FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guys looking....

By *homasP80 OP Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Hi everyone. Been on FAB for a while, but I've had messages quite often from "straight" men (not that I'm complaining, and i am happy to meet up).

I find that a bit misleading, or are you guys just wanting a BJ (which is fine also).

Just trying to point out why not even put/update that your curious or bi.

Happy to meet up with straight guys from glasgow/Paisley/Johnstone areas

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone. Been on FAB for a while, but I've had messages quite often from "straight" men (not that I'm complaining, and i am happy to meet up).

I find that a bit misleading, or are you guys just wanting a BJ (which is fine also).

Just trying to point out why not even put/update that your curious or bi.

Happy to meet up with straight guys from glasgow/Paisley/Johnstone areas

I get a lot of straight blokes looking. Most, I presume are checking out the local competition like taking a peek while standing at the urinal. Some will offer a blowjob. I'm the same as you and would prefer to see some honesty in the profiles.

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think the core of the issue is that guys having sex with guys is taboo for some couples, so any hint of them being bi in their profiles would rule out mmf or any other permutation. So, if they're predominantly into women, they retain a 'straight' label, to ensure that they still get that major need satisfied, although with some potential deception.

The other thing to consider is that some people occasionally think about trying something out - they often don't go through with it, either the fancy passes, they bottle out etc.

As long as you ensure you're clear on who you'll meet, then you can stay focused on that, and not be led off course. Perhaps be explicit on your profile about such things - though often people may ignore that, or not see it. I just accept people as they are, and whilst I may be curious why someone's doing something, other's hangups are their issue, I just find the sex that works for me.