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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe it is, certain urges you just can't fight.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

nah ...you are attracted to certain people subliminaly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I believe you are born with the genetics to be gay/straight etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. do you really think that people would choose to be ridiculed and looked down on like they were unnatural or dirty?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in, sets up a table and a bit of bunting.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already."

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay."

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Pops in, sets up a table and a bit of bunting. "

Awww thats lovely, thanks Tina! I don't post controversial threads.....til now

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

No surely that there gayness is a disease, even alpha males are in danger of being infected these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.. do you really think that people would choose to be ridiculed and looked down on like they were unnatural or dirty?

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my gay friends aren't looked down on or ridiculed

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Returns with a ruddy great printer, sweating a tad and swearing profusely and wondering which fool bought a cheap old cast iron printer, manufactured in the People's Democratic Republic of Wallachia. Sets it on the table, gives the printer one last, lingering, dirty look and pops back out to the TitzMobile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"No surely that there gayness is a disease, even alpha males are in danger of being infected these days. "

My sisters boyfriend think you can catch the Ghey. He wouldn't even sit next to me after I danced and hugged my two male gay friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some people who are gay but have admitted they would rather not be!

So it is definitely not a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an interesting documentary coming up Undercover doctor cure me I am Gay coming up channel 4 on this Tuesday worth a watch.

And no I think people are born gay x but then there is curiosity does that make you just curious or gay or bi x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Ambles back in with deckchair, flask of Earl Grey, some blackjacks, a tin hat and a copy of Joy in the Morning by PG Wodehouse balanced on her boobies.

Gives a wave to the people watching her shenanigans and the book falls off. Tries to grab the book and drops the deckchair.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me "

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from!

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Ambles back in with deckchair, flask of Earl Grey, some blackjacks, a tin hat and a copy of Joy in the Morning by PG Wodehouse balanced on her boobies.

Gives a wave to the people watching her shenanigans and the book falls off. Tries to grab the book and drops the deckchair. "

makes a change from the popcorn.

Do I need forum insurance Tina?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.. do you really think that people would choose to be ridiculed and looked down on like they were unnatural or dirty?

my gay friends aren't looked down on or ridiculed"

Maybe if the lived in a differant country like Russia or Saudi Arabia they would be. Even in the US gay people are frowned upon..

Most gay people in the uk are lucky to live here, but you still hear of people who's parents have disowned them just because they are gay and god help them if their parents are strict Muslim's

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

What a strange question.

Do you choose your height?

Do you choose your eye colour?

You are what you are, you can change the surface image, you can dye your hair, wear contacts pretend you are something you are not. But ultimately you are what you are.

Accept it, live with it, live the day cos we aint here for long enough to spend it fooling ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats like asking - do you need air to breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from!"
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Cos their gay n bi guys flat out on here. And seem to up for all meets. Where as a single straight guy like me wudnt get the same attention lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I believe you are born gay and there is a gene....do people be gay by choice I doubt it...I'm bi but I would not have a relationship with a woman...it's purely sexual for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats like asking - do you need air to breathe "

I pressed post before I had finished

You have NO choice you need air - you have NO choice .. you are either gay or not.

I didn't wake up one morning and think ' I know today Ill choose to love men and women' - it's always been there

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I believe you are born gay and there is a gene....do people be gay by choice I doubt it...I'm bi but I would not have a relationship with a woman...it's purely sexual for me "

Choose to be

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Recent research shows you are more likely to be ridiculed and given abuse if you come out as bi-sexual.

Bi-sexual people are more likely to become depressed and attempt suicide then there gay counterparts.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from! .

Cos their gay n bi guys flat out on here. And seem to up for all meets. Where as a single straight guy like me wudnt get the same attention lol"

Not all gay and bi men are up for all or any meet on here.

My brother has never been promiscuous and only been with one gay lad and is now engaged to be married to him. Been together nearly 6 years.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"What a strange question.

Do you choose your height?

Do you choose your eye colour?

You are what you are, you can change the surface image, you can dye your hair, wear contacts pretend you are something you are not. But ultimately you are what you are.

Accept it, live with it, live the day cos we aint here for long enough to spend it fooling ourselves.

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its not a strange question. Read my previous posts. Some people still think it is only a choice. I have never believed this and just wondered if others had the same opinion as myself or the ones thinking its a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from! .

Cos their gay n bi guys flat out on here. And seem to up for all meets. Where as a single straight guy like me wudnt get the same attention lol

Not all gay and bi men are up for all or any meet on here.

My brother has never been promiscuous and only been with one gay lad and is now engaged to be married to him. Been together nearly 6 years."

fair enough im not trying to the rock the boat here all im sayin is that I wud nearly get more messages from guys looking to meet than woman .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you say about those who consider themselves bicurious? Is that not a choice?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Is now ready to open up her stall.

