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By *uy for tv ts bi cpls OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

should you meet some one again if they have not left you a verification the first time you met up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would that make any difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone leaves verifications

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some guys prefer not to let on that they are bi so they might not write you a veri.

Is it right that there is still a bias against bisexual men? No. But is lying by omission a solution?

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By *uy for tv ts bi cpls OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

I just think its polite if you have met some one to at least give them a verification even if the person or couple don't want to use it!

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By *uy for tv ts bi cpls OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

it was from a lady who is part of a bi couple and clearly states that on there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a good time with them, yes I would. I don't care about veris or not. Also I always ask if someone wants one and sometimes they say no thanks. I like a nice veri... But it's not essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and have done. We met up four or five times on my previous profile. He just never wrote veris. I used to tease him that he was lazy but he made up for it in other ways Shame he moved away really.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Regard a veri as a gift. It's lovely to receive but it's not quite the done thing to ask for.

Surely if they want to meet again that is enough. Not everyone writes or wants veris.

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By *uy for tv ts bi cpls OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

just seems that they like to have them as they are showing over 20 including the one I sent to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a fun meet and everyone enjoyed themselves, then yes we would meet them again regardless if they had left a veri or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you just ask them if there is a reason they didn't leave a verification?

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By *uy for tv ts bi cpls OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

I have and no reply from them!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

did you ask them why they didnt verify you... that would have been an easy thing to do.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I have and no reply from them! "

then I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone about once a week for 18mths who never left me a single veri...never even entered my head not to continue meeting someone I had good sex with because they hadn't left a comment on a website about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can't be bothered to leave one then I would probably move on myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I must admit I would be offended if I left someone a veri and they did not do the same . I would think I did something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on how much a veri means to you....

I've met quite a few people that I haven't verified & vice versa as I don't think they're majorly important and would meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would that make any difference?"
..Yes why would it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to the conclusion that who I meet is our business and no longer feel the need, if I were meeting, for either of us to feel the need to verify the other. There are many stories of some pretty horrible behaviour as a result of veris, so I am no longer a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but I guess its more of a concern because he doesn't actually have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but I guess its more of a concern because he doesn't actually have any."

Hmm...hadn't noticed that. I'm confused OP...how have you left them a veri if you are unverified?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not on here for verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should you meet some one again if they have not left you a verification the first time you met up??"

Did you enjoy each other? If so, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've answered your own question with your status

I think if you had fun then why not have more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must admit I would be offended if I left someone a veri and they did not do the same . I would think I did something wrong "

Same here! This happened on my last meet,I left him one he said he'd return the favour and I've still not received it,think its a bit rude and am starting to think I did something wrong too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you verify someone if you don't have verifications?Apologies if im being thick.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we have been meeting a number of guys for 2 years plus and all great friends but none of us have verified each other but we all love each others company

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Regard a veri as a gift. It's lovely to receive but it's not quite the done thing to ask for.

Surely if they want to meet again that is enough. Not everyone writes or wants veris. "

I certainly don't expect a verification as a given or even as a question of manners..It is a gift and an extra, not at all to be taken for granted.

Meeting again is reward enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must admit I would be offended if I left someone a veri and they did not do the same . I would think I did something wrong "
snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did you verify someone if you don't have verifications?Apologies if im being thick."

Sensing the whole truth isn't being told!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like to leave verifications and if someone left me one, I'd definitely leave them one. Unless they were an arsehole of a spectacularly high order.

All things being equal, I'd meet someone again who didn't leave me one. Do what feels right, unless you are left handed, then do whatever feels left. Unless it is 4AM in a night club and most of the people have pulled, in which case try and do what is left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did you verify someone if you don't have verifications?Apologies if im being thick.

Sensing the whole truth isn't being told!"

Certainly some part if the story missing!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Well I must admit I would be offended if I left someone a veri and they did not do the same . I would think I did something wrong "

I left someone a veri an I didn't get one back. I left it a while then asked (blatantly) along te lines of did you like my veri type message and got a yes thanks type answer but still no veri.

Must have had a veri veto against me.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

It's nice to receive a veri to say you were a good meet but not always given. We have had meets were the veris were one sided but certain peeps still want to meet us again so I would not let it worry you. We don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm crap at writing them. You wouldn't want one from me

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

It's not the veri we would may be want but a meet never mind re meet lol x

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