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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if your parents or parent were having trouble coping would you consider having them live with you in a granny annexe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Absolutely.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No, absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, no doubt about it.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

would you lose your freedom if they were there all the time tho

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Of course

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I live in my dad's granny flat lol

I've told him That when he gets too old to cope with the stairs we can swap

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"would you lose your freedom if they were there all the time tho"

Parents lost their freedom the day they gave birth to us...cared for us loved us made sure we were safe and had a roof over our head for many years...it's about doing the same in return when parents are no longer able to cope

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I live in my dad's granny flat lol

I've told him That when he gets too old to cope with the stairs we can swap "

knew a man who did that

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"would you lose your freedom if they were there all the time tho

Parents lost their freedom the day they gave birth to us...cared for us loved us made sure we were safe and had a roof over our head for many years...it's about doing the same in return when parents are no longer able to cope "

very true my mums 80 in march and on her own now and not in good health id have her here but she cant manage my stairs mind you shes with me lots at mo

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By *ark EdgeCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We're are building one now to look after family. Huge life changing event for but manageable.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"would you lose your freedom if they were there all the time tho

Parents lost their freedom the day they gave birth to us...cared for us loved us made sure we were safe and had a roof over our head for many years...it's about doing the same in return when parents are no longer able to cope

very true my mums 80 in march and on her own now and not in good health id have her here but she cant manage my stairs mind you shes with me lots at mo"

It's a huge decision for you to make and trying to resolve the situation with the stairs etc...have a chat with older people services as some part fund stair lifts if a elderly person needs to move in with someone and can't manage the stairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have three generations living at the same address. Gran in annex. Parents in main house and me in workers cottage.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"We have three generations living at the same address. Gran in annex. Parents in main house and me in workers cottage. "

Have they put you to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have my mum live in my house with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs, I would and I got a spare room as well .

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

parents are living longer so think this is why its becoming the norm to have them with us

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

. as long as she's fit to make dinner

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


". as long as she's fit to make dinner "

lol

its a real role reversal my mum was such a strong capable woman but now she depends very heavily on all her family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have three generations living at the same address. Gran in annex. Parents in main house and me in workers cottage.

Have they put you to work "

Didn't fancy being in main house. So workers cottage on farm for me. No rent or mortgage is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had an annex... Yes.

And.... No-one can say Granny is flat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"parents are living longer so think this is why its becoming the norm to have them with us"

indian people look after their parents i seen it on telly, they all live together help each other out, they dont think anything of it, seems like a good idea.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I heard my mum telling someone the other day that she was lucky she had her kids to look after her now shes old and she don't need any help cos she has us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My father is partially disabled so if my mum is the first to go one of us children will probably have to have him. He's fiercely independent so he wouldn't like it but he wouldn't be able to cope on his own. Hopefully we won't have to worry about it for a while yet.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my mums next door neighbours moved to be near her daughter as the poor woman had alzeimers and her husband was in bad health

her husband died two weeks ago but the daughter hasn't told her mum where he is she prob wont realise ...dreadful disease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would you lose your freedom if they were there all the time tho

Parents lost their freedom the day they gave birth to us...cared for us loved us made sure we were safe and had a roof over our head for many years...it's about doing the same in return when parents are no longer able to cope "

Totally agree with you on this one.

My mum had a stroke 4years ago and is totally dependant on me hence why she lives with me now

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