The bunting is flying, the printer is building up a head of steam and I am now ready to start offering FORUM INSURANCE to anyone who may need it if or when this thread gets difficult.

The OP has been given a complimentary policy and a box of chocs, plus a cuddly doll with melons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fair enough im not trying to the rock the boat here all im sayin is that I wud nearly get more messages from guys looking to meet than woman ."

I must admit I do get loads of messages from bi curious guys, there isnt enough hours in the day to meet them all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you say about those who consider themselves bicurious? Is that not a choice?

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it's a choice to meet people for sex. It's not your choice to be attracted to them

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Is now ready to open up her stall.

The bunting is flying, the printer is building up a head of steam and I am now ready to start offering FORUM INSURANCE to anyone who may need it if or when this thread gets difficult.

The OP has been given a complimentary policy and a box of chocs, plus a cuddly doll with melons. "

you are too kind

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've been attracted to women since I was 16 but never thought about having a relationship with a woman so not sure where that leaves me....

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I still say no.

But... so what if it was a choice? Why shouldn't a consenting adult make that choice?

The question of whether it's a choice should be irrelevant. What happens between consenting adults is their business.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole


"What a strange question.

Do you choose your height?

Do you choose your eye colour?

You are what you are, you can change the surface image, you can dye your hair, wear contacts pretend you are something you are not. But ultimately you are what you are.

Accept it, live with it, live the day cos we aint here for long enough to spend it fooling ourselves.

its not a strange question. Read my previous posts. Some people still think it is only a choice. I have never believed this and just wondered if others had the same opinion as myself or the ones thinking its a choice."

Re-reading my answer comes across as a bit uppity, if so im sorry, didnt mean it to be.

Its just that i think you are what you are, your sexual orientation is part of you, and is influenced by your experiences as well, but mostly its how you accept what you are. Many people probably have bi-sexual or fantasies (outside of vanilla) but they supress them in order to conform to the norm.

From experience I strongly believe that the great majority of people have sexual fantasies varying from full BDSM to bisexuality and so on but suppress these urges through a variety of reasons, mostly down to a victorian prudishness common to this nation.

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

I am totally straight and if im honest think its disgusting that a man would want to have sex with another bloke.

But i think gays are born like it so its not their fault they are like that.

In this day and age its up too each individual what they get up too as long as they do it without the whole world knowing .

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"What a strange question.

Do you choose your height?

Do you choose your eye colour?

You are what you are, you can change the surface image, you can dye your hair, wear contacts pretend you are something you are not. But ultimately you are what you are.

Accept it, live with it, live the day cos we aint here for long enough to spend it fooling ourselves.

its not a strange question. Read my previous posts. Some people still think it is only a choice. I have never believed this and just wondered if others had the same opinion as myself or the ones thinking its a choice.

Re-reading my answer comes across as a bit uppity, if so im sorry, didnt mean it to be.

Its just that i think you are what you are, your sexual orientation is part of you, and is influenced by your experiences as well, but mostly its how you accept what you are. Many people probably have bi-sexual or fantasies (outside of vanilla) but they supress them in order to conform to the norm.

From experience I strongly believe that the great majority of people have sexual fantasies varying from full BDSM to bisexuality and so on but suppress these urges through a variety of reasons, mostly down to a victorian prudishness common to this nation.

"

I think this is a great reply, thanks

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from! .

Cos their gay n bi guys flat out on here. And seem to up for all meets. Where as a single straight guy like me wudnt get the same attention lol

Not all gay and bi men are up for all or any meet on here.

My brother has never been promiscuous and only been with one gay lad and is now engaged to be married to him. Been together nearly 6 years.

fair enough im not trying to the rock the boat here all im sayin is that I wud nearly get more messages from guys looking to meet than woman ."

Ah but they're mostly the straight sort of bi/gay guys, I'll bet

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to say I don't know. I feel there is an element of choice in bisexuality because I've made choices about it in my life at different times. However what might be inherent underneath that I haven't a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from! .

Cos their gay n bi guys flat out on here. And seem to up for all meets. Where as a single straight guy like me wudnt get the same attention lol

Not all gay and bi men are up for all or any meet on here.

My brother has never been promiscuous and only been with one gay lad and is now engaged to be married to him. Been together nearly 6 years.

fair enough im not trying to the rock the boat here all im sayin is that I wud nearly get more messages from guys looking to meet than woman .

Ah but they're mostly the straight sort of bi/gay guys, I'll bet"

yeah I never understood why put straight on ur profile wen their obviously bi lol

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole


" We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality."

live and let live

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over a year ago


" We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


" We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality."

Sorry, that I disagree with. We all have strengths and weaknesses. We're not all born equal.

