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" TV/ts is a gender?" It absolutely is. There are many genders, not just male and female. Facebook now has up to 50 gender types for people to choose from. | |||
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"Today I found out from a party rep who asked the big bosses that a certain ladies party plan company regarding TV/TS as their chosen gender. As long as all members of the event are dressed accordingly then it is open to more than just natural born females. This doesnt mean men can get dressed in a skirt just to go along, but for genuine people. Not all planners will be ok with this stance but there are some that do. My friend definately does. I think this is a great step along the road to accpetance. TV/ts is a gender?" On here it is. Male, female or TV/TS. Bit daft. | |||
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"Not wishing to cause a row here but TSs are born their gender, they merely choose to live that way and, sometimes transition fully with surgery. TVs don't wish to change gender and continue to identify as male. Female isn't their chosen gender either. And that's without the argument between sex and gender. That said, I think it's a good thing Trans ladies will be allowed at parties." | |||
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" TV/ts is a gender? It absolutely is. There are many genders, not just male and female. Facebook now has up to 50 gender types for people to choose from." Although I doubt faceberk lumps TV and TS together. They are rather distinct. | |||
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"I do apologies for my poor wording but the sentiment behind the post is just one of joy that a major company has brought down a barrier to inclusion" Absolutely. I don't see why couples can't have parties too actually. | |||
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"Not wishing to cause a row here but TSs are born their gender, they merely choose to live that way and, sometimes transition fully with surgery. TVs don't wish to change gender and continue to identify as male. Female isn't their chosen gender either. And that's without the argument between sex and gender. That said, I think it's a good thing Trans ladies will be allowed at parties. " Would you like to be more specific about which part you disagree with or are you just sticking to your usual pattern of stalking my posts to try to inflame situations? | |||
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"Not wishing to cause a row here but TSs are born their gender, they merely choose to live that way and, sometimes transition fully with surgery. TVs don't wish to change gender and continue to identify as male. Female isn't their chosen gender either. And that's without the argument between sex and gender. That said, I think it's a good thing Trans ladies will be allowed at parties. Would you like to be more specific about which part you disagree with or are you just sticking to your usual pattern of stalking my posts to try to inflame situations? " | |||
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"Not wishing to cause a row here but TSs are born their gender, they merely choose to live that way and, sometimes transition fully with surgery. TVs don't wish to change gender and continue to identify as male. Female isn't their chosen gender either. And that's without the argument between sex and gender. That said, I think it's a good thing Trans ladies will be allowed at parties. Would you like to be more specific about which part you disagree with or are you just sticking to your usual pattern of stalking my posts to try to inflame situations? " | |||
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"It is illegal to discriminate in the provision of goods and services based upon gender, except in very rare circumstances, or exempted by law. It is a good thing that this company has caught up with the 21st century. My gender is my choice, and I would pursue legal channels should anyone stand in my way. " | |||
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"It is illegal to discriminate in the provision of goods and services based upon gender, except in very rare circumstances, or exempted by law. It is a good thing that this company has caught up with the 21st century. My gender is my choice, and I would pursue legal channels should anyone stand in my way. " and what about pubs and restaurants that only have male and female toilets? | |||
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"ts/tv is not a gender! your either male or female according to your birth cert is this right?" Wow - your views are so archaic. Being transgendered is recognised by law! A recent job application I filled in had transfemale and transmale as gender types. | |||
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"ts/tv is not a gender! your either male or female according to your birth cert is this right? Wow - your views are so archaic. Being transgendered is recognised by law! A recent job application I filled in had transfemale and transmale as gender types. " can you by law change your birth cert to transgender ? just asking! not a view a question | |||
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"ts/tv is not a gender! your either male or female according to your birth cert is this right? Wow - your views are so archaic. Being transgendered is recognised by law! A recent job application I filled in had transfemale and transmale as gender types. can you by law change your birth cert to transgender ? just asking! not a view a question" People who are transgendered can change their gender to female or male as per their gender identity. | |||
