FabSwingers.com forum: fortune favours the brave

By *odareyou OP Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Ever waited to message someone maybe put them on your hotlist then when you ve got the perfect intro

The filters prevent you,

So do you strike asap or a wait and see

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Wait for them to contact me, generally, as I don't like to impose

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ever waited to message someone maybe put them on your hotlist then when you ve got the perfect intro

The filters prevent you,

So do you strike asap or a wait and see

Wait and see what?

Seize the day! Seize the send button! What's the worst that can happen? You don't have to send a great work of literature.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Ever waited to message someone maybe put them on your hotlist then when you ve got the perfect intro

The filters prevent you,

So do you strike asap or a wait and see

We very rarely message someone straight away that takes our fancy. Usually add them to our hotlist and keep an eye on their updates etc as some put us right back off.

Plus our free time is pretty limited so we don't like to message many new people all together. Otherwise they often assume we are playing hard to get or being awkward in not arranging a date to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really, we have a hot list and there are some on there that we would like to meet eventually if the chance ever come up, we don't message straight away though, unless we are in the mood for a spontaneous meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go with the flow if it's going to happen it will.

Filters can be a bit awkward but you never know they may get in touch with you.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It takes me a long time to pluck up the courage to mail someone as I don't like to impose and never expect a reply if I do, I am a bit shy really

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