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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have already come across fake accounts I know it is difficult to keep under control but surly we could create a list? Who is actually genuine on here ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I have already come across fake accounts I know it is difficult to keep under control but surly we could create a list? Who is actually genuine on here ?"

how do we know you are real??

and there in lies the problem.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm a fake, sorry *hangs head in shame*

PS if you come across a fake profile, report it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have already come across fake accounts I know it is difficult to keep under control but surly we could create a list? Who is actually genuine on here ?"

Profiles get deleted too often to keep a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is there are some real clever sods who will get around this someway....they have nothing better to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't get "fake" people! It's gotta be a "real" person that makes the accounts on here!

What is fake exactly?

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We just wait for them to contact us, all the real genuine people always put 100% genuine on their messages.

We assume the non-genuine ones will put varying degrees of how genuine they are on their messages.

A simple foolproof method!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have already come across fake accounts I know it is difficult to keep under control but surly we could create a list? Who is actually genuine on here ?"

I believe anyone that only has webcam verifications to be fake as they clearly don;t meet. What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fakery/timewasters seem to be in the eyes of the beholder....I have just this minute been accused of being one, why? I said I am looking to meet local only, he is 60 miles away. He said i was a timewaster because i say i accommodate so why is distance a problem. Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in all seriousness you've been here a week, if "fakes" are such a [roblem, look at what you are doing wrong or look at your sense of expectation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in all seriousness you've been here a week, if "fakes" are such a [roblem, look at what you are doing wrong or look at your sense of expectation."

Best hide all our webcam veris then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't get "fake" people! It's gotta be a "real" person that makes the accounts on here!

What is fake exactly? "

Ghosts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't get "fake" people! It's gotta be a "real" person that makes the accounts on here!

What is fake exactly?

Ghosts. "

Nah

That's just silly people with sheets on their heads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm genuine I can I'm chat often and have no issues face timing it am 100% genuine ha. I can see from all your comments how difficult it would be. Yes a real person would of created a profile but surly a male creating a female account is fake is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We will stick with our %age system.

Simple and obvious. Anyone who puts on say "I am 50% genuine" would be a dodgy one in our eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuine I can I'm chat often and have no issues face timing it am 100% genuine ha. I can see from all your comments how difficult it would be. Yes a real person would of created a profile but surly a male creating a female account is fake is it not? "

But how do we know you are genuine? Non of that suggests that you are reliable and meet, you could just be here for cheap frills on cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there is a difference between those who genuinely exist, and those who genuinely want to meet...All a cam verification indicates is that they genuinely exist...which sometimes is a far cry from those who actually going meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't get "fake" people! It's gotta be a "real" person that makes the accounts on here!

What is fake exactly?

Ghosts. "

I see dead people

(And they are more real than some on here )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there is a difference between those who genuinely exist, and those who genuinely want to meet...All a cam verification indicates is that they genuinely exist...which sometimes is a far cry from those who actually going meet."

So if someone doesn't want to meet, had no intention of meeting... They get their rocks of my camming! Does that make them fake?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Obviously putting GENUINE and NO TIMEWASTERS on ones profile is a sure fire way to avoid timewasters and convince people you're 'genuine'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuine I can I'm chat often and have no issues face timing it am 100% genuine ha. I can see from all your comments how difficult it would be. Yes a real person would of created a profile but surly a male creating a female account is fake is it not?

But how do we know you are genuine? Non of that suggests that you are reliable and meet, you could just be here for cheap frills on cam?"

Hey , frill isn't cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman "

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

We are only verified by cam.

What about us

but we don't give two hoots what people think.

We are in it for ourselves and ourselves only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified.."

agree with this

if a person has only webcam verification, we assume they don't meet in person and don't converse with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there is a difference between those who genuinely exist, and those who genuinely want to meet...All a cam verification indicates is that they genuinely exist...which sometimes is a far cry from those who actually going meet.