In terms of race, skin colour, eye colour, sexuality, gender etc. etc. we should all be equal.

However some people have a greater aptitude for academic study than others. They are better than others in an academic environment. Not better people, just more capable. Some people are more accomplished than others at sport. Others can entertain, or act...

This "we are all equal" line is causing a knee jerk thing of trying to eradicate competition in schools. Rather than identifying, encouraging and celebrating each person's strengths, we're trying to pretend we're all the same.

We're equally valuable as people, or should be so regarded, but we do all have different aptitudes, weaknesses and limitations. We shouldn't try to pretend otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality.

Sorry, that I disagree with. We all have strengths and weaknesses. We're not all born equal.

In terms of race, skin colour, eye colour, sexuality, gender etc. etc. we should all be equal.

However some people have a greater aptitude for academic study than others. They are better than others in an academic environment. Not better people, just more capable. Some people are more accomplished than others at sport. Others can entertain, or act...

This "we are all equal" line is causing a knee jerk thing of trying to eradicate competition in schools. Rather than identifying, encouraging and celebrating each person's strengths, we're trying to pretend we're all the same.

We're equally valuable as people, or should be so regarded, but we do all have different aptitudes, weaknesses and limitations. We shouldn't try to pretend otherwise."

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Dam a thread where the forum thread police/ click, I can spel by the whey, talk a bit of common. I hate it, sits back with red wine in hand, avoiding the keyboard

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


" We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality.

Sorry, that I disagree with. We all have strengths and weaknesses. We're not all born equal.

In terms of race, skin colour, eye colour, sexuality, gender etc. etc. we should all be equal.

However some people have a greater aptitude for academic study than others. They are better than others in an academic environment. Not better people, just more capable. Some people are more accomplished than others at sport. Others can entertain, or act...

This "we are all equal" line is causing a knee jerk thing of trying to eradicate competition in schools. Rather than identifying, encouraging and celebrating each person's strengths, we're trying to pretend we're all the same.

We're equally valuable as people, or should be so regarded, but we do all have different aptitudes, weaknesses and limitations. We shouldn't try to pretend otherwise."

Being equal in terms of rights and respect is different to being the same sort of person.

Everyone must be treated equally from the outset and only once their strengths and weaknesses are explored can they be treated differently to anyone else.

For instance, 2 people of different race walk towards you and say hello. You respond equally to them and strike up a conversation. You all get on welk and head to the pub. Whereupon you learn that one person won the Nobel Peace Prize for resolving the conflict in Kosovo in the 90s by putting his life on the line to save people. The other person has just come out of jail for robbing a pensioner in their home and bopping them on the head.

Now there is a chance you will treat them differently. The fact one had one colour of skin and the other had a different colour meant they started equally in your eyes. They suddenly became unequal when you learned one had done something tremendous and the other something dreadful. That is what you may judge someone on. Not their physical or mental attributes. But their actions.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


" We're all on this world together, no one should be better or lesser than anyone else, in any regard, not just in sexuality.

Sorry, that I disagree with. We all have strengths and weaknesses. We're not all born equal.

In terms of race, skin colour, eye colour, sexuality, gender etc. etc. we should all be equal.

However some people have a greater aptitude for academic study than others. They are better than others in an academic environment. Not better people, just more capable. Some people are more accomplished than others at sport. Others can entertain, or act...

This "we are all equal" line is causing a knee jerk thing of trying to eradicate competition in schools. Rather than identifying, encouraging and celebrating each person's strengths, we're trying to pretend we're all the same.

We're equally valuable as people, or should be so regarded, but we do all have different aptitudes, weaknesses and limitations. We shouldn't try to pretend otherwise.

Being equal in terms of rights and respect is different to being the same sort of person.

Everyone must be treated equally from the outset and only once their strengths and weaknesses are explored can they be treated differently to anyone else.

For instance, 2 people of different race walk towards you and say hello. You respond equally to them and strike up a conversation. You all get on welk and head to the pub. Whereupon you learn that one person won the Nobel Peace Prize for resolving the conflict in Kosovo in the 90s by putting his life on the line to save people. The other person has just come out of jail for robbing a pensioner in their home and bopping them on the head.

Now there is a chance you will treat them differently. The fact one had one colour of skin and the other had a different colour meant they started equally in your eyes. They suddenly became unequal when you learned one had done something tremendous and the other something dreadful. That is what you may judge someone on. Not their physical or mental attributes. But their actions. "

I don't think my post disagreed with those sentiments.

However, sometimes the "we are all equal" banner is misunderstood, misapplied and does more harm than good. The easiest way to ensure nobody achieves more than anyone else is to ensure nobody achieves anything.

