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"I don't want to know about it if anyone has done - one guy messaged me to say he wanking over my pics, and after i told him i didn't need to know as I felt like a piece of meat, he got abusive. Blocked!" So thats a turn off then | |||
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"*faps* I often masturbate looking at your arse "I feel like a piece of meat! Red hot sexual meat! | |||
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"*faps* I often masturbate looking at your arse "I might be about to join you, crikey, what a bite-able derrière. And re being a piece of meat, the very act of posting your pics is an act of making yourself a commodity for perusal, comment and enjoyment of others. Hopefully in the flesh. I know it might sound crazy but people sometimes do admire one another's bodies sexually around here and even get off looking at them (gasps of horror all round) Is lust a dying art?? | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you?" because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question  | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you? because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question "Who ever is doing the wanking, I just wondered why some didn't like it | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you? because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question
Who ever is doing the wanking, I just wondered why some didn't like it" | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you? because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question
Who ever is doing the wanking, I just wondered why some didn't like it"I just don't find men wanking away very appealing lol x | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you? because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question
Who ever is doing the wanking, I just wondered why some didn't like it
I just don't find men wanking away very appealing lol x"*stealth faps* | |||
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"Turn on or off?
So who've you been doing it to? "i could not bring myself to do such a rude act | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you? because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question
Who ever is doing the wanking, I just wondered why some didn't like it
I just don't find men wanking away very appealing lol x
*stealth faps*"You can fap over me any time. Not my pic, me! | |||
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"Can I ask, and this is the Mrs asking. Why is it a turn off for some of you? because they think im wanking over there pictures lol i can put there mind at ease and say it was just a question
Who ever is doing the wanking, I just wondered why some didn't like it
I just don't find men wanking away very appealing lol x
*stealth faps*
You can fap over me any time. Not my pic, me! "That can be arranged | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... " Wish I could write that well, what they said | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... " | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... Wish I could write that well, what they said "Ta frill, oh and I think you're in there with the man with the delicious derrière. Oh, did I say that out loud?  | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... " A man masturbating in the flesh is somewhat different to a faceless random man that Ive never met nor am likely to meet knocking one out over a picture....just because someone doesnt get turned on by a guy wanking on their picture is hardly a reason for them not to be on a swinging site | |||
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"*faps* I often masturbate looking at your arse
I feel like a piece of meat! Red hot sexual meat!"Sizzling!!!!!!! 'sssssssss' fecking scorching hot! | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... A man masturbating in the flesh is somewhat different to a faceless random man that Ive never met nor am likely to meet knocking one out over a picture....just because someone doesnt get turned on by a guy wanking on their picture is hardly a reason for them not to be on a swinging site " | |||
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"The human race will die out if men don't wank over pictures of women? I think sex education is failing somewhere here... " I agree | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... A man masturbating in the flesh is somewhat different to a faceless random man that Ive never met nor am likely to meet knocking one out over a picture....just because someone doesnt get turned on by a guy wanking on their picture is hardly a reason for them not to be on a swinging site "Exactly!! A guy I know, on a meet, as part of the whole deal then yes. A random guy knocking one out over my pics or on cam etc etc... No ta! | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... A man masturbating in the flesh is somewhat different to a faceless random man that Ive never met nor am likely to meet knocking one out over a picture....just because someone doesnt get turned on by a guy wanking on their picture is hardly a reason for them not to be on a swinging site "I was referring more to the too numerous to mention comments about "mens cocks look silly" "men wanking isn't a turn-on" "hate pics of cocks" brigade. Not suggesting everyone should find having their pics wanked over a turn-on. There is virtually a movement of puritanism on here where men are endlessly chastised for their sexuality and I wonder what on earth the lure is for these people because the one thing you will see a lot of is cock. In case anyone wonders this is Mrs D. | |||
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"Have we forgotten where we are? This is not a romantic dating site FFS. Most people have pix on their profiles which are broadly speaking in the category of provocative. If you don't want people - men or women - doing things to themselves over your pics, then stick to more vanilla pictures. Why are they there otherwise?" My pics are there to advertise (for want of a better word) myself to potential meets. I'm aware that men use pics on here as wanking material, some have messaged me to tell me, The question was do I find it a turn on, I don't. | |||
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here. "No. I'll try to make myself understood. If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations. Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women. If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women. I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle. | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... Wish I could write that well, what they said
Ta frill, oh and I think you're in there with the man with the delicious derrière. Oh, did I say that out loud?
