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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

some women on here are escorts but i wouldn't class the people who met them as using an escort as that was not the arrangement they had made.

Same thing applies to Andy.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no it was his girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devils advocate, he has been with a prostitute, allbeit unwittingly, he just hasn't paid for it.

Op what is your _iewpoint?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My _iew is a little different to everyone else's

If some one is shagging a fireman does it make any difference if they off duty? In my opinion they still fireman if they on duty or not, so if his x is a prostitute even thou he never paid she was still a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he was'nt a client

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prostitutes are women first in a certain type of employment.

technically he has slept with a woman who is a prostitute, so yes has 'been with' one...

however,

he has not 'visited ' or 'gone to' a prostitute in order to procure a service.

essentially, its a semantics argument.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There is a difference between having sex with someone who works as a prostitute and purchasing the services of a prostitute. One is sex borne of affection and maybe live. The latter is sex borne of a financial transaction and has a different moral background to many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him..."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him..."

or tell him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As far as I'm concerned I've not slept with a prostitute as law says that for it to be deemed as prostitution there must be a exchange, so there for as there was no exchange for the sex I've not been with a prostitute

Andy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

or tell him "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client "

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him..."

Or tell him, so unknowingly.

Good ammo for ribbing him, but harsh to hold it against him…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escorts have a sex life too

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him..."

I fully agree the moment you pay that is when it is prostitution.

So the answer to the question is No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

Or tell him, so unknowingly.

Good ammo for ribbing him, but harsh to hold it against him… "

i don't hold this against him just find it very amusing to dig him with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

or tell him "

Culpable deniability...

I'm originally a Yamyam.. If I don't tell you, does that mean I'm not a yam...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My _iew is a little different to everyone else's

If some one is shagging a fireman does it make any difference if they off duty? In my opinion they still fireman if they on duty or not, so if his x is a prostitute even thou he never paid she was still a prostitute "

I can't see your point, I mean, if a firewoman put out a fire in your house & you were truly grateful, what would you care if at a later date you found out that she wasn't really a firewoman, she was a prostitute? V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?"

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i think the key difference is ...he was in love with his girlfriend when he was sleeping with her ..when men engage with prostitutes it is purely a sexual act and completely devoid if emotion ...so no ...he hasnt been with a prostitute

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

it's in the past - he didn't know what she did for a living - which one of you is having a problem with it? Z

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living"

but do people go round saying 'you slept with an admin assistant!!!'? or is it only prostitutes (ad coppers/fireman lol) where it matters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Neither of us has a problem with it but the issue allways seems to divide opinion so we thought we would see if you nice people could give us a difinitive answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

but do people go round saying 'you slept with an admin assistant!!!'? or is it only prostitutes (ad coppers/fireman lol) where it matters?"

In this case there seems to be a bit of conflict

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Neither of us has a problem with it but the issue allways seems to divide opinion so we thought we would see if you nice people could give us a difinitive answer "

when do the forums ever give a definitive answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's in the past - he didn't know what she did for a living - which one of you is having a problem with it? Z"

I'm assuming neither...

If this isn't a light hearted thread, then it certainly comes accross as one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there something you find distasteful about prostitutes then? Or about people that have partaken of their services?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorance is bliss I say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there something you find distasteful about prostitutes then? Or about people that have partaken of their services?

"

No neither each to there own but its something we have bit of banter over and wanted other peoples opinions on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had sex with me would you have fucked a guy who works in IT, even though you didn't know I worked in IT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes she was a prostitute but like has been said, he never paid as it was was a relationship.

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By *aitinkCouple
over a year ago

York

I think some of the responses here are a little judgmental and a not a few have played the sophist. Regardless of his girlfriend's vocation, he has never engaged the services of a prostitute.

Let's face it, some high maintenance girlfriend's demands are much greater than the price of a prostitute and they never get tarred, and some of them should.

More to the point, he should be more worried that he hasn't been, 'living off immoral earnings'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you had sex with me would you have fucked a guy who works in IT, even though you didn't know I worked in IT? "

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did read this week that a man reported a prostitute to trading standards because she turned him down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did read this week that a man reported a prostitute to trading standards because she turned him down "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definite answer is; He had a girlfriend who lied about what she did for a living, so, what's the problem?

I may have shagged an axe murderer in the past, but If I didn't know.................

Anyone ever have a one night stand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing devils advocate, he has been with a prostitute, allbeit unwittingly, he just hasn't paid for it.

Op what is your _iewpoint?"
does this mean he owes her money?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"it's in the past - he didn't know what she did for a living - which one of you is having a problem with it? Z

I'm assuming neither...