That's not good for humanity or society.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Agreed. I was trying to sum up in a positive way without picking an argument with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"

Being equal in terms of rights and respect is different to being the same sort of person.

Everyone must be treated equally from the outset and only once their strengths and weaknesses are explored can they be treated differently to anyone else.

For instance, 2 people of different race walk towards you and say hello. You respond equally to them and strike up a conversation. You all get on welk and head to the pub. Whereupon you learn that one person won the Nobel Peace Prize for resolving the conflict in Kosovo in the 90s by putting his life on the line to save people. The other person has just come out of jail for robbing a pensioner in their home and bopping them on the head.

Now there is a chance you will treat them differently. The fact one had one colour of skin and the other had a different colour meant they started equally in your eyes. They suddenly became unequal when you learned one had done something tremendous and the other something dreadful. That is what you may judge someone on. Not their physical or mental attributes. But their actions. "

this

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By *cottiiebMan
over a year ago

Sidcup

Whenever a straight person asks me when or why did I choose to become gay I simply ask them when did they choose to be straight, always answers their question.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Agreed. I was trying to sum up in a positive way without picking an argument with anyone. "

Ok. I'm not picking an argument though, just commenting on what happens when you mix political correctness and the "we are all equal" banner.

Some people can take what should be a basic, fundamental concept (equality) and turn it into something ridiculous (we all have to be the same).

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is an interesting documentary coming up Undercover doctor cure me I am Gay coming up channel 4 on this Tuesday worth a watch.

And no I think people are born gay x but then there is curiosity does that make you just curious or gay or bi x"
some say they are born gay others turn gay! this I don't understand and also us it " curable" or reversible?

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Dam a thread where the forum thread police/ click, I can spel by the whey, talk a bit of common. I hate it, sits back with red wine in hand, avoiding the keyboard "

dont forget the popcorn, tin hat and fence to sit on. Please feel free to add your nail to said fence at any time.

Nowt wrong with a bit of a debate.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Dam a thread where the forum thread police/ click, I can spel by the whey, talk a bit of common. I hate it, sits back with red wine in hand, avoiding the keyboard

dont forget the popcorn, tin hat and fence to sit on. Please feel free to add your nail to said fence at any time.

Nowt wrong with a bit of a debate."

I think the red wine says it all really

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We will and do.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If you forget the popcorn, Tina probably has sweeties.

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By *cottiiebMan
over a year ago

Sidcup


"[Removed by poster at 15/03/14 23:21:16]"
how am I wrong and what does being born on the same day have anything to do with it. It simply makes them think that they never chose to be straight and there for I never chose to be gay.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Agreed. I was trying to sum up in a positive way without picking an argument with anyone.

Ok. I'm not picking an argument though, just commenting on what happens when you mix political correctness and the "we are all equal" banner.

Some people can take what should be a basic, fundamental concept (equality) and turn it into something ridiculous (we all have to be the same)."

we dont all have to be the same. The world would be damn boring it it did. Think it was taken a little out of context what I said, or read too much into.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Whenever a straight person asks me when or why did I choose to become gay I simply ask them when did they choose to be straight, always answers their question.

"

Since pedantry is the norm here, I am duty bound to disagree and argue here. Unless you were concieved and born on the same day as the person who asked the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliff Richard lives with a priest......but we all know he's not gay lol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I was being silly. You said that the answer to when they became straight was the same as when you became gay. But if you are born straight/gay, you must obtain that during gestation in the womb. Thus it is not likely that your sexuality was defined at precisely the same time as each other.

It was just a bit of fun. I regret it now.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Took all of 5 mins for the click to dive in, you are too easy.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Agreed. I was trying to sum up in a positive way without picking an argument with anyone.

Ok. I'm not picking an argument though, just commenting on what happens when you mix political correctness and the "we are all equal" banner.

Some people can take what should be a basic, fundamental concept (equality) and turn it into something ridiculous (we all have to be the same).

we dont all have to be the same. The world would be damn boring it it did. Think it was taken a little out of context what I said, or read too much into."

I wasn't suggesting that you think "we're all equal" means we all have to be the same.

I was pointing out that some people/organisations have taken it this way. Non-competitive sports days and no winners or losers in anything to ensure nobody is better than anyone else is misunderstanding what equality means.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Took all of 5 mins for the click to dive in, you are too easy. "

Click?

My knees and hips click when I fuck!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Took all of 5 mins for the click to dive in, you are too easy. "

Click? Dive? What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay."

I don't understand why you have asked this question when you, rightly say, being gay isn't a choice. Of course it isn't so why bring up the subject when it can give the homophobes a good excuse to get on their soap boxes or start offending homosexuals left right with their ridiculous ideas.

