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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I found out on FB today that an old friend of mine who i met on my travels had commuted suicide her long term boyfriend did the same two weeks ago and it seems she couldn't live without him. Although I haven't seen her for over 15 years we stayed in touch and whenever i thought of our meeting with her it always bought a smile to my face!!! I feel so sad that life gets that bad for someone that they have to end it and also apart from a post can't say goodbye properly RIP Sammy, you made such a good inpression on me x

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

So sad especially for family and friends left behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a terrible thing I'm sorry for your loss x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Sorry to hear that hun, I lost a good friend a fortnight ago who I used to see a lot and haven't for a while, funeral Friday. Such a shame. Big hugs x

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By *erseysideridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

so vry vry sorry 4 ur loss hun ,,hope she has found eternal peace r,i,p,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's very sad, my colleague and best friend for ten years lost his 35yo daughter to a brain hemorrhage on Friday evening.

No loss is easy to bear but some are harder than others.

Huggs to you hun xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That is just awful. You must be feeling all sorts of confused, angry and negative feelings. Sorry to hear that.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh no...that is so sad

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sorry to hear of everyones losses recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Even harder when it's unexpected. Remember though that those memories will stay with you forever & it sounds like she made a great impression on your life. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxxx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

hugs to everyone who has lost someone

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

its such a shame ..when tragedys happen sonetimes support networks arent made readily available to those affected ..i wish it was different but sadly people do seem to forget about those left behind and if they dont have the presence of mind to seek help themselves they can be abandoned and such outcomes occur ...truly tragic ...rip X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear your sad news xx remember the good times you shared xx

((( hugs ))

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all, she certainly always bought a smile to my face whenever she popped up on the radar what was hard was she wrote the most heart wrenching posts in the last few weeks in memory of her boyfriend but I never thought she would to do something like this especially as she was one tough cookie. Still so shocked but nice to share....thanks FAB x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Death of a loved one through ill health or an accident is hard enough to take, but suicide is on another level. My mate's mum ended her life a few years back and he has never got over it

Sorry to hear of the loss of your friend

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I had a friend who commuted suicide as well. It is a terrible tragedy, when someone gets so low, they see it as their only way to escape their pain. RIP.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

*committed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, she certainly always bought a smile to my face whenever she popped up on the radar what was hard was she wrote the most heart wrenching posts in the last few weeks in memory of her boyfriend but I never thought she would to do something like this especially as she was one tough cookie. Still so shocked but nice to share....thanks FAB x"

So often the tough ones are wearing a mask.....I know I'm 'tough' x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I had a friend who commuted suicide as well. It is a terrible tragedy, when someone gets so low, they see it as their only way to escape their pain. RIP. "

Me too last year. Still can't get my head around it. I spend half the time angry at him and the other half sad. Like you say it's a tragic thing to think that ending your life is the only way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend who commuted suicide as well. It is a terrible tragedy, when someone gets so low, they see it as their only way to escape their pain. RIP.

Me too last year. Still can't get my head around it. I spend half the time angry at him and the other half sad. Like you say it's a tragic thing to think that ending your life is the only way x "

I'm like that with my friend who died last month. She took her own life and I'm either really angry or really sad when I think about her. Xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I had a friend who commuted suicide as well. It is a terrible tragedy, when someone gets so low, they see it as their only way to escape their pain. RIP.

Me too last year. Still can't get my head around it. I spend half the time angry at him and the other half sad. Like you say it's a tragic thing to think that ending your life is the only way x

I'm like that with my friend who died last month. She took her own life and I'm either really angry or really sad when I think about her. Xx"

That's normal, however someone dies.

Suicide is hard on everyone so take some time to remember them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a friend who commuted suicide as well. It is a terrible tragedy, when someone gets so low, they see it as their only way to escape their pain. RIP.

Me too last year. Still can't get my head around it. I spend half the time angry at him and the other half sad. Like you say it's a tragic thing to think that ending your life is the only way x

I'm like that with my friend who died last month. She took her own life and I'm either really angry or really sad when I think about her. Xx

That's normal, however someone dies.

Suicide is hard on everyone so take some time to remember them.

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I'm having an addition to my latest tattoo in memory of her. Miss her so so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear of your loss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sad to hear of your loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take time to grieve all of you who have experienced tragic losses xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

treasure your memories. And smile x

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