FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting a message back

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just wonder is it so hard to write back even to say no thanks lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Is it Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get like 1 message a month and I cant be arsed to message back 'no thanks', imagine having like 100 per day

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Welcome to fab. I heard brad Pitt was here but he left with his confidence shattered.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are many of us who would message to say no thanks, some who have tried and had trouble arising from it, and the fab norm that is usually reported that is no reply and or blocking. It is no reflection on the sender most of the time, but on the recipient's taste, predicament and lots of other stuff. You have to take it on the chin, be grateful that you didnt use more effort fruitlessly with that contact to lead to nothing. A major tip is that many recipients view the sender's profile before reading the message. If the profile is not top notch, then the message may stay unread. So put photos into your profile that are great, make sure the contents sells you well. Look again at your own, and check that it is working for you. If not, all the messages may be in vain. Totally wasted effort. You deserve better than to make effort with emails, tailoring them exquisitely to the recipients, if you have a low grade profile. I looked and saw no pics and wondered why. Keep believing in yourself and fine tune it all to maximise your chances. Good luck!

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By *andyandyukMan
over a year ago

Gainford

Apparently it is too much work for women to reply!! god only knows why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wonder is it so hard to write back even to say no thanks lol "

Yes it is when get loads messages and time can spend on Fabs is limited, so time I do spend if rather use it messaging those that interest me than eating time with no thanks messages on those that don't.

When I first joined Fabs I used to reply no thanks, but 8/10 of those no thanks resulted in abuse back, which is another reason I don't send a no thanks any more.

What would be useful on this site is a drop down box, that can select a pre written no thanks message with option to block to stop a reply back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually for a reason.

Move on and try elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is the difference between a no thanks and no reply at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently it is too much work for women to reply!! god only knows why"

Would you reply to every piece of unsolicited mail you receive?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

good point essie ... if some women spent all night on here just going no thanks all night they'll have no time to say yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to fab. I heard brad Pitt was here but he left with his confidence shattered.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i dont understand why people cant take a deleted or ignored message as 'no thanks' ....why does it need to be spelt out ?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Has this been covered before, my memories not what it used to be,

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Has this been covered before, my memories not what it used to be,

No John. I do believe this is the first I've heard on this subject.

Dear O.P. Yes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If anyone wants to message me, I'll happily reply with a 'no, thank you'.

You can choose either:

A) fuck off, sad loser;

B) I'd love to but can't sorry or

C) yes, but not yet

Means the same thing generally. Depending on who messages me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wonder is it so hard to write back even to say no thanks lol "

Yes it is sometimes. From my point if view the question I ask is 'Is it so hard for you to bother reading my profile to see if you fit in with what I'm looking for' See, it works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wonder is it so hard to write back even to say no thanks lol

Yes it is sometimes. From my point if view the question I ask is 'Is it so hard for you to bother reading my profile to see if you fit in with what I'm looking for' See, it works both ways."

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If you accept that some people reply and some don't you will enjoy your time on the site much better

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