I also don't believe it is down to genetics. Genes determine things like hair colour or likelihood of developing diseases like cancer ie you inherited a faulty gene. Being gay isn't inherited if it were you would be very unlikely to have been born!!

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay.

I don't understand why you have asked this question when you, rightly say, being gay isn't a choice. Of course it isn't so why bring up the subject when it can give the homophobes a good excuse to get on their soap boxes or start offending homosexuals left right with their ridiculous ideas.

I also don't believe it is down to genetics. Genes determine things like hair colour or likelihood of developing diseases like cancer ie you inherited a faulty gene. Being gay isn't inherited if it were you would be very unlikely to have been born!!"

peoples opinions, a healthy debate, curiosity, that's why

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay.

I don't understand why you have asked this question when you, rightly say, being gay isn't a choice. Of course it isn't so why bring up the subject when it can give the homophobes a good excuse to get on their soap boxes or start offending homosexuals left right with their ridiculous ideas.

I also don't believe it is down to genetics. Genes determine things like hair colour or likelihood of developing diseases like cancer ie you inherited a faulty gene. Being gay isn't inherited if it were you would be very unlikely to have been born!!

peoples opinions, a healthy debate, curiosity, that's why "

oh and I've also never posted a controversial thread, so wanted to see if I could get shot down, or if regular posters would change their opinions of me!

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"[Removed by poster at 15/03/14 23:38:39]"

woo hoo, I won something! I never win things! Saw it just as you deleted. If you are worried of getting put on the naughty step, please feel free to PM me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay.

I don't understand why you have asked this question when you, rightly say, being gay isn't a choice. Of course it isn't so why bring up the subject when it can give the homophobes a good excuse to get on their soap boxes or start offending homosexuals left right with their ridiculous ideas.

I also don't believe it is down to genetics. Genes determine things like hair colour or likelihood of developing diseases like cancer ie you inherited a faulty gene. Being gay isn't inherited if it were you would be very unlikely to have been born!!"

There are various fatal genetic diseases which would suggest your last statement is untrue.

Faulty genes do not have to be inherited either. Mutations can occur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A male friend of my ex husband said that the pill is the cause of so many gay men nowadays. Women's urine in water supply contaminating it apparently

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The opinion mine or any other heterosexual person on here will only lead to an unnecessary debate. I can see the storm coming already.

there is nothing wrong with a healthy debate, its the trolls that make a storm.

I ask this question, as I find that my brother is judged far too much and told it is a sick 'choice' to be gay.

You can NEVER choose to be gay.

I don't understand why you have asked this question when you, rightly say, being gay isn't a choice. Of course it isn't so why bring up the subject when it can give the homophobes a good excuse to get on their soap boxes or start offending homosexuals left right with their ridiculous ideas.

I also don't believe it is down to genetics. Genes determine things like hair colour or likelihood of developing diseases like cancer ie you inherited a faulty gene. Being gay isn't inherited if it were you would be very unlikely to have been born!!

peoples opinions, a healthy debate, curiosity, that's why

oh and I've also never posted a controversial thread, so wanted to see if I could get shot down, or if regular posters would change their opinions of me! "

Ooh research! Did you poll regular posters for their opinion first so you can determine the effect of the experiment?

Will there be pie charts?

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Took all of 5 mins for the click to dive in, you are too easy.

Click?

Well done on spotting the intended mistake - you win the prize! However you came last in the spotting irony competition so the prize will have to roll over till next week

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Took all of 5 mins for the click to dive in, you are too easy.

Click?

Well done on spotting the intended mistake - you win the prize! However you came last in the spotting irony competition so the prize will have to roll over till next week"

maybe I spotted no irony because I am in no Clique that is often mentioned? Where is it and how do I find it? Most importantly, how do I join it?

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

All I have done is reply to posts on a thread that I made. Now I'm in a Clique. One rule of the Clique though. Only me allowed in it!!!

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

The click thing was a generic comment - no-one said you were in the clique - however you jumped straight in to point out that "click" was incorrect

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"A male friend of my ex husband said that the pill is the cause of so many gay men nowadays. Women's urine in water supply contaminating it apparently "

Try looking up urban myths

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The click thing was a generic comment - no-one said you were in the clique - however you jumped straight in to point out that "click" was incorrect "

I know they didn't I just said it!!!!!

Oooh the controversy for a Saturday night. May need a lie die after this! Thanks for brightening up my thread, mucho appreciated

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The click thing was a generic comment - no-one said you were in the clique - however you jumped straight in to point out that "click" was incorrect "

Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm glad I had the foresight to rock up with a stand, bunting, sweets, cast iron printer, deckchair, flask of tea and a tin hat earlier.

'Get your FORUM INSURANCE here! Roll up, roll up,'

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"The click thing was a generic comment - no-one said you were in the clique - however you jumped straight in to point out that "click" was incorrect

Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here."

