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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I was down my mums and a bloke text me a pic of his cock of course my mum was curious and I just said it was nothing and text him to say chat later

then I get id like to stab your pussy with my cock at which point I asked hm to stop texting why don't some men listen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obv he thinks with his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe give more thought to who you give your number to?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

A seperate play phone and clear communication of what you both expect/don't expect are both options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and your texts. Turn it off whilst you're at yer mums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe give more thought to who you give your number to?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only there was a way to stop receiving messages when it's not convenient to talk. Hmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A seperate play phone and clear communication of what you both expect/don't expect are both options."

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I had the same problem once.... I now only give my number to people with ESP.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Maybe give more thought to who you give your number to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only there was a way to stop receiving messages when it's not convenient to talk. Hmmm..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol stab your pussy with my cock

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

cant turn my fone off in case my daughter phones me

he had the number ages ago

I don't give my number as much as I used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup cock head, can't see past it, his hornyness has taken over.

if someone says chat later, I always assume they're busy and give then space.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Lol stab your pussy with my cock "

its a new introduction didn't you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol stab your pussy with my cock "

That's a pretty crass line! I wouldn't be impressed if someone sent that to me. Just my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love how it is all the man's fault. While not condoning his actions, where is the personal responsibility?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hardly give out my number why not use kik?? Or other messaging sites....

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Maybe give more thought to who you give your number to?"

Could you be any more patronising?

Why blame the person who gives their number out? It's the guy here who couldn't listen and respect wishes. This sounds like the advice given when women get assaulted - 'Oh, maybe give more thought to what you wear?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your phone won't self destruct if you don't answer a text straight away you know

Gotta laugh at the pussy stabbing text though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mayb tell u mom to mind her own!! My parents would never ask who was texting me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is anyone can message anything at anytime...which is the joy of text!!

depends on your phone but if I'm at my mums and get a text I look to see who it's from before opening it.

Actually I tend to use whatsapp for that kind of messaging and keep my iMessage for family & friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe give more thought to who you give your number to?

Could you be any more patronising?

Why blame the person who gives their number out? It's the guy here who couldn't listen and respect wishes. This sounds like the advice given when women get assaulted - 'Oh, maybe give more thought to what you wear?'

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Believe me I can get way more patronising.

And it's not the same thing at all. And trivialising rape and sexual assault is really not convincing me that I'm wrong in thinking that anyone that gives their primary phone number out willy-nilly to random horny men on a swinging site has to take some responsibilty for their actions.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I kinda don't get someone being curious about a person receiving a text as it's such an everyday thing...when I'm in company I'll either ignore my phone or possibly glance at at it - whether a text from a Fab friend, colleague or mate I wouldn't bother responding 'til later as I consider it impolite to chat by text when in company unless absolutely necessary...if I then received others from same person I'd knock my phone off. The point of mobiles is to receive calls and/or texts when mobile - if that's inconvenient then drop the phone down a drain.

OP - ideal response if anyone asks - "Bloody PPI twonks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thetalkingsteve i think you stepped over the line there comparing a guy who sends a couple of inappropriate texts at a bad tim e to sexual assualt. Yes the guy clearly didnt understand the situation but unless the OP said she was at her mothers etc in her reply to him i cant say im surprised, i have sent texts at the wrong time before and misread the replies. We dont know his side of the story ... yes he should have stopped texting ... and yes the OP could have possibly blocked the number if able but comparing this to sexual assualt is stupid, Im thinking if it had been the other way round (something which I have also had) ie a woman txting a guy at the wrong time etc would you have made the same comment. No I'm Doubting you would.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I kinda don't get someone being curious about a person receiving a text as it's such an everyday thing...when I'm in company I'll either ignore my phone or possibly glance at at it - whether a text from a Fab friend, colleague or mate I wouldn't bother responding 'til later as I consider it impolite to chat by text when in company unless absolutely necessary...if I then received others from same person I'd knock my phone off. The point of mobiles is to receive calls and/or texts when mobile - if that's inconvenient then drop the phone down a drain.

OP - ideal response if anyone asks - "Bloody PPI twonks" "

Totally agree with this! I am careful who gets my number, but they are also made aware of when I can't text back! So I will respond at a time when convenient for me

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

...To be fair, "chat later" isn't exactly a clear cut "CAN'T talk right now. Please stop texting me".

People will interpret it differently and a male who's big head is currently losing the war for blood against his little head may have seen your response as being interested and wanting to talk about it specifically later...

I know it may sound stupid but some people need to be spoon-fed when it comes to these sort of things if you honestly can't just ignore your phone at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a seperate phone for anyone that I give my number too... Which is not many and then they only get if we've met!

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I used to give my number to anyone he had it ages ago I don't tend to give it out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have to be firmer with your expectations. If you don't want men texting then dont give your number out.

Two men that you've spoken about within the last week or so have text you and would not take heed when you informed them not to. I would say take care in what men you are choosing. There are many respectful men on this site who wouldn't dream of harassing.

There are some men who won't care if your sat with the pope, if they want to talk dirty and get their rocks off they will. You don't have to indulge them so tell them firmly.

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"Your phone won't self destruct if you don't answer a text straight away you know

Gotta laugh at the pussy stabbing text though "

That made me lol. Peeps do seem to forget it's not absolutely life threatening not to read/reply immediately

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"cant turn my fone off in case my daughter phones me

he had the number ages ago

I don't give my number as much as I used to "

I can block numbers on my phone including texts, not just calls.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"cant turn my fone off in case my daughter phones me

he had the number ages ago

I don't give my number as much as I used to

I can block numbers on my phone including texts, not just calls. "

my fone is ancient

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