FabSwingers.com forum: no sex in 11 months

By *ig jugs OP Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

I havent had sex in 11 months due to having 3 ajor surgeries, and 2 bouts of scepticemia which resulted in very long stays in hospital.I often get asked why I am sill on here lol.What is the longest anyone has gone without sex .Did it make you loose your sex drive too? xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

12 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months until I practically forced myself on my husband. I gave up after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 hours

Yes Im boasting and bragging

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"12 months

Oh and before I first had sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After bragging - a year and a bit

Totally self imposed celibacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 years.

I'm on my 14th month now though.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

One whole day for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 4 years after my divorce until I realised I was going to wither away before my time and decided to get back at it so to speak......gotta say, best decision of my life, beaten only by my decision to divorce

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"12 months

you beat me by 11 months and 28 days lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

2 years, whilst splitting from my ex but still lived together

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Not had any this year, and to be honest, I ain't bovvered.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I havent had sex in 11 months due to having 3 ajor surgeries, and 2 bouts of scepticemia which resulted in very long stays in hospital.I often get asked why I am sill on here lol.What is the longest anyone has gone without sex .Did it make you loose your sex drive too? xx"

Between my divorce and nursing my dying mum - 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the first 20ish years, about a couple of months.

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'm a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years but once i stated again i was insatiable. still trying to make up for the lost time lol

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I had my first shag in 2014 yesterday. Biys of me ache. Think I need to practise more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half hour

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Nearly 3 years, I think.

I stopped counting after a while.

The longer I go without, the easier it gets. And the harder it is to actually do it again.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

None for the last 5 years of my marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a virgin

I think someone is telling porkies!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm 5 months?

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

5/6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 years.

I'm on my 14th month now though.

I was looking for a pity shag but that back fired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years for me....2001 till 2011.

hence the monk nick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months currently........ Lol

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

10 years because I lost my sex drive. It comes and goes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year for me and counting. Separation and soon to be divorce does that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to have to do 6 months at a time for work and then about 10/11 months after that, after the first couple of months its actually pretty easy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months currently.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

8 months.... while living with my ex...

Nowadays I get tetchy if it gets to 4 days lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Six years towards the end of my marriage, then it was probably a year after we split that I found a guy I wanted to have sex with as I thought I might be totally rubbish in bed, so 7 years for me, trying to make up for it now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ouch ladies that quite while not getting any, don't think anything could take away my sex drive, practically insatiable lol.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No wonder there's so many narks :P

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

13 years living with a abusive partner

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

2 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 months gulp how did I survive that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a virgin

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years for me just went off everyone needed a break and to just look after me for a while so I did it came back with avengence though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I thought that was a question saying the longest you've lasted... Awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 4 years i guess - end of marriage and after til a friend had words lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had sex since last September and im on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nearly 3 years, I think.

I stopped counting after a while.

The longer I go without, the easier it gets. And the harder it is to actually do it again."

Well it was 12 years

in a straight run, then after that it was

just over 6 years, and now its 2 years 4

months and its 20 years since unloading

at all thats what happens when you get

long spells without, thank god we have alternative ways...

Can,t imagine not haveing that after 40 years on a regular basis along with a few sex

aids along the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 months. Practically all of last year, post break up and being unsure of myself but broke that with pleasure!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls"

Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

3 years after my marriage broke up, made up for it ever since !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest for me is 2 months and no I didnt lose the sex drive as I was wanking in the mean time lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah think my longest has been the same, men just wank religiously lol keeps them horny as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went without for a year back on form again now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2months but only coz I was in and out of hospital with leg nd ankle ops. That was last year tho. In more recent terms it's about a week the longest....having a regular fb for past 5months has And is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 16 years. But after I lost my virginity about two months.

Previous posters have a good point about most women going far longer without than most men, as is borne out by the answers given.

Women find it a lot harder than men to have sex without the whole range of emotions and issues having to be spot on beforehand, as natural born multi-taskers if other things are on their minds its pretty tricky for them to even want it.

Whereas blokes find it easier to switch off the rest of the world and concentrate on the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah mine was about a year without sex when my ex just point blank refused to sleep with me. I went off it too.