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I'm glad I had the foresight to rock up with a stand, bunting, sweets, cast iron printer, deckchair, flask of tea and a tin hat earlier.

'Get your FORUM INSURANCE here! Roll up, roll up,'

"

Can you post it to me Tina? Can't be arsed gettin' outta bed!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm glad I had the foresight to rock up with a stand, bunting, sweets, cast iron printer, deckchair, flask of tea and a tin hat earlier.

'Get your FORUM INSURANCE here! Roll up, roll up,'

Can you post it to me Tina? Can't be arsed gettin' outta bed! "

Never mind that! Tina, please find someone to carry me to bed because I can't be bothered to walk.

And I want a story.

fankoo

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We got our story, was easy, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A male friend of my ex husband said that the pill is the cause of so many gay men nowadays. Women's urine in water supply contaminating it apparently

Try looking up urban myths "

I didn't believe him. I would always do my own research on anything I was told. He was always coming out with these little pearls of wisdom,I didn't mind as he told some funny jokes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever a straight person asks me when or why did I choose to become gay I simply ask them when did they choose to be straight, always answers their question.

"

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"We got our story, was easy, lol "

that's good to hear. Enjoy the rest of your evening guys

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions."

No I don't think it's a choice to be gay. Or any of the shades between gay and straight.

However people do choose who they have sex with. For instance some people choose to play with same sex and different sex partners even though they aren't really attracted to them.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice"

never called anyone a troll! Never once!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Fear not,

There's places in America,

where your gayness can be cured.

Simply pledge half your wages,

and your gayness will be cured.

Although at those rates,

your gonna have trouble celebrating your New found straightness.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

So you deny saying " Trolled out " then, as part of one of your comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being gay isnt a choice. Id imagine being gay wud hav its advantages getting sex everynite if you wanted it lol.

Unfortunately not for me

why would being gay get you sex every night? Plenty straight people get it every night! Myself being bi has more chances of getting it every night as I have 2 sexes to choose from! .

Cos their gay n bi guys flat out on here. And seem to up for all meets. Where as a single straight guy like me wudnt get the same attention lol

Not all gay and bi men are up for all or any meet on here.

My brother has never been promiscuous and only been with one gay lad and is now engaged to be married to him. Been together nearly 6 years.

fair enough im not trying to the rock the boat here all im sayin is that I wud nearly get more messages from guys looking to meet than woman ."

You might not be intentionally rocking the boat, but you are certainly guilty of some gross stereotyping

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Yea cos of course gay men have no standards and will bed anything with a pulse.

Sometimes I hear they will cross codes and even bed females.

The promiscuous little devils.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice"

It would seem your intent is nothing other than stirring waters quite intentionally, actually.

Do you have a comment on the actual subject of the thread?

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"So you deny saying " Trolled out " then, as part of one of your comments?"

certainly did, but that is not calling you a troll is it?

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Yes we do and did,

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Open to interpretation we suppose, but if not us, then who!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So you deny saying " Trolled out " then, as part of one of your comments?

certainly did, but that is not calling you a troll is it? "

Let's not let facts get in the way but nobody said click was wrong and it should be clique.

Two posts questioned the use of the word click, which is not the same thing.

Let's not interrupt the Easter egg hunt though.

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Open to interpretation we suppose, but if not us, then who!"

nobody, I did not personally name anybody a troll.

*skips off to Easter egg hunt*, gotta love Eater eggs, I've eaten all mi marzipan ones!

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Incidentally, this is closer to home for us than it appears to be for most on here.

But just because we do not go along with the click, and never will, does not mean we are not interested, or have an opinion, be it allowed or not, on any subject.

Red wine permitting of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Incidentally, this is closer to home for us than it appears to be for most on here.

But just because we do not go along with the click, and never will, does not mean we are not interested, or have an opinion, be it allowed or not, on any subject.

Red wine permitting of course "

What is closer to home? Do you mean the 'being gay' born or choice question?

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Incidentally, this is closer to home for us than it appears to be for most on here.

But just because we do not go along with the click, and never will, does not mean we are not interested, or have an opinion, be it allowed or not, on any subject.

Red wine permitting of course

What is closer to home? Do you mean the 'being gay' born or choice question?"

Oh no his secret is out, dam my proclivity

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Roadhouse

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Pops in, sets up a table and a bit of bunting. "

I'm with Tina... Let's hear what everyone says...

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Pops in, sets up a table and a bit of bunting.

I'm with Tina... Let's hear what everyone says..."

its been said

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Watching Brokeback Mountain makes you ghey, that's official

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Watching Brokeback Mountain makes you ghey, that's official "

still never watched that!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well you're just a lezzer anyway

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Well you're just a lezzer anyway "

just 90% lezza!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Do you want 10% of my cock then

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Do you want 10% of my cock then "

What would be the point?