So if someone doesn't want to meet, had no intention of meeting... They get their rocks of my camming! Does that make them fake? "

Not at all...but if I saw just cam verifications over a long period ...I would stay clear as in my eyes, they have no real intention of meeting. So not a faker but a non-meeter....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there is a difference between those who genuinely exist, and those who genuinely want to meet...All a cam verification indicates is that they genuinely exist...which sometimes is a far cry from those who actually going meet.

So if someone doesn't want to meet, had no intention of meeting... They get their rocks of my camming! Does that make them fake? "

Not at all. I think you know I'm playing devils advocate and using a slightly different tactic to the normal "but you arranged to meet me and never showed, blah, blah, blah..." stock reponse to people bemoaning about fakes and/or timewasters and asking that they should be named.

That said, anyone that is only here for cam fun and doesn't make that clear is arguably being misleading

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know why the site still says 'phone veris not allowed', why not just remove the option?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm I have opened up a can of worms here haven't i. I do cam to prove the pictures are mine and I would meet genuine people after all this site is for making friends with like minded people plus the added bonus is the pictures people upload daily

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I recently met someone who has no verification tick and asked me not to verify him. He was, however, entirely real, turned up on time and matched his profile description and photos.

Not everyone wants to be verified, for whatever reason. And whilst that is the case, how could it ever be possible to completely police fake profiles.

Use some common sense and it's rarely a problem.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmmm I have opened up a can of worms here haven't i. I do cam to prove the pictures are mine and I would meet genuine people after all this site is for making friends with like minded people plus the added bonus is the pictures people upload daily "

I won't cam. Does that make me fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then "

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could adopt an already popular system

Phone a friend

Ask the audience

50/50

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

checks, balances and sometimes too many people sacrifice basic common sense in the pursuit of getting their leg over......

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hmmm I have opened up a can of worms here haven't i. I do cam to prove the pictures are mine and I would meet genuine people after all this site is for making friends with like minded people plus the added bonus is the pictures people upload daily

I won't cam. Does that make me fake?"

Yep. I don't cam either so we should leave the site immediately for being naughty fakers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm I have opened up a can of worms here haven't i. I do cam to prove the pictures are mine and I would meet genuine people after all this site is for making friends with like minded people plus the added bonus is the pictures people upload daily

I won't cam. Does that make me fake?"

Neither will I. I must be fake to. Must remember to tell the people who have verified me that I am fake when I next meet them.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified.."

If we relied on socials, I would not be verified... and noone would have taken the chance to meet me unverified if that was the only acceptable route. Not everyone lives near a large city that has socials, or can drop things to attend them.

I live in a small rural village, and meet around family commitments of being a single mum.

But then I'm about 27% fake anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave "

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified..

If we relied on socials, I would not be verified... and noone would have taken the chance to meet me unverified if that was the only acceptable route. Not everyone lives near a large city that has socials, or can drop things to attend them.

I live in a small rural village, and meet around family commitments of being a single mum.

But then I'm about 27% fake anyway"

73% of you looks hot tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm I have opened up a can of worms here haven't i. I do cam to prove the pictures are mine and I would meet genuine people after all this site is for making friends with like minded people plus the added bonus is the pictures people upload daily

I won't cam. Does that make me fake?

Yep. I don't cam either so we should leave the site immediately for being naughty fakers!"

I don't cam and hate talking on the phone but I'm real, honest I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve "

Well you were the niave one for giving a total stranger money!!

Your phone convo proved that she was really a female! Did it not?

We've been on the site for almost 3 years! And not once have we been let down or met someone who wasn't what they said they were! So I still stand by my comment that I'm not niave at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve "

No, think your actually gullible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve "

You gave her 'petrol money'?! Really! How in any world is that ok? As the saying goes ....full balls .....pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

You gave her 'petrol money'?! Really! How in any world is that ok? As the saying goes ....full balls .....pmsl"

No a trusting guy, not balls full as you say, and theres a thing called internet banking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

No, think your actually gullible "

I was to believe that as some people on here are advocating that talking to some people over the phone makes them real

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

No, think your actually gullible

I was to believe that as some people on here are advocating that talking to some people over the phone makes them real"

She was real, she just took you for a ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

Well you were the niave one for giving a total stranger money!!