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"ts/tv is not a gender! your either male or female according to your birth cert is this right? Wow - your views are so archaic. Being transgendered is recognised by law! A recent job application I filled in had transfemale and transmale as gender types. can you by law change your birth cert to transgender ? just asking! not a view a question People who are transgendered can change their gender to female or male as per their gender identity. " that's my point there is no transgender on birth cert | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female" I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we " I have no problem with Trans genders but changing birth certs is changing history! you are born make or female and that is what should stay on the certificate of your birth unless you can come up with a reason as to why not ? | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we " | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female" your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality" ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we I have no problem with Trans genders but changing birth certs is changing history! you are born make or female and that is what should stay on the certificate of your birth unless you can come up with a reason as to why not ? " Discrimination for a start! an awful lot of trans people live in stealth in their preferred gender. Anyone with access to their birth certificate can identify their birth gender. | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? " If they are identifying as women what's the problem? Only women with an attitude similar to yours object. | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we I have no problem with Trans genders but changing birth certs is changing history! you are born make or female and that is what should stay on the certificate of your birth unless you can come up with a reason as to why not ? Discrimination for a start! an awful lot of trans people live in stealth in their preferred gender. Anyone with access to their birth certificate can identify their birth gender." and rightly so! you felt you were born the wrong gender! but end of day for example if I WA getting matured to a woman I would like to know if she was born a male ! that's just one example I mean you can't go changing history to suit you're sexuality | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we I have no problem with Trans genders but changing birth certs is changing history! you are born make or female and that is what should stay on the certificate of your birth unless you can come up with a reason as to why not ? Discrimination for a start! an awful lot of trans people live in stealth in their preferred gender. Anyone with access to their birth certificate can identify their birth gender. and rightly so! you felt you were born the wrong gender! but end of day for example if I WA getting matured to a woman I would like to know if she was born a male ! that's just one example I mean you can't go changing history to suit you're sexuality" I assume you mean married? in which case I think you would have a right to know your partners history, it comes down to trust in any relationship. If you can't be honest with your partner the relationship is doomed anyway. However there are many ways trans people can be discriminated against. Just think about it. | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we I have no problem with Trans genders but changing birth certs is changing history! you are born make or female and that is what should stay on the certificate of your birth unless you can come up with a reason as to why not ? " Because who you are and your gender is more than just the body you are born in. Transsexual people are born in the wrong body. Why should they not be able to live as who they are? | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? " According to the "dignity at work" couse I had to do in my current job anyone starting tg change should be given the choice of which loo they wish to use without discrimination. | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? According to the "dignity at work" couse I had to do in my current job anyone starting tg change should be given the choice of which loo they wish to use without discrimination. " and what about the rights of other staff who strongly feel that they only feel comfortable sharing the loo with their own gender? | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? According to the "dignity at work" couse I had to do in my current job anyone starting tg change should be given the choice of which loo they wish to use without discrimination. and what about the rights of other staff who strongly feel that they only feel comfortable sharing the loo with their own gender?" It was made quite clear that anyone objecting would be discriminating the same as in the bad old days of segrigation due to colour. To be honest there were a few older women who got very upset when this came up but on the whole no one wad really bothered. | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? According to the "dignity at work" couse I had to do in my current job anyone starting tg change should be given the choice of which loo they wish to use without discrimination. and what about the rights of other staff who strongly feel that they only feel comfortable sharing the loo with their own gender?" Well I Guess they're bigots too | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female your living in the dark ages people cant help there sexuality ah yes but where does it stop! changing birth certs ! men using ladies toilets! would women be ok with this? According to the "dignity at work" couse I had to do in my current job anyone starting tg change should be given the choice of which loo they wish to use without discrimination. and what about the rights of other staff who strongly feel that they only feel comfortable sharing the loo with their own gender?" I wouldnt have an issue. And im sure there are many many more.. Go team Panti!! | |||
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" It was made quite clear that anyone objecting would be discriminating the same as in the bad old days of segrigation due to colour." Not sure if your serious. Who do you work for? Your actually saying they compared apartheid to allowing men who dress as women accessing workplace lavatories? | |||