If this isn't a light hearted thread, then it certainly comes accross as one..."

are we allowed those these days???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-22887138

A man phoned 999 to report prostitute for being unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's in the past - he didn't know what she did for a living - which one of you is having a problem with it? Z

I'm assuming neither...

If this isn't a light hearted thread, then it certainly comes accross as one...

are we allowed those these days??? "

I am...

DILLIGAFF, about those who say not...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"it's in the past - he didn't know what she did for a living - which one of you is having a problem with it? Z

I'm assuming neither...

If this isn't a light hearted thread, then it certainly comes accross as one...

are we allowed those these days???

I am...

DILLIGAFF, about those who say not... "

dunno....cant see ya head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

I fully agree the moment you pay that is when it is prostitution.

So the answer to the question is No. "

hmmm isn't having a GF/wife the same as having a prostitute?? we all pay, in one way or another

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My ex was a prostitute, she told me the first night we met as I told her I was bisexual.

Things were fine for 5 years, she had 2 regular clients both of whom I met

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-22887138

A man phoned 999 to report prostitute for being unattractive "

That link broken but just had search on google and its a very funny story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex was a prostitute, she told me the first night we met as I told her I was bisexual.

Things were fine for 5 years, she had 2 regular clients both of whom I met "

She thought you said " buysexual"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman prostitutes themselves by having sex for money.

Surely it is only then that they are a prostitute.

So if no money exchanged hands then surely this is not an act of prostitution and so he has not slept with a prostitute.

Does it bother you that you think that maybe he has?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

I fully agree the moment you pay that is when it is prostitution.

So the answer to the question is No.

hmmm isn't having a GF/wife the same as having a prostitute?? we all pay, in one way or another "

you need a cyber slap for that comment lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He has slept, shagged, been with a prostitute... She chose not to charge him...

I fully agree the moment you pay that is when it is prostitution.

So the answer to the question is No.

hmmm isn't having a GF/wife the same as having a prostitute?? we all pay, in one way or another

you need a cyber slap for that comment lol "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

She was a prostitute. He slept with her. Therefore, he slept with a prostitute.

However, the question which you should have asked was; 'Has he ever SOLICITED a prostitute? '

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She was a prostitute. He slept with her. Therefore, he slept with a prostitute.

However, the question which you should have asked was; 'Has he ever SOLICITED a prostitute? '"

Surely I couldn't have if I was unaware she was a prostitute

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"She was a prostitute. He slept with her. Therefore, he slept with a prostitute.

However, the question which you should have asked was; 'Has he ever SOLICITED a prostitute? '

Surely I couldn't have if I was unaware she was a prostitute "

Precisely my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-22887138

A man phoned 999 to report prostitute for being unattractive

That link broken but just had search on google and its a very funny story "

Sorry about the link, it looks right I just copied and pasted it, yeah it's funny, I remembered reading it when it was current. He can't have been the sharpest knife in the drawer to phone the police to report it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-22887138

A man phoned 999 to report prostitute for being unattractive

That link broken but just had search on google and its a very funny story

Sorry about the link, it looks right I just copied and pasted it, yeah it's funny, I remembered reading it when it was current. He can't have been the sharpest knife in the drawer to phone the police to report it. "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"She thought you said " buysexual"..."

I didn't have to pay for it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She thought you said " buysexual"...

I didn't have to pay for it though "

Aaaaaagh, but in the long run, did you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. She was not working in her role at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing a male escort for a while a few years back. I knew what he did and asked if I had to pay one night for a laugh. I felt special when he said they have to pay me for sex, you I choose to do it with

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it "

I'd be more concerned he was std free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living"

Are you saying you are your job not your person? Some very scary _iews here.

In our case we are two people made up of a complex set of experiences. Our jobs are not even life long they can change on a whim.

As for the fireman reference that's absurd. Surely you would be a person sleeping with a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

Are you saying you are your job not your person? Some very scary _iews here.

In our case we are two people made up of a complex set of experiences. Our jobs are not even life long they can change on a whim.

As for the fireman reference that's absurd. Surely you would be a person sleeping with a person?

"

I guess they had a hose in common!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

He paid for it,and he shagged a prostitute.

No matter how unwitting he may have been,both facts are undeniably true.

Ps could you ask him,how much she charged(it's got to be cheaper than marriage)

and was she any good.

pps if she was cheap,and good,

could you get us her phone number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he didn't have sex with a prostitute, he had sex with his girlfriend.

We aren't what we do for a living.