Your phone convo proved that she was really a female! Did it not?

We've been on the site for almost 3 years! And not once have we been let down or met someone who wasn't what they said they were! So I still stand by my comment that I'm not niave at all! "

And i hightlight your word WE, im a single guy, and not many if any single guys profess to be fake, why would they

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We cannot see the problem.

Anyone who contacts you and says.

" I am 90%, 80% &0% " or anything less than 100% Beware. It's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

No, think your actually gullible

I was to believe that as some people on here are advocating that talking to some people over the phone makes them real

She was real, she just took you for a ride."

Or not haha, i do laugh about it now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

No, think your actually gullible

I was to believe that as some people on here are advocating that talking to some people over the phone makes them real"

The fact that she didn't use the money to get to you for you to get your leg over doesn't make her fake!! She was a she!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

No, think your actually gullible

I was to believe that as some people on here are advocating that talking to some people over the phone makes them real

The fact that she didn't use the money to get to you for you to get your leg over doesn't make her fake!! She was a she! "

Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

Well you were the niave one for giving a total stranger money!!

Your phone convo proved that she was really a female! Did it not?

We've been on the site for almost 3 years! And not once have we been let down or met someone who wasn't what they said they were! So I still stand by my comment that I'm not niave at all!

And i hightlight your word WE, im a single guy, and not many if any single guys profess to be fake, why would they "

I use the word WE because WE are a couple! I never said single guys are professing to being fake!

We've met single guys, single females and couples and they have all been real

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a week

yeah, there are a few genuine real people on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she "

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman "

All im saying is in my opinion your wrong about the phone call as i've just proved, and yes i was gulible, but my point is your wrong,and it may work fine for a couple, but for a single guy, it dosent really prove a lot tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve "

I'm not being funny but giving a woman you've never met petrol money probably means that you aren;t the best person to lecture others about niavity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you."

Come your being silly now

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

All im saying is in my opinion your wrong about the phone call as i've just proved, and yes i was gulible, but my point is your wrong,and it may work fine for a couple, but for a single guy, it dosent really prove a lot tbh"

How am I wrong? You rang her and she was a woman.., was she not?

You were the niave one for giving a total stranger that you hadn't even met money!!

You let her take you for a ride! And she did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

All im saying is in my opinion your wrong about the phone call as i've just proved, and yes i was gulible, but my point is your wrong,and it may work fine for a couple, but for a single guy, it dosent really prove a lot tbh

How am I wrong? You rang her and she was a woman.., was she not?

You were the niave one for giving a total stranger that you hadn't even met money!!

You let her take you for a ride! And she did "

Your wrong about phone calls thats all, whether im nieve or not

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now "

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still flumaxed how anyone can be caught out by a person pretending to be someone they are not!

The signs are so easy to spot!

But I can't see how the site is supposed to be able to police these so called "fakes"

Surely a simple phone conversation is all you need to be able say "yes" that's really a man/woman

Are you honestly nieve enough to think talking on the phone to someone proves there not a fake or a timewaster, drop me a message and i'll let you into something very interesting that happend to me, you might change your mind then

Phone conversations before meeting have worked fine for us so far!

Never had a no show or met someone who wasn't what they said they was!

So no need to pm you! And I'm far from niave

Try being a single guy on here and saying that, i talked to one girl from the sth west for maybe 2 weeks or more over the phone, she wanted to come see me but had no petrol money, i gave her some, she couldnt even drive, even though she was texting me where she was supposedly all the way up to my house, then broke down at the last minute, when i asked were she was she said in my front room i cant drive and im so sorry!!! , so yes i do think your being nieve

I'm not being funny but giving a woman you've never met petrol money probably means that you aren;t the best person to lecture others about niavity... "

I agree i was nieve, but like i said in my original post we talked everyday for over 2 weeks, but its not about me giving her money for petrol, its about saying people are not fakes if you talk on the phone to them, clearly they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up."