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"I think its wrong to change a birth cert! you are either born a male our female I think it's wrong that you are allowed to have access to a keyboard, but there you go, can't have everything we want can we " lmfao | |||
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" It was made quite clear that anyone objecting would be discriminating the same as in the bad old days of segrigation due to colour. Not sure if your serious. Who do you work for? Your actually saying they compared apartheid to allowing men who dress as women accessing workplace lavatories? " It's not a company couse it's a government one all employers must at some point run it, the attitude was any form of discrimination is unacceptable, there is no grading it's all the same it's all bad. I'm not saying I agree with all of it because I don't. I'm just supprised no one else has heard of it. | |||
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" It was made quite clear that anyone objecting would be discriminating the same as in the bad old days of segrigation due to colour. Not sure if your serious. Who do you work for? Your actually saying they compared apartheid to allowing men who dress as women accessing workplace lavatories? " Not someone who dresses as a woman on a whim, someone who is transgendering - although both might wear pretty frocks there is a subtle difference. | |||
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"I knew a man who wanted to dress as a woman at work the problem of the loo was sorted by giving hin/her her own toilet " Unfortunately under the dignity at work guidelines that would be classed as discrimination, I'm not saying I agree with it as many who did the course with me suggested the same thing, also offering disabled facilities wouldn't be allowed either. | |||
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"Today I found out from a party rep who asked the big bosses that a certain ladies party plan company regarding TV/TS as their chosen gender. As long as all members of the event are dressed accordingly then it is open to more than just natural born females. This doesnt mean men can get dressed in a skirt just to go along, but for genuine people. Not all planners will be ok with this stance but there are some that do. My friend definately does. I think this is a great step along the road to accpetance. " I think it would be an even greater step to allow all genders/persuasions including MEN | |||
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"can I say I have no problem with Trans genders its the idea that they could change their birth cert that I have the problem with! " You can say it, but from the number of your posts, not everyone will be convinced. | |||
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" It's not a company couse it's a government one all employers must at some point run it, the attitude was any form of discrimination is unacceptable, there is no grading it's all the same it's all bad. I'm not saying I agree with all of it because I don't. I'm just supprised no one else has heard of it." There's confused, there's totally baffled, then there's the state of utter brain melt I'm in deciphering this. You are a government worker then? Or council? | |||
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" It's not a company couse it's a government one all employers must at some point run it, the attitude was any form of discrimination is unacceptable, there is no grading it's all the same it's all bad. I'm not saying I agree with all of it because I don't. I'm just supprised no one else has heard of it. There's confused, there's totally baffled, then there's the state of utter brain melt I'm in deciphering this. You are a government worker then? Or council? " Nope factory work and having just read up on it it seems that it has union backing and acas backing however I'm still supprised no one else has heard of it let alone done it. It's the only training I've done in my job in 3 years lol | |||
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"I knew a man who wanted to dress as a woman at work the problem of the loo was sorted by giving hin/her her own toilet Unfortunately under the dignity at work guidelines that would be classed as discrimination, I'm not saying I agree with it as many who did the course with me suggested the same thing, also offering disabled facilities wouldn't be allowed either." That's not strictly true. The employer is required to provide facilities in a nondiscriminatory way taking reasonable care. The definition of reasonable will be different for each employer depending on the size of the staff team, the costs etc. Lots of the places I work have mixed use facilities with men, women and transgendered all together. As to another post about birth certificates, there are some people born intersex. A choice is made for them but it may not be the choice they will choose later. | |||
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" It's not a company couse it's a government one all employers must at some point run it, the attitude was any form of discrimination is unacceptable, there is no grading it's all the same it's all bad. I'm not saying I agree with all of it because I don't. I'm just supprised no one else has heard of it. There's confused, there's totally baffled, then there's the state of utter brain melt I'm in deciphering this. You are a government worker then? Or council? Nope factory work and having just read up on it it seems that it has union backing and acas backing however I'm still supprised no one else has heard of it let alone done it. It's the only training I've done in my job in 3 years lol " There are lots of courses of this type. I wonder what is going on in your workplace that this is the course you are mandated to attend? | |||
