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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people assume just as it's a sex site you are just going to be their friend. You wouldn't just walk up to someone in the street and say hi your my friend and they say ok my new best buddy. So please if you want to be a friend at least say hello first. Any one else get requests from strangers. My strangers not even looking for single guys. Very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fweeeeeeend

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

They must be just really shy is all I can think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see your friend only pics probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually get them from Guys I'm sure they do it to get access to your friend only pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend."

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! "
Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But not even a hello or wink. Just straight in best buddies, yeah let's go the pub. Oh and you coming for Xmas dinner this year? Yeah kids are welcome to oh and will you be god parent to my kids as we go way back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!"

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't ! Have a little laugh at least, some just want the friends only pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a wink, friend request and a message all off the same guy the other night asking if I wanted to "come and have a good time in his truck cab!" And my profile says straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually get them from Guys I'm sure they do it to get access to your friend only pics"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!"

Thats what we do now. We can at least one a day from someone we have had no contact with whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend."

So - you think that rules can be bent just because we're on this site?

Thanks for putting your name forward to be added to my Block list...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!"

Ooo didn't know that thankyou for top tip I will no longer just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete as its very rare I add people and never without talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

So - you think that rules can be bent just because we're on this site?

Thanks for putting your name forward to be added to my Block list...!

"
Thats ok your not my type hun lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!

Ooo didn't know that thankyou for top tip I will no longer just delete "

I didn't realise that either, will let them fester in requests list in future!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Straight to delete button...and winks too....pointless if not followed up with a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet I'm not the only one who thinks it depends what they look like initially!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we haven't chatted and you send me a friend request I hit the block button. States so on my profile but they probably haven't read it. Not people I would meet! They are only pic collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys just send them to see private pics but I only add people I've met as friends. Sometimes if I've had several from one person and I'm feeling a little mischievous, I just take all my friend only pics off and accept lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!

Ooo didn't know that thankyou for top tip I will no longer just delete

I didn't realise that either, will let them fester in requests list in future!"
Neither did we, leave them there in future we will

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I just put in private notes they do not read profiles and leave their friends invites sitting there. Used to delete them but they just resend as soon as they are able. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont except them,leave them,then huge delete now and again.

Then i go to a club and when go to add them,they have already sent me one so we are friends straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave them to rot in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys just send them to see private pics but I only add people I've met as friends. Sometimes if I've had several from one person and I'm feeling a little mischievous, I just take all my friend only pics off and accept lol"

Aw c'mon! It's not only guys! I've had friend requests off single women, TV/TS and couples!!

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Like most people I just Leave them there if they can't be bothered to speak I can't be bothered to accept them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys just send them to see private pics but I only add people I've met as friends. Sometimes if I've had several from one person and I'm feeling a little mischievous, I just take all my friend only pics off and accept lol

Aw c'mon! It's not only guys! I've had friend requests off single women, TV/TS and couples!! "

Lol I believe you but for me its only guys as I've blocked everyone else in my message filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys just send them to see private pics but I only add people I've met as friends. Sometimes if I've had several from one person and I'm feeling a little mischievous, I just take all my friend only pics off and accept lol

Aw c'mon! It's not only guys! I've had friend requests off single women, TV/TS and couples!! "

I don't think anyone is saying its only guys who send them but given the ratio of men to women on the site I'd say the odds are women get far more on a daily basis that the guys do!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol."

and I thought I was special!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

and I thought I was special!! "
And yes your kept in a special place in my heart x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

and I thought I was special!! And yes your kept in a special place in my heart x."

you can have a special place in my bed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!

Ooo didn't know that thankyou for top tip I will no longer just delete "

You're welcome I have my uses occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

and I thought I was special!! And yes your kept in a special place in my heart x.

you can have a special place in my bed x"
Ooooooo and yes will take up on that, I will bunk on the left u right x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Get them all the time and they just get deleted, the only people on my friends list are people I meet or plan to meet!

Exactly, only I just leave them there so they cant send again for 60 days!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

and I thought I was special!! And yes your kept in a special place in my heart x.

you can have a special place in my bed xOoooooo and yes will take up on that, I will bunk on the left u right x"

I have to have the left side sorry x

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We get the odd one from couples, but the vast majority gathering dust are from single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

and I thought I was special!! And yes your kept in a special place in my heart x.

you can have a special place in my bed xOoooooo and yes will take up on that, I will bunk on the left u right x

I have to have the left side sorry x"
that's OK as long I can be on top that's fine mm .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our profile clearly states winks or friend invites or we will block. Recently received both from one guy whom we replied to stating we were going to block as he clearly had not bothered to read profile, then he replied telling us we were rude! The nerve of some people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I usually chat with people for a while before allowing them in further. Some go quiet after a while. Shock, I imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stubble yes, beards depends on the beard really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people assume just as it's a sex site you are just going to be their friend. You wouldn't just walk up to someone in the street and say hi your my friend and they say ok my new best buddy. So please if you want to be a friend at least say hello first. Any one else get requests from strangers. My strangers not even looking for single guys. Very strange. "

Great to read someone who thinks the same way as we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stubble yes, beards depends on the beard really "

Wtf I put this in the wrong topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone sends a friend invite I just block everyone who's sent them without even speaking to me

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I just leave them sat there. Then they can't send another.

My friend request list is mahoosive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had two,they were both from couples in my area,one of which clearly stated on profile that friends invites wouldn't be accepted before meeting in person!I blocked them both "simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave them sat there. Then they can't send another.

My friend request list is mahoosive!!"

I had 50 in mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind it and as well we are on a sex site so the rules can be bend.

Ahh but you have readily admitted in the forum that you're not fussy and will shag anything!! Here v go zzzzz and thank for noticing and yes just fuck women lol.

and I thought I was special!! And yes your kept in a special place in my heart x.

you can have a special place in my bed xOoooooo and yes will take up on that, I will bunk on the left u right x

I have to have the left side sorry xthat's OK as long I can be on top that's fine mm ."

why can't I be on top??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave them sat there. Then they can't send another.

My friend request list is mahoosive!!"

I wouldn't even bother to count how many invites are sat in mine! The only ones I might accept are ones where I fancy a perv at their private pics, but I only accept when they're offline then perv and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they just want pics to wank over.

I accept the friend invites. When they see my pic they defriend me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only assume that they are picture collectors looking for access to your friend only pictures.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"To see your friend only pics probably "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people assume just as it's a sex site you are just going to be their friend. You wouldn't just walk up to someone in the street and say hi your my friend and they say ok my new best buddy. So please if you want to be a friend at least say hello first. Any one else get requests from strangers. My strangers not even looking for single guys. Very strange. "

Loads all time, don't know why they bother as I don't accept requests until met in person

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I just leave them sat there. Then they can't send another.

My friend request list is mahoosive!!

I had 50 in mine! "

Mine must be over 100 and that's since I stopped deleting them. I wonder if the site will implode if it gets to 1000?

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