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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead?" Depends whether the master / mistress is a pedigree or mongrel | |||
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead? Or are many in denial? All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? " Haha - I'd end up in a muzzle and kennel if I tried! | |||
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead? Depends whether the master / mistress is a pedigree or mongrel " ooooo so cutting lol | |||
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"SOMEONE always has to be in charge " I don't mind someone being in charge, I do have a problem when they start getting bossy tho! | |||
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"SOMEONE always has to be in charge I don't mind someone being in charge, I do have a problem when they start getting bossy tho! " Oh I never insist on anything that the other person does not want to do honestly But its a bit like the bi male thing men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do | |||
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"men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do" And that will be the same for females & couples too! It isn't only men who don't always say what they like straight away | |||
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" But its a bit like the bi male thing men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do" But Evie,when you have them tied up and shining a spotlight in their face its hard to for them say no | |||
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" But its a bit like the bi male thing men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do But Evie,when you have them tied up and shining a spotlight in their face its hard to for them say no " PMSl | |||
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"My sub playmates are all different. From lingerie, toys, spanking, collar, lead, watersports, wax etc. Some like all, some a few, some I have sex with some I don't! It's a myth that they're not men. One of my subs is ex Sandhurst and was wounded in Afghanistan, he now heads up his own security company! That's why I say alpha males (outside the bedroom). Wishy washy namby pamby men don't do anything for me at all! Something VERY erotic having a hunk doing everything to please you: fun for me! " Thanks so much I like sub men in the bedroom but not essentially out of it The men I meet are real men Not lesser men because a women tells them what to do In fact maybe they're more or a man, whose to say But a 6 footer on his knees in front of me is a joy to behold | |||
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead? Or are many in denial? All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? " Evie, i couldnt think of anything worse personally, but i know you loves it ya minx lol, now i much prefer to have the collar on and someone else in control of the leash | |||
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead? Or are many in denial? All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? " Definitely not ALL men - mine certainly would not and he is not in denial either. I seem to attract submissive men, too, perhaps it has something to do with vibes I am giving of being a somewhat strong character - and I can be dominant but it is not what I enjoy for my pleasure. I like a slightly dominant man, and dominance is about intelligence and imagination, the ability to create an atmosphere more than anything else. For me anyway - others differ. | |||
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"If someone tried to put a collar on me they'd get a fookin slap as soon as I managed to stop laughing. " reminds me of a situation where we were at well-known club (no, not chams) with another couple. The other woman and I had decided to collar and blindfold the chaps and lead them from the changing rooms to the play area. On the way there, the other women applauded us, saying "go girls" and we had a lot of fun. Sadly our two blokes started laughing, not taking us terribly seriously, playing with their collars and it ended up in all of us rolling around laughing so not much domination. But it was fun trying | |||
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"If someone tried to put a collar on me they'd get a fookin slap as soon as I managed to stop laughing. " oh wishy ya do mek me laff | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split " yeah we do.. but only on a banana one | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split " I can only speak for myself: this is fantasy fun for me nothing more. The time will come when I'm bored with this and I'll actively seek a "normal" relationship. Although I have a dominant personality in a relationship I let my partner believe we have a 50/50 split! | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split I can only speak for myself: this is fantasy fun for me nothing more. The time will come when I'm bored with this and I'll actively seek a "normal" relationship. Although I have a dominant personality in a relationship I let my partner believe we have a 50/50 split! " my partner and I tend to quibble over the decimal points... | |||
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead? Or are many in denial? All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? " hope the collar and leash are matching btw!!!! | |||
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead? Or are many in denial? All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? hope the collar and leash are matching btw!!!! " I think i could manage a few leads no probs. Used to walk mums 2 old dogs and never had a prob with walkies | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split " sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 | |||
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"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds xxxxxk" good for you gf good init | |||
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"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds xxxxxk good for you gf good init" Well darling with a neck like mine it wouldn't fit in a collar even if i was inclined! lol | |||
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"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds xxxxxk good for you gf good init Well darling with a neck like mine it wouldn't fit in a collar even if i was inclined! lol " my collar, well the biggest was made for a st bernard and it will fit ya so there | |||
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"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds xxxxxk good for you gf good init Well darling with a neck like mine it wouldn't fit in a collar even if i was inclined! lol my collar, well the biggest was made for a st bernard and it will fit ya so there " Bet it still wouldn't fit! | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 " Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way " me neither haha but you brought up a 50/50 split wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even but it did strike me as being ironic nothing personal meant I promise | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way me neither haha but you brought up a 50/50 split wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even but it did strike me as being ironic nothing personal meant I promise" I haven't got an ironic bone in my body! What I mean was why does someone have to be in charge. | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way me neither haha but you brought up a 50/50 split wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even but it did strike me as being ironic nothing personal meant I promise" Sorry, but why bring it up in the first place then? Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really! Note I did say sorry at the start so no offence meant | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way me neither haha but you brought up a 50/50 split wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even but it did strike me as being ironic nothing personal meant I promise Sorry, but why bring it up in the first place then? Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really! Note I did say sorry at the start so no offence meant " but its ok for the lady in question to feel the need to question why I dont want 50/50 its a 2 way street really | |||