Even if you called it a penis, it would only be 1/2p and they're no use to anyone now.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Aaaarrrgghhh, 2 lezzers ganging up on me now, please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im with the lezzers.. only because they scare me lol

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City

hahaha, yea 10% is more than enough cock!

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By *hole Lotta Rosie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Im with the lezzers.. only because they scare me lol "

Boo!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No need to fear my friend, I'm in the process of developing an antilezzer serum as we speak

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By *aggy xxMan
over a year ago

blackpool

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions."

Christ, have I woken up in the 19th century?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions."

I sometimes wish I was gay, I reckon it would be less confusing then being bisexual....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions.

I sometimes wish I was gay, I reckon it would be less confusing then being bisexual...."

You must be very confused, according to your profile you're straight.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Being almost exclusively interested in the same sex, gay, is I think no choice, but something likely that one is born with. It could be a mix of genetics, with some environmental influence. There may also be 50 shades of gay, so that there are different types of it, or causes, albeit with the similar result of needing same sex interaction. Genetics is an interesting complex aspect of life, frequently not relying on just one gene for a personal characteristic, and often using some environmental experience before something is activated. Sexuality is varied, as are people generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions.

I sometimes wish I was gay, I reckon it would be less confusing then being bisexual....

You must be very confused, according to your profile you're straight. "

Shhhhusssh, it's a secret, I'm in the narnia closet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being Gay a choice?

Simple question, just interested in opinions.

I sometimes wish I was gay, I reckon it would be less confusing then being bisexual....

You must be very confused, according to your profile you're straight.

Shhhhusssh, it's a secret, I'm in the narnia closet"

Oh, I see. If I wave a bit of Turkish Delight in front of the door will you come out?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice"

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool."

I think the moral of the story is not to come on the forums when alcohol has been consumed it can lead to reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can choose whether to act on gay urges, but to choose to have those urges in the first place? no.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool.

I think the moral of the story is not to come on the forums when alcohol has been consumed it can lead to reading "

Hehe, do you think that will ever stop happening?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool.

I think the moral of the story is not to come on the forums when alcohol has been consumed it can lead to reading

Hehe, do you think that will ever stop happening? "

Errmmmm in one word no two fuck no!!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool.

I think the moral of the story is not to come on the forums when alcohol has been consumed it can lead to reading

Hehe, do you think that will ever stop happening?

Errmmmm in one word no two fuck no!! "

BUT THAT WAS TWO WORDS!!!! Are you trying to insult me?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Hardly surprising it was questioned, since it is incorrect

A lot of incorrect things are written on here every day. Quite a lot of them are questioned.

I'm failing to see what point is supposed to be being proven here.

just to stir waters a little. Get me fiesty, pissed off, or trolled out! Who knows but the vino being d*unk?

Point was it was intentionally incorrect - with the knowledge that someone would be inclined to show how clever they are by informing everyone they knew it should be clique.

Point to be proven is how quickly people jump in to prove how clever they are.

Not looking to stir the waters - but to be called a troll! - not nice

Please try not to get angry but I have never read such bollocks.

No one actually picked up on your use of the word click. All that happened is the person who managed to decipher what could be forgiven as being seen as a random collection of words used the word but used the correct spelling. I fail entirely to see why they are being criticised and sarcy comments being made?

Should they continue to spell the word click as opposed to clique to avoid your opprobrium?

Given the number of typos made in this forum, if the first spelling of any word in a thread were to be used and be sacrosanct throughout the remainder of the thread, all hell would break loose.

You simply are/were trying to pick a fight. That's not cool.

I think the moral of the story is not to come on the forums when alcohol has been consumed it can lead to reading

Hehe, do you think that will ever stop happening?

Errmmmm in one word no two fuck no!!

BUT THAT WAS TWO WORDS!!!! Are you trying to insult me? "

If you read what I said and I quote

Ermmmm in one word no two fuck no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.. do you really think that people would choose to be ridiculed and looked down on like they were unnatural or dirty?

"

Why on earth would people be ridiculed and looked down on for being gay in todays society. I have gay relatives and don't think any differently of them now than I did before they came out. I don't believe it is a choice. They are who they are and we are all atttracted to different types. xx

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

But... I dont understand. Fuck no is two words. How can you say that is one word? Are you trying to upset me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they said in two (words) fuck no.

are you being deliberately obtuse?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

But I wanted her to say it in one word. Not two.

*puts fishing rod away*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching Brokeback Mountain makes you ghey, that's official

still never watched that!!! "

it's very sad at the end

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"they said in two (words) fuck no.

are you being deliberately obtuse?"