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"I knew a man who wanted to dress as a woman at work the problem of the loo was sorted by giving hin/her her own toilet Unfortunately under the dignity at work guidelines that would be classed as discrimination, I'm not saying I agree with it as many who did the course with me suggested the same thing, also offering disabled facilities wouldn't be allowed either. That's not strictly true. The employer is required to provide facilities in a nondiscriminatory way taking reasonable care. The definition of reasonable will be different for each employer depending on the size of the staff team, the costs etc. Lots of the places I work have mixed use facilities with men, women and transgendered all together. As to another post about birth certificates, there are some people born intersex. A choice is made for them but it may not be the choice they will choose later. " | |||
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"I think there should be a gender option "tit" cos there certainly seems to be a few of those around here " why not ! great idea and then we could have toilets for each gender male female tit and transgender | |||
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"Obviously a controversial subject here, but my opinion is to let whoever be/dress/act how they wish to live their lives. So long as they are not hurting anyone. If people do not like how others live their lives then they should maybe keep up with modern times, things change and the world is changing everyday. It's your life and you're here for a VERY short time live it how you want and be proud! " | |||
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"Fox ache .... places in France for example have only one loo, pee poo or go home is the choices you have there. " uni loo that's ok because that serves both genders male and female | |||
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"Fox ache .... places in France for example have only one loo, pee poo or go home is the choices you have there. uni loo that's ok because that serves both genders male and female" | |||
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"I've gone into clubs and pubs that weren't transgender venues and used the ladies loo while dressed and you know what only once had a problem and that was from a bloke. Women don't give a shit and often will have a natter while we're all touching up our make up. If someone identifies with being a woman more then a man and wishes to change why shouldn't they be allowed to change their birth cert. Having to show a passport every time you go abroad thats in your male name that you've probably already changed from? " are you full Trans gender ? | |||
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"I've gone into clubs and pubs that weren't transgender venues and used the ladies loo while dressed and you know what only once had a problem and that was from a bloke. Women don't give a shit and often will have a natter while we're all touching up our make up. " Absolutely. As long as someone is behaving appropriately and not being creepy or weird then I don't care if they use the ladies loo. If a man en bloke did so, I might think it strange, unless they had a young daughter with them, but I don't see why I'd object. I took issue once with a cd who was notorious for creepy behaviour when he handcuffed himself to a cubicle inside the ladies toilets at a kink venue. I can't think of any other problems ever. When there's been a queue I've been known to use the gents, so fair's fair! | |||
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"I've gone into clubs and pubs that weren't transgender venues and used the ladies loo while dressed and you know what only once had a problem and that was from a bloke. Women don't give a shit and often will have a natter while we're all touching up our make up. If someone identifies with being a woman more then a man and wishes to change why shouldn't they be allowed to change their birth cert. Having to show a passport every time you go abroad thats in your male name that you've probably already changed from? are you full Trans gender ?" No I wanted to be but couldn't take the number of bigots out there who wouldn't leave me to do normal things like go shopping without stopping, staring and making stupid comments but then again I am 6'5 without heels and wouldn't say I was convincing. | |||
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"I've gone into clubs and pubs that weren't transgender venues and used the ladies loo while dressed and you know what only once had a problem and that was from a bloke. Women don't give a shit and often will have a natter while we're all touching up our make up. If someone identifies with being a woman more then a man and wishes to change why shouldn't they be allowed to change their birth cert. Having to show a passport every time you go abroad thats in your male name that you've probably already changed from? are you full Trans gender ? No I wanted to be but couldn't take the number of bigots out there who wouldn't leave me to do normal things like go shopping without stopping, staring and making stupid comments but then again I am 6'5 without heels and wouldn't say I was convincing. " TG is TG as far as I am concerned. There's no full or half. Sure there's full-time and part-time but neither makes you any more or less TG. That TG encompasses TS and TV seems to be causing some issues. As does trolling and a total lack of desire or intention to understand being demonstrated by some. | |||
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"I I have no problem with Trans genders but changing birth certs is changing history! you are born make or female and that is what should stay on the certificate of your birth unless you can come up with a reason as to why not ? " You can legally change your name, so the birth certificate is already changeable. | |||
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