FabSwingers.com forum: fab job

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why on earth did I title this thread 'fab job' lol? No idea

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over a year ago

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

none, no need to lie about anything.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

OP, why do you feel the need to lie?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

None!! Grrrr!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"none, no need to lie about anything. "

Even your real name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0... can't see the point in making shit up

I could be lying though

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Yes, no need to lie about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie at all. That may be why i can't bullshit to get a meet. I'm not that desperate for a fuck to lie to get it (not saying that you're desperate OP). Much rather meet someone who wants to meet me for me - i'm here for quality not quantity.

...why lie anyway? It's only going to come to bite you in the arse after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and my location is out a little bit but everything else, ask and I shall tell the truth and nothing but the truth

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

None.

No point.

I know I'd tie myself in knots when we met if I'd lied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

One.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I am Ironman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't lie at all. That may be why i can't bullshit to get a meet. I'm not that desperate for a fuck to lie to get it (not saying that you're desperate OP). Much rather meet someone who wants to meet me for me - i'm here for quality not quantity.

...why lie anyway? It's only going to come to bite you in the arse after.

Yeah but some of the things to lie about would be safety not just stag. Like my name, job etc wouldn't want that info given to a psycho chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf... None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be a good liar you need to have a very good memory!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

A big fat ZERO I have no reason to lie and I don't like it in others.

It's one of the reasons why you ha e to do social meets first to work out how many and how big the lies are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be a good liar you need to have a very good memory!"

That's me fucked then. I can't remember what i did in the morning let alone last week haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why lie???..either people will accept you for who you are!..

...I never say where im from though....

Towns not big enough!;-)

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

None. What's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None although i am very vague about location, its not a lie as I am in that general area.

Can't see the point in lying, in my mind it points to a dishonest person and that is not the kind of person I would want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why lie???..either people will accept you for who you are!..

...I never say where im from though....

Towns not big enough!;-)"

You just answered your own question. Same reason I lie about my location too. Reasons for others too

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

dont give full name, just first will do. No need say where you work, just job title, don't meet at home, so there is how I avoid stalkers and dont need to lie.

Met a guy who said he was 6ft with a 9 inch cock. He was 5ft 8, with an average 6 inch cock. Why lie about stuff like that? I turned him away, not because of his real height and size, but because he lied. Same with the freak who used somebody else for his profile pic and he cried that nobody would meet him otherwise. I dont do sympathy shags, nor liars.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I don't lie about anything...I'm too honest for my own good. I do have a saying tho ... if you don't think you're going to like the answer, don't ask the question!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None although i am very vague about location, its not a lie as I am in that general area.

Can't see the point in lying, in my mind it points to a dishonest person and that is not the kind of person I would want to meet."

Ditto.

I don't lie and don't like liars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, some of it I just don't give that information, like I say what I do just not where I do it, location I give town just not the actual village, name I give when meeting but on here b does fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...why lie anyway? It's only going to come to bite you in the arse after.

Yeah but some of the things to lie about would be safety not just stag. Like my name, job etc wouldn't want that info given to a psycho chick "

If you are meeting for sex what difference does it make what job you do. For the purposes of Fab my name is as it is given on my profile and if arranging a meet I give an idea of the area I live in without disclosing precisely where. If potential meets are not happy with that - no meet - simple.

I have never had any interest in the size of a man's cock when arranging a meet but I am amazed at how many of them lie about their height - they obviously measure that in man inches too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give my exact location on here. Anyone asks my name once I've shown my face or swapped numbers can have it. Can't give my exact weight as it goes up and down a lot. I don't discuss many personal details as I'm looking for mutual sexual attraction,I'm not being interviewed for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None although i am very vague about location, its not a lie as I am in that general area.

Can't see the point in lying, in my mind it points to a dishonest person and that is not the kind of person I would want to meet.

Ditto.

I don't lie and don't like liars."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont lie.. cant be bothered to make things up (damn hard to remember what has been told).

If not wanting to give out info (such as jobs), we would say so.

Dont care for info about others jobs, so not bothered if they are a rich oil tycoon or someone on benefits.. just as long as we have fun in their company.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

More likely to be vague or just not answer rather than lie. Mostly just about where I live though. Amazing how many people ask to know your street name etc! Why would anyone give that info to a stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab there's certain information you wouldn't share openly anyway. If someone asks you a question you're not comfortable with - just say your not comfortable with answering that question.

...just like when people ask me what's my shoe size. Those baaarstards lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Didn't want anyone to know, I'm really Spartacus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie about any of those things. I withhold my name and location for security but i don't lie about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name Job Location (slightly)

One thing we're not lying about is that there are some real weidos around.

