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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Involves leaving the NHS .. Yes many a bad word said about the NHS.. But it's been good to me 7 weeks paid Annual leave A cracking pension.. Paid sick leave... And a good team to work with do I go... I can go no further in my current role.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Weigh up the pros and cons for staying or going and if your still no clearer then flick a coin. I've made many a life decision on the flick of a coin and it always worked out well for me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Your pension will still be there, if at a lower rate.

Will the new challenge give you a thrill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weigh up the pros and cons for staying or going and if your still no clearer then flick a coin. I've made many a life decision on the flick of a coin and it always worked out well for me "

You'll know what you're hoping for before the coin hits the floor.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pension will still be there, if at a lower rate.

Will the new challenge give you a thrill?"

Yes it's a total turnaround, a massive new challenge I'm unsure wether I have the patience.. From cardiac.. To autistic adolencents. So rewarding but so challenging. I need to move on from my current role. I get itchy feet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weigh up the pros and cons for staying or going and if your still no clearer then flick a coin. I've made many a life decision on the flick of a coin and it always worked out well for me

You'll know what you're hoping for before the coin hits the floor. "

You think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Your pension will still be there, if at a lower rate.

Will the new challenge give you a thrill?

Yes it's a total turnaround, a massive new challenge I'm unsure wether I have the patience.. From cardiac.. To autistic adolencents. So rewarding but so challenging. I need to move on from my current role. I get itchy feet "

Autistic adolescents will be an enormous challenge but enormously rewarding too. Only you know if you have the patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weigh up the pros and cons for staying or going and if your still no clearer then flick a coin. I've made many a life decision on the flick of a coin and it always worked out well for me

You'll know what you're hoping for before the coin hits the floor.

You think "

Try it. Heads- keep the same job. Tails- new job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like you are leaving one amazing job for another albeit with different challenges.

I'm in awe of people who work in both fields, from personal experience with my parents and cardiac units & a friend who has an autistic child.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sounds like you are leaving one amazing job for another albeit with different challenges.

I'm in awe of people who work in both fields, from personal experience with my parents and cardiac units & a friend who has an autistic child.

x"

Ah thank you sweetie, I've jumped on many a chest, to staying alive lol... But this to me is a whole different ball game... I've worked secure units, with psychotics, phycopaths, looked after cerebral palsy guys, and Down syndrome, but I haven't got the foggiest about autism, ill be honest... I've read up on it... It's vast.. And quite honestly scary ... I've not a clue! I think this is why I'm tempted to accept...

I've agonised to the point of tears ffs!!!

Give me me a phychotic! Or an MI Any day lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go with your heart "

Tease you know me Hun.. Come on which? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go with your gut.

what was your first thought about the new job, before you started thinking about all the shit surrounding the situation of changing or staying?

i ALWAYS follow my first instinct and have never gone wrong yet.

that first thought, before your judgement is clouded by life, is the one that you trully believe is for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what your gut says and if it turns out your gut says take the job and it doesn't work out I'm sure you'd be well placed to find something back in your field of speciality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In either role you are changing lives. Get a big piece of paper and write the pros and cons down for each career path. Put it away. Have a brew and look at it again. Which one gets you excited? Which one makes you want to get up in the morning? Only you can decide. Major decision time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i would say is that if you are leaving the public sector for the private sector be aware.

i know people who have done that and been shocked at the way things are done. You would kiss goodbye to sick pay and 7 weeks holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go with your heart

Tease you know me Hun.. Come on which? X"

Go for the new job. I've been around lots of autistic Children/Adults and though sometimes its a bit scarey, they also leave you with a massive smile on your face when they learn to trust you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, I didn't think it would be so hard! X

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