FabSwingers.com forum: Ever had one of those days.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ever had one of those days where you're just thinking about things that have happened or what could have happened if things were different? Bloody hell, it puts you in a bit of a downer doesn't it?

I'm having one of those days. I need to get to work and take my mind off it all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it's natural to go over situations and do the" what if "bit ..but it's how you react after you've done your reflecting that matters ..keep smiling pops xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep nearly every day lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep nearly every day lol"

Cor blimey! It's doing my head in just this one day and you go through it every day lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I rarely think about the what ifs. To late to change anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep nearly every day lol

Cor blimey! It's doing my head in just this one day and you go through it every day lol

Have done for 3 and a half years lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely think about the what ifs. To late to change anything

Ditto. I rarely do as well.

Just today i received a message from someone after a while and it's got me thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot of times but I end up feeling worse than I did at the start

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

I never dwell on what may have been, I know I have made hundreds of mistakes.

Some major, like totally screwing up a relationship with someone I really cared about by talking without thinking, to the minor screw ups like spilling paint on the rug or walking through the house with muddy boots.

There is enough going on in my life to depress me as it is without spending time feeling sorry for myself because of things that didn't go the way I wanted

Don't beat yourself up about things that didn't happen, by grateful for what did and move on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i'm having one of those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes but I don't dwell on it. If one bad thing hadn't happened, a load of good stuff wouldn't have happened afterwards.

The Butterfly Effect....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny you should say that I had a moment this morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes but I don't dwell on it. If one bad thing hadn't happened, a load of good stuff wouldn't have happened afterwards.

The Butterfly Effect....

So, am i caterpillar at the moment then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant un do whats been done.

Just got to figure what u want and how to get their from where u r now

Look forward to the the good things still to come x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever had one of those days where you're just thinking about things that have happened or what could have happened if things were different? Bloody hell, it puts you in a bit of a downer doesn't it?

I'm having one of those days. I need to get to work and take my mind off it all lol

I've had a few like that recently, but thankfully with a friend's help I'm coming out the other side

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