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Don't call me Baby or Hun please!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, but ur shaggable babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure thing doll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun doesn't bother me, but baby!! Pisses me right off!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

I don't like it at all

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Not keen. Despise 'bbz'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your so right love

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

What about women calling men it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hun doesn't bother me, but baby!! Pisses me right off! "

dunno if I can hold this back but...arrghh..best not, I like wanking at ur pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when women are _iewed as sex objects and objects of desire. On a sex site especially.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm not a fan of sweetie either.

Why the need for a diminutive with a stranger? It just sounds like they're trying to diminish me. We successfully converse with strangers on a regular basis without resorting to these names so surely we can do it on the internet.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ok sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hun doesn't bother me, but baby!! Pisses me right off!

dunno if I can hold this back but...arrghh..best not, I like wanking at ur pics"

Wank all you like... Just don't scream ohhhh baby whilst you are at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I also hate sweetie or girl Grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hun doesn't bother me, but baby!! Pisses me right off!

dunno if I can hold this back but...arrghh..best not, I like wanking at ur pics

Wank all you like... Just don't scream ohhhh baby whilst you are at it "

but I can say it in a donald duck voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont mind it from my other half..

hun generally is alright but to be called 'baby' from strangers is just too familliar for my liking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fond of hun. Someone called me honey once,that sounded better. One man I see calls me dear, I said that's what married men call their wives. Made me feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind hun or huni but I don't like babes or luv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or princess!!! Im not twelve!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about love muffin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok my little pumpernickel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hun doesn't bother me, but baby!! Pisses me right off!

dunno if I can hold this back but...arrghh..best not, I like wanking at ur pics

Wank all you like... Just don't scream ohhhh baby whilst you are at it

but I can say it in a donald duck voice"

And somehow for some reason, I belive this statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if this thread is intentionally or unintentionally hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call everyone hun or huny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call everyone hun or huny

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

just as patronising when women do it too tbh .... as soon as someone uses a pet name then they've blown any chance they may have had ..... but will make allowances when notts folks say "me ducks" or welsh people say "cariad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind hun & I'm guilty of using that word & sweetie, oh well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind hun & I'm guilty of using that word & sweetie, oh well! "

yeahh it gets me angry,u ruined my wanks at ur pics earlier when u messaged me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I can't stand it when I get called bbe or darl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I have it on my profile but it makes little difference xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont take offence to words like babe or hun but im not easily offended...however I have bern called a "honking piece of kit" today so babes is looking good

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Not keen. Despise 'bbz'."

****

I have someone that says that..

Its not really my thing at all with someone I dont know, tho from a close friend it used to be nice to have terms of endearment when texting or talking..

no longer happens now tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do use Hun I must admit... Kind off rolls off my tongue.. I get called sugar plum regulary . But she gets away with it because she's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol can't fault them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take offence to words like babe or hun but im not easily offended...however I have bern called a "honking piece of kit" today so babes is looking good "

at this a what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being called babe even more so by blokes i mean get a grip folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun or babe is good. prefer babe though, even though I'm a little old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hate Hun as well . Where I come from you get called " petal" . But some women don't like that either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

Yeah, pisses me off to.. but I just point to the bulge in my knickers and ask 'em if they want to maybe think about it a little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind hun & I'm guilty of using that word & sweetie, oh well!

yeahh it gets me angry,u ruined my wanks at ur pics earlier when u messaged me"

Sorry hun, didn't mean to spoil the moment for you sweetie

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Ok, so if people don't like 'hun', what IS acceptable then? Dear sir or madam? To whom it may concern?

To my mind it doesn't matter, as long as it isn't crude or disrespectful.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

BABY at my age!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it ever crossed any of the angry birds on here it just maybe men tryin to be nice,in some cultures such as the states women are routinely called than bitch hoe slag cunt but yet we over here are put down for calling ladys names which are just terms of endearment. Men don't get upset being called mate fella guy geezer bloke boss do we. Come on chill out girls for fuck sake

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

ok flower !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just call them sweet cheeks back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I used to call my wife hun, but she was German.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take offence to words like babe or hun but im not easily offended...however I have bern called a "honking piece of kit" today so babes is looking good

at this a what? "

a honking piece of kit I think he means it as a term of endearment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, stuff like that is negligible. For me guys aren't just irritants though so I look at the whole package rather than nitpick tiny details.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

hun is a derogatory name for a protestant here. so im a hun. x X X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where I work one woman calls most people babe or chick. Btw it's a school she calls sone of the kids it too. Nothing sinister just the way she is, guess that's why I don't mind. So knock yourselves out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To whom it may concern?

