FabSwingers.com forum: performance anxiety

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any guys here have this problem? Yet to have a successful meet because I'm dissapointing women. Horrible stuff! Any advice is appreciated!

Cheers

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"Any guys here have this problem? Yet to have a successful meet because I'm dissapointing women. Horrible stuff! Any advice is appreciated!

Cheers"

How do you know you are disappointing women? Have they said? Or do you just think you disappoint them?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You sell yourself on the fact that you need training, ask the women you have met ? they will give actuals not hypotheticals.

relax, this is not the be and end all........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I can think of is have a social first. Gets that first time meeting anxiety out the way. And relax.

And I have had this once due to nerves but got over it with this method.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Have a few drinks for Dutch courage?

*Disclaimer: this may not be good advice.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Sometime our minds react better than other parts of the body, relax and go with the flow.

Not every swinger is a sexual athlete, contrary to what we read sometimes.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why Worry ?

Just bangem n Buggeroff

NEXXXXXT!

Captain Chaos

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

"Have a few drinks for Dutch courage?

*Disclaimer: this may not be good advice."

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"Sometime our minds react better than other parts of the body, relax and go with the flow.

Not every swinger is a sexual athlete, contrary to what we read sometimes.

good luck"

I'm not a sexual athlete I don't mind admitting.

When I try to run fast I lose my erection...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advise actually building some sort of relationship/rapport before meeting. A nice drink or coffee in a public place before bedroom will get the nerves calned.good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime our minds react better than other parts of the body, relax and go with the flow.

Not every swinger is a sexual athlete, contrary to what we read sometimes.

good luck

I'm not a sexual athlete I don't mind admitting.

When I try to run fast I lose my erection..........."

I get that too...when theres a Husband chasing me with an Axe

Justa GigglO

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I would advise actually building some sort of relationship/rapport before meeting. A nice drink or coffee in a public place before bedroom will get the nerves calned.good luck."

This is a good idea. Some people are OK with fuck n go, some people aren't. Maybe the OP needs a slower build up.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I would advise actually building some sort of relationship/rapport before meeting. A nice drink or coffee in a public place before bedroom will get the nerves calned.good luck."

Maybe go for decaf though

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