FabSwingers.com forum: The ladies have it good on here .

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean ! Just imagine if it was the other way round , and us guys found a site like this where the women outnumbered the guys by 100 to 1 .

I suppose the economy would meltdown , nothing would get done ....LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

There might be lots of guys but not all of them are what we are looking for taking into account that dreaded word "preference"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

You know what I think you are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

I would agree totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts."

True, but the larger quantity of options you have, chances of finding quality in there goes up also - say for example there were just 10 women on here, there might be only 2 I felt like meeting, but if there were 20 women, then there might now be 4 I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The grass is not always greener! We may get more messages, doesn't mean they're the type we want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needle in a haystack comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even in the OP's scenario I suspect there are a fair few guys on here that would still struggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even in the OP's scenario I suspect there are a fair few guys on here that would still struggle!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not sure, I still see desperation for a shag from both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even in the OP's scenario I suspect there are a fair few guys on here that would still struggle!

There would probably a few who would be worn out through overuse too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even in the OP's scenario I suspect there are a fair few guys on here that would still struggle!

must be women in the same boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even in the OP's scenario I suspect there are a fair few guys on here that would still struggle!

There would probably a few who would be worn out through overuse too

be a few*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels easier to get meets being female having spoken to a few men. I think women read profiles more and men, not all men, don't seem to read what we would like so we don't waste men's time. Fab is a great site. A good profile counts I always read it all, look at photos and any verifications. Yep mine is not a fab profile but get plenty of mail lucky

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Not to mention the diva worthy strops and the toddler shaming toy throwing .All because i dare to say im not interested in a guy who has deemed me worthy enough to take care of his hangover horn lol !

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

As been said its the quality not quantity that counts .If the women vastly out numbered the guys on here i actually think that the guys who have a sense of entitlement would just feel more entitled to a fuck .

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority "

If it's that bad for you, why be here?

Not my experience at all.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I mean ! Just imagine if it was the other way round , and us guys found a site like this where the women outnumbered the guys by 100 to 1... .

I think it's called POF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean ! Just imagine if it was the other way round , and us guys found a site like this where the women outnumbered the guys by 100 to 1... .

I think it's called POF!!!"

I agree

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love it for the tables to be turned for a while.......I could do with the rest

.........joke!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority

If it's that bad for you, why be here?

Not my experience at all."

im here because as i said there are some wonderful people on here .I also have a thick skin and concentrate on the people i do wish to meet. Those who don't like being told no ect just save me any further conversation as just proved i was right to turn them down lol .

im very glad you haven't experienced the abuse and crass mails ect . Alot of people will have experienced this though as other threads will verify .

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority

If it's that bad for you, why be here?

Not my experience at all.

im very glad you haven't experienced the abuse and crass mails ect . Alot of people will have experienced this though as other threads will verify ."
Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur to all of the above, being a single fem is not all roses.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in summary there are numerous women replies. We read ha ha. Write a good profile and mail after reading the profile and make sure your what they are after. A nice thought up approach will most certainly get a reply whereas I am parked in my lorry come and fuck this doesn't ha ha. Yes had lots of rubbish mail but women can spot potential meets a mile away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ...."

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority

If it's that bad for you, why be here?

Not my experience at all.

im very glad you haven't experienced the abuse and crass mails ect . Alot of people will have experienced this though as other threads will verify . Well said.

Do you honestly think the majority of people aren't nice?

It doesn't read like you have thick skin if I'm honest (not saying this to be nasty, just how it seems), it reads like it's an ordeal for you. If men are so bad block them, and you search for guys you like the look of??

That's what I do but even on my singles profile (on another site) where I have no facility to block I never got a majority of responses that were of this nature, just a few. Most were normal human beings, much like on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

Can you also shake it all about?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I mean ! Just imagine if it was the other way round , and us guys found a site like this where the women outnumbered the guys by 100 to 1 .

