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By *imjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

A lady friend who we play with on a regular basis said some couples she was with at a party said our profile scared them, we said we can't help what we look like & she said no it was the naughty pics that were off putting to these couples.

We have removed all the naughty pics & left just page 3 type pics which are less offensive, please have a look guys to see if its "scarey" & if it is what to change.

We meet quite a few couples/single ladies & it might be that these couples were newbies, we had never had this said or remarked on before so we thought we would change bits anyway.

We expect all sorts of comments so fire away lol!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If someone finds your photos scary do you think they are likely to be compatible with you sexually? I'd be doubtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone finds your photos scary do you think they are likely to be compatible with you sexually? I'd be doubtful."

Yes thats very true, i like your pics think they are good.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Speaking only for myself I find your profile one of the better ones on here, you say exactly what you want and what you don't want and I have never found your pictures off putting, in fact I like to see them because you are so clearly genuinely enjoying what you're doing.

Don't change to suit anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave your pics as you like them, whatever feels right for you.

Ours are a bit in your face sexually but that's pretty accurate to what we are in real life sexually.

Had plenty of sniping because of it but dont give a hoot.

If someone is scared of your profile they're probably not for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't look scary to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite a few people dont like mine but quite a few do though.

why change your profile just for one person when you dont have any trouble getting meets.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like your profile and pics. I like action pics too though, preferably group sex ones that's just me though.

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By *imjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

It was the pics of orgies, groups, cum shots, hardcore ones that worried them. We only put them on to show what we like, our limits etc.

They thought we were to hardcore making us unapproachable to them etc.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven


"It was the pics of orgies, groups, cum shots, hardcore ones that worried them. We only put them on to show what we like, our limits etc.

They thought we were to hardcore making us unapproachable to them etc.

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That wouldn't make us scared, but would make us less interested.

Each to their own,

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By *imjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"quite a few people dont like mine but quite a few do though.

why change your profile just for one person when you dont have any trouble getting meets."

We have had trouble meeting people but on the other hand we don't want to scare people either, this was 6 couples she was talking to not one.

Obviously we can't change how we look but we can look less hardcore to the soft swingers & newbies.

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By *imjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"It was the pics of orgies, groups, cum shots, hardcore ones that worried them. We only put them on to show what we like, our limits etc.

They thought we were to hardcore making us unapproachable to them etc.

That wouldn't make us scared, but would make us less interested.

Each to their own,"

this what we thought lol!

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

Looks fine to me. I cant see the private pics but cant imagine they would be scary.

just dont turn round too quick just in case you lose your balance or knock someone out with those tremendously yummy boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine my profile picture alone would scare off quite a few.

You cannot appeal to the masses so my advice is put on pictures that you personally like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like attracts like. A profile should reflect what you like. I couldn't give a toss what people think about ours - it works for us and that's all that matters. There's no chance we'd ever change it to pander to other's preferences and hopefully get a meet.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Like attracts like. A profile should reflect what you like. I couldn't give a toss what people think about ours - it works for us and that's all that matters. There's no chance we'd ever change it to pander to other's preferences and hopefully get a meet. "

+1

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By *imjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Like attracts like. A profile should reflect what you like. I couldn't give a toss what people think about ours - it works for us and that's all that matters. There's no chance we'd ever change it to pander to other's preferences and hopefully get a meet. "

We have no problem meeting but we don't want to scare people either, because we portray our pics as we would for adult industry friends we forget pics of a 12 person orgy will frighten the shit out of some who have just started swinging.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like your profile and even with the pics you have got private, I can see no reason for someone to be nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like attracts like. A profile should reflect what you like. I couldn't give a toss what people think about ours - it works for us and that's all that matters. There's no chance we'd ever change it to pander to other's preferences and hopefully get a meet.

We have no problem meeting but we don't want to scare people either, because we portray our pics as we would for adult industry friends we forget pics of a 12 person orgy will frighten the shit out of some who have just started swinging.

"

I never said that you had a problem meeting... But I fail to see why there is a need to make your profile appealing to everyone? It seems a bit needy to me. Surely people that are intimidated by pictures of 12 people orgy's are unlikely to want to meet you. Not because you or your pictures are scary but because that's not what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That shirt scares me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like attracts like. A profile should reflect what you like. I couldn't give a toss what people think about ours - it works for us and that's all that matters. There's no chance we'd ever change it to pander to other's preferences and hopefully get a meet.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like attracts like. A profile should reflect what you like. I couldn't give a toss what people think about ours - it works for us and that's all that matters. There's no chance we'd ever change it to pander to other's preferences and hopefully get a meet.

We have no problem meeting but we don't want to scare people either, because we portray our pics as we would for adult industry friends we forget pics of a 12 person orgy will frighten the shit out of some who have just started swinging.

I never said that you had a problem meeting... But I fail to see why there is a need to make your profile appealing to everyone? It seems a bit needy to me. Surely people that are intimidated by pictures of 12 people orgy's are unlikely to want to meet you. Not because you or your pictures are scary but because that's not what they are looking for"

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By *imjohn OP   Couple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Thanks guys for the feedback much appreciated, we had already taken off all the hardcore pics but its nice to get other peoples views anyway.

Happy Swinging guys xx

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