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"I wouldn't know if they had a wank over any of mine. As long as I don't know I don't care. " Guess what? | |||
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"I wouldn't know if they had a wank over any of mine. As long as I don't know I don't care. Guess what? "Pmsl, you dirty, dirty boy. Go sit in the corner and think about what you've done. | |||
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"I wouldn't know if they had a wank over any of mine. As long as I don't know I don't care. Guess what?
Pmsl, you dirty, dirty boy.
Go sit in the corner and think about what you've done."I ccoukdnttt help ittt she waaasss very sexyyy (( stiiiickuuy qwertykeyboooord) | |||
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here.
No.
I'll try to make myself understood.
If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations.
Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women.
If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women.
I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle.
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... Wish I could write that well, what they said " | |||
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"But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle. I can't knit. "you put it in, twist it round,take it out and pull it off...easy | |||
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"I wouldn't know if they had a wank over any of mine. As long as I don't know I don't care. Guess what?
Pmsl, you dirty, dirty boy.
Go sit in the corner and think about what you've done."If he thinks about it he'll do it again. | |||
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here.
No.
I'll try to make myself understood.
If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations.
Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women.
If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women.
I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle.
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here.
No.
I'll try to make myself understood.
If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations.
Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women.
If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women.
I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle.
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"But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle. I can't knit.
you put it in, twist it round,take it out and pull it off...easy "Something about that statement reminds me of something but I can't put my finger on it........ we'll I'd better not put my finger on it cos people will disapprove. | |||
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"I wouldn't know if they had a wank over any of mine. As long as I don't know I don't care. " *Whistles nonchalantly | |||
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"I would be as chuffed as fuck if someone was wanking over my photos.Ive had lots of fed back from people who have,and all of them complimentary.So feel free to wank over my photos." Struggles to stop queue pushing | |||
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"Well it turns sj on she has had a few messages today telling her that they are wanking looking at her pictures. She loves it turns her on big time. "I'm not surprised, her bod is bloomin fantastic! | |||
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"God help the guys that sit wanking at clubs with half the women on here.... "That is a step in the right direction, be better if they took hands off cocks, and tried talking to some of the women see if some real sex may be more fun! Cyber sex does nothing for us the only thing more cyber thAn wanking over digital pixels is typing about wanking over digital pixels
How about arranging actual real flesh on flesh mutually satisfying meets instead? | |||
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here.
No.
I'll try to make myself understood.
If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations.
Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women.
If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women.
I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle.
"I still don't want strange blokes waving their cocks in my face unless they've said hi and asked me if I am interested. Being an object of lust is great but we evolved from living in caves a long time ago. I'm about as far from Puritan as it's possible to get but just because I love sex doesn't mean I enjoy everything sexual. Having a complete stranger wank over my photos seems seedy and cheap and doesn't turn me on at all. Plus, cocks aren't usually attractive. I enjoy them, certainly, but not for their aesthetics. And using a cock picture to represent oneself and try to attract partners? It's rather a back to the cave approach. There's a fair chance any guy chatting to me on here has a cock. If I think I'd like to meet it in person then I'm happy to be introduced. Until then, sorry, but it's not going to impress me, it won't make my knickers wet (unless I piss myself laughing) and I definitely won't think pwwwooaar I have to have some of that. That's just me. I don't think it disqualifies me from being on fab or meeting people from fab. I also think if I went to a knitting circle and said I was there because I don't like photos of cocks attached to men I don't know, they'd consider me a bit odd. Or possibly chuck me out.
Men being sexual is great. I'd just rather they checked with me first if they want to be sexual with me. | |||
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"I have pics on my other profile. If I was bothered about people wanking over them I wouldn't put them on my profile." I'm not bothered as long as they don't feel the need to tell me about it | |||
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I don't need to watch, but it amuses me when it is someone I find attractive I am talking to, I'm quite flattered!
