FabSwingers.com forum: Ignoring/deleting mail

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why cant people just say thanks but no thanks these days? I find it very rude when just get deleted . You take time to write more than fancy a shag etc and just get deleted, id rather be told no to be honest. Hard enough as single m on here as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused by your last point, so a no thanks would make it easier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is a thanks but no thanks going to make any difference to your success rate on here? You're not entitled to a reply-we're not entitled to anything on here. And do you really want an inbox full of messages saying 'you're not our type'?!

Take no reply as a thanks but no thanks as the FAQs say you should.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confused by your last point, so a no thanks would make it easier? "

Shouldn't you be working Mr Wheels?!!!

Funny how we posted on the same thread at the same time!

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Because people get sick of receiving msgs from men who haven't read profiles properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that keeping your first message to a simple & direct, "fancy a shag" works wonders in a kind of reverse psychological way; you should try it, time is precious!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confused by your last point, so a no thanks would make it easier? "

No, just nicer. I've got used to not receiving replies etc and it doesn't bother me anymore but when someone does reply saying 'sod off' it shows they have at least bothered to read your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not rude not to reply, it's just a matter of choice.

Do you reply to unsolicited mail you receive through your letter box? So why should we have to reply to the same just because it comes in to our inbox?

Take a no reply as a no thanks and move on. Simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confused by your last point, so a no thanks would make it easier?

Shouldn't you be working Mr Wheels?!!!

Funny how we posted on the same thread at the same time!"

Busted? Put the coffee down, log off and get back to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is a thanks but no thanks going to make any difference to your success rate on here? You're not entitled to a reply-we're not entitled to anything on here. And do you really want an inbox full of messages saying 'you're not our type'?!

Take no reply as a thanks but no thanks as the FAQs say you should.

crystal"

It isn't about 'entitlement'. I agree that no one is entitled to anything, on here or anywhere, but i don't think that was the point

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I just got an email asking for pics of me fucking my grandmother.

I think that's why sometimes people don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confused by your last point, so a no thanks would make it easier?

Shouldn't you be working Mr Wheels?!!!

Funny how we posted on the same thread at the same time!"

Ah so sweet lol !!!

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"I find it very rude "

You'll enjoy the site more if you just take "no answer" as "no thanks"

Admin x

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