Is that suitably non-objectifying?

God forbid anyone thinks you're sexy eh?

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale


"BABY at my age!!!! lol"

Well if I was a baby, I'd look at your pics and be thinking lunchtime has come early!.

Hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike it when they know my name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont' call me baby

You got some nerve, and baby that'll never do

You know I don't belong t o you

It's time you knew I'm not your baby

I belong to me, so

Don't call me baby

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im beginning not to want to post or message anyone about anything for fear of the forumspeak gestapo carting me off for good and what about tgese ridiculous smileys ... they ve got to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call men (male humanoids) fella, geezer, big guy and hot cock.

Shame on me for wanting your naked, sweaty, writhing sinewy bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im beginning not to want to post or message anyone about anything for fear of the forumspeak gestapo carting me off for good and what about tgese ridiculous smileys ... they ve got to go "

Who cares what people think. as long as we don't offend anyone, say what you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not troubled by it ...there's a lot worse things a person could call me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its better than being called an ugly cunt with a wet hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im beginning not to want to post or message anyone about anything for fear of the forumspeak gestapo carting me off for good and what about tgese ridiculous smileys ... they ve got to go "

Nooooo the smileys have got to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has it ever crossed any of the angry birds on here it just maybe men tryin to be nice,in some cultures such as the states women are routinely called than bitch hoe slag cunt but yet we over here are put down for calling ladys names which are just terms of endearment. Men don't get upset being called mate fella guy geezer bloke boss do we. Come on chill out girls for fuck sake "

who is angry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has it ever crossed any of the angry birds on here it just maybe men tryin to be nice,in some cultures such as the states women are routinely called than bitch hoe slag cunt but yet we over here are put down for calling ladys names which are just terms of endearment. Men don't get upset being called mate fella guy geezer bloke boss do we. Come on chill out girls for fuck sake

who is angry? "

I hate fella or pal. Geez is dreadful. Sir or Mr. P will suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im beginning not to want to post or message anyone about anything for fear of the forumspeak gestapo carting me off for good and what about tgese ridiculous smileys ... they ve got to go "

no way hun, where would be without or or

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im beginning not to want to post or message anyone about anything for fear of the forumspeak gestapo carting me off for good and what about tgese ridiculous smileys ... they ve got to go

Nooooo the smileys have got to stay "

we need more smileys. A thumbs down,a sunshine with a smiley face in it and a dog poo for really crap posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better than being called an ugly cunt with a wet hole "

inserts fingers...yup...its danny dyer than the gobi desert

ur cute though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so if people don't like 'hun', what IS acceptable then? Dear sir or madam? To whom it may concern?

To my mind it doesn't matter, as long as it isn't crude or disrespectful."

I use hun all the time, at work, with friends and when chatting to meets...I don't see it as trying to devalue someone, it's friendly as far as I can see. I get called all kinds of similar terms in lots of situations too...one woman I work with regularly uses chick, she isn't trying to call me a little bird, it just a term of affection.

On here I don't always know their names, and if I am given a name chances are it's not correct so I'd rather use something like hun than call someone by the wrong name (whether that's the name they gave me or I just got my men mixed up!) or calling someone by their profile name in the middle of starbucks

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale


"Has it ever crossed any of the angry birds on here it just maybe men tryin to be nice,in some cultures such as the states women are routinely called than bitch hoe slag cunt but yet we over here are put down for calling ladys names which are just terms of endearment. Men don't get upset being called mate fella guy geezer bloke boss do we. Come on chill out girls for fuck sake

who is angry? "

Well there are certainly a few posts that come across as angry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better than being called an ugly cunt with a wet hole

inserts fingers...yup...its danny dyer than the gobi desert

ur cute though"

Ooooh hark at you with the mockney rhyming slang

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By *olwaySonarMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Used to call my ex Babe, but that's because she looked like a pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take offence to words like babe or hun but im not easily offended...however I have bern called a "honking piece of kit" today so babes is looking good

at this a what?

a honking piece of kit I think he means it as a term of endearment "

Lols, I did call you that, they won't 'get' it,

I called you a gipping bit of kit I'm sure!

And your just pretending to be offended, as you are well aware, you are clearly an 'essence chick'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take offence to words like babe or hun but im not easily offended...however I have bern called a "honking piece of kit" today so babes is looking good

at this a what?

a honking piece of kit I think he means it as a term of endearment

Lols, I did call you that, they won't 'get' it,

I called you a gipping bit of kit I'm sure!

