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I thinks its pretty common to get messages responding to status's on here,sometimes I reply and sometimes I don't

Some people see it as a conversation starter,its not peculiar behaviour"

This

I have sent a few messages purely due to someone's status update. Some I have spoken to previously but not always.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OMG, I changed my status to ask for volunteer nipple suckers, ten minutes it was there barely and my inbox is bursting. And I seriously nought that no one ever read the statuses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why post a question in your status then complain when it is answered? I'm obviously missing something.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"OMG, I changed my status to ask for volunteer nipple suckers, ten minutes it was there barely and my inbox is bursting. And I seriously nought that no one ever read the statuses! "

You're funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG, I changed my status to ask for volunteer nipple suckers, ten minutes it was there barely and my inbox is bursting. And I seriously nought that no one ever read the statuses! "

In the interest of science, I'll change mine to say the same thing and report back in 10 minutes with the results.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why post a question in your status then complain when it is answered? I'm obviously missing something."

Yeah you are, never mind though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thinks its pretty common to get messages responding to status's on here,sometimes I reply and sometimes I don't

Some people see it as a conversation starter,its not peculiar behaviour"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why post a question in your status then complain when it is answered? I'm obviously missing something.

Yeah you are, never mind though"

Dont think so, but never mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We respond to status updates quite a bit and get messages in direct respond to our status.

Can be quite amusing when OH has updated status and I've not notice and messages come through relating to it.

Not a biggie or necessarily people chancing their arm, just how a lot of us communicate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG, I changed my status to ask for volunteer nipple suckers, ten minutes it was there barely and my inbox is bursting. And I seriously nought that no one ever read the statuses!

In the interest of science, I'll change mine to say the same thing and report back in 10 minutes with the results."

Yes please, but plural, you can't do one and leave the other out.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

most post status's for a reaction.....

you got one

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

or statuses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"or statuses "

Or is it statii?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"or statuses

Or is it statii?"

no clue..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well 10 minutes is up and not a even a sniff.


"Yes please, but plural, you can't do one and leave the other out."

I wouldn't even consider leaving one out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We respond to status updates quite a bit and get messages in direct respond to our status.

Can be quite amusing when OH has updated status and I've not notice and messages come through relating to it.

Not a biggie or necessarily people chancing their arm, just how a lot of us communicate."

That's why I asked the question. Being fairly new I didn't know what importance was attached to a status. Never had much response before to statuses but then is usually boring stuff like what should I have for lunch and bugger me, my arse is itchy today, neither of which are big crowd pullers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well 10 minutes is up and not a even a sniff.

Yes please, but plural, you can't do one and leave the other out.

I wouldn't even consider leaving one out. "

Good, a man should appreciate good nipple etiquette. Don't want to make one of my tits angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good, a man should appreciate good nipple etiquette. Don't want to make one of my tits angry."

Will it turn green?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good, a man should appreciate good nipple etiquette. Don't want to make one of my tits angry.

Will it turn green? "

You took the words right out of my dirty mouth.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"If someone had mailed you saying " I saw your question on your status...I am going to the chester social too " would that have been ok?

Probably yes because they are expressing something they have in common with me, they are going too. It was the phrasing as if I had sent them a personal message asking if they in particular were going and that they should let me know if they weren't so that I wasn't disappointed when they didn't turn up.

Made me think in general about statuses. If they ask a question, e.g. Who wants to suck their cock then we should only reply to them if in the affirmative? No point in getting hundreds of emails saying no thanks. But presumably if someone sees status and thinks they fancy some of the then there is a good reason to mail and and say "hell, yeah".

Hmmmmm shall be more careful what I post in future "

Yes I get what you mean now....the men who mailed you were probably just using your status as an opportunity to get into your mailbox.

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