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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What is it?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

*not sure if to agree yet until I see the female consensus*

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Shallow compliments and insincere concerns will always be transparent enough for the discerning reader to see through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You what ??? What's white knight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't notice them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"

Is it a tumble dryer?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"

bloody hell Fabio I thought you meant fab had been infiltrated by a racist group !

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

Even with two of them you still can't checkmate the black queen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it depends if the intention is to be helpful or to ingratiate themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I have to google it ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm sure it gets them the brownie points and sex they seek by the bucket load.

*and then they wake up!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*dashes in on his trusty steed*

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By *efreeMan
over a year ago

North Staffs

Yep their tumble driers last forever!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Shallow compliments and insincere concerns will always be transparent enough for the discerning reader to see through. "

This

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good on them, they are trying to get a shag and doing their best to maximise their chances. If some ladies need the platitudes then it's a 'meet made in heaven'....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can annoy me too. It just comes across as insincere, desperate or overly PC to me usually.

It certainly never makes me want to shag anyone more and could well put me off.

That said, I try to take genuine compliments and efforts to give me a more positive perspective of myself graciously. I may not believe them but I try not to be dismissive.

Sometimes telling the difference between the two is difficult though. Are they saying it because they mean it or because they think it will give them a greater chance of getting into my/someone else's knickers?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"*dashes in on his trusty steed*"

You've got yer armour on backwards

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I see it as them trying to take me for a fool, just the same as the blatant and insincere flattery. The affect it has is opposite to the one I suspect they intend.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Yep their tumble driers last forever!"

I pass their factory when I go visit my gran

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Shallow compliments and insincere concerns will always be transparent enough for the discerning reader to see through.

This "

Have I told you that you have the most amazing bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shallow compliments and insincere concerns will always be transparent enough for the discerning reader to see through.

This "

agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most can tell whether it's an opinion that they believe in or whether they're just kissing ar$e or not.

If I'm honest they really amuse me

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"*dashes in on his trusty steed*"

*dashes in on his trusty Emma Peel*...... I'll get my coat.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and if I am honest, it is another example of men being treated differently from women. I have seen many, many examples of women slithering over guys in the forums, sucking up to them in the hope of being noticed...

they are not referred to as white knightesses...

just flirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*dashes in on his trusty steed*

*dashes in on his trusty Emma Peel*...... I'll get my coat. "

I had to Google that because at 31 I am still too young to get the joke. Hope that makes you feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible to flirt without being slithery though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"

I find them equal parts pathetic and unintentionally hilarious. They don't bother me as such, well no more than many other posters on here

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's possible to flirt without being slithery though "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most can tell whether it's an opinion that they believe in or whether they're just kissing ar$e or not.

If I'm honest they really amuse me "

how come I don't notice this?? Is it really subtle or am I just thick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most can tell whether it's an opinion that they believe in or whether they're just kissing ar$e or not.

If I'm honest they really amuse me

how come I don't notice this?? Is it really subtle or am I just thick? "

Just thick.

Am I a black knight now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and if I am honest, it is another example of men being treated differently from women. I have seen many, many examples of women slithering over guys in the forums, sucking up to them in the hope of being noticed...

they are not referred to as white knightesses...

just flirts"

There's more to the white knights than flirting though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up from time to time

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"and if I am honest, it is another example of men being treated differently from women. I have seen many, many examples of women slithering over guys in the forums, sucking up to them in the hope of being noticed...

they are not referred to as white knightesses...

just flirts"

I see your point.

Most of those guys haven't posted a thread saying they feel bad about themselves though.

That's where I consider White Knights to exist. The ones who try to use a perceived or actual weakness in someone else's confidence to ingratiate themselves.

Men seem to try to show their weaknesses less than women, in general. At least, it appears that way to me. And the ones who do show a lack of confidence are not the ones that women will want to suck up to. Sometimes that's simply by virtue of the fact they are presenting as lacking confidence.

