FabSwingers.com forum: positive outlook brings positive results

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any thoughts or _iews on this,the people that tend to moan and groan about not getting and meets. I say have a positive attitude and outlook any you with get better results. Some people are beat before they start. Chin up people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you however have a positive outlook on your other two threads though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very and it changes your life if you can be positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say that it works in life in general. Be positive, even when its hard to be so. A good attitude goes a long way and attracts others with the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMS aside, absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there "
Well keep it up you may get it today ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PMS aside, absolutely

I don't suffer from PMS.... Since the divorce..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am very and it changes your life if you can be positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id say that it works in life in general. Be positive, even when its hard to be so. A good attitude goes a long way and attracts others with the same.

Lx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you Noel Edmonds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does being positively negative count...???

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Like attracts like.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Nowt wrong with moaning but if it's for the right reasons. Moaning cause you can't get a meet is fair in my _iew but doesn't necessarily mean everyone will listen or jump on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I found positive people attractive and people attract to this in life it helps with meets also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive .

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like to think I'm a positive person even when positive things don't happen the other end...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive ."

I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nowt wrong with moaning but if it's for the right reasons. Moaning cause you can't get a meet is fair in my _iew but doesn't necessarily mean everyone will listen or jump on you

Nothing wrong with moaning. But its not attractive and people dont like to move towards it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist."
I think you still can be a realist and think very positive I am one myself .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine that moaning statuses and/or profiles ever make people want to send a message.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"... I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't imagine that moaning statuses and/or profiles ever make people want to send a message."

agree if a profile doom and cloom moaning about not getting any action or meets why would you send a mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put out a negative outlook - you aren't exactly inviting wonderful things

Easier said than done though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I WILL GET A MEET TODAY

I WILL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you put out a negative outlook - you aren't exactly inviting wonderful things

Easier said than done though "
yes I know at times it can be hard turning things around and can take time. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I WILL GET A MEET TODAY

I WILL

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ok let me know how you do . lolol xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I believe it does.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"PMS aside, absolutely

I don't suffer from PMS.... Since the divorce..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

News just in: Bear seen emerging from woods clutching roll of toilet paper, as reported by newly elected Catholic Pope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PMS aside, absolutely

I don't suffer from PMS.... Since the divorce..

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there Well keep it up you may get it today ,

Made the mistake of meeting a old school friend. no spark. he is old before his time and younger than me, doesn't understand fab, I could go on but won't. He is married but has no idea of what women want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there Well keep it up you may get it today ,

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i firmly believe in the philosophy of yes .. life has got a lot more interesting since ive said yes to more things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A positive mental attitude doesn't necessarily change the outcome (although it may), but it definitely helps you to see and take the positive from the outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are born miserable with no sense of humour though . No amount of positive thinking can change misery guts like that in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are born miserable with no sense of humour though . No amount of positive thinking can change misery guts like that in my opinion . "

I don't believe that anyone is born miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there Well keep it up you may get it today ,

Im not sure he would be up for that. I have till the middle of the week to think of a nice way to tell him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any thoughts or _iews on this,the people that tend to moan and groan about not getting and meets. I say have a positive attitude and outlook any you with get better results. Some people are beat before they start. Chin up people. "

You make it sound like a meat market. If people can't form a relationship without using a swinging forum then they should really reevaluate their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I am a realist in many respects, its taken me many, many years to accept the fact that I can allow myself to be happy and to accept happiness as a part of my life. That happiness is in itself its own reward and is a positive not a negative thing.

The positive mental gains and feeling of inner peacefulness when you let go of negativity cannot be measured nor easy communicated.

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