It is all fine now. I have sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 months here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way near that long I would say 3 months at a guess but if I had had all you have had sex wouldn't be a huge priority. Sex is great but walking talking and living life is far more rewarding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah mine was about a year without sex when my ex just point blank refused to sleep with me. I went off it too.

It is all fine now. I have sam

I take it he became an ex due to his being such an noticeable fool?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months until I practically forced myself on my husband. I gave up after that "

21 months I'm still frustrated

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

4.5 years post divorce plus was ill. Stupid d*unken work do thing. Then 6 yrs till I started down swinging route. This suits me for now as I don't want a relationship got other stuff going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 horrid years, ... Most recently, well now on my 4th week... No natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 14 months. Hope your feeling better now after your terrible time with illnesses x

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

About 3-4 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls

Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined. "

Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months..until last week

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls

Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.

Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun"

I didn't say I was emotional. I merely pointed out that people go through emotional stuff and so sex is often not important at those times.

And the put down wasn't necessary.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

the last 4 months, for it not that i dont want it , i just cant be arsed

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Didnt know you new my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lucky Guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 11 years without sex when a relationship went tits up...i just stepped away from men and didnt even use toys...nothing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls

Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.

Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun

I didn't say I was emotional. I merely pointed out that people go through emotional stuff and so sex is often not important at those times.

And the put down wasn't necessary. "

I'm sorry I have offended you really wasn't ment in that way I've never bin emotionally hurt so I wasn't aware of the different effects it has on people I feel bad now ..

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Four years about twenty four years ago. Happy to say I've never been out of the saddle since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men need to have sex at least once a week or there balls get bigger and bigger and eventually explode, showering everybody within a 50' radius in jizz and bits of bollock.

I was it on the web so it must be true

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

as my ex wanted sex all the time ,he never went without ,even had sex with me whilst he was on/off with the woman he left me for.

so now been able to go without if i want to is great ,its currently about 2 months x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you aint bothered why you on here then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men need to have sex at least once a week or there balls get bigger and bigger and eventually explode, showering everybody within a 50' radius in jizz and bits of bollock.

I was it on the web so it must be true

I've just discovered that diet really stings when it goes up your nose and into your eyes.

Mercy bucket deepest blue for causing an unintended and unattractive snort, mercy bucket!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"If you aint bothered why you on here then lol"

I came for the sex, but stayed for the community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 month is the longest I have gone since I lost my virginity 12 years ago or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few days. Before then, two years. You'd think that would have eased the tension a bit. No. Coupled with quitting smoking, I feel like I'm taking viagra for breakfast every day...

Oh look, I'm on Fabswingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men need to have sex at least once a week or there balls get bigger and bigger and eventually explode, showering everybody within a 50' radius in jizz and bits of bollock.

I was it on the web so it must be true

I've just discovered that diet really stings when it goes up your nose and into your eyes.

Mercy bucket deepest blue for causing an unintended and unattractive snort, mercy bucket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some dry spells of nigh on 12 months at a time whilst married, now I'm not it is a month max, I'm a real grumpy bastard when I don't get any lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls

Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.

Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun

I didn't say I was emotional. I merely pointed out that people go through emotional stuff and so sex is often not important at those times.

And the put down wasn't necessary.

I'm sorry I have offended you really wasn't ment in that way I've never bin emotionally hurt so I wasn't aware of the different effects it has on people I feel bad now .."

No worries. I said that I went without after my divorce and whilst caring for my mum who was dying. A lot of people posted similar. Those kinds of things do tend to take precedence. Sex was certainly not on my mind at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eight months or so. Mind you in the last year I had rumpy pumpy with ladies who were six and twelve yrs!! ( sans sex )

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Eight months or so. Mind you in the last year I had rumpy pumpy with ladies who were six and twelve yrs!! ( sans sex )

Serious rephrasing needed here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eight months or so. Mind you in the last year I had rumpy pumpy with ladies who were six and twelve yrs!! ( sans sex )

Serious rephrasing needed here!

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lol that does not sound right somehow

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