There's one gorgeous young man recently put up a picture of a huge erection with my profile on the laptop screen behind it, haha, well I just giggled like a pixie! | |||
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I can't imagine me having a wank over a photo | |||
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"But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle. I can't knit.
you put it in, twist it round,take it out and pull it off...easy
Something about that statement reminds me of something but I can't put my finger on it........ we'll I'd better not put my finger on it cos people will disapprove.
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"I have pics on my other profile. If I was bothered about people wanking over them I wouldn't put them on my profile. I'm not bothered as long as they don't feel the need to tell me about it " | |||
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I don't need to watch, but it amuses me when it is someone I find attractive I am talking to, I'm quite flattered!
There's one gorgeous young man recently put up a picture of a huge erection with my profile on the laptop screen behind it, haha, well I just giggled like a pixie!"Someone you're chatting to and like is different to a total stranger who ticks none of your boxes at all though. It is for me anyway. | |||
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here.
No.
I'll try to make myself understood.
If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations.
Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women.
If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women.
I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle.
I still don't want strange blokes waving their cocks in my face unless they've said hi and asked me if I am interested.
Being an object of lust is great but we evolved from living in caves a long time ago.
I'm about as far from Puritan as it's possible to get but just because I love sex doesn't mean I enjoy everything sexual.
Having a complete stranger wank over my photos seems seedy and cheap and doesn't turn me on at all.
Plus, cocks aren't usually attractive. I enjoy them, certainly, but not for their aesthetics.
And using a cock picture to represent oneself and try to attract partners? It's rather a back to the cave approach.
There's a fair chance any guy chatting to me on here has a cock. If I think I'd like to meet it in person then I'm happy to be introduced. Until then, sorry, but it's not going to impress me, it won't make my knickers wet (unless I piss myself laughing) and I definitely won't think pwwwooaar I have to have some of that.
That's just me. I don't think it disqualifies me from being on fab or meeting people from fab.
I also think if I went to a knitting circle and said I was there because I don't like photos of cocks attached to men I don't know, they'd consider me a bit odd. Or possibly chuck me out.
Men being sexual is great. I'd just rather they checked with me first if they want to be sexual with me. " this | |||
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"God help the guys that sit wanking at clubs with half the women on here....
That is a step in the right direction, be better if they took hands off cocks, and tried talking to some of the women see if some real sex may be more fun!
Cyber sex does nothing for us the only thing more cyber thAn wanking over digital pixels is typing about wanking over digital pixels
How about arranging actual real flesh on flesh mutually satisfying meets instead?"
And just because we are on a swinging site doesn't mean we have to find everything cock related sexy or a turn on. I'm equally not turned on by everything pussy related so it's not just the guys. Close up pics of cocks and pussies, messages about wanking over my pics, people who think sex has to all come down to what's between your legs... Sorry but that does nothing for me.
The question was do we find it a turn on. No I do not. If people want to wank over my pics then that's fine by me. Just don't expect me to get excited about it!!
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"I wouldn't know if they had a wank over any of mine. As long as I don't know I don't care. Guess what?
Pmsl, you dirty, dirty boy.
Go sit in the corner and think about what you've done.
I ccoukdnttt help ittt she waaasss very sexyyy (( stiiiickuuy qwertykeyboooord) "Steve, you crack me up...and don't you dare take this an an open invitation to squirt all over my face pics!! Tss tss | |||
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if the bi or gay ones are yep you are , either way they can t tell me,
I doubt anyone is that desperate though,,
Ohh Ladies,,, feel free can I watch though, | |||
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"I ve blocked single guys so if the straight ones are they re not, if the bi or gay ones are yep you are , either way they can t tell me,
I doubt anyone is that desperate though,,
Ohh Ladies,,, feel free can I watch though, "I might of managed a bit of knicker rummaging over your pics in the past | |||
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"OK, not wanting strange cocks waved in our faces is now puritanism??? It gets better in here.
No.
I'll try to make myself understood.
If you read the threads for a period of time you get a feel for the general tone of conversations.
Unfortunately the over-riding sentiment sometimes is kind of fish-wifey, witchy, tut-tutting and it all gets a bit like watching Loose Women.
If you like sex (and presumably swingers ought to) then I don't understand why men - and seemingly decent and sexy men - can be targets for so much venom and mockery about how they behave, about their nakedness and about how they desire us as women.