Everything else we dont even tell tiny fibs about unless you were to add reasons for not wanting to meet but then theyre only little white lies to avoid hurting peoples feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never posted on a forum before ....

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

My names not really cutie

And I'm not exactly in edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never posted on a forum before ...."

and you have a little loin cloth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, if you tell the truth you'll never forget what you've said......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never posted on a forum before ....

and you have a little loin cloth "

it is tiny..

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

There's no need to lie about anything. If someone wants to know something I'm not prepared to tell them then I'd say I'd rather not tell. Reasonable people understand this and if it's not good enough they can go elsewhere. By the time it comes to a meet they are meeting me not some figment of cyberspace and anything they know about me will be true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont lie. I dont see the point.

I have nothing to hide.

People will either like me or not

Location etc is handy to know whereabouts if ur intending on arranging a meet

As for other details , its just general convo so only chat about what ur happy to chat about. Same as u would with anyone else ud meet in the pub etc

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

I've not lied about any of those things on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None would say no comment if I don't want to answer the question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no point in lying about physical attributes, age etc, as you arent representing yourself accurately.

Things such as real name, location etc don't need to be given out. People refer to us. collectively as Iconic or Feebs and Chris, I prefer to be called by my swinging name, we are midlands based, we don't accommodate so if we agree a meet assume we can get to you and job title is not relevant

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By *KGUY20Man
over a year ago

Bristol

No point in lieing as they'll only be disappointed when they finally meet you!

Could be embarrassing if you lie about your name and mid sex they scream it out and you reply who's that?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

We don't lie but if someone is crass enough to ask about tit or cock size or personal information about stuff like our jobs before we have met and got to know them, we'd probably rethink any plans to meet...pushy or indiscreet are big turn offs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none - why would I ? -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't guarantee that all of the meets I had as a single lady knew my real name.

I don't think they all knew what I do for a living either (because quite frankly they don't need to know if I'm going to fuck them!)

But that's it, the rest of it there is point lying about. Those who came to my house knew the town I lived in, and those who had me standing naked in front of them could tell you what size my tits are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"none - why would I ? -"

Lol how on earth can you not see why you might lie on a chat page?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give anything away, whether on here or in 'real life'. I don't lie I just won't answer personal questions.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't tell people my name until we arrange to meet.

I don't lie about any of the others, or, in fact, anything.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't give anything away, whether on here or in 'real life'. I don't lie I just won't answer personal questions. "

I agree. There are some questions I don't answer but I don't lie about anything.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

1 im not dirty or dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

Names and thats about it but we don't go about like some shouting out life story and every move on the forums we don't feel the need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I live close to you and have blocked you in case you may try to contact me! That's what I think of liars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I live close to you and have blocked you in case you may try to contact me! That's what I think of liars!"

Im sure hes devastated by your public declaration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just making my point......I don't like liars.......If you approve that is up to you????????

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I dont lie..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never lie! If I'm not comfortable sharing certain information, I will just say so, and would expect the same back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

None of the above. What's the point in lying?! I might leave out specific details but if i'm talking to someone in depth I hope to build a friendship with I don't see the point in being anything other than honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, I live close to you and have blocked you in case you may try to contact me! That's what I think of liars!"

I would only try and contact you if you were totally yum. So if you are, I recommend I remain on your block list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of them. But one of them I will not talk about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More likely to be vague or just not answer rather than lie. Mostly just about where I live though. Amazing how many people ask to know your street name etc! Why would anyone give that info to a stranger? "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

None for me...Caz is a derivative of my real name though it's not the name I go by IRL, but a good few Fabsters know and call me by either name...if chatting on a social I'm quite happy to crack about where I work and what I do in general terms and I see no point in lying about physical attributes as my photos show my size, as for my sexuality or number of meets, again it's something I see no point in lying about - it's on my profile and I'm well verified therefore it should be fairly obvious I'm serious about this NSA shagging malarkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you? "

So which five do you lie about and why do you feel the need to?

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I'm not really Spartacus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you?

So which five do you lie about and why do you feel the need to?"

Age, name, job, location and number of people I met. First 4 because I don't want to be identified or if I meet a stalker, I don't want them to be able to find me lol. Number of people I met because I think it puts people off.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

None whats the point i wouldn't want to be lied to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you?

So which five do you lie about and why do you feel the need to?

Actually technically it's 6 because I also see myself as straight but put bi on profile because most people would say I am bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just say you'd rather not tell someone what you do for a living until you get to know them? I can't stand liars. It wouldn't matter how well we got along, if it came to light someone had lied, then that would be the end of it.