I'm guilty of sucking up to blokes in here sometimes and but it's rarely done seriously. Well, not very seriously!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"and if I am honest, it is another example of men being treated differently from women. I have seen many, many examples of women slithering over guys in the forums, sucking up to them in the hope of being noticed...

they are not referred to as white knightesses...

just flirts

There's more to the white knights than flirting though. "

you know what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up from time to time "

have you considered it may be empathy?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think most can tell whether it's an opinion that they believe in or whether they're just kissing ar$e or not.

If I'm honest they really amuse me

how come I don't notice this?? Is it really subtle or am I just thick? "

Perhaps you dismiss it and pay it no heed. It's filed in the 'men (or women) saying what they think will get them laid' box and forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times

Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up

from time to time

have you considered it may be empathy?

"

Yes I see genuine empathy and I also see sycophancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never have liked arse lickers.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

All this considered, would a few of you please go and white knight my post on the how comfortable are you naked thread please?

(PS just kidding. I wouldn't believe you anyway!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times

Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up

from time to time

have you considered it may be empathy?

Yes I see genuine empathy and I also see sycophancy "

I see nothing can you privately point out an example of both please

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times

Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up

from time to time

have you considered it may be empathy?

Yes I see genuine empathy and I also see sycophancy

I see nothing can you privately point out an example of both please "

Virtually any thread about fat women. There will be haters and sucker uppers. In fact most threads where a woman expresses a negative _iew of herself, or someone expresses a negative _iew of a certain type of woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times

Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up

from time to time

have you considered it may be empathy?

Yes I see genuine empathy and I also see sycophancy

I see nothing can you privately point out an example of both please "

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It's just another one of those things on here, be it style of posting, cock pic/non cock pic, straight/bi, bareback, look at me, the list is endless.

Whatever it is - someone will always have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times

Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up

from time to time

have you considered it may be empathy?

Yes I see genuine empathy and I also see sycophancy "

there are single men that do care or do have an opinion of they're own the white knights are the ones who just say whatever to agree with someone they think is hot and usually contradict themselves thread to thread

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's just another one of those things on here, be it style of posting, cock pic/non cock pic, straight/bi, bareback, look at me, the list is endless.

Whatever it is - someone will always have a problem with it. "

Burgers. I have a problem with burgers.

A lot on here used to irritate me. Sometimes it still does but I'm getting better at accepting it as part of the site and ignoring it.

There have been a few threads in the past couple of days that would have wound me up before that I've simply not looked at. There are also a few people whose threads I won't read.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"
why does it bother you so much? Women will either fall for it or not, depending how much they need their ego,s massaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a significant difference between being flirtatious and sycophantic and for the most part the sycophants stick out like an erect cock - tho they are not necessarily male!!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

Virtually any thread about fat women. There will be haters and sucker uppers. In fact most threads where a woman expresses a negative _iew of herself, or someone expresses a negative _iew of a certain type of woman."

Ha so right !! Usually something along the lines of 'no you're not, you're GAWJUS'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a lot of sycophantic shit that goes along with the 'poor me' threads and it comes from both sexes. In the end I think they are all looking for attention in their own way and sometimes any kind of attention will do

I've probably been guilty of appearing like a white knight at times

Although I hope my intention is from a place of concern, even if I fuck up

from time to time

have you considered it may be empathy?

Yes I see genuine empathy and I also see sycophancy

there are single men that do care or do have an opinion of they're own the white knights are the ones who just say whatever to agree with someone they think is hot and usually contradict themselves thread to thread "

There's my problem. I can't remember what I've read once I change threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a significant difference between being flirtatious and sycophantic and for the most part the sycophants stick out like an erect cock - tho they are not necessarily male!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Virtually any thread about fat women. There will be haters and sucker uppers. In fact most threads where a woman expresses a negative _iew of herself, or someone expresses a negative _iew of a certain type of woman.

Ha so right !! Usually something along the lines of 'no you're not, you're GAWJUS' "

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

"

Don't be embarrased...you're GAWJUS

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I d like the voice of Barry white

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Don't be embarrased...you're GAWJUS "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I d like the voice of Barry white "

Would you serenade if you did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here.