I personally want men to desire and lust over me, and I love nothing more than lusting over and desiring men culminating in filthy dirty sex. But then I'm a swinger, not part of a knitting circle.
I still don't want strange blokes waving their cocks in my face unless they've said hi and asked me if I am interested.
Being an object of lust is great but we evolved from living in caves a long time ago.
I'm about as far from Puritan as it's possible to get but just because I love sex doesn't mean I enjoy everything sexual.
Having a complete stranger wank over my photos seems seedy and cheap and doesn't turn me on at all.
Plus, cocks aren't usually attractive. I enjoy them, certainly, but not for their aesthetics.
And using a cock picture to represent oneself and try to attract partners? It's rather a back to the cave approach.
There's a fair chance any guy chatting to me on here has a cock. If I think I'd like to meet it in person then I'm happy to be introduced. Until then, sorry, but it's not going to impress me, it won't make my knickers wet (unless I piss myself laughing) and I definitely won't think pwwwooaar I have to have some of that.
That's just me. I don't think it disqualifies me from being on fab or meeting people from fab.
I also think if I went to a knitting circle and said I was there because I don't like photos of cocks attached to men I don't know, they'd consider me a bit odd. Or possibly chuck me out.
Men being sexual is great. I'd just rather they checked with me first if they want to be sexual with me. "It's an interesting thought to assume I'm somehow a bit Neanderthal but those who enjoy seeing cocks and lady gardens (visually stimulated) and even seeing both joined together in print and in the flesh, (oh and are not wincing about men wanking) can probably also be quite skilled socially and enjoy the getting to know as much as the knowing. We've had rampant, utterly filth-filled encounters with educated, funny, engaging and brilliant people to be around. We also totally lusted after their bodies and we knew that from the get-go, if the body doesn't arouse us as well as the mind, how do I expect to get turned on? I will always find thinking cocks are ugly (or even worse funny as though we're in a Carry On film) on a swingers site as a bizarre contradiction and yes, I'm afraid it seems strangely prudish. As do many of the postings generally on the forum. Great debating though Fabsters, I love a good verbal ruck (well, written actually but you get my drift) | |||
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similar to a fab or two?! ... Spose it could be worse... Cld be printed and used as target practice with sharpe darts! Either way we will never know! But they are there to be seen and yes ( god forbid) wanked over if thats the case! If that is such a no no... Take your pictures off ... Simples! | |||
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"I find cocks very visually stimulating.. Im seldom put off by them so maybe it's me that's odd? Each to our own. I find a healthy erection very aesthetically pleasing and do often think "Id like to touch/pay with/lick/suck or ride that". I don't feel cheapened by the idea of a man stimulating himself whilst thinking of or looking at me. I love it! "Are you my long-lost twin? | |||
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"I don't understand what all the fuss is about. If the thought of a strange woman wanking over my photos disgusted me, then I wouldn't put any up in my extensive public gallery, - simples!! "Finger, tongue and feet do it for me!! | |||
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"I don't understand what all the fuss is about. If the thought of a strange woman wanking over my photos disgusted me, then I wouldn't put any up in my extensive public gallery, - simples!! "exactly!!! | |||
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"God help the guys that sit wanking at clubs with half the women on here....
That is a step in the right direction, be better if they took hands off cocks, and tried talking to some of the women see if some real sex may be more fun!
Cyber sex does nothing for us the only thing more cyber thAn wanking over digital pixels is typing about wanking over digital pixels
How about arranging actual real flesh on flesh mutually satisfying meets instead?"Ive had and looking forward to plenty of meets thank you. it was a random question...chill | |||
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"Am I the only person that doesn't know what faps means?" I looked it up, lol. The sound made by wanking, I was in stitches then when I re-read mr sexy bums messages. Stealth faps lol | |||
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"Am I the only person that doesn't know what faps means? I looked it up, lol. The sound made by wanking, I was in stitches then when I re-read mr sexy bums messages. Stealth faps lol " Thanks for that.You learn something new everyday. | |||
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"Not bothered if there on public show we can't stop a guy wanking over them crack on xx" Was just going to type that.. Thanks | |||
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"I am not amused by the ones in their raincoats knocking one out over my nipple whilst watching The Chase !!! "Look I said I was sorry.