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm a flake, sorry *hangs head in shame*"

I wouldn't mind unwrapping you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm not being funny but giving a woman you've never met petrol money probably means that you aren;t the best person to lecture others about niavity... "

Irony, thy name is Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake "

I thik you are confusing the words "fake" and "con-artist"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps we should have a "fakes" social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

I thik you are confusing the words "fake" and "con-artist""

I think they run hand in hand on a site like this, and yes i did report her before anyone asks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A "Fakes" Chat room would be fun...I can imagine the conversations already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

I thik you are confusing the words "fake" and "con-artist"

I think they run hand in hand on a site like this, and yes i did report her before anyone asks lol "

Do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

I thik you are confusing the words "fake" and "con-artist"

I think they run hand in hand on a site like this, and yes i did report her before anyone asks lol

Do they?

"

Yes have a look at some of the phone numbers that have been posted on here, most are premium rate numbers, are the fake or con artists ??

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Perhaps we should have a "fakes" social! "

Now you're talking, put me down, I won't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps we should have a "fakes" social!

Now you're talking, put me down, I won't turn up "

We're not holding it lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified.."

what about people who don't like socialising at clubs or spas? A cam verification by a trusted person would confirm the person is male/female/a couple and a likeness of their face photos. Which is what a verification is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps we should have a "fakes" social!

Now you're talking, put me down, I won't turn up "

Put me down as well. I won't turn up with him

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

I thik you are confusing the words "fake" and "con-artist"

I think they run hand in hand on a site like this, and yes i did report her before anyone asks lol

Do they?

Yes have a look at some of the phone numbers that have been posted on here, most are premium rate numbers, are the fake or con artists ??"

I take it you rang them to check.

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By *oom For 1 MoreMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

I thik you are confusing the words "fake" and "con-artist"

I think they run hand in hand on a site like this, and yes i did report her before anyone asks lol

Do they?

Yes have a look at some of the phone numbers that have been posted on here, most are premium rate numbers, are the fake or con artists ??

I take it you rang them to check."

Of course i did me being the nieve guy i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there is a difference between those who genuinely exist, and those who genuinely want to meet...All a cam verification indicates is that they genuinely exist...which sometimes is a far cry from those who actually going meet.

So if someone doesn't want to meet, had no intention of meeting... They get their rocks of my camming! Does that make them fake?

Not at all. I think you know I'm playing devils advocate and using a slightly different tactic to the normal "but you arranged to meet me and never showed, blah, blah, blah..." stock reponse to people bemoaning about fakes and/or timewasters and asking that they should be named.

That said, anyone that is only here for cam fun and doesn't make that clear is arguably being misleading"

not a fake as in not who they say they are but not here to meet and trying to get cam and cyber fun from people who don't want that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake "

She said she's female and she was. She wasn't representing herself as anything other than what she is, so she is not fake.

Yes, she was a timewaster and she conned you, (though that would have been easily avoided on your part).

Timewaster, yes. Fake, no.

And I'd have run a mile the minute she wanted petrol money so if sense is used, it's usually easy to avoid the scammers.

There wasn't anything wrong with your selection process, except not acting on what her behaviour should have told you.

Would you send anyone else petrol money now? Hopefully you learned from it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge? "

Apparently internet banking exists.

Sounds like new fangled witchcraft to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge? "

A thing thats been invented called internet banking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree why do men pinch pics of women pretend to be women looking for a meet then send then to the wrong place then think it is a joke don't they realise that such actions ruins it for very one I appreciate it is difficult to police but there are too many of them now. I suppose that they are immature wankers and because they cannot get it up seek to spoil it for everyone.