I'm not upfront with a lot of information, but I state the reason why and I've never had any problem,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not just say you'd rather not tell someone what you do for a living until you get to know them? I can't stand liars. It wouldn't matter how well we got along, if it came to light someone had lied, then that would be the end of it.

I'm not upfront with a lot of information, but I state the reason why and I've never had any problem,"

Because then you seem all secretive and not trustworthy (ironic I know) but for single guys especially, you don't want to ruin chances of meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie,

I use my nickname 95% of the time

I hate being lied too so why would I lie

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Don't lie about stuff. Just wont give personal info. No ones business where we live, what we both work as , what cars we drive, family etc ! We keep our private life totaly seperate ... Amount of stuff some others share on here is plain scary!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I never lie! If I'm not comfortable sharing certain information, I will just say so, and would expect the same back

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"When chatting to people off fab, how many of following you lie about. . .

Age, height, name, job, location, cock size/tit size, what you into sex wise, relationship status, sexuality, number of people you met.

In general, I lie on 5 out of 10.

How about you?

Names and thats about it but we don't go about like some shouting out life story and every move on the forums we don't feel the need. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternative answers so you don't need to lie:

How old are you?

How old do i look?

What's your name?

Whatever you'd like it to be baby

What's your job?

I could tell you but then your security would be compromised and I could never do that to an angel like you (wink again)

Where are you?

Right by your side gorgeous (try to do the teeth glint thing then)

How many ladies have you pleasured?

Everyone that's ever known me, it's my duty to make your lives better (find a halo to wear with this answer)

Do you love men or ladies?

I love the whole of humanity, don't we all (this will make her feel guilty if she doesnt )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alternative answers so you don't need to lie:

How old are you?

How old do i look?

What's your name?

Whatever you'd like it to be baby

What's your job?

I could tell you but then your security would be compromised and I could never do that to an angel like you (wink again)

Where are you?

Right by your side gorgeous (try to do the teeth glint thing then)

How many ladies have you pleasured?

Everyone that's ever known me, it's my duty to make your lives better (find a halo to wear with this answer)

Do you love men or ladies?

I love the whole of humanity, don't we all (this will make her feel guilty if she doesnt )"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like this opportunity to confess that my initial post on this thread was, considering, pretty poor. I apologise. I'm getting rusty in my mid-age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really 5ft 2 .. 27 years old . And never had a meet .

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By *raggleRocCouple
over a year ago

Morpeth

None, dont see the point. We are who we are, warts and all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am really 5ft 2 .. 27 years old . And never had a meet .

Achem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be a good liar you need to have a very good memory!"

and they always get found out eventually - can be fun letting them get away with it and listening to them make up elaborate stories - all the while thinking you fkn b***d lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My name isn t johnsoda, my real name is on my profile though, age yep thats accurate job if its important ( what my job or other peoples isn t important to me) I ll tell those that ask location yep tescos is nearer than Iceland, I don t lie about my height weight yep ask away I can t answer the size as I ve not measured ,

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

"I'd like this opportunity to confess that my initial post on this thread was, considering, pretty poor. I apologise. I'm getting rusty in my mid-age.

How could you be anything else but rusty in ur old age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am really 5ft 2 .. 27 years old . And never had a meet .

Achem

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Ok 1 then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I am really 5ft 2 .. 27 years old . And never had a meet .

Achem

Ok 1 then

Do you want 2?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Amy Gdala is not my real name, although Lickety is what I now respond to with Fab people. I don't usually give out my address or full name unless I trust the person. I don't lie about any of the others.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Amy Gdala is not my real name, although Lickety is what I now respond to with Fab people. I don't usually give out my address or full name unless I trust the person. I don't lie about any of the others.

I think I'd call you 'Lix' if we (ever) meet

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

dont lie about anything but that doesnt mean i tell everybody all of the information in the OP

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I do apologise fo the delay in TishTosh replying...he's thinking long and hard about it.

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over a year ago

I don't lie, I don't need to.

What are they going to by knowing my real first name? I won't let them know my exact location until I feel ready but thats not a lie as such x

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over a year ago

Zero. Can't be arsed with lying, I have nothing to hide.

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over a year ago

"I do apologise fo the delay in TishTosh replying...he's thinking long and hard about it. "

Hang on his on the phone doing ask a friend

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Because then you seem all secretive and not trustworthy (ironic I know) but for single guys especially, you don't want to ruin chances of meet "

You should maybe work out some more truthful, but non-specific answers in advance then. You could say you work in the [eg financial] sector without specifying the exact company and job title. My given location is the postal town in my mail address - that's near enough for now....

Even saying something like you have 'met more people than you care to admit' or 'quite a few' can be honest without being specific, and I think most women would respect that.

We want honesty but we can respect some privacy. Well, the good ones can!

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