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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does your job define you?

see loads of profile names referring to people jobs on here, or getting messages that mention it in the first line (especially if it happens to be one of the uniformed services)

do you feel you are your job, or do you find people that feel the need to mention it somewhat annoying.

early thursday minirant lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discuss what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only two people on this site know what my exact job is. Anyone else asks and the get told I'm a secretary, which is partly true anyway. I'm not here to talk about work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a full time carer for my son

I'm a really caring person, so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually sometimes it can annoy me when people ask on here if i have no connection to them but sometimes i'm happy to volunteer the information but no i do not think it defines me as i do 3 completely different things yet in a way there are sort of links to bring them together in ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It becomes a bit of a flirty joke on here but nothing more than that,its just a job and no it doesn't define me,I don't bring my work home or take it out to play

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I bloody hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mention mine or Donna's jobs on here, if asked when meeting people we will say but other than that I've never thought it relevant for others to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No my jobs and Luke's job definaly don't define either of us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two jobs....I like both my jobs but feel one is a lot more 'me' than the other but I'm not defined by it, no more than I'm defined by any other part of my life really. I'm me, a total of all my life and experience not just of how I earn my money.

I will quite happily mention exactly what I do should it arise but don't especially mention it up front....I never feel the need to keep any one part of my life separate to another as its all part of me. I am who I am with everyone these days and if folk don't like what I do then its their issue really.

What you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody would be interested in me being a retired euro-millions 6 week rollover jackpot winner !!

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Though I love my job with passion, I wouldn't say it defines me. People who mention what they do isn't a problem for us, It's when we're faced with someone who can only talk about their "professional Job" and lack intriguing conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may mention it if it comes up in conversation, but I do try to leave work at work and home at home.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I may mention it if it comes up in conversation, but I do try to leave work at work and home at home. "

What about when you're on the journey to or from work ? Where do you leave that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't discuss what I do "

Likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily define, but it's a huge part of my life, which I am so beyond passionate about, so it certainly adds to who I am.. I'm just extremely lucky I've been able to make a passion, pay my bills... haha

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Only two people on this site know what my exact job is. Anyone else asks and the get told I'm a secretary, which is partly true anyway. I'm not here to talk about work."

Some years ago I was introduced to a rather glamorous lady at a social (non-swinging) event.

I picked up that she was a secretary. Only later did I discover she was a Secretary of State.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I do for work is my business.

Unless I really like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never mention my job, unless I am asked about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the complete opposite to my job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I design dildos and vibrators for a living. It's a fucking hard job. Lol

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We only mention it because of long hours/shift work mean we have limited weekends. Other than that we dont mention it.

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