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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This morning a horse I have known since I was 15 and have ridden for 5 years was put to sleep.

I've had a shit week due to idiot men but nothing they can do will top how I'm feeling right now. I just don't know what to do with myself and just keep crying, I feel like such a wet lettuce.

He is a well known horse and many people have memories of him, I'm dreading going to ride tomorrow.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Chin up...the lose of an animal to some are the same as loving a loved one (human)...so of course it will be difficult as for the man don't let it grind you down

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Chin up...the lose of an animal to some are the same as loving a loved one (human)...so of course it will be difficult as for the man don't let it grind you down "

Loss not lose

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

the loss of any animal is sad .. 15 years is a long time hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just feel lost at the moment, puts things in perspective really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is sad. I cried when my cat was put to sleep 5 years ago and when my budgie died last year. we have pets or have contact with animals for a long time and become very attached. big hug to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is sad. I cried when my cat was put to sleep 5 years ago and when my budgie died last year. we have pets or have contact with animals for a long time and become very attached. big hug to you "

Thank you, it's nice to know that others understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good cry it will make you feel better.

I remember when I was younger my favourite horse at the stables died after having colic ~ I didn't understand at the time why she passed away and I was devastated.

hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This morning a horse I have known since I was 15 and have ridden for 5 years was put to sleep.

I've had a shit week due to idiot men but nothing they can do will top how I'm feeling right now. I just don't know what to do with myself and just keep crying, I feel like such a wet lettuce.

He is a well known horse and many people have memories of him, I'm dreading going to ride tomorrow. "
big hug from us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs.....im an animal lover and know how attached we come to them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was tempted with a stallion vs wet lettuce joke - but thought better of it

But, hey, cheer up - life goes on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have the idiot men done ??

The loss will become easier I promise ...kisses for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooooo sorry Hun, loosing someone close, be it man or beast is never easy! Chin up sweetie, sounds like you have hit an all time low, and the only way now hopefully is upwards. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a good cry it will make you feel better.

I remember when I was younger my favourite horse at the stables died after having colic ~ I didn't understand at the time why she passed away and I was devastated.

hugs xx "

The yard is well known for horses staying there well into their 30's so I just thought he would be around forever xx

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Big hugs from a fellow animal lover xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What have the idiot men done ??

The loss will become easier I promise ...kisses for you x"

Ah, just the usual taking the pee and using but there are more important things in life xx

Thank you xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I remember my first pony called bumble he was a welsh Shetland and my granddad brought him for my sister and he was passed down to me...we build such a bond when I was 16-17 my parents sent me to see my sister at uni for a weekend...that weekend they had him put down he was an old boy and was in pain due to old age...It took me ages to forgive my parents..the same with dogs...my parents dog who I love dearly has a suspected tumour and might have to be put down it's horrible as she is the most gorgeous loving dog...it breaks my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've been there lost three cats in the space of a year its gonna take time to get over remember the good times

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I remember my first pony called bumble he was a welsh Shetland and my granddad brought him for my sister and he was passed down to me...we build such a bond when I was 16-17 my parents sent me to see my sister at uni for a weekend...that weekend they had him put down he was an old boy and was in pain due to old age...It took me ages to forgive my parents..the same with dogs...my parents dog who I love dearly has a suspected tumour and might have to be put down it's horrible as she is the most gorgeous loving dog...it breaks my heart "

Built *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember my first pony called bumble he was a welsh Shetland and my granddad brought him for my sister and he was passed down to me...we build such a bond when I was 16-17 my parents sent me to see my sister at uni for a weekend...that weekend they had him put down he was an old boy and was in pain due to old age...It took me ages to forgive my parents..the same with dogs...my parents dog who I love dearly has a suspected tumour and might have to be put down it's horrible as she is the most gorgeous loving dog...it breaks my heart "

Most of the time it really is for the best but doing the right thing really is hard at times. Hope your parents dog pulls through xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Big hugs to you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs, have had to have much loved dogs put to sleep due to illness, its never easy but I console myself with the fact they are no longer suffering. I won't have any more pets tho, don't want to go thro it ever again.

You are allowed to be sad and broken hearted, but go riding tomorrow if you can and try to find comfort in the pleasure being around horses brings you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless you sweetie I'm sorry to hear that, over the years I have experienced the loss of many animals who were dear friends, don't feel silly about your emotions let them out and embrace them.

Go and ride tomorrow and share your feelings with others who have a connection with him too as they will understand and feel similar to you.

Then reminiss about him and remember the fun things that made him special and individual and find things to laugh about in those memories it will help you heal xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge hugs from another animal lover. Some people don't understand the bond we can have with our animals. We love them so much and the hurt when we lose them is immense. The pain will ease and the happy memories will be left xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like you, but for different reasons. Although your reasons for feeling the way you do are bigger than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like you, but for different reasons. Although your reasons for feeling the way you do are bigger than mine. "

Hugs to you too, hope you feel better soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like you, but for different reasons. Although your reasons for feeling the way you do are bigger than mine.

Hugs to you too, hope you feel better soon "

Very long story and it's a question of changing lifestyle (arguably for the worse), getting used to it and then who knows I may be use to my life changes and I won't be down then. So angry/confused/upset today it's unreal.

Thank you though xx

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