I'm with you on this Fabio, it really bothers me. I physically groan when I see tgeyd comments. They leave me with the impression that the guy is a complete git.

Its a bit like the bad xfactor auditions, they are so bad you feel embarrassed for them, but you still have to read the cringey comments.

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By *olwaySonarMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

Is it a tumble dryer?"

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here.

I'm with you on this Fabio, it really bothers me. I physically groan when I see tgeyd comments. They leave me with the impression that the guy is a complete git.

Its a bit like the bad xfactor auditions, they are so bad you feel embarrassed for them, but you still have to read the cringey comments.

"

But at least it shows them for who or what they are.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"

If 'white knighting' bothers you ask yourself why.

Firstly - We can never know another's reason for doing what they do. We second guess, we use experience to a point and also we bring our own strengths , weaknesses and fears into the analysis.

We also tend to point out in others what we do not like in ourselves.

Secondly - It's not confined to males and of all those m that flatter, be they male or female , a certain number will be sincere rather than malicious or aware.

To label them all as 'white knights' simply in search of a 'shag' or as 'fawning females' seeking 'adoration' is being a little 'too concerned' about 'relationships' in here.

Leave the undeniably needy to find each other. If indeed they do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone that sticks up for a chick on the net gets labeled a white knight these days

some will be full of shit, some wont

i wouldnt ignore a lady being abused in the street same as ill say something if i thought someone was being picked on online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here."

Did she invent the internet too?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here.

Did she invent the internet too?"

Don't be silly.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"anyone that sticks up for a chick on the net gets labeled a white knight these days

some will be full of shit, some wont

i wouldnt ignore a lady being abused in the street same as ill say something if i thought someone was being picked on online"

Always knew you were more than just beauty ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here.

Did she invent the internet too?

Don't be silly. "

You pointed out that I am silly, is that because you don't like that about yourself?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Come to think of it you are usually a rude bugger tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here.

Did she invent the internet too?

Don't be silly.

You pointed out that I am silly, is that because you don't like that about yourself?"

I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people say 'it bothers me' I don't think they expect others to take them quite so literally.

I said it bothers me, its just an expression of words I use. it doesn't mean that I am running around in a distressed state or my life is severely affected by it.

it simply means that I cringe when I read the comments. I am affected by it only by the mental thought of ' oh god what a git'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone that sticks up for a chick on the net gets labeled a white knight these days

some will be full of shit, some wont

i wouldnt ignore a lady being abused in the street same as ill say something if i thought someone was being picked on online

Always knew you were more than just beauty ... "

please granny...ur embarrassing me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"[Removed by poster at 12/03/14 11:31:08]"

Let me put that back for you

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

i thought a white knight was the goody and the black knight the baddy..

am i wrong ?..

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It can be pretty entertaining when done blatantly or badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone wants to add to the insecurities of another .

I was the opposite of a White knight until a month or so ago , and tended to just be honest .

This led to me going over previous posts , and realising I had been unnecessarily harsh , so I chose to not comment at all if my comments were hurtful .

Examples may have been when someone asked about their profile , why couldn't they get meets , kiss, fuck , avoid , do you like larger women etc.....

I came very close to breaking my rule yesterday when someone asked if anyone woukd like to see her strip off on a BBW thread , but resisted .

And this , I guess , is what happens on an open forum . Some will always come across as sycophantic , others as trolls , and some genuinely try to be helpful and share their thoughts in a positive way .

The White knights are simply trying their luck in a desperate way , to get a shag . Some will succeed and others won't , but it won't stop .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Group Hug Glos ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and if I am honest, it is another example of men being treated differently from women. I have seen many, many examples of women slithering over guys in the forums, sucking up to them in the hope of being noticed...

they are not referred to as white knightesses...

just flirts"

The women are equally as cringeworthy.

those that start threads with the guys' name, and then a post follows about how funny he is, etc etc.

its all part of the fab experience

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"i thought a white knight was the goody and the black knight the baddy..

am i wrong ?.. "

I thought Black Night was by Deep Purple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"white knights is a term made up by Miss-Tress I believe, for men who suck up to women on here.

