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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a single guy so when I get talking to a lady . As long as the both of us are physically attracted to each other we could meet .. With couples meeting couples there is 4 people that need that attraction . So my question is !! Lets just

Say your lady really fancied the guy but you did not find the lady attractive . Would you still meet . Just to please your lady ? Same question to the lady . If it was the other way round obviously

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The reason I am asking this question is because . Its hard enough for me to find someone that I fancy and she fancies me . So it must be even harder for 4 people to all find each other attractive . I

See single guys moaning about getting meets on here all the time but reckon it must be even harder for couples . Am I wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think that's bad?? How do you think me, myself and I feel when it comes to finding another triple we all fancy

Fecking ball ache I tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think that's bad?? How do you think me, myself and I feel when it comes to finding another triple we all fancy

Fecking ball ache I tell you

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I'm ok . My imaginary friend is a right slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think that's bad?? How do you think me, myself and I feel when it comes to finding another triple we all fancy

Fecking ball ache I tell you

I'm ok . My imaginary friend is a right slut

She got a sister

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think that's bad?? How do you think me, myself and I feel when it comes to finding another triple we all fancy

Fecking ball ache I tell you

I'm ok . My imaginary friend is a right slut

She got a sister

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what do you

Mean she !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think that's bad?? How do you think me, myself and I feel when it comes to finding another triple we all fancy

Fecking ball ache I tell you

I'm ok . My imaginary friend is a right slut

She got a sister

what do you

Mean she !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never take one for the team.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Never take one for the team.

this..

as tempting as it may be its about both of you so it has to click for all 4..

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

All have too click x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"All have too click x"

to lick..

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its about taking one for the team, if She who must be obeyed really fancied a couple but the lady didnt get me twitching then i would be quite happy to sit with a cup of horlicks and watch

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

It wouldn't be fun for us meeting people without an attraction. Fortunately, we're both patient people so if we've to wait a few months then so be it. Quality rather than quantity is best for us. - Mr. B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never take one for the team.

This...we all have to click to really enjoy ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is really hard finding couples where all four get on and are attracted to each other. Not a big deal as if its not right it's not right and and we are happy to wait for the right couple. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes you have to be realistic that sometimes it may not go four ways.

If a bloke or woman didn't fancy me I would take it on the chin, it happens.

If it went two ways or three ways, I would be happen to watch him in action, I would enjoy myself doing that, there would be no hard feelings, I'm happy to sit back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes you have to be realistic that sometimes it may not go four ways.

If a bloke or woman didn't fancy me I would take it on the chin, it happens.

If it went two ways or three ways, I would be happen to watch him in action, I would enjoy myself doing that, there would be no hard feelings, I'm happy to sit back."

I don't think I'm being unrealistic in wanting all four to play ( I want my cake)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me and I would never want my boy taking one for the team either. For us it's about us both having fun. If one of us feels a little awkward then it's a no go. Rather be fussy and simply enjoy each other than play for the sake of it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me and I would never want my boy taking one for the team either. For us it's about us both having fun. If one of us feels a little awkward then it's a no go. Rather be fussy and simply enjoy each other than play for the sake of it xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes you have to be realistic that sometimes it may not go four ways.

If a bloke or woman didn't fancy me I would take it on the chin, it happens.

If it went two ways or three ways, I would be happen to watch him in action, I would enjoy myself doing that, there would be no hard feelings, I'm happy to sit back.

I don't think I'm being unrealistic in wanting all four to play ( I want my cake)

Fruit or Cream ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes you have to be realistic that sometimes it may not go four ways.

If a bloke or woman didn't fancy me I would take it on the chin, it happens.

If it went two ways or three ways, I would be happen to watch him in action, I would enjoy myself doing that, there would be no hard feelings, I'm happy to sit back.

I don't think I'm being unrealistic in wanting all four to play ( I want my cake)

Fruit or Cream ?

Can we have both. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes you have to be realistic that sometimes it may not go four ways.