And your just pretending to be offended, as you are well aware, you are clearly an 'essence chick'"

I am so offended I will be crying myself to sleep later 'babe'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to call my ex Babe, but that's because she looked like a pig. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow! 71 replies in less than an hour! Some really interesting ones, and some very funny Thanks to all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of sweetie either.

Why the need for a diminutive with a stranger? It just sounds like they're trying to diminish me. We successfully converse with strangers on a regular basis without resorting to these names so surely we can do it on the internet. "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate it when women are _iewed as sex objects and objects of desire. On a sex site especially. "

You can be as sarcastic as you like babes lol! But seriously, no guy gets to have sex with me if,I sense that he's not interested in me as a person, however brief the encounter, and wherever we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is hunnybun au fae?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure if this thread is intentionally or unintentionally hilarious."

Both I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice post

I thought it was just me, being French and all that... lol

It irritates me when it is a man or a woman for that matter.

But I dont like 'Hen'... Am no chicken! lol

Max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to call my ex Babe, but that's because she looked like a pig. "

I have to say that made me really laugh!!

Disclaimer ~ I do not advocate that calling ones ex names is either big or clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im beginning not to want to post or message anyone about anything for fear of the forumspeak gestapo carting me off for good and what about tgese ridiculous smileys ... they ve got to go

Nooooo the smileys have got to stay

we need more smileys. A thumbs down,a sunshine with a smiley face in it and a dog poo for really crap posts "
Lol too right

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't mind either way, I tend to call everyone "chick" or "pet" whether I know them or not...oh apart from Paddy, he's "shortarse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so pleased to read this thread.

I can't bear those pet names either, especially if I don't know the person.

I have a name, please use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse..... "

Can you enlighten us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

Can you enlighten us? "

Ugly dog fucking whore I think was the worst!

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By *heEwokMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Wow that last one was bad but is sugartits still acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

Can you enlighten us?

Ugly dog fucking whore I think was the worst!"

Was that from the guy with the white stick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

Can you enlighten us?

Ugly dog fucking whore I think was the worst!

Was that from the guy with the white stick?"

Omg, it wasn't his guide dog, was it?

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By *heEwokMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"I dislike it when they know my name!"
WTF! Now I'm confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bloke and I hate being called either! Makes my blood boil!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What about women calling men it?"

Shut it sugartits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

Can you enlighten us?

Ugly dog fucking whore I think was the worst!

Was that from the guy with the white stick?

Omg, it wasn't his guide dog, was it?

"

No....I was innocently walking into a shop at the time....so not even someone being pissed off at being turned down on here! Lol

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By *heEwokMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

Can you enlighten us?

Ugly dog fucking whore I think was the worst!

Was that from the guy with the white stick?

Omg, it wasn't his guide dog, was it?

No....I was innocently walking into a shop at the time....so not even someone being pissed off at being turned down on here! Lol"

lol Are you sure they might have recognised you from a profile pic and thought that B@&£H I'll say my bit and run away! I hope you had a few polite words back? #it wasn't me!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I'm so pleased to read this thread.

I can't bear those pet names either, especially if I don't know the person.

I have a name, please use it "
except a lot of people don't put there names on there profile like you have, there are worse things to be called surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind hun or huni but I don't like babes or luv "

See, so, how the hell is a bloke (hate being called that ) supposed to know?

Confused.com

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Seems there are a few touchy people on here.

Maybe they should put warnings on their profile, so we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems I'm in a minority....I've been called a lot worse.....

Can you enlighten us?

Ugly dog fucking whore I think was the worst!

Was that from the guy with the white stick?

Omg, it wasn't his guide dog, was it?

No....I was innocently walking into a shop at the time....so not even someone being pissed off at being turned down on here! Lol"

Omg, fckn looneys, man!!

...........I mean babes..........no, I mean hun...................??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I have been called Hun by lots of women on here I try not to be rude but I'm 62 ffs not someone to be patronised and patted on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GOT CALLED A FUCKER OVER AN OVER LAST FRIDAY NIGHT BUT TO BE FARE I WAS MAKIN HER CUM AT THE TIME LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find baby and babe too over familiar and more something the 20's age group use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems there are a few touchy people on here.

Maybe they should put warnings on their profile, so we know"

Except that few read profiles so pointless

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale


"Seems there are a few touchy people on here.

Maybe they should put warnings on their profile, so we know

Except that few read profiles so pointless"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes great we have found yet another reason to put a barrier between us and those we might meet

"You are totally unacceptable to me because you had the temerity to call me hun".

Never underestimate the ability of certain people to be offended.

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By *ornycumslutglosWoman
over a year ago

all around the place

I don't mind babe but hun just drives me nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of sweetie either.