I'm with you on this Fabio, it really bothers me. I physically groan when I see tgeyd comments. They leave me with the impression that the guy is a complete git.

Its a bit like the bad xfactor auditions, they are so bad you feel embarrassed for them, but you still have to read the cringey comments.

"

Makes me cringe just thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group Hug Glos ?"

((((( granny )))))

Or was that somewhat sycophantic ?

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"i thought a white knight was the goody and the black knight the baddy..

am i wrong ?..

I thought Black Night was by Deep Purple.

"

i thought a black knight was a long way from home

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Group Hug Glos ?

((((( granny )))))

Or was that somewhat sycophantic ?

"

No dahlink! I felt the sincerity rummaging in me purse !! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind being silly but not when im serious "

Life is far too important to take seriously.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously."

Do you frivol your way through it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being realistic and honest about oneself helps.

When I get a message about how gorgeous and absolutely amazing I am and the most beautiful creation of womanhood that ever walked the earth, my git radar is alerted. I'm a mid 40s overweight woman who has an attractive ish face and a sharp mind, but Im no Elle McPhereson, so the message will register in my brain as being bollox.

For me the most cringy example are the guys who turn against other single guys with the old 'I can't believe what some women have to put up with, some of the messages are abusive, come on guys show these ladies some respect' which leaves those naive women among us think 'ah what a nice guy, in touch with his feminine side when its just another approach to get his end away.

Don't be a git, be normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously.

Do you frivol your way through it ?"

I try.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously.

Do you frivol your way through it ?

I try."

Never realised you were German.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is what I'm thinking, men making out to be the hero lol, its funny to watch as some make idiots of themselves, entertaining though lol

Her

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I'm a mid 40s overweight woman who has an attractive ish face and a sharp mind"

Don't forget the great rack babe.

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal


"Being realistic and honest about oneself helps.

When I get a message about how gorgeous and absolutely amazing I am and the most beautiful creation of womanhood that ever walked the earth, my git radar is alerted. I'm a mid 40s overweight woman who has an attractive ish face and a sharp mind, but Im no Elle McPhereson, so the message will register in my brain as being bollox.

For me the most cringy example are the guys who turn against other single guys with the old 'I can't believe what some women have to put up with, some of the messages are abusive, come on guys show these ladies some respect' which leaves those naive women among us think 'ah what a nice guy, in touch with his feminine side when its just another approach to get his end away.

Don't be a git, be normal "

What's normal ? We all have different _iews of normality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

*not sure if to agree yet until I see the female consensus*"

Post of the day!

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

I think everyone has , in there time, said something to ingratiate themselves with someone else. It doesn't follow though that ever time you say something nice or complimentary about someone that it's the same. As a recent post said, ever heard of empathy ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

[Removed by poster at 12/03/14 12:59:35]

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

*not sure if to agree yet until I see the female consensus*

Post of the day!

"

Doh !....... I didn't get it b4 !

No the Bishop didn't say it to the Actress.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Some people couldn't be nice, even if a unicorn shoved a fairy wand up their arse, while Judy Garland stood there singing somewhere over the rainbow!" Point being... Most i know have a bullshit radar.... And be it black or white it can be detected ( for me) within one conversation! Dont think in this example OP men can be segregated... They are men! Simples! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think its strange the people who shout out loudest about a subject are often the biggest offenders on it. Saying that people are what they are and easy to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"

That type of behavior doesn't bother me in itself and clearly it does make a positive impression for some women as evidenced by some giving flirtatious responses.

I find it a little uncomfortable when a women attacks a single guy often without merit and this behaviour is then adopted in some kind of 'gang mentality'. Apart from this, I couldn't care less how other guys choose to interact with women on here, or whether their motives are honorable.

As long as its within the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously.

Do you frivol your way through it ?

I try.

Never realised you were German. "

I didn't either,kind of makes him more appealing. Don't know why though

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


"Even with two of them you still can't checkmate the black queen."

