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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or should that be confidence lost!!!

Anybody else suddenly loose their self confidence in an ability or or just overall???

And where does it actually go to???

I know the cure is to get back on the horse so to speak but that's soo much easier said then done!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have never felt very confident...need to find mine! lol. Take a deep breath and do it...deep down you know you can no matter how difficult it may feel on the surface.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey trouble.. all i know is its gutting when you lose your sparkle, after last night i feel i've gained some of mine back.

If you wanna chat you know how to contact me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Used to,...no so much any more....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have never felt very confident...need to find mine! lol. Take a deep breath and do it...deep down you know you can no matter how difficult it may feel on the surface. "

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im not very confident at the moment just stuff going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dud, changed a few things, mainly stopped looking for validation from others.

I definitely feel better now its lighter.

And I've stopped eating sugary foods....

Mainly up and in control of my life right now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I ever have self confidence. I just put my head down and blunder on like an oblivious muppet.

Now and then I look up to see people looking at me like this-

And I grin and blunder on.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

.confidently unconfident

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

unconfidently incontinent

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

The more you worry about it - the worse it gets. Moral of the story - eat breakfast every day.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Best thing is to ask a good friend to list what is good and bad about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a lot of confidence doin what is offered on this site !

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

I'm not a very confident person.....guess I'm always after approval from people and when things don't go well...i get more intrenched into my shell

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or should that be confidence lost!!!

Anybody else suddenly loose their self confidence in an ability or or just overall???

And where does it actually go to???

I know the cure is to get back on the horse so to speak but that's soo much easier said then done!!!"

I'm overall pretty confident but every now and again the fact that I don't fit in with the mainstream is highlighted and I briefly lose some of my confidence. It doesn't go anywhere it just hides behind doubt...I find mine restored by chatting to my husband who basically tells me everyone else can go and fuck themselves.....he should be a counsellor really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm a Leo and always have felt I've been able to do things. Even when I've tried things and they've gone wrong, I always think 'at least I tried'. I'm not shy, I doubt myself sometimes but get over it pretty quickly. I consider things more now than I used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing is to ask a good friend to list what is good and bad about you. "

Weirdly, I'd like it if someone did this for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a Leo and always have felt I've been able to do things. Even when I've tried things and they've gone wrong, I always think 'at least I tried'. I'm not shy, I doubt myself sometimes but get over it pretty quickly. I consider things more now than I used to. "

Things can go wrong but it's how you deal with it that matters. Most of the things I've learned have been from fuck ups. But that's fine because at least I tried.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm a Leo and always have felt I've been able to do things. Even when I've tried things and they've gone wrong, I always think 'at least I tried'. I'm not shy, I doubt myself sometimes but get over it pretty quickly. I consider things more now than I used to.

Things can go wrong but it's how you deal with it that matters. Most

of the things I've learned have been

from fuck ups. But that's fine because

at least I tried. "

Good for you. The way in which people cope and manage fuck ups gives them character and stories to tell. Experiences make for interesting people....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy with a hint of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had much confidence, held myself back in many situations.x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm surprised to see so many people saying they lack confidence I think that you need a huge amount of confidence to put yourself out there on a swinging site.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

when you feel Down - Listen to the Muppets Theme Tune on youtube..

The Manamanagh doo doo doodle - cheers me up every time..

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