FabSwingers.com forum: trust

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations

this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Tell him to take a hike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat to him about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would piss me off!!

Did he not just try calling instead of sending all them messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell him to take a hike "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that does my head in when people keep messaging when you haven't replied to the first. Like you're constantly welded to your phone! Guys do it on here too.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"That would piss me off!!

Did he not just try calling instead of sending all them messages.

glad he didn't cos my mum may have answered

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

101 messages

I think I'd have realised after 3-4 either your phone was broken or lost......

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Oh that does my head in when people keep messaging when you haven't replied to the first. Like you're constantly welded to your phone! Guys do it on here too. "

that's what gets me starts off nice then after not replying gets nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would piss me off!!

Did he not just try calling instead of sending all them messages.

glad he didn't cos my mum may have answered "

At the end of the day he's your FB, he's no right to treat you that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh that does my head in when people keep messaging when you haven't replied to the first. Like you're constantly welded to your phone! Guys do it on here too.

that's what gets me starts off nice then after not replying gets nasty "

No one needs that crap. Any decent person would send a message and just wait for a reply, people have other things going on in their lives. He sounds a bit obsessed! If I send a message I don't expect an instant reply, people will reply when they want to.

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Fb's are well fbs not your partner. 101 messages sound like someone is trying to control you. Get out its going to get worse. Plenty of people around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

101

Crikey, I'd be highly pissed off and would even consider telling him to take a hike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fb has no rights in your relationship. He doesn't sound like he knows this. I would end this if it was my fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet his little insecure fingers were really sore after bashing out all those texts

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap"

ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

101?! I'd be pissed off at more than 2!! Someone clearly doesn't understand the concept of FB.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

101 messages hes a nutter get rid

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap

ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while "

Hmm, sounds like he has a problem with jealousy that is somewhat out of control!

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap

ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while

Hmm, sounds like he has a problem with jealousy that is somewhat out of control!"

im beginning to see that now I often get messages saying I belong to him

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Tell him to 0121 do one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile states that your married so you shouldn't be putting up with this kind of behaviour, which indicates a belief of ownership.

It would really annoy me, messages on here asking if everythings ok if I don't jump to respond really irritate me and I don't jump to attention and I certainly wouldnt in your situation.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Thats scary shit! I wouldnt be putting up with none of that ... Wouldnt see my arse for dust infact! Lol crazy behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeeeeze

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. .sh . .trust . .no . .one . .sh . .x x X.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope its no a pay as u go phone @10p each...

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

That would annoy me from a partner, never mind a FB. Sounds like it's time to ditch him before he goes all Fatal Attraction on you.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap

ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while

Hmm, sounds like he has a problem with jealousy that is somewhat out of control!

im beginning to see that now I often get messages saying I belong to him"
oh my! Thats one loose cannon right there! Wish you luck with getting shot of him... Don't sount like its gonna be easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope its no a pay as u go phone @10p each..."
m

I was going to say that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your married, a fb should simply be that. Kick him to the curb

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations

this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue"

101 messages overnight???? Sounds like bunny-boiler territory. And, if he cancelled your meet, then, you are free to do what you want? He's an fb so, I assume, he has no claim on you.

I barely ever text my fb, and vice versa. Whoever he sees when he doesn't see me is his business and likewise I see whoever I like when not meeting him. Neither of us has a claim on the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way did he send 101 text messages come on

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if I had been your mum and the phone beeped 101 times, I would have smashed the fucking thing to bits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if I had been your mum and the phone beeped 101 times, I would have smashed the fucking thing to bits.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if I had been your mum and the phone beeped 101 times, I would have smashed the fucking thing to bits.."

True or my Mum would have been on the landline telling me to pick it up as its vibrated off the table on to the floor

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I barely ever text my fb, and vice versa. Whoever he sees when he doesn't see me is his business and likewise I see whoever I like when not meeting him. Neither of us has a claim on the other."

Ditto. Me and my FB text each other about once a fortnight, to arrange a meet. The only person I will swap loads of texts with is my daughter, and even she stops at 4 or 5 a night.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations

this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue"

That does not sound good... there really is no place for jealousy in swinging.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I barely ever text my fb, and vice versa. Whoever he sees when he doesn't see me is his business and likewise I see whoever I like when not meeting him. Neither of us has a claim on the other.

Ditto. Me and my FB text each other about once a fortnight, to arrange a meet. The only person I will swap loads of texts with is my daughter, and even she stops at 4 or 5 a night."