You can only checkmate a King in chess, but yes, not with white Knights alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what if you remove gender from the equation?

Or sex?

Then does it simply become someone agreeing with a point of _iew? Is applying gender bias or sexual undertones disparaging to the alleged Knight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously.

Do you frivol your way through it ?

I try.

Never realised you were German.

I didn't either,kind of makes him more appealing. Don't know why though "

Sorry to disappoint but I'm regular boring old British.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Even with two of them you still can't checkmate the black queen.

You can only checkmate a King in chess, but yes, not with white Knights alone"
meant king don't know why i put queen

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do...

"

You mean the drooling sycophants? Not.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

S'funny - I have never been more successful on here than when I am being a sarcastic, grumpy old cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously.

Do you frivol your way through it ?

I try.

Never realised you were German.

I didn't either,kind of makes him more appealing. Don't know why though

Sorry to disappoint but I'm regular boring old British. "

nothing boring about British men. Well, some of them are very boring but I've seen your chest and it's rather interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't mind being silly but not when im serious

Life is far too important to take seriously.

Do you frivol your way through it ?

I try.

Never realised you were German.

I didn't either,kind of makes him more appealing. Don't know why though

Sorry to disappoint but I'm regular boring old British.

nothing boring about British men. Well, some of them are very boring but I've seen your chest and it's rather interesting "

p.s. If anyone thinks I'm being a sycophant he knows I want him so no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i thought a white knight was the goody and the black knight the baddy..

am i wrong ?..

I thought Black Night was by Deep Purple.

"

I thought he was in Monty Python and the holy grail...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is now the one thing that bothers me most on here.....

do they make the positive impression they think they do... or am just being extremely hard nosed this morning?

"

You don't have to squeeze into your armor and pick up your lance you have an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*dashes in on his trusty steed*

*dashes in on his trusty Emma Peel*...... I'll get my coat.

I had to Google that because at 31 I am still too young to get the joke. Hope that makes you feel better.

"

At 43, sadly, I understood it. And found it amusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i thought a white knight was the goody and the black knight the baddy..

am i wrong ?..

I thought Black Night was by Deep Purple.

"

Yeah, and White Nights is by Psychic TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S'funny - I have never been more successful on here than when I am being a sarcastic, grumpy old cunt. "

Must admit same applies here.

Well apart from the old bit obviously...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"S'funny - I have never been more successful on here than when I am being a sarcastic, grumpy old cunt.

Must admit same applies here.

Well apart from the old bit obviously..."

You're not old Crystal!

A

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Two threads ,almost identical op statement, only difference is the sex of the op .see how the treatment of the op often differs based upon sex x

That said my unscientific observations suggest male ops being treated better recently xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Two threads ,almost identical op statement, only difference is the sex of the op .see how the treatment of the op often differs based upon sex x

That said my unscientific observations suggest male ops being treated better recently xx"

It depends on the subject. Men are rarely the subject of threads criticising or judging how they look. And those that are started have male OPs usually.

Women are faced with comments and judgement on how we look and how we should look on a daily basis. Several times a day often.

Women don't get less grief. It's just a different type usually.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"

*not sure if to agree yet until I see the female consensus*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bogiesssssssssssssssssssssssss

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Shallow compliments and insincere concerns will always be transparent enough for the discerning reader to see through.

This "

However some people (male and female)seem to love them and lap them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bogiesssssssssssssssssssssssss"

you need to get out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd guess there are two types then on here; one that will say anything for a shag and the others that are sincere and in some cases, want to help because they do and can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought I would bump this thread rather than starting a new one on the same subject.

As the nights are drawing in, it appears that the Chancers in Tin Foil are more prolific recently. Or it could just be me being oversensitive.

My instinct is saying don't feed the trolls, but sometimes you see men and women posting comments that Forum Insurance just wouldn't cover.

Once the poster has sufficient support from the Knights it switches to "it's only my opinion ffs", almost like a self justification.

Maybe I just need to lie down in a darkened room for a while...

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

chancers in tin foil

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