I'll give your nipple pic my full attention next time. | |||
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"I don't understand what all the fuss is about. If the thought of a strange woman wanking over my photos disgusted me, then I wouldn't put any up in my extensive public gallery, - simples!!
Finger, tongue and feet do it for me!! "Oye, put it away!! | |||
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"I've just asked Donna and she said she doesn't mind either way and if any bloke wants to wank over a pic of her that's fine as long as you don't shoot spunk in her eye, she doesn't like that lol "*discretely reaches for the tissues | |||
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"I am not amused by the ones in their raincoats knocking one out over my nipple whilst watching The Chase !!!
Look I said I was sorry.
I'll give your nipple pic my full attention next time. "You should be ashamed !!! | |||
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"It's an interesting thought to assume I'm somehow a bit Neanderthal..." If you care to read again, I said waving a cock in somebody's face as an attempted method of seduction is a bit Neanderthal. The image in my head is always them using the penis in place of the club, as an instrument with which to bludgeon and "obtain" the desired woman. I don't think the same imagery works with gay/bi men because most seem to enjoy looking at penises. A man's cock is one of his least important selling points as far as I am concerned. It's the getting to know part that I enjoy. My mind must be engaged before I can be interested in shagging someone. "...but those who enjoy seeing cocks and lady gardens (visually stimulated) and even seeing both joined together in print and in the flesh, (oh and are not wincing about men wanking) can probably also be quite skilled socially and enjoy the getting to know as much as the knowing." So why does the getting to know have to be preceded with the cock? You like it that way, and that's fine. I prefer it the other way around. The person matters far more to me and that's what I want to see first. Until I am attracted to someone, his cock means absolutely sod all to me. We're allowed to be different here, I think. There isn't a standard template for "swinger" which we all have to fit. "We've had rampant, utterly filth-filled encounters with educated, funny, engaging and brilliant people to be around. We also totally lusted after their bodies and we knew that from the get-go, if the body doesn't arouse us as well as the mind, how do I expect to get turned on?" I can know if I lust after a man's personality and body without having to see his cock. Once I am lusting after him, then his cock is of interest. But things need to be in that order for me. Again, we're all different and that's what works for me. I don't hate, or even dislike, cock; far from it. I just don't love every cock, or find every cock attractive. If I don't fancy the owner of the cock, I am unlikely to find his cock appealing at all. If I do find him attractive then, frankly, sod what it looks like as long as it does the job. "I will always find thinking cocks are ugly (or even worse funny as though we're in a Carry On film) on a swingers site as a bizarre contradiction and yes, I'm afraid it seems strangely prudish." So anyone who doesn't agree that cocks are aesthetically pleasing is a prude. Gotcha. Glad we cleared that one up. I never realised it was necessary to find something visually appealing in order to enjoy using it. To me that's an extremely bizarre thing to say. But then, we are all different. Incidentally, have you noticed how a large proportion of the men refer to ladies parts? At least their's are only called cocks, dicks and willies, weapons... rarely anything remotely insulting. Terms for vulvas and vaginas, however, are frequently incredibly derogatory. On a thread on here recently, a man referred to a lady as being "an open wound". There are frequent discussions about the aesthetics of flaps. Personally, I think before anyone takes the hump about how male bits are described, they should take a serious look at the other side of the coin. | |||
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I'm gonna use the biometric queue next time | |||
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"I've only had one guy wank over my picture and that was in passport control at Heathrow. Held up the queue for ages.
I'm gonna use the biometric queue next time"pmsl! | |||
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"Have we forgotten where we are? This is not a romantic dating site FFS. Most people have pix on their profiles which are broadly speaking in the category of provocative. If you don't want people - men or women - doing things to themselves over your pics, then stick to more vanilla pictures. Why are they there otherwise? My pics are there to advertise (for want of a better word) myself to potential meets. I'm aware that men use pics on here as wanking material, some have messaged me to tell me, The question was do I find it a turn on, I don't. " So, from here on in, we are just meant to respond with yes and no answers, rather than trying to develope the debate and see where the conversation goes. I was making a rhetorical statement. Sorry if this got in the way. For the record, and to not wander from the subject, we've no strong feelings either way. | |||
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"Turn on or off? "I've only had it once and still can't figure out why he told me. | |||
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"Will you please just shut the f*** up and wank over my pics?!" | |||
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"Will you please just shut the f*** up and wank over my pics?! "Spank you wank over Scarlet and I'll wank over you. We can have a wankathon. It's 'virtually' an mff. | |||
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"Will you please just shut the f*** up and wank over my pics?!