I cannot stand lengthy text 'conversations'. My sister-in-law is manic about it. She also easily takes umbrage if you don't respond quickly. She text once to have a pop at me not answering. I waited until it was safe to pull over in the car and pointed out that texting whilst doing 70 on the motorway was not only an offence but dangerous and that I was actually on my way to hers. She did apologise afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way did he send 101 text messages come on

I admit I'm tending to agree with this

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I hope its no a pay as u go phone @10p each..."

he has unlimited texts .. it was not on loud cos I didn't want to be disturbed while seeing my daughter yesterday he sends lots of one word texts like hi or hello and he texts me so much sometimes I get a headache from replying

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I am going to tell him my rules or not at all

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I hope its no a pay as u go phone @10p each...

1. Have you told him that this is excessive?

2. What was his response?

3. Did you come up with any agreement or boundaries regarding texting?

4. Is he ignoring those?

Dump him!

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

thanks guys you all confirmed what ive been thinking for a while anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats scary shit! I wouldnt be putting up with none of that ... Wouldnt see my arse for dust infact! Lol crazy behaviour!

Im with her ^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap"

Dead right. You should read the thread about clairs law. This is how bad things start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile states that your married so you shouldn't be putting up with this kind of behaviour, which indicates a belief of ownership.

It would really annoy me, messages on here asking if everythings ok if I don't jump to respond really irritate me and I don't jump to attention and I certainly wouldnt in your situation."
I would change my phone I could not cope .. your right its like a ownership thing and would irritate the hell out of me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whoa that's not normal behaviour for anyone let alone a FB..!!

how well do you know him, he sounds very insecure. if you're married isn't this kind of behaviour a little worrying for you too?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would annoy me from a partner, never mind a FB. Sounds like it's time to ditch him before he goes all Fatal Attraction on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations

101 messages from 1 person..in 1 night?

Are you serious?..

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

when he starts texting me he don't stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when he starts texting me he don't stop "

Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.

..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations

this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue"

Apologies if I have this wrong but bring a fb he doesn't own you and I assume you are both free to meet others in this type of relationship?

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"when he starts texting me he don't stop

Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.

..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.

hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

101 messages? Fuckin'ell!

...i know i chat enough shit on here. But, i ain't got enough hours in the day to be texting 101 messages.

Cor blimey! That's a bit OTT that. He must have some magic fingers on him!

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"101 messages? Fuckin'ell!

...i know i chat enough shit on here. But, i ain't got enough hours in the day to be texting 101 messages.

Cor blimey! That's a bit OTT that. He must have some magic fingers on him!

he has!!!! stop reminding me or I wont give him up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when he starts texting me he don't stop "

Maybe tell him you will change your number if he doesn't stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when he starts texting me he don't stop

Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.

..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.

hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him "

101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.

That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.

If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Totally unacceptable behaviour.

He doesnt own you.

Dump

Theres plenty more out there

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"when he starts texting me he don't stop

Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.

..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.

hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him

101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.

That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.

If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would."

he has a gf he even texts me constantly from his work too he was on nights last night hence the texts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.

...let me do the 24 hour calculation.

Be right back.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.

...let me do the 24 hour calculation.

Be right back.

I will admit I can text fast

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

later him... your worth better treated than that...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when he starts texting me he don't stop

Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.

..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.

hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him

101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.

That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.

If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would."

Ffs I was only replying to yours!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when he starts texting me he don't stop

Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.

..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.

hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him

101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.

That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.

If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would.

Ffs I was only replying to yours!!

you do freak me out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.

...let me do the 24 hour calculation.

Be right back.

That comes to 4 texts per hour in 24 hours.

Fuck my life!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is he still your FB?

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.

...let me do the 24 hour calculation.

Be right back.

That comes to 4 texts per hour in 24 hours.

Fuck my life!!

that's nothing pops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am going to tell him my rules or not at all"

Rules are so important! Having a fb that knows his place is ideal for everyone. We have code if he text and I don't text right back after ten minutes he will send another one because sometimes my phone isn't on me or its on silent. If after that he will leave it go until I message him.

Your fb has clearly forgotten his boundaries and needs a refresher course

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Why is he still your FB?

we are good together I know its shallow of me but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do

That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.

If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would."

I was just replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't sound like you're going to get rid of him. Be careful.

And look up Emotional Abuse.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Doesn't sound like you're going to get rid of him. Be careful.

And look up Emotional Abuse."

he is doing my head in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very soon, the exchange rate is gonna be 1 post = 1 text.

Good value, i say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adds a new meaning to "101 things to do today "

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I will tell him to stop thanks for the advice guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send him to room 101.

It's sounds scary to me. He is trying to control you. This could get nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will tell him to stop thanks for the advice guys "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X"

Verging on scary?

Way past scary and into obsessional imo.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X"

hes not from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X

hes not from here"

I mean blocked from contacting you, number blocked.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X

hes not from here

I mean blocked from contacting you, number blocked."

I will do .. thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X

hes not from here

I mean blocked from contacting you, number blocked.

I will do .. thanks everyone"
Maybe he see himself more then a FB but your lover so think he has a hold on you in some way .

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