Why the need for a diminutive with a stranger? It just sounds like they're trying to diminish me. We successfully converse with strangers on a regular basis without resorting to these names so surely we can do it on the internet. "
oh dear.. guilty as charged..im always usin babe, babs, sweetie, hun etc on net and in conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind babe but hun just drives me nuts"

but you don't mind being called hornycumslut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok hun l wont call you babe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting called 'Hun' is chavvy!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Don't give a shit what i'm called.... Long as it aint late for breakfast!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I tend to 'sweetpea' If I'm fond of you. I like to think it ads to my rural charms.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I can't stand it. I told someone I was exchanging messages with to stop calling me hun and he sent me a little angry tirade. It ended with him calling me a diva wannabe.

I will be forever grateful for that as Diva Wannabe is now my reserve name, if I ever change Licketysplits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one! "

Isn't letting a stranger insert his cock in you far more "way too personal?"

Ffs, what is it with some folks (sorry if that word is somehow making some of you wince)

Is this a place where strangers meet, chat and fuck each other or have I stumbled upon a support group for angsty women?

Grump, grump

Mrs D

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one!

Isn't letting a stranger insert his cock in you far more "way too personal?"

Ffs, what is it with some folks (sorry if that word is somehow making some of you wince)

Is this a place where strangers meet, chat and fuck each other or have I stumbled upon a support group for angsty women?

Grump, grump

Mrs D

"

We all have things that put us off. It's just another filter.

I might be meeting strangers for sex but I prefer to meet the ones who won't call me hun, huni or babe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand the use of hon, hun, babe etc. If it means I am excluding some potential meets then so be it,

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one!

Isn't letting a stranger insert his cock in you far more "way too personal?"

Ffs, what is it with some folks (sorry if that word is somehow making some of you wince)

Is this a place where strangers meet, chat and fuck each other or have I stumbled upon a support group for angsty women?

Grump, grump

Mrs D

We all have things that put us off. It's just another filter.

I might be meeting strangers for sex but I prefer to meet the ones who won't call me hun, huni or babe.

"

As long as you are all good with sweetpea.....

*runs*

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

We all have things that put us off. It's just another filter.

I might be meeting strangers for sex but I prefer to meet the ones who won't call me hun, huni or babe.

As long as you are all good with sweetpea.....

*runs* "

I prefer freesias.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one!

Isn't letting a stranger insert his cock in you far more "way too personal?"

Ffs, what is it with some folks (sorry if that word is somehow making some of you wince)

Is this a place where strangers meet, chat and fuck each other or have I stumbled upon a support group for angsty women?

Grump, grump

Mrs D

We all have things that put us off. It's just another filter.

I might be meeting strangers for sex but I prefer to meet the ones who won't call me hun, huni or babe.

"

It's the notion of it being too personal that is frankly ludicrous.

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By *rnyashellcplCouple
over a year ago

Haydock

(Male ere) i hate being called hun n ave never called anyone hun i dont mind baby cos when the man flu kicks in iam just that lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm not fussed one way or another but baby girl makes me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind babe but hun just drives me nuts

but you don't mind being called hornycumslut "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if this thread is intentionally or unintentionally hilarious.

Both I think"

Ahh your a good sport, fair play to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I wouldnt even think of callling anyone that i call people by there names if i met someone and played i might say hun or babe now and again thats it but not often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any other ladies feel irritated by guys they've never met calling them Baby or Hun? It always feels slightly patronising or devaluing to me, as if I'm not a person, just a body!"

I hate it when Starbucks get my name wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one!

Isn't letting a stranger insert his cock in you far more "way too personal?"

Ffs, what is it with some folks (sorry if that word is somehow making some of you wince)

Is this a place where strangers meet, chat and fuck each other or have I stumbled upon a support group for angsty women?

Grump, grump

Mrs D

"

1. Im not a baby, 2. Im not his babe, and 3 i find darling patronising...

Oh and 4... If you got nothing better to do than whinge about anothers post, then your of my list too!!

This place is full of judgemental morons of late!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

babe/baby i dont like unless its from a partner but othe rturns of phrase like hun, sweetie etc I dont mind and i will confess to using hun quite a lot myself in my day to day life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better than being called an ugly cunt with a wet hole

inserts fingers...yup...its danny dyer than the gobi desert

ur cute though

Ooooh hark at you with the mockney rhyming slang "

Glad you know what he's talking about, I don't have a Danny La Rue.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

And some people wonder why they are in the Saturday night singles club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And some people wonder why they are in the Saturday night singles club."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..fully agree...for us its the same as messages with text speak!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about Sugartits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called hun by a stranger makes me want to kill! If they are largish I like to return the favour and call them 'squidgy' or 'dumpling'. Tall men 'lofty' small men ''tiny' and imagine their face when they read my reply. But then I have a warped sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hun doesn't bother me, but baby!! Pisses me right off! "

same here...babe and baby just makes me cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about Sugartits?