Being a prostitute was her job, it wasn't who she was and shouldn't be used to define her any more than someone being a shop assistant, a lawyer, a doctor or any job.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"She thought you said " buysexual"...

I didn't have to pay for it though

Aaaaaagh, but in the long run, did you? "

Not in the least. We enjoyed several meals out and a couple of holidays to boot

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

Interesting thread

My tuppence is this

A few years back off another site, we organised a few socials. One of the girls needed a lift to the venue, where I had booked a room.

She didn't need a lift back as that was sorted. Anyway all had good nite and I got on really well with the girl and we ended up back at my room for some good fun.

In the morning we were chatting bout things and transpired she actually worked as a £1000 a night pro dominatrix.

The socials were a way for her to relax and business and pleasure were totally seperate.

So did I use a prostitute???

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Of course he has...

If you go out with/meet a police officer, soldier, sailer, doctor or nurse it is not a question of have you slept with them at work its have you slept with them.

Same goes for prostitutes.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"Interesting thread

My tuppence is this

A few years back off another site, we organised a few socials. One of the girls needed a lift to the venue, where I had booked a room.

She didn't need a lift back as that was sorted. Anyway all had good nite and I got on really well with the girl and we ended up back at my room for some good fun.

In the morning we were chatting bout things and transpired she actually worked as a £1000 a night pro dominatrix.

The socials were a way for her to relax and business and pleasure were totally seperate.

So did I use a prostitute???"

Yes!

But more to the point, did she use you?

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

For a freebie lift n stipover ??? Hmmm poss

But I met her a few times after and so mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

but do people go round saying 'you slept with an admin assistant!!!'? or is it only prostitutes (ad coppers/fireman lol) where it matters?"
she's a prostitute, he slept with her , his an accountant she slept with him, I think the stigma comes from your less likely to pick up an std from and accountant

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I once asked a prostitute "if she did anal?"

she said " yes,,! For a £100 "

I said "thats a bit too much,, cheers anyway," as I was walking away she " shouted " tight arse,,!"

I said " oh go on then,,"

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Why does it matter if you did or not

You got something free others had to pay for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

I'd be more concerned he was std free "

First thing I did once I found out was get checked and was all clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

I'd be more concerned he was std free

First thing I did once I found out was get checked and was all clear "

Oh good grief.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it "

If the X had a pimp then Andy is lucky Uncle Pimpster didn't break his fucking legs for taking free samples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

If the X had a pimp then Andy is lucky Uncle Pimpster didn't break his fucking legs for taking free samples."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

but do people go round saying 'you slept with an admin assistant!!!'? or is it only prostitutes (ad coppers/fireman lol) where it matters? she's a prostitute, he slept with her , his an accountant she slept with him, I think the stigma comes from your less likely to pick up an std from and accountant"

That's a big assumption. If sex is someone's business wouldn't they have more to lose by not taking precautions?

An accountant may nbe Moore likjerly to pick up a vrandfom on a night out. D*unk he forgets a condom, bam....sti

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread

My tuppence is this

A few years back off another site, we organised a few socials. One of the girls needed a lift to the venue, where I had booked a room.

She didn't need a lift back as that was sorted. Anyway all had good nite and I got on really well with the girl and we ended up back at my room for some good fun.

In the morning we were chatting bout things and transpired she actually worked as a £1000 a night pro dominatrix.

The socials were a way for her to relax and business and pleasure were totally seperate.

So did I use a prostitute???"

Did you pay her the £1000?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

He has not employed the services of a prostitute.... on this occasion.

But you might want to think about chucking her a few quid to join you for a 3some.... at least you know her and Andy fancy each other and she won't just be doing it for the money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

but do people go round saying 'you slept with an admin assistant!!!'? or is it only prostitutes (ad coppers/fireman lol) where it matters? she's a prostitute, he slept with her , his an accountant she slept with him, I think the stigma comes from your less likely to pick up an std from and accountant

That's a big assumption. If sex is someone's business wouldn't they have more to lose by not taking precautions?

An accountant may nbe Moore likjerly to pick up a vrandfom on a night out. D*unk he forgets a condom, bam....sti"
most prostitutes will give head with out a condom for a few extra quid ! and many of the less harmful stds can still be spread through oral ! they can have stds and work and a simple course of tablets will clear them up when they take leave! remember many of these prostitutes are not too concerned about their health or safety and this I think is a fair assumption to make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the ignorance!

It's a fact- your job title protects you from std's.

If you have sex with strangers for free "swinging"- you won't catch anything.

If you get paid for sex .... within an hour you will be festering with every std known to man.