If a bloke or woman didn't fancy me I would take it on the chin, it happens.

If it went two ways or three ways, I would be happen to watch him in action, I would enjoy myself doing that, there would be no hard feelings, I'm happy to sit back.

I don't think I'm being unrealistic in wanting all four to play ( I want my cake)

Fruit or Cream ?

Can we have both. X

Oh yes indeedy

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

All have to be happy. We would never have fun with anyone if they both didn't float our boats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All have to be happy. We would never have fun with anyone if they both didn't float our boats.

Even harder to find 2 couples that like us and each other! Possible though. And fun.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"All have to be happy. We would never have fun with anyone if they both didn't float our boats.

Even harder to find 2 couples that like us and each other! Possible though. And fun.

Oh its definitely possible...

Add another couple in to the mix too...

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Its much easier for us, we only meet single guys. So its only me that has to be happy for things to proceed. xxx

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"Its much easier for us, we only meet single guys. So its only me that has to be happy for things to proceed. xxx"

We have only met one single guy before privately and played in a club with a couple more but my mister still has to be happy with them fucking me. Its the same the other way round too. We all have to be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All have to be happy. We would never have fun with anyone if they both didn't float our boats.

Even harder to find 2 couples that like us and each other! Possible though. And fun.

Oh its definitely possible...

Add another couple in to the mix too...

Parteeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will always meet people, just simply because , even if you dont find someone instantly attractive, their personality can make all the difference.

people that rely on their looks tend to be a little wooden and shallow, not always, but generally speaking.

its never a case of 1 pleasing the other, but more a case of giving someone a chance to allow their personality to come out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we will always meet people, just simply because , even if you dont find someone instantly attractive, their personality can make all the difference.

people that rely on their looks tend to be a little wooden and shallow, not always, but generally speaking.

its never a case of 1 pleasing the other, but more a case of giving someone a chance to allow their personality to come out"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Neither of us is happy just watching and neither of us is bi so one if us playing would probably mean that one of the other couple would have to sit it out as well.

Our golden rule us never take one for the team, it means our play meets are limited but that's our choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we found find attractive in a couple is not purely defined by looks and physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the guys a bit of a twat it doesn't matter how hot his missus is, he's not going near my wife.

If Kate doesn't get on with the other lady, it's not happening either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we found find attractive in a couple is not purely defined by looks and physical attraction. "

This!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What we found find attractive in a couple is not purely defined by looks and physical attraction. "

the same goes for us it's one of the reasons we always meet socially first, it doesn't seem to increase the chances of all four of us clicking though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found it very hard to find a 4 way connection when we played with couples but when we did it was absolutely lovely

We were in a restaurant having lunch last week and a couple on the next table started chatting to us and I thought that if they were swingers then id definately have enjoyed them both as we all just clicked out of nowhere and a lovely hour laughing and chatting about anything and everything.......have no idea if they would have thought the same about us though but it made a nice lunch a bit more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we found find attractive in a couple is not purely defined by looks and physical attraction.

the same goes for us it's one of the reasons we always meet socially first, it doesn't seem to increase the chances of all four of us clicking though. "

it does help to let the personality of someone come through though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we found find attractive in a couple is not purely defined by looks and physical attraction.

the same goes for us it's one of the reasons we always meet socially first, it doesn't seem to increase the chances of all four of us clicking though.

it does help to let the personality of someone come through though. "

someone that can hold a decent conversation and make both of us laugh and enjoy their company, can get knickers of faster than the likes of george clooney, brad pitt, cameron diaz or angelina jolie can, if all the latter do is come across as self absorbed.

looks and a great personality are a massive bonus, but all too rare

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By *ookn4thirdCouple
over a year ago

Ashland

"I think sometimes you have to be realistic that sometimes it may not go four ways.

If a bloke or woman didn't fancy me I would take it on the chin, it happens.

If it went two ways or three ways, I would be happen to watch him in action, I would enjoy myself doing that, there would be no hard feelings, I'm happy to sit back."

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