"

I have a female friend that always calls me that & it always makes me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe or babes I hate as I think of babe that sweet little pig . lolol

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I really hate being called hun or babe. I think it's very lazy especially when there is a name in our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really hate being called hun or babe. I think it's very lazy especially when there is a name in our profile. "
hate hun too ... its German and I am not one .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"And some people wonder why they are in the Saturday night singles club."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm not a fan of it but if this was all I had to get annoyed about I'd consider myself lucky. I usually ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has it ever crossed any of the angry birds on here it just maybe men tryin to be nice,in some cultures such as the states women are routinely called than bitch hoe slag cunt but yet we over here are put down for calling ladys names which are just terms of endearment. Men don't get upset being called mate fella guy geezer bloke boss do we. Come on chill out girls for fuck sake "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call everyone "babe" when i get to know them, but thats just the gurl in me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has it ever crossed any of the angry birds on here it just maybe men tryin to be nice,in some cultures such as the states women are routinely called than bitch hoe slag cunt but yet we over here are put down for calling ladys names which are just terms of endearment. Men don't get upset being called mate fella guy geezer bloke boss do we. Come on chill out girls for fuck sake

"

Those male words refer solely to gender (maybe not boss, but that's deferent) whereas Hun and babe refer to personality : honey = sweet, babe = childlike. These people don't know me how can they use a term of endearment ? I have many American friends and not one has ever written hi bitch to me in an email!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone has pointed out there is a certain irony in being prepared to have intimate sexual relations with virtual strangers but becoming exocisised when they call you by an overly familiar name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe,baby,hun etc doesn't really bother me..I've been called a lot worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about Sugartits?

"

Ah that reminds me of a guy I saw a few times & why I no longer do. He either called me Sugartits or Babycakes...got right on my titties, another yuck word he used!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called hun which was strange I've also been called sweet cheeks and gorgeous which surprised me even more, but I have to say I loved it

Find it hard to use pet names myself....something I've never really done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have phases where I use a pet name for everyone... The newest has been 'lambchop'..... no idea why or where it came from....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever since reading/posting on this thread I cant get the song "don't call me baby" by madison avenue out of my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my male friends calls me baby girl and I absolutely love it.

I find those kind of names endearing rather then patronising, think it shows attraction or affection which I think can be flattering.

I really don't think deeply enough about these kind of things to label it as demeaning to a woman to be called babe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my male friends calls me baby girl and I absolutely love it.

I find those kind of names endearing rather then patronising, think it shows attraction or affection which I think can be flattering.

I really don't think deeply enough about these kind of things to label it as demeaning to a woman to be called babe."

The thing is, he knew you, he had some knowledge of the sort of person you are. It's strangers using it that irks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate baby, babe, darlin, it's way too personal... As for hun, well I can just about cope with that one!

Isn't letting a stranger insert his cock in you far more "way too personal?"

Ffs, what is it with some folks (sorry if that word is somehow making some of you wince)

Is this a place where strangers meet, chat and fuck each other or have I stumbled upon a support group for angsty women?

Grump, grump

Mrs D

1. Im not a baby, 2. Im not his babe, and 3 i find darling patronising...

Oh and 4... If you got nothing better to do than whinge about anothers post, then your of my list too!!

This place is full of judgemental morons of late!!! "

I'm proud to be on your list, you sound like the most fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading through this thread has given me a good laugh, I am guilty of useing Hun quite alot mainly because alot of people on here don't reveal thier real names at first.

I think Grump and Grumpess should be introduced ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excuse me are there any sweet sluts on this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok sweet "

i use this all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"excuse me are there any sweet sluts on this thread?"

Woo-hooo over here!

*Waves with head below parapet to avoid it being shot off*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty of calling woman hun it if I don't know their name on here lol

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being called .... Nursey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my male friends calls me baby girl and I absolutely love it.

I find those kind of names endearing rather then patronising, think it shows attraction or affection which I think can be flattering.

I really don't think deeply enough about these kind of things to label it as demeaning to a woman to be called babe.

The thing is, he knew you, he had some knowledge of the sort of person you are. It's strangers using it that irks"

Well he started off a stranger and said it pretty much from day one, think it's really sweet!

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