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"Oh someone always has to be in charge if you have 2 ditheres nothing gets done If you have 2 dommes, everyone gets done If I'm in charge, I get what I want done hahaha and I am single with no one else to consider really" But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate | |||
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"noe of the men I meet feel abused or used trust me on that plus you only have to read my verifications I prefer to be in charge some prefer to be sub its the way it is for some of us " Oh for once we agree, everyone to their own | |||
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split sorry I have to say this but does your husband even get 50/50 Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way me neither haha but you brought up a 50/50 split wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even but it did strike me as being ironic nothing personal meant I promise Sorry, but why bring it up in the first place then? Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really! Note I did say sorry at the start so no offence meant but its ok for the lady in question to feel the need to question why I dont want 50/50 its a 2 way street really" Nope and that will be why I said "Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really!" She just asked a question! And to answer it yeah a 50/50 split for fun is great | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol " Just don't get lawyers invoved lol | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol " Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once he gets off on officialdom | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once he gets off on officialdom" But is he allowed to wear the collar and lead in the Court? | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once he gets off on officialdom But is he allowed to wear the collar and lead in the Court? " And is it charged as an extra | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate" OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once he gets off on officialdom But is he allowed to wear the collar and lead in the Court? " they are invariably very submissive | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol " Contracts are very common in D/s or M/s relationships | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol Contracts are very common in D/s or M/s relationships" I was only being playful - I dont know THAT much about the contracts between dom and subs but would be interested in knowing more... you never know when that could become handy | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense " So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it | |||
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting Just to be sure lol Contracts are very common in D/s or M/s relationships" I have with 3 of my special friends | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense " Its a complex relationship many don't understand. The benefits can be very rewarding for all sides though. | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it" Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control. | |||
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"its is far more equal if you like than you would think because the person that is sub has to agree to being sub so its complex" Exactly | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control." Noooooooo | |||
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"So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it" No I really do see it as a meeting of equals, its for me to say stop/no/enough and it not listened to we'd both loose. But the key point is I find it both fun and liberating. | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control. Noooooooo " As in many things in life, men THINK they are in control | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control. Noooooooo As in many things in life, men THINK they are in control " of the TV remote? most definitely | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control. Noooooooo " Is that not allowed? | |||
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused. And you can be totally considerate OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period. Hope that makes sense So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them. It's another way of looking at it Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control. Noooooooo Is that not allowed? " Yehhhhhhhhh! Hell yehhhhh Oooo the visions! won't be able to sleep now | |||
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. " So for both parties to receive pleasure at different times each has to be submissive/dominant | |||
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. " I would love to understand the concept of "submissive" properly as I feel it is a bit hazy. Now if being submissive means temporarily giving up control over events in a sexual play I agree that the vast majority would be classed as sub, for it is pleasurable to allow another person to take charge of the experience. No guilt, no responsibility just plain fun. But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... is something quite different. | |||
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. So for both parties to receive pleasure at different times each has to be submissive/dominant " You got it lol | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts..." Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line " The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life | |||
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. So for both parties to receive pleasure at different times each has to be submissive/dominant You got it lol " Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds good to me | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl" I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line " Well not sure if they have moved into that business but i'll bet it wont be long | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life" We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here " nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx " Oi wait for us! | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx Oi wait for us! " you coming? | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx Oi wait for us! you coming?" Can I come too | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx Oi wait for us! you coming?" Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx Oi wait for us! you coming? Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right " I am trying so hard....... to log of and go to bed.... it is soooo difficult when you guys keep posting!!!! Stop it!!! xx | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx Oi wait for us! you coming? Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right I am trying so hard....... to log of and go to bed.... it is soooo difficult when you guys keep posting!!!! Stop it!!! xx" Is that going to bed with a log | |||
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line The lawyer is the sub ... I think He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx Oi wait for us! you coming? Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right I am trying so hard....... to log of and go to bed.... it is soooo difficult when you guys keep posting!!!! Stop it!!! xx Is that going to bed with a log " yeah ... a firm, solid, smooth.... chocolate one | |||
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"I have to say there is something real sensual about a woman in a collar! " Dawn French as Vicar of Dibley in a white collar...woohooo! | |||
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"I have to say there is something real sensual about a woman in a collar! " I've got mental pictures of you loitering around outside A&E now. | |||
