FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters and Administrator

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, having recently been let down by the same couple for the second time and having to drive a distance to meet for a 'no show' I decided to report it to an administrator but what is the point?

I see the couple moved there from status so are now under a different postcode.

When is admin going to crack dowm on this and out the timewasters. All this does is give the couple chance to waste more people's time but from a different area.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why do you name and shame them on your status when it against the rules of the site.

just report and let them do their job, they see both sides of a complaint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you got your time wasted by the same people, twice, and you say they are solely to blame?

maybe think more with your head and less with your penis.

harsh but there ya go.

you wouldnt have been let down the second time had you not given them the opportunity.

you have done all you can in reporting them.

now block them, and move on.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

a ha but what if the admin are the timewaster ???. double bluff?? or sneaky muFf ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone let me down once I certainly wouldn't givevthem a second chance

I'd have reported and blocked after the first. Naming and shaming is against the rules by the way, even on your profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Third time lucky?

Or do what I do....the Auric Goldfinger rules....once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, third time is enemy action.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

fool me once shame on you fool me twice the same on you fool me with shame on fool so no thrice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been let down 3 times in a row now from 3 different women its shameful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you got your time wasted by the same people, twice, and you say they are solely to blame?

maybe think more with your head and less with your penis.

harsh but there ya go.

you wouldnt have been let down the second time had you not given them the opportunity.

you have done all you can in reporting them.

now block them, and move on.

Harsh. But very much fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been let down 3 times in a row now from 3 different women its shameful!"

There is a common factor there though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand the first, family work ect.

The second time is taking the piss a bit.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, having recently been let down by the same couple for the second time and having to drive a distance to meet for a 'no show' I decided to report it to an administrator but what is the point?

I see the couple moved there from status so are now under a different postcode.

When is admin going to crack dowm on this and out the timewasters. All this does is give the couple chance to waste more people's time but from a different area."

Maybe the people in the 'different area' will be a little more careful engaging with others!

Did you speak to them on the phone to confirm they were really a couple?

Did you ask to see them on cam (together)?

Did you suggest a social (in case they were real - but using well 'adjusted' pics. Or look as expected but were total nutjobs in person)

Essentially - did you do your homework before setting off to the meet? Or did you just respond to your horn and set off fingers crossed?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Hi all, having recently been let down by the same couple for the second time and having to drive a distance to meet for a 'no show' I decided to report it to an administrator but what is the point?

I see the couple moved there from status so are now under a different postcode.

When is admin going to crack dowm on this and out the timewasters. All this does is give the couple chance to waste more people's time but from a different area."

Whether or not you choose to arrange another meet with someone who has already wasted your time is really up to you.

People can legitimately change their locations. Im in Manchester now. Tomorrow I will be in London...

And Admin have commented previously about how they deal with these sort of reports -

'Admin re_iews every single report... We have a number of tools at our disposal from warnings, partial suspension, full suspension, suspension for a period of time.

That said we always look for proof or patterns of behaviour. We imagine if someone reported you for something imaginary you'd be annoyed if we simply took it at face value and suspended your account.

Always report .

Admin x'

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