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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I posted a while ago that my daughter had a few detentions and a few problems at school, well yesterday I received a phone call from my ex screaming and shouting swearing ( she d lost the plot) about the trouble she was having with my ( her word) our daughter misbehaving I don t know what started it I m an outsider looking in after the event apparently the mum has smashed the kids tv and mygirl is now at the grandparents staying over last night ,, so I m not feeling too chipper words of wisdom appreciated pictures of boobs will help jokes might, piss taking remarks no ta,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sounds like you got the raw end of the deal. Is the school doing anything to help your daughter ? It does sound like everyone needed some space to cool down. Staying with her parents sounds like a safe environment for your daughter.

We all have rows though & mothers & daughters can be a lethal combination with all those hormones flying around.

Does your daughter's school have a Pastoral Care policy & does she have someone to talk to?

Just being there , when she needs you. That's what a child wants & needs. Just to listen.

Hopefully it will all settle down soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* meant grandparents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you all need some space and you need some help . Maybe get together with ex and chat and see how you can all go forward and help your girl ...... Hormones and stress can trigger things you maybe need to all look at the bigger pic and get some help and just being open and chatting will help, If theres no place to go call the Samaritans as They know who to go to . Your not alone theres help out there . x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can't advise on kids but I'm sending virtual hugs.

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I ve a meeting with the school early next week, The ex's mother has rung mme apparently ex has gone ap e again ethis morning shouting screaming at her mother she won t be seeing the kids again, Don t know what kicked that off I d sppoken to my girll and she was good,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iona Skye mentioned pastoral care at school. My teenage daughter has had problems with being bullied at school recently and the pastoral care system (and staff) have been brilliant. They're unbiased, trained, totally confidential and have a wealth of experience. If you and the ex haven't already done so do consider talking to them.

Single parenting, whichever parent you are, is so difficult especially during teen years. If you (and the ex) can try to bite your tongue and get on the same side to deal with the problem together. Less stressful for you and hopefully more beneficial for your daughter too.

Meanwhile I can offer a virtual hug. Won't help a great deal, but you're not alone with having a troubled teen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"apparently the mum has smashed the kids tv "

You're the better parent by the sounds of it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Is it possible to meet your daughter and take her out for tea and have a chat with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't offer any support other than a virtual hug and a tit wank. ? Xx

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

ive three daughters all clash with there mother and if your not there everything will be your fault chin up try having a word with your daughter and shes probably better at her gran parents till it blows over but it will be back

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Yep I can imagine the problems a single parent has. I have the girls once a fortnight so I Don t get the grief 24/7, I was the discipline when we lived together I started early with the consistent message my ex took an easy path,. I remember what I was like And the strieff I caused my mother and father not easy,,,

I ve tried ringing my girls mobile to go and see herunfortunately it goes straight to her answering service I rang her on the grandparents landline this morning,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she may be having a breakdown?

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