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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them "

Nope, sounds like fair game to me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no I do it all the time on our couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nahh

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Love those games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun to me.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, he/she/they have earned it

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them

Nope, sounds like fair game to me!!

"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them "

no i just ignore them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have worked out who it is too

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Might have worked out who it is too "

ohhhh ....columbo in the house !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Don't forget to work in references to programmes on Drama or Dave into your replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say no thank you and don't reply again. Why waste my time winding people up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, its great fun if you have a little spare time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just say no thank you and don't reply again. Why waste my time winding people up? "

Your perogative hunni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically you all mail people to wind them up and piss them off, with no intention of meeting?

How is that different to the 'timewasters' that people are ways moaning about?

Pissing people off makes them go piss someone else off. So anyone that does this is just making the problem worse.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

yes, it is windupidiotmessage season after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put my bad attitude cap on they normally go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically you all mail people to wind them up and piss them off, with no intention of meeting?

How is that different to the 'timewasters' that people are ways moaning about?

Pissing people off makes them go piss someone else off. So anyone that does this is just making the problem worse.

"

No ,if someone has sent a message and obviously has no clue what we are looking for and takes back everything they have said, why not, it's just a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically you all mail people to wind them up and piss them off, with no intention of meeting?

How is that different to the 'timewasters' that people are ways moaning about?

Pissing people off makes them go piss someone else off. So anyone that does this is just making the problem worse.

No ,if someone has sent a message and obviously has no clue what we are looking for and takes back everything they have said, why not, it's just a bit of fun"

The 'timewasters' are just having fun too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically you all mail people to wind them up and piss them off, with no intention of meeting?

How is that different to the 'timewasters' that people are ways moaning about?

Pissing people off makes them go piss someone else off. So anyone that does this is just making the problem worse.

No ,if someone has sent a message and obviously has no clue what we are looking for and takes back everything they have said, why not, it's just a bit of fun

The 'timewasters' are just having fun too. "

I must be a time waster then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically you all mail people to wind them up and piss them off, with no intention of meeting?

How is that different to the 'timewasters' that people are ways moaning about?

Pissing people off makes them go piss someone else off. So anyone that does this is just making the problem worse.

No ,if someone has sent a message and obviously has no clue what we are looking for and takes back everything they have said, why not, it's just a bit of fun

The 'timewasters' are just having fun too.

I must be a time waster then "

Naughty you! I used to have on the first line of my profile in capital letters that I don't meet married men or smokers yet many used to message. I had a long conversation with someone who was a smoker and no message he sent was it appropriate to send a no thanks as it would have been out of context until he asked to meet then I told him I didn't meet smokers. He went mad and blamed me for wasting his time. Maybe spending a minute or two to read a profile would have saved this, not my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's wrong, then I've been a very naughty girl and should be soundly spanked....

... well I should be anyway, regardless...

But if somebody on here starts a message conversation with you, then it's quite fair to assume that they've read your profile and have accepted your limits - it's not your fault if they then ignore them...

And if they contradict their own profile, then they are effectively saying that it's ok to lie about things, so respect for them can go out of the window...

If they set the pace - it's not timewasting to merely follow for a while....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's wrong, then I've been a very naughty girl and should be soundly spanked....

... well I should be anyway, regardless...

But if somebody on here starts a message conversation with you, then it's quite fair to assume that they've read your profile and have accepted your limits - it's not your fault if they then ignore them...

And if they contradict their own profile, then they are effectively saying that it's ok to lie about things, so respect for them can go out of the window...

If they set the pace - it's not timewasting to merely follow for a while....

"

As you said, if I'm being bad, spank me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't be doing with all that "game playing" nonsense

If someone has clearly not read our profile then they get a polite no thanks!

Really couldn't be doing with wind up games

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I couldn't be doing with all that "game playing" nonsense

If someone has clearly not read our profile then they get a polite no thanks!

Really couldn't be doing with wind up games "

It's just a bit of fun

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't be doing with all that "game playing" nonsense

If someone has clearly not read our profile then they get a polite no thanks!

Really couldn't be doing with wind up games

It's just a bit of fun "

Fun for you maybe, but is it fun for the other person? Do you own up and tell them that your winding them up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I couldn't be doing with all that "game playing" nonsense

If someone has clearly not read our profile then they get a polite no thanks!

Really couldn't be doing with wind up games

It's just a bit of fun

Fun for you maybe, but is it fun for the other person? Do you own up and tell them that your winding them up? "

Of course, these are the people that most are moaning about all the time, "won't read my profile, lie on theirs" etc

Maybe it might make people actually take note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't be doing with all that "game playing" nonsense

If someone has clearly not read our profile then they get a polite no thanks!

Really couldn't be doing with wind up games

It's just a bit of fun

Fun for you maybe, but is it fun for the other person? Do you own up and tell them that your winding them up?

Of course, these are the people that most are moaning about all the time, "won't read my profile, lie on theirs" etc

Maybe it might make people actually take note "

I doubt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them "

Bugger! You got me!

No, do it;!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them "

No actualy think its a good idea.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"Wind up someone who has messaged you, who clearly hasn't read your profile, who is back tracking on everything they have written on theirs and really seems to think we 'need' them "

nope not in the slightest...if they've not bothered to read, then go for it..

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