FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people ask if you want a blowjob then when you ask for a face pic either delete or ignore your message. Starting to irritate me. I'm not gonna stick my dick into just anything. Not for me. Anyways just blocked quite a few of these time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people ask if you want a blowjob then when you ask for a face pic either delete or ignore your message. Starting to irritate me. I'm not gonna stick my dick into just anything. Not for me. Anyways just blocked quite a few of these time wasters. "

Amen brotha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on and don't let it bother you. People block for all sorts of bizarre reasons. I had a guy message me interested in a meet, we arranged a time and place then he blocked me, I guess he changed his mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody likes sending pics straight away. Just getva feel of what tgey look like and pics come later. I dont like sending my face pics unless I think I will actually meet them and you dont know this early on

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

"Just move on and don't let it bother you. People block for all sorts of bizarre reasons. I had a guy message me interested in a meet, we arranged a time and place then he blocked me, I guess he changed his mind lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get messages asking if you want a bj...ffs i must be doin something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i found out what you bench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*he* even!

wasnt me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what u mean but how do I know if I want to meet them without seeing a face pic. I'm reluctant to send face pics as I need discretion. But how else do u show you're interested.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"You get messages asking if you want a bj...ffs i must be doin something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one block me after I stood freezing cold in a car park waiting half an hour for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one block me after I stood freezing cold in a car park waiting half an hour for him

Nice, real nice, what a gentleman! He never text me after giving him my number so I kind of worked out he wasn't serious. Not sure why he bothered messaging in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to get a lot of messages from the ladies. hey ive seen you on the forums. can i have a face picture. then youve guessed it...blocked lol...really cant think why...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I be right in suspecting these messages are from men?

I guess they saw your user name and the fact you're seeking men - then may have gotten confused by the 'straight' listing.

Either that or they're just looking for kicks and wank fodder and weren't ever serious.

Whichever - just block and move on.

Simples!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People - including you - who explore, find the details of prospective partners, then realise all is good or not, are using fab intelligently, imo. Some on fab use the block option, to prevent further interaction, where it would waste yours or their energy, if it's clear it wouldn't work for one of you.

Blocking can seem severe, almost rude, without any communication that states 'no', but the fab rule is that nothing further = no thanks and move on.

Don't get caught up in the finger pointing, about who is a time waster etc. We're all generally here to meet others, filtering out those users who aren't for us, based on what we've learned. Single guys don't usually get as overloaded as us girls, so don't generally understand how hard it can be when someone gets overloaded with interest.

Anyone who has blocked you has done you a favour: you're not going to waste any further time on that pursuit. Feel good - it doesn't mean you're any less of a catch, just that it's not worked out in this instance.

Breath, relax and move on - there are plenty more people to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was listed as bi but found it deterred females so therefore changed it. I'm not able to change my username though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was listed as bi but found it deterred females so therefore changed it. I'm not able to change my username though. "
So your not bi then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was listed as bi but found it deterred females so therefore changed it. I'm not able to change my username though. "

you can if you pay £5 to become a site supporter and you can't call people time wasters if you haven't arranged to meet them and they didn't turn up

and you are not entitled, guaranteed or deserve a reply

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