Calm down people. Swinging is the safest profession..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can see your point,he shagged a prostitute but he wasn't a client

so this begs the question of is a prostitute 'on the job' at all times? do they never clock off?

Does anyone in that case? I don't do my job 24/7 but ill always be what I do for a living

but do people go round saying 'you slept with an admin assistant!!!'? or is it only prostitutes (ad coppers/fireman lol) where it matters? she's a prostitute, he slept with her , his an accountant she slept with him, I think the stigma comes from your less likely to pick up an std from and accountant

That's a big assumption. If sex is someone's business wouldn't they have more to lose by not taking precautions?

An accountant may nbe Moore likjerly to pick up a vrandfom on a night out. D*unk he forgets a condom, bam....sti most prostitutes will give head with out a condom for a few extra quid ! and many of the less harmful stds can still be spread through oral ! they can have stds and work and a simple course of tablets will clear them up when they take leave! remember many of these prostitutes are not too concerned about their health or safety and this I think is a fair assumption to make"

I give head without a condom. Never caught anything and I've sucked a lot of cock lol

Have you spoken to any sex worker's or are you just going by what's on TV? A lot now a days are very careful with their sexual health. Taking time out for treatments costs them time reputation and clients. Why risk it?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

I'd be more concerned he was std free

First thing I did once I found out was get checked and was all clear "

Something keeps bringing me back to this statement... I think it's the "I" and not "we".

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" most prostitutes will give head with out a condom for a few extra quid ! and many of the less harmful stds can still be spread through oral ! they can have stds and work and a simple course of tablets will clear them up when they take leave! remember many of these prostitutes are not too concerned about their health or safety and this I think is a fair assumption to make"

You sound like a man of experience.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Lot of comments here about how men end up paying for sex with women anyway if they marry them or are in a relationship.

Basically that _iew seems to be saying we are all whores.

Quite offensive.

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By *RS79Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I think there is a difference between unknowingly sleeping with someone who is a prostitute and seeking out or visiting prostitutes and paying for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

I'd be more concerned he was std free

First thing I did once I found out was get checked and was all clear

Something keeps bringing me back to this statement... I think it's the "I" and not "we"."

I is correct lol this was about 13 years ago so no need for emma to get checked

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"To cut along story short lol

One of andys x's turned out to be a prostitute althou he didn't know until they had split, he didn't realise her "uncle" as he was told was actually her pimp, so here's the question lol has andy ever been with a prostitute as in his eyes she wasn't wen they slept together because he never paid for it

I'd be more concerned he was std free

First thing I did once I found out was get checked and was all clear

Something keeps bringing me back to this statement... I think it's the "I" and not "we".

I is correct lol this was about 13 years ago so no need for emma to get checked "

Ahh that explains it.

Confusing as Emma wrote the opening post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He never knew of the job so no a girlfriend . And if he had and not paying for sex still his girlfriend .. its a job title and he never even new she was .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He never knew of the job so no a girlfriend . And if he had and not paying for sex still his girlfriend .. its a job title and he never even new she was ."

My point exactly (andy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh the ignorance!

It's a fact- your job title protects you from std's.

If you have sex with strangers for free "swinging"- you won't catch anything.

If you get paid for sex .... within an hour you will be festering with every std known to man.

Calm down people. Swinging is the safest profession..

"
sorry i'm talking from how it works in the south of spain from a friend of my that is involved in the trade! and they have on average 5 to 8 clients a day ! so that's a considerable amount of extra risk than an average person! they suck with out condom to make extra cash and are tested regularly ! if they fall they are told take time out and take a course of tablets to c clear mostly clymidia ! before resuming work in a certain establishment there ! and many don't wait around ! my friend suspects they move to another establishment to carry on working that doesn't regulate or test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more bothered that my current partner thought it was amusing to make fun of my ex. Childish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be more bothered that my current partner thought it was amusing to make fun of my ex. Childish."

im not making fun of his ex at end day least she making her own money and living far play to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a freind whose wife is an escort but they also swing.

I have played with her but not paid so I havent been with a prostitute. Another guy I know paid for her once so he has!

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

Nope not at all

The socials were her way of chilling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be more bothered that my current partner thought it was amusing to make fun of my ex. Childish.

im not making fun of his ex at end day least she making her own money and living far play to her "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she was a porn star, rather than a prostitute, would there still be a debate as to whether he'd ever 'been with' a porn star, albeit unknowingly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's in the past - he didn't know what she did for a living - which one of you is having a problem with it? Z"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it make any difference!!! If he was happy whislt with her...and didnt catch anything!!! Who cares..apart from having his ego dented slightly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly and well put!!! xx

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