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"its is far more equal if you like than you would think because the person that is sub has to agree to being sub so its complex" It is very complex. One of my subs is Dom with everyone bar me. With him I know intense pain and orgasm takes him out of the sub mode so my control is keeping him there, his control is allowing me to keep him there. We don't talk to each other before, during or after apart from my instructions. Usually in these kinds of relationships there are safe words. We've never discused that he's given me control not to hurt him. If someone relinquishes control are you really in control? In the Stories section I've written an account of one of our meets. I'll get around to writing about our meets on a packed commuter train, him sat next to me shaking like a leaf while I talk to colleagues! | |||
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"My sub playmates are all different. From lingerie, toys, spanking, collar, lead, watersports, wax etc. Some like all, some a few, some I have sex with some I don't! It's a myth that they're not men. One of my subs is ex Sandhurst and was wounded in Afghanistan, he now heads up his own security company! That's why I say alpha males (outside the bedroom). Wishy washy namby pamby men don't do anything for me at all! Something VERY erotic having a hunk doing everything to please you: fun for me! Thanks so much I like sub men in the bedroom but not essentially out of it The men I meet are real men Not lesser men because a women tells them what to do In fact maybe they're more or a man, whose to say But a 6 footer on his knees in front of me is a joy to behold " Phwoar i like the sound of that and ive some lovely pictures of Mistress with her sub | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think " Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here" Oh I so did meet him off here | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here" well its not a regular then lol | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol" Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol " Down boy and eat your bone lol | |||
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"There is something that just makes you grin seeing a man in a collar. It is what they were born to wear " {chortle} | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol" Do you think, all things considered, he can reach his bone? | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol" It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it | |||
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"There is something that just makes you grin seeing a man in a collar. It is what they were born to wear {chortle} " What size is your neck | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol Do you think, all things considered, he can reach his bone? " It depends on how much walkies I get and how fit I am lol | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it " Chomp, Chomp | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp " Up on my hind legs now begging for more | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more " I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see... | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more " Oh love a man that begs | |||
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"Up on my hind legs now begging for more I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see..." Oh and what an exhibitionist, pass the sauce please lol | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see..." It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x | |||
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"There is something that just makes you grin seeing a man in a collar. It is what they were born to wear {chortle} What size is your neck " Too big for any collar to ever fit round it. | |||
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl I met one of yours friday we have more in common than you think Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here Oh I so did meet him off here well its not a regular then lol Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see... It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x " Do you errr... cock your leg? | |||
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more Oh love a man that begs " Only beg for the best treats, am a pedigree you know - be there asap | |||
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see... It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x Do you errr... cock your leg? " Every now and again I do | |||
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more Oh love a man that begs Only beg for the best treats, am a pedigree you know - be there asap " Oh and I am a pedigree bitch | |||
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see... It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x Do you errr... cock your leg? Every now and again I do " and you are good at following scents (nice ones only, of course) ??? | |||
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more Oh love a man that begs Only beg for the best treats, am a pedigree you know - be there asap Oh and I am a pedigree bitch " Ok with me | |||
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't! Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol Down boy and eat your bone lol It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it Chomp, Chomp Up on my hind legs now begging for more I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see... It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x Do you errr... cock your leg? Every now and again I do and you are good at following scents (nice ones only, of course) ???" Yup nose to the ground as we speak lol x | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused" Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble " It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow " Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress " Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy Now there ... | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy Now there ... " Awwwww thanks am loving all the patting and stroking right now mistress pmsl x | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy Now there ... Awwwww thanks am loving all the patting and stroking right now mistress pmsl x " Now rollon your back for your tummy tickling lol | |||
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy Now there ... Awwwww thanks am loving all the patting and stroking right now mistress pmsl x Now rollon your back for your tummy tickling lol " Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling " You won;t know which direction to turn to | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to" He does not need to... we tell him | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him " Of course | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course " Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?" Down boy and behave | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? Down boy and behave " am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? Down boy and behave am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol " now stay!! | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? Down boy and behave am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol " Well as long as you remember to hang up you collar and lead | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? Down boy and behave am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol Well as long as you remember to hang up you collar and lead " I always do, otherwise the studs jab me when I am trying to sleep lol | |||
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" Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling You won;t know which direction to turn to He does not need to... we tell him Of course Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? Down boy and behave am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol Well as long as you remember to hang up you collar and lead I always do, otherwise the studs jab me when I am trying to sleep lol " Did you not get permission from Petillante to take them off for the night? | |||
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