I suppose the economy would meltdown , nothing would get done ....LOL

Should this not be on the fantasy forum? Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority

If it's that bad for you, why be here?

Not my experience at all.

im very glad you haven't experienced the abuse and crass mails ect . Alot of people will have experienced this though as other threads will verify ."

I concur! I have had my fair share as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

Can you also shake it all about?"

As long as it's not your right foot in and your right foot out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

Can you also shake it all about?

As long as it's not your right foot in and your right foot out

I'm usually far too busy with my feet, putting them in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a male demographic in here that is in high demand.

They all seem to work for the British broadcasting commission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

Can you also shake it all about?"

I can indeed!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

Haha, I reckon you could be right

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

Haha, I reckon you could be right "

Ryan what a bloody fab lot of pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

Haha, I reckon you could be right

Ryan what a bloody fab lot of pics"

I literally wet myself looking at Ryans pics. The cleaner called to Aisle 3 in Asda was not amused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Not to mention the diva worthy strops and the toddler shaming toy throwing .All because i dare to say im not interested in a guy who has deemed me worthy enough to take care of his

hangover horn lol !

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority "

Well said

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

Haha, I reckon you could be right

Ryan what a bloody fab lot of pics"

Thank you

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Oh yes I feel very blessed to have such classic messages such as "I wanna smash your back doors in " and the ever swoon worthy " im horny ,you up for a fuck ".

Then of course who can forget the classy abuse and name calling for anything !! From me having a profile on here ,being married and swinging or just generally daring to breath .

Finally i feel lucky to have the presumptions that

a) im on swingers site so therefore gagging for it ,

b) i have no preferences of my own and purely here to drop my knickers at a moments notice for any and ever ramdom who mails .

c)that as a munter i should be greatful for any interest showen in me and should feel flattered a guy has strung 2 words together to me

Ahh yes i will be putting all these blessing in my prayers for tonight to remind me of just how lucky i am ..lol

Fortunately there are some wonderful people on here but seem to be in the minority

If it's that bad for you, why be here?

Not my experience at all.

im very glad you haven't experienced the abuse and crass mails ect . Alot of people will have experienced this though as other threads will verify . Well said.

Do you honestly think the majority of people aren't nice?

As I said it "seems "the decent folks are in minority . Weather they are or not no one will ever know one way or the other .

I can only commented from my experience on here, which just differs from your own .I do hope that experience remains unchanged for you . As you can see here and on other threads , there are those with same exspriences as myself .

As for it sounding a chore ..well certainly not easy here at times .But nothing worth while is ever easy lol ! The lovely friends I have made make any hassles worth while . You go through a lots of rocks in life before you find the diamonds .

Been here 6ish years and certainly not going to let others behaviour dictate mine .Not going to let others snipes to stop me from finding what I want from the site . Others though aren't so thick skinned and sadly leave the site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feminazi alert.

Militant whining profile check.

Constantly irritated by things but doesn't just hit block button check

Loves a long attention seeking gripe on the forum about trivial things check

In real life wouldn't say boo to a mouse, most likely, check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality for me please. Luckily I have experienced this each time I met someone.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

Don't think I've forgotten. Shocking...you look all innocent and....

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"It's quality not quantity that counts. Using that as a measure, I think the ratio of men and women on here is just about the same.

Which can make it time and energy consuming for us to sort through the messages to find those that do fit our tastes and then have read out profiles, are genuinely what they say in theirs abs then finally do show up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do have it good, but many of us know it's very imbalanced and don't become lesser people (or somehow better in our own eyes) because of it.

well said

I think it's a great site but as I've said previously you get out what you put in.

Nudge nudge. ....

we had that chat the other night about what you can put in and what I'd get out lol

Can you also shake it all about?

As long as it's not your right foot in and your right foot out

I love the hokey pokey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality for me please. Luckily I have experienced this each time I met someone.

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By *rsusMan
over a year ago

Tayside

Totally true

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