There must be something we can do to get rid of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol of course she was fake, what else was she

How could she be a fake person? You spoke to her didn't you? And she might meet people every day. Just not you.

Come your being silly now

I think you're getting muddled between timewasters (which this woman certainly was, no argument there) and fake. A fake profile is a profile that misleads intentionally, by saying they're a woman/couple when they are a single man, or having photos nicked from the internet. You spoke to this woman on the phone, so unless it was a bloke with a convincing voice, she was not fake. She does exist, she just stood you up.

She didnt stand me up, she had no intention of coming she couldnt drive, i just wonder if she did it to anyone else, and in my mind that makes her fake

She said she's female and she was. She wasn't representing herself as anything other than what she is, so she is not fake.

Yes, she was a timewaster and she conned you, (though that would have been easily avoided on your part).

Timewaster, yes. Fake, no.

And I'd have run a mile the minute she wanted petrol money so if sense is used, it's usually easy to avoid the scammers.

There wasn't anything wrong with your selection process, except not acting on what her behaviour should have told you.

Would you send anyone else petrol money now? Hopefully you learned from it."

The difference between a Fake & a Timewaster, well explained by VV!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different , some straight some bi some both some cranky some kinky some very strange people like the one who could only cum when the lights were turned on and off and someone thumped the wardrobe , because thunder and lightening was his fetish to bring him off so trying to meet the perfect couple or single is very difficult and fakes make it even worse ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is different , some straight some bi some both some cranky some kinky some very strange people like the one who could only cum when the lights were turned on and off and someone thumped the wardrobe , because thunder and lightening was his fetish to bring him off so trying to meet the perfect couple or single is very difficult and fakes make it even worse ??"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I recently met someone who has no verification tick and asked me not to verify him. He was, however, entirely real, turned up on time and matched his profile description and photos.

Not everyone wants to be verified, for whatever reason. And whilst that is the case, how could it ever be possible to completely police fake profiles.

Use some common sense and it's rarely a problem."

I've done exactly the same, met him twice and had a perfectly lovely time...he still only has the photo verify tick and I said I'd verify him any time if he wanted it. As VV says, common sense goes a long way to helping decide who to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says he who has been here for 1week only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very genuine here and a few feedbacks to prove it

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Phone Verifications rightly removed, next should be cam verifications...Plenty of socials around for newbies to attend and be verified..

If we relied on socials, I would not be verified... and noone would have taken the chance to meet me unverified if that was the only acceptable route. Not everyone lives near a large city that has socials, or can drop things to attend them.

I live in a small rural village, and meet around family commitments of being a single mum.

But then I'm about 27% fake anyway

73% of you looks hot tho "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

A thing thats been invented called internet banking"

So you gave out your bank details as well?? Please tell me I am wrong? When I switch money between my bank accounts online it shows exactly where it's come from I.e. sort code and account number.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

A thing thats been invented called internet banking"


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

A thing thats been invented called internet banking"

A trifle sarcastic but I'll let you off as it's you that got conned and not me. I don't do Internet banking and didn't realise one could transfer money so easily.

What I do know is how to spell 'naive'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

A thing thats been invented called internet banking

Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

A thing thats been invented called internet banking

A trifle sarcastic but I'll let you off as it's you that got conned and not me. I don't do Internet banking and didn't realise one could transfer money so easily.

What I do know is how to spell 'naive'. "

Bugger I've been spelling it niave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you explain how you paid her when she was in her lounge?

A thing thats been invented called internet banking

So you gave out your bank details as well?? Please tell me I am wrong? When I switch money between my bank accounts online it shows exactly where it's come from I.e. sort code and account number. "

Not with my bank it dosent lol, id change banks if i were you, it only tells them a name

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Our method is 100% foolproof, we never get mail from anyone less than 100% genuine. Therefore all the 78% etc genuine people, have heard about our method. They realise it is pointless to contact us as we will spot them immediately.

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