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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Have you come to terms with your own mortality?

Whilst I'll be really pissed off if I woke up dead, I know there's bugger all I can do about it.

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By *hynewguy2012Man
over a year ago

dartford

I feel pretty much the same way. Norhing I can do about it

So everytime I wake up I think to myself ....bonus.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Nothing is permanent. Our time may be long or short but it will pass.

I've had some near misses but somehow I keep trundling on.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Im scared shitless of dying but most of dying alone without experiencing having a family....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scares me, but its the only guarantee in life

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Nearly died a couple of times.

I have come to terms with my demise and the fact that death is life's only certainty.

Learning not to fear death is quite liberating.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I'm not in any rush to die but I don't fear being dead just how unpleasant the transition from being well to being dead may be. I would much rather die relatively young and painlessly than struggle for many years just to notch up an old age which is why I would like to see more emphasis on maximising quality of life in healthcare provision and medical research than there currently seems to be.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Im scared shitless of dying but most of dying alone without experiencing having a family.... "

I fully understand you don't get to choose when and how you die, but I feel the same about dying in a hospital - I hate them. I want to die with the wind on my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im scared shitless of dying but most of dying alone without experiencing having a family.... "

See i think its worse to leave a child behind

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There have been times in my life I would have welcomed my demise. I'm not scared of it.

I'd like to have certain matters in order before I go though, if possible.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"There have been times in my life I would have welcomed my demise. I'm not scared of it.

I'd like to have certain matters in order before I go though, if possible.

"

I have promised not to go until I sort out the paperwork. It's such hard work sorting through the ancient bank statements etc. when sorting out probate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the only thing in "life'that's certain but I'd like it if I was able to say goodbye and a few other things that people need telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been times in my life I would have welcomed my demise.

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I'm certain one day it will happen though hopefully not for a hell of a long time

The only fear I have is what will happen to my kids when I'm gone and not there for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to live into my 80s to spend as much time with my family. The only reason I don't want to die is to spare my family heart ache. I'm not scared of dying in my sleep. Wouldn't want an horrific death though or a battle with cancer. Watching someone you love die is heart breaking

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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'd like to live into my 80s "

My mum wants to die the day before her hundredth birthday, just to wind people up,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to live to a really ripe old age, hate seeing these poor old things who struggle, no not for me at all. Early to mid 70's would do me, pity we can't choose when to bail out eh?

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'm not scared of death, I'm scared of leaving my leaving children, of them not remembering me and them having to grow up without a mother.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesn't bother me in the least, its going to happen sooner or later

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Reminds me of "death" in Bill and Ted...

"You may be a king or a little street sweeper, but sooner or later you dance with the reaper"

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

death isn't very nice most of the time and smells bad...most of us wil die in a pool of our own shit and piss...just thought i would cheer you up. x x X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"death isn't very nice most of the time and smells bad...most of us wil die in a pool of our own shit and piss...just thought i would cheer you up. x x X "

Yes but someone else has to clean it up - I don't need to bother.

I fear dementia and MND much more than death.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"death isn't very nice most of the time and smells bad...most of us wil die in a pool of our own shit and piss...just thought i would cheer you up. x x X "
Why will most die in a pool of shit and piss?

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"death isn't very nice most of the time and smells bad...most of us wil die in a pool of our own shit and piss...just thought i would cheer you up. x x X

Yes but someone else has to clean it up - I don't need to bother.

I fear dementia and MND much more than death..

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i dig graves and attend all the funerals but when the lads are having "fun" playing football with a chaps skull from the 1900. i sit in the van reading the paper., im just an "old spoil sport" wish i stuck in at school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to think about it most of the time. A few years ago I used to suffer from panic attacks and couldn't sleep at night because I thought I wouldn't wake up. Not pleasant.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I don't worry about dying, I do worry how it will affect my nearest and dearest though.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd like some notice of it coming so I don't start watching a boxset.

I can also leave notes saying that my next door but one is trying to bump me off.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

seen some folks go in tragic and unexpected circumstances, one thing life teaches you is to live it as death is coming at some point to all of us..

i dont fear it, it will happen when it does..

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I intend to grow old disgracefully

i'm determined not to go to the grave quietly

but slide sideways up to it saying

That was a hell of a ride

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By *hynewguy2012Man
over a year ago

dartford


"I'd like some notice of it coming so I don't start watching a boxset.

I can also leave notes saying that my next door but one is trying to bump me off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you come to terms with your own mortality?

Whilst I'll be really pissed off if I woke up dead, I know there's bugger all I can do about it."

No plenty of years left to sort that out for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't want to die just yet. more to experience here. but right at this moment I feel like death warmed up anyway

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"There have been times in my life I would have welcomed my demise. I'm not scared of it.

I'd like to have certain matters in order before I go though, if possible.

I have promised not to go until I sort out the paperwork. It's such hard work sorting through the ancient bank statements etc. when sorting out probate.

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I also need to put some photos etc on encrypted memory sticks and take them off my computer and make arrangements for my toy bags, certain clothing and some books to go directly to a friend to deal with.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"There have been times in my life I would have welcomed my demise. I'm not scared of it.

I'd like to have certain matters in order before I go though, if possible.

I have promised not to go until I sort out the paperwork. It's such hard work sorting through the ancient bank statements etc. when sorting out probate.

I also need to put some photos etc on encrypted memory sticks and take them off my computer and make arrangements for my toy bags, certain clothing and some books to go directly to a friend to deal with."

There is that. I don't have to worry about those things as my sister will just deal with that. Plus I don't have the sort of stuff (or quantities) that you have.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

No problem with dying here, just would rather put it off for as long as possible and then go peacefully in my sleep after a final shag with a sexy lady.

I know, shallow and self centered, but I guess many of are if we are honest.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"There have been times in my life I would have welcomed my demise. I'm not scared of it.

I'd like to have certain matters in order before I go though, if possible.

I have promised not to go until I sort out the paperwork. It's such hard work sorting through the ancient bank statements etc. when sorting out probate.

I also need to put some photos etc on encrypted memory sticks and take them off my computer and make arrangements for my toy bags, certain clothing and some books to go directly to a friend to deal with."

Why bother? Leave a mess, make them work for their inheritance! Make sure that your sex toys are hidden all over the place...maybe even buy some 'special' ones just to freak out those who are going through your things!

As for the photos, make sure they will all be found. maybe your last act will be to help some of your family discover the real joys of recreational sex.

I know, I'm a bad man!

LoL

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Yeap have come to terms with it and am not scard... However! Do worry bout my huge collections of toys and bits! Eeeks! Deff woulnt want them to be gone thro when i'm kicking up the daisies!

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