Spank you wank over Scarlet and I'll wank over you. We can have a wankathon.
It's 'virtually' an mff. "Yay....who would've thought I'd be having an mff tonight?! | |||
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"Will you please just shut the f*** up and wank over my pics?!" Been there, done that, got the screenprinted, redheaded Tshirt...... Woops, I mean........... | |||
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"Will you please just shut the f*** up and wank over my pics?!
Spank you wank over Scarlet and I'll wank over you. We can have a wankathon.
It's 'virtually' an mff. " | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... " I had similar thoughts, we do seem to get some pretty prudish types for a swingers community. Don't feel any way about it btw as it's not my thing, one just wondered if One was on fab or Sunday tea at church | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... A man masturbating in the flesh is somewhat different to a faceless random man that Ive never met nor am likely to meet knocking one out over a picture....just because someone doesnt get turned on by a guy wanking on their picture is hardly a reason for them not to be on a swinging site "Fair enough, it does ask turn on or off. Everyone entitled to an opinion | |||
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"Turned on.... but only if it is the one of me wearing marigold rubber gloves and holding a brillo pad.... though I might be mildly excited if it's the photo of my Elf clone army." What colour marigolds? | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... I had similar thoughts, we do seem to get some pretty prudish types for a swingers community. Don't feel any way about it btw as it's not my thing, one just wondered if One was on fab or Sunday tea at church " | |||
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"Bit of a daft question! I love the thought of men wanking over me. "I'm a straightish woman and I almost feeling like having one myself over your avatar pic! | |||
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"I would be as chuffed as fuck if someone was wanking over my photos.Ive had lots of fed back from people who have,and all of them complimentary.So feel free to wank over my photos." 
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... " bored of reading already so haven't made it to the end but this says it for me i must be an oddity as i find it a turn on, maybe i like being objectified i don't know but to know a guy like my pics enough to get a stiffy and want to tug one off over them is actually quite horny why i enjoy swinging is the look of lust a guy has as he approaches me for fun to know i turn someone on turns me on in turn (if i find them attractive that is) i hve beat my button over guys pics before now but i guess that makes me some sort of oddity too on here but hey i rather like being odd | |||
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"Think it depends on my mood as to what i think of it.. Guess i do upload a certain type of picture and therefor i can hardly get a strop on if guys choose to knock one out over it Id say im more flattered rather than turned on by it that a gent can be turned on enough by an image of myself to feel the need to masturbate. Face to face i enjoy a man wanking over me (face/ breasts) and in those circumstances i am turned on. But generally i'm more flattered than turned on by it. " | |||
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"So I guess by that same token if a guy is there in the flesh it would be best all round if he didn't get an erection let alone touch his own cock for fear of objectifying someone he found sexy and desirable. Or turning them off altogether by daring to do something as sexual and disgusting as to stroke his own cock. God if it were down to some of the Fab community the human race would be gone before you could say masturbation as nobody would ever want to fuck. I don't get it? if blokes wanking, propositioning, shagging, licking and showing their cocks is all so awful, it does beg the question, why the hell have a profile on a swinging site? Rant over Breathe, breathe, breathe........... bored of reading already so haven't made it to the end but this says it for me i must be an oddity as i find it a turn on, maybe i like being objectified i don't know but to know a guy like my pics enough to get a stiffy and want to tug one off over them is actually quite horny why i enjoy swinging is the look of lust a guy has as he approaches me for fun to know i turn someone on turns me on in turn (if i find them attractive that is) I have beat my button over guys pics before now but I guess that makes me some sort of oddity too on here but hey i rather like being odd "We're in the same boat Mrs b, a guy I know sends me pics that I regularly stroke myself looking at. And yes, there are fellas on here too that make the blood suddenly run south. | |||
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