Can I be obtusely ghey, just for today

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No for those born gay.

Yes for those who choose to dabble and enjoy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

That's if we are defining GAY as someone who has sex with the same sex.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"That's if we are defining GAY as someone who has sex with the same sex. "

Who you have sex with as a swinger has no definite bearing on your sexuality.

I (Andy) am straight because I am not romantically or sexually attracted to men, but when swinging I enjoy playing with whatever and whoever is nearby. Men included.

Gay people are romantically and/or sexually attracted to the same gender. Putting your penis in a man does not necessarily make you gay. It may make you a swinger though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's if we are defining GAY as someone who has sex with the same sex.

Who you have sex with as a swinger has no definite bearing on your sexuality.

I (Andy) am straight because I am not romantically or sexually attracted to men, but when swinging I enjoy playing with whatever and whoever is nearby. Men included.

Gay people are romantically and/or sexually attracted to the same gender. Putting your penis in a man does not necessarily make you gay. It may make you a swinger though"

I agree with you but most people will say you are bi. They don't get the fact you never look at a guy and think 'wow he hot' or the fact you never fancied a bloke etc etc.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"That's if we are defining GAY as someone who has sex with the same sex. "

Aw shuuurrpp Gwany, I only have so called "sex" with lezzers anyway

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"That's if we are defining GAY as someone who has sex with the same sex.

Who you have sex with as a swinger has no definite bearing on your sexuality.

I (Andy) am straight because I am not romantically or sexually attracted to men, but when swinging I enjoy playing with whatever and whoever is nearby. Men included.

Gay people are romantically and/or sexually attracted to the same gender. Putting your penis in a man does not necessarily make you gay. It may make you a swinger though

I agree with you but most people will say you are bi. They don't get the fact you never look at a guy and think 'wow he hot' or the fact you never fancied a bloke etc etc. "

They can say what they like. It does not make them correct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being gay is hotwired in your dna

Being bi is something that's discovered and explored.

Don't really need labels, just be who you are and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with the bi thing not so sure you are straight if you have your penis inside another man.Not that there is anything wrong with it like somebody said its just a label.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

No I dont believe its a choice having had this discussion with my son.. He said why would I choose to be bullied and abused for being the person I am. (as a school boy)

definitely not a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's if we are defining GAY as someone who has sex with the same sex.

Who you have sex with as a swinger has no definite bearing on your sexuality.

I (Andy) am straight because I am not romantically or sexually attracted to men, but when swinging I enjoy playing with whatever and whoever is nearby. Men included.

Gay people are romantically and/or sexually attracted to the same gender. Putting your penis in a man does not necessarily make you gay. It may make you a swinger though"

You keep telling yourself that, Princess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are just born that way, i thought it was common knowledge.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Appears wearing a flat cap (leopard print) with a sweeping brush and starts tidying the place up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no more of a choice than it is to be straight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people maybe in later life decide to turn gay,my colleague is gay and in his forties he has always preferred men.But the person who he now has a civil partnership with has an ex wife and a couple of kids.And he said to me that when he got married to his wife he genuinley loved her but that when in his forties something changed and he started liking men.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But I wanted her to say it in one word. Not two.

*puts fishing rod away*"

She did.

In one word, no. In two, fuck no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no more of a choice than it is to be straight...

"

Who would choose...... to be.......... straight............ ??

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's no more of a choice than it is to be straight...

Who would choose...... to be.......... straight............ ??

"

I'm a drag queen trapped in a woman's body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no more of a choice than it is to be straight...

Who would choose...... to be.......... straight............ ??

I'm a drag queen trapped in a woman's body "

I'm a woman trapped in a drag queen's body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no more of a choice than it is to be straight...

Who would choose...... to be.......... straight............ ??

I'm a drag queen trapped in a woman's body

I'm a woman trapped in a drag queen's body. "

Phwoaaaarrrrr!!!

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I don't think being gay is a choice, the same as being straight, it's who you are and what you're naturally attracted to...I do think being bi is a choice though to some extent...you have a choice of whether or not you act upon the curiosity...I've fancied woman and been curious since I was 14 but never had the balls to do anything about it til just over a year ago, had I not been through shit in my personal life and not had the guts to act upon the curiosity I would've still been straight...if that makes sense! It does to me haha! Just so happens I am absolutely delighted that I did and find women more attractive and sexually appealing than men!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

It's all down to aliens abducting newly born babies and altering their genetic code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no more of a choice than it is to be straight...

Who would choose...... to be.......... straight............ ??

I'm a drag queen trapped in a woman's body

I'm a woman trapped in a drag queen's body. "

I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body. It's working out well so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm a little bit twisted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm short.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm short.

"

More highly concentrated

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm short.

"

More highly